Why are OF models disliked?

NockerJoe · 2025-04-23T18:56:14+00:00

Log on to any dating app as a man and a good portion of the women are actively advertising for sex work and its mostly OF. Likewise the chat function actively encourages parasocial relationships because you literally pay for social access when a lot of those women will freely admit they hire people to do the chatting for them anyway.

Porn is porn. Its a physical thing. Onlyfans as a model actively tries to draw in men looking for relationships or plays on those urges to make money.

Sorprenda · 2025-04-23T19:29:24+00:00

OF sells the illusion of a personal connection. I wouldn't call it predatory, but it certainly is designed to monetize loneliness, and this makes people uncomfortable. It's one of the more obvious examples of the various platforms which now exist just to extract value from our basic needs of attention and connection.

Porn is different because it is consumed as a commodity. The transactional relationship is more traditional and defined - it's basically a professional selling a fantasy. They aren't trying to pretend to be your friend.

treadmarks · 2025-04-23T19:12:00+00:00

If you don't see this you're just ignorant of the situation. They are basically one of the hottest internet scams.

You don't even have to leave reddit to see it. Basically every porn subreddit has been taken over by OF spam and their posts are usually pretending to be someone looking for a relationship.

Even non-porn subreddits have been totally infested. Look at r/selfie and click on the users posting. A large portion of those posts are OF bait posing as normal girls.

Then you look at their business practices on OF and it's all outsourced to India and it's not even the actual woman they're pretending to be. In fact OF is being sued for this. Also I see women complain about "emotional manipulation" all the time and somehow OF gets a pass when it's the worst kind of emotional abuse. I guess men don't have emotions so they can't be manipulated right?

PlainTundra · 2025-04-23T18:53:06+00:00

I wouldn't be with one but, apart from that, I don't care about them at all.

jtinian · 2025-04-23T19:03:34+00:00

Because porn is basically free and most OnlyFans aren't. Yeah, I understand that porn does actaully cost money to make, and you can pay for it, but it's so easy to access it for free. And most of the larger porn studios are big enough to deal with the constant leaking/pirating of their content, or at least it seems that way. OnlyFans models are usually one person and can't take on that loss associated with their conten being pirated or leaked. Most men born during or after the 90s or something like that grow up with free access to women's bodies on the internet. When a paywall is introduced, they get mad. When they get mad, they look for all of the possible reasons why something like OnlyFans is bad: taking advantage of men, bankrupting men, etc. They need these reasons because they want their anger to seem justifiable instead of accepting the fact that they need to pay for labor.

P.S. OF stands for Odd Future WOLF GANG

anonymousppd123123 · 2025-04-23T21:31:45+00:00

"Models"

You're 4 words in and you're already lying to my face

macromastseeker · 2025-04-23T21:58:14+00:00

OF models prey on weak men because they inculcate shitty parasocial relationships that prey on their loneliness. Pornstars are just performing on camera. That's the cause of the repulsion for me. And also I don't think Porn stars pretend that it's "just a job" and that all men should accept them like OF do.

Hi-Road · 2025-04-23T22:51:23+00:00

They're like the women version of soundcloud rappers

Stock-Argument-1040 · 2025-04-23T21:44:46+00:00

I don't hate OnlyFans models but I do hate the system of incentives that cause them to invade all spaces with what I would call 'soft promotion' of their OnlyFans. That's not even to say they can't have communities outside of porn, like OnlyFans models who twitch stream are fine. OnlyFans models who use their twitch streams as a funnel to get men (and let's be honest a lot of teenage boys) onto their OnlyFans are annoying and problematic. It's being more and more normalised and I think that's kind of gross. They're selling porn to kids a lot of the time. The fact that a 13 year old boy probably knows who Lily Phillips is more than they know who any non-president politician is, is upsetting. And I don't blame the girls entirely because they do gain more money and success by appearing in spaces and soft promoting their OnlyFans. But the systems incentivise harmful things.

Maybe I'm just naive and kids have always known a lot about pornstars but I didn't watch porn until I was 15 and all I did then was pick the most appealing thing off the front page. I only started searching for categories when I was about 18 and I still couldn't name you many specific pornstars other than ones that I don't specifically watch but have picked up through cultural osmosis. Maybe I'm the weird and naive outlier, I am in many other ways, but it just feels like this stuff is targeting teens in a way it never used to.

Clean-Luck6428 · 2025-04-23T18:57:46+00:00

Because OF models complain about how men don’t want long term relationships with them while they call incels who don’t give them enough money “brokies”

It’s the hypocrisy that they are no better than the audiences they are serving.

But then there’s the sad reality that lots of these women are exploited by their “agents” who are effectively human traffickers like Andrew Tate.

The “jealous” argument is hilarious because the average incel uber driver makes more money than the average OF model. OF has created a delusion among some women who are now blackballing themselves because they don’t understand that the successful women on OF have platforms outside of OF that are needed for marketing. So we have lots of young women who think just because they are as hot as some influencer, that they can make the same money then they end up throwing their reputation away for barely any money

Odd-Talk-3981 · 2025-04-23T20:58:14+00:00

I think what they hate is that the model doesn't want to have sex with them, lol. So basically the resentment comes from jealousy IMO.

Personally, I don't really care as long as they're not being abused/are fully consenting.

RapaxIII · 2025-04-23T19:16:06+00:00

Just adding that as a man, seeing a woman literally put a price tag on herself doesn't make me want to respect her more

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flakybottom · 2025-04-23T19:09:58+00:00

I’ve even seen some men stating that they prey on or use “vulnerable men”. Meanwhile, pornstars are not regarded in the same manner.

There is no distinction, those men are just as disgusted by escorts, strippers, camgirls, etc. OF is just more accessible.

The only things I can think of are that: the OF models are not having sex with men in their videos/pictures and men don’t like that.

That's not even true. Women have sex with men all the time on OF. Why even make this topic when you don't know about the subject.

Or that the earnings of OF models is more readily available and men don’t like to know that there are other men paying them. Or that OF models are seen to be more entrepreneurial and aren’t subjugated in the way many pornstars are, which men also don’t like for some reason.

Women were making money on camsites the same way years berfore OF came out. The difference is the way it is pushed and marketed. OF is pushed as an easy way to make money, and that invites a lot of young women who have no business doing porn and scammers. That's my personal beef with OF. I don't care if women sell nudes.

TopShelfSnipes · 2025-04-23T21:31:52+00:00

I say this compassionately to struggling men, on behalf of their interests:

Because they separate simps from their money, and simps deserve pity and compassionate reinstruction.
Because they advertise outside of OF and therefore weaponize the desperation of desperate men for their own profit and gain, and even sexually successful men see this as exploitative and cruel, particularly if they are using dating sites, catfishing, or the illusion of a "relationship" that is predicated on him paying her, to do so.
Because porn is often a barrier to healthy relationships, and OF "content" will often drive a porn-addicted man deeper into inceldom by reinforcing stereotypes about sex and relationships that derive from porn and do not mirror healthy sex/relationships, which will set him up for failure with real women.
Because OF "relationships" can be a proxy for a real relationship - he can pay for custom content, or even experiences, and this will likely pull him further away from what he actually wants.
Because a lot of the interactions it sells are fake. You're not communicating with the model - you're paying to communicate with her, but communicating with her handlers.
Because a lot of times it's just spam, and nobody wants to read some "model" or her handlers trying to push content on the internet - there's little difference between OF spam and "Get rich QUICK --->> WORK FROM HOME! | $500-$700 WEEKLY - NO EXPERIENCE REQUIRED! Join us now! Flexible schedules, no commitment, no upfront payment!" - yeah, we know, it's a scam. It's still annoying, and people don't want to see it any more than they want to see get rich quick ads, or Amway "events."

And...

Because OF is exploitative of most women, too, and the women who promote OF are promoting not just themselves but the platform.

Superannuated_punk · 2025-04-24T08:19:40+00:00

Because we've always been weird in our attitudes towards sex work.

OF is just the latest iteration of our hypocrisy.

Logos1789 · 2025-04-23T19:05:56+00:00

OnlyFans models usually foster parasocial relationships with men who are unable to form (or face significant difficulty forming) healthy sexual and romantic relationships in person with women they genuinely desire.

Pornstars are out there for everyone to see. Women can be OF models and selectively promote their accounts, and there’s no way to browse every OF model…you need to type in their account name. So these women can essentially avoid or largely mitigate the negative social effects that moderate women’s participation in porn.

Men actually need to work if they want money. OF models, provided they are at least average looking with perhaps one above average trait (attractive face, chest, buttocks, etc.), can make a living from the safety and privacy of their bedroom.

Since most women prefer to be in relationships with men who earn more money than them, being an OF model reduces the probability of being able to form a real bond with men; those models get used to wealthy men’s attention/too much attention from men in general. OF models are less likely to accept the demands of a man’s job (commuting, actually working, actually being stressed about work) since they don’t live that lifestyle.

Another particularly aggravating phenomenon is professional women, with real jobs they needed to study and work hard for, producing content from their places of work, against rules and sometimes health codes. We’re talking nurses, office workers, etc. getting to make even more money just for being attractive (on top of the extra money attractive employees make over ordinary ones). You should have to choose between being a respectable professional and being an OF model.

In summation, OF creates a perverse incentive for women who would otherwise actually need to contribute to society to earn anywhere near as much money as the attractive OF models who actually stick to building a following.

Men don’t choose to be as horny as they are…at this point, the exponentially larger market for female OF content, porn, etc. is a testament to just how immovable of a force men’s thirst for women and sexual gratification are, and we should treat that vulnerability the same way we treat women’s innate vulnerability (being physically smaller and weaker on average)…by making it illegal to exploit those vulnerabilities.

egalitariandystopia · 2025-04-24T04:52:33+00:00

They represent everything that is wrong with feminism. It is toxic femininity, femme fatale, financial male exploitation.

Disastrous-Lynx-3247 · 2025-04-23T19:04:57+00:00

Maybe they're jealous of the women who make good money and the ease of it .

Those men are responsible for thier deeds , women are just being capitalistic in this world that would force anyone to

AssPlay69420 · 2025-04-23T20:31:24+00:00

I wish I could twerk in my wedgie bikini for some GIFs or send pics of my toes for 10k, tbh

growframe · 2025-04-23T21:54:47+00:00

Partly because it's decentralised. Professional porn is an entire industry and for the most part, you can easily steer clear of it if you want. OF models are self-employed, they're responsible for their own promo and that often leads to them advertising on social platforms. For a while you couldn't look through the replies to a popular tweet without seeing a ton of OF models promoting their page. That may be partly the fault of twitter itself, but the difference is nonetheless apparent.

As for the preying on vulnerable people stuff, I don't really buy it but there's an easy argument to make that OF goes beyond porn in that a lot of OF pages sell and encourage parasocial relationships in a way that professional porn simply doesn't. I haven't delved super deep into it but from what I've heard the majority of the OF revenue comes from "whales" who spend exorbitant amounts of money to get personal messages and photos.

Finally, another aspect is that "normal" people can be OF models. You see it a lot in memes, that women struggling financially can just show off their tits online and rake in the dough. There's a clear aversion to sex work having little barrier to entry.

Mountain_Sand3135 · 2025-04-23T23:35:05+00:00

i dont think they are DISLIKED at all..

I think what gets men (maybe ladies) is that it is somehow these items.

Not sex work (?? really)

entrepreneurship

CEO of a business

and boss babe energy

that is what people have a hard time with ....like they are some kind of micro-business

KhadgarIsaDreadlord · 2025-04-23T23:58:38+00:00

I'm pretty sure that there are OF girls that essentially function as porn stars. They put up the content, people buy it. It's a one way transaction. I'm pretty sure sellers like that aren't as bothersome to most people.

Then there are the invasive ones that promote their shit everywhere, exploit parasocial relationships to keep men on the hook and sell the promise of an easy life to teen girls, effectively grooming them to become e-whores. Ngl OF creators did everything in their power to piss people off with shit like that.

They also hurt a lot of people's sense of justice or I guess just world fallacy. People feel that is unfair that some women can just sell nudes and live better than then doing backbreaking labor daily to scrape by. That's why they are spiteful and celebrate whenever consequences catch up with some of the creators.

Ofc it's a lie that is perpetuated by mainstream media, 99% of creators don't even make enough to justify doing it as a side gig but it doesn't matter becouse this is the narrative people are fed.

The only real winners are the platforms, Onlyfans managed to become the biggest pimp in recorded history and the sellers even think they are actually independent.

YetAnotherCommenter · 2025-04-24T00:55:47+00:00

The answer: Ressentiment

Women making money off OF are emblematic of contemporary society's privileging of women above men, and a brutal reminder to men that women are sexually desired and men are not - men are the desirers, not the desirable.

Thus, men who are not at the top of the totem pole feel acute resentment. When this resentment becomes moralized (i.e. when it fuels motivated reasoning on the subject of ethics), it goes beyond resentment and into ressentiment.

nonquitt · 2025-04-24T01:18:55+00:00

I think a lot of people have contempt for sex workers, both men and women, for the usual reasons.

I think there is another component which is that people project onto OF models a particular behavior that people dislike, which can perhaps be called “bad faith moralization and romanticization of normal stuff.”

People like when people are honest about normal relatable things and the decisions they are making. It often isn’t likable when people appear to be putting apparently duplicitous moral or romantic vocabulary around unremarkable human behaviors to dubiously assert the morally or socially laudable quality of their behavior.

OF models by and large don’t really seem to do this, though I don’t really follow that discourse, but I think people project this behavior onto them because the discourse around sex work has some notable examples of this behavior. I.e., it’s sexist and exploitative, or if I’m making money on it it’s empowering, but post-career I’ll characterize it as abuse type thing. Its obviously different people saying these things at different times and this is a complicated paradigm to articulate, but I think this overall behavior paradigm is often projected onto OF girls and that is a source of animosity towards them.

psymeariver · 2025-04-24T05:14:12+00:00

Well I think your premise is entirely wrong and that they are both viewed similarly.

Artistic_Speech_1965 · 2025-04-24T08:35:58+00:00

I think it's a combination of what you said. Tbh, sex comsuption can be an addiction as big as alcohol, drugs, video games and gambling. A man in his right mind wouldn't pay an OF model for her service

That's why many percieve OFM as well as predators who use a child's naivety to make them pay and get their money

I also think a lot of men are jealous because it looks easy and pays well. It is a more modern and secure prostitution, since the women don't have to expose themself for risk with their clients and the clients can stay anonymous without risking to be spotted going out

I my case, OF is as bad as dating apps since it encourage bad human behaviour. It's not completly immoral but amoral

MolassesDesigner976 · 2025-04-24T14:18:07+00:00

Normal people don’t like or respect sluts. It’s only terminally online Redditors and progs that don’t see an issue with slutting.

Livid-Log7463 · 2025-04-23T19:57:11+00:00

It’s as simple as not liking a group that profits off of another disadvantaged group, usually people like that aren’t liked especially when they are making lots of profit doing such.

MasterAd6260 · 2025-04-23T18:54:19+00:00

Because it costs money.. do you think a man would be mad if a woman sent him pictures and videos?

SilentFroggy · 2025-04-23T18:56:22+00:00

I dislike those “vulnerable men” more than OF women

IcametoMOG · 2025-04-23T19:50:08+00:00

I’ll be honest with you. My suspicion is that it’s because men can’t make money that way. Like men and women exist in different worlds. We have different struggles and different advantages in society. As a guy I have the security of being able to just shut a woman down if I feel like it. I don’t because I’m not a dick and I’d leave before I lose my shit over mid, but I do know that if push came to it. I’d win. Easily. That’s my advantage.

Women on the other hand they’re like the federal reserve, they can literally print money. Literally. Generally at least for me and the men I know, we need to work. We need to learn a trade, go to school, be smart with our money, invest with our money. The girls I know and I do know some girls who do onlyfans, and the ones I know who got sugar daddys, they can easily get money without having to grind the way I do. I got a decent office job, but one of my friends he works like a fucking dog at a movie theater and I remember this one time this girl in our group was talking about how she has a guy who’s into this like financial domination type of shit, where all she does is bitch him out and he pays her. Bro This girl made more off this 1 guy just bitching him out and laughing at his dick than my dude made in his movie theater paycheck.

Like it is what it is, Its the way of the world I’m not even mad at it because if I could have a sugar momma that would set me up in some condo on the beach I would. if I could have a sugar momma that pays for my rolly, if I can have a sugar momma that’ll hook me up with a new Mercedes, bro id do it. If I could make my money off dick pics, I would. If I could findom hoes, I would. Pay me to call you a fat bitch, I’d do it. I’d love to have that option in my life. But I don’t bc I’m a guy. I am essentially banned from certain very easy hustles because I’m a guy. I don’t get the feet pic side hustle. So like me, I personally feel like some guys just resent women because of that. Like I know it has to suck for guys who are slaving away to make it to see some girl just show her ass and get more in a day than he’d get working all week.

Now for a side story to add more sauce to this. The same girl who doms these guys out of their money, she dated this dude and she made more than he does without working as hard, yet when they go out he is the one who paid because he’s the man. So he made way less but still had to pay until they became serious.

Anyway I rambled, my bad

HighlightDowntown966 · 2025-04-23T19:09:25+00:00

OF models have the highest of dating standards. They feel they deserve the best because " All these men are willing to pay money to see me naked, so why settle?"

But the men that they like (top tier man) don't want to give them full commitment because anybody can pay a couple of bucks and see them naked. So the OF models get pumped and dumped and they can't figure out why

funfacts_82 · 2025-04-24T10:27:19+00:00

In addition to being gross like Pornstars, OF girls also use emotional manipulation to benefit monetarily. In terms of sexworkers OF girls are the worst the human population has to offer by far. Minimal input at maximum grift.

lovelesslibertine · 2025-04-25T14:55:28+00:00

Because they're disgusting whores.

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