I posted this on a male dominated sub and had some negative reactions (mainly good, but a lot of men who thought it was degrading and they wouldn’t do it). I wanted to see more girls perspectives on if my fiancés preference is normal and if you’d have a problem doing this.

I’m a little under average sized, but my fiancé and I have a good sex life. She enjoys sex with me (that part isn’t in question). She reacts and sometimes even has light PIV orgasms when we do.

She’s also shared that in some positions she doesn’t feel as much physically. She still values the emotional connection and wants me inside her, and we do this very often.

However, after some conversation, we agreed to buy an expensive very realistic dildo that’s significantly larger than me.. The size difference is obvious, and when we use it together, her physical reactions and orgasms are noticeably more intense. I use it with a harness and pretend it’s me, and I know for certain that’s the only reason it even works for her.

I know a lot of guys might find this embarrassing, but do you think this is the right perspective to have?