How did you meet the last 5 guys you had sex with

SecretGardenSpider · 2026-01-13T07:35:24+00:00

Last 5? Damn, how lucky do you think I get?

I’m 36.

Meallaire · 2026-01-13T00:49:49+00:00

I've only been with two guys, the first was towards the end of high school, we'd dated for five years. We met in an anime rp chat room. Unsurprisingly, he broke up with me a year or so later because we were long distance.

The second is my husband, I met him playing world of warcraft together. I found out he lived nearby, we met for pizza and hit it off. Started meeting for LAN parties and the like, before long we started dating, then we got engaged and that was investment enough for me to feel like he was committed enough to sleep with. We'll have been in a relationship for 20 years October this year, though we didn't actually get married until seven years after we started dating so our 20th wedding anniversary is still a few years out.

Edit: over 35, not that I need to specify considering I said "chat room" and "LAN party"

belongtomee · 2026-01-12T23:58:25+00:00

OLD
work
school
school
ex that i met on IG

CanaryHeart · 2026-01-13T05:13:08+00:00

Livejournal
Mutual friends
Mutual friends
Community theater
A musical theater chatroom

mashedturnip · 2026-01-13T00:17:09+00:00

School

Club/interest

Work

Professional organization

loraexplorah · 2026-01-12T23:55:53+00:00

Classes, chess club, party, and reddit 🤷‍♀️

2026-01-13T06:36:15+00:00

I'm 24, there has only been one. We met through mutual friends from university at a party.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2026-01-13T00:05:11+00:00

N count of 3 but sure;

friend's wider social circle
friend's house party
frat party drug deal

AllelWasHere · 2026-01-13T00:32:09+00:00

Online dating

Son of my parents friends

School

Realistic-Ad-1023 · 2026-01-13T05:21:35+00:00

Tinder. I was an equal opportunity slut for anyone I fancied and ended up marrying my favorite from the bunch. I was 29.

half_avocado33 · 2026-01-13T02:48:03+00:00

N count of 3:

classmate
summer camp
common acquaintance

backstabber81 · 2026-01-13T18:50:17+00:00

Not quite your target audience since I've mostly dated women but

Guys:
1. OLD

Women:
2. Discord
3. Online
4. Through friends

22-27 age bracket, all sex has been in committed relationships lasting between 6 months - 5 years

Corbast7 · 2026-01-13T01:03:20+00:00

Class
A friend’s house party
Class

Coastkiz · 2026-01-13T02:17:21+00:00

College

Ren Faire

Yeah that's it

NiaMiaBia · 2026-01-13T00:42:20+00:00

Online & Previous co-worker

Brilliant-Block-8200 · 2026-01-13T02:38:26+00:00

Only slept with 3

-college class

-work

-at an anime convention

RelativeYak7 · 2026-01-13T00:25:40+00:00

Online dating

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Obvious_Smoke3633 · 2026-01-13T11:10:58+00:00

I'm 32.

Work
School
Mutual friends
Dating app
School

Serahill · 2026-01-13T03:42:25+00:00

From an MMORPG guild
A gaming convention
Discord/Terraria
Friend of a friend
Concert

Though that includes women as well

Makuta_Servaela · 2026-01-13T04:30:57+00:00

Mid 20s.

Met him at a pup event at a kink event. We'll call him Guy 1. He's a bisexual whore (affectionate).
Guy 1 told me his friend was into me and set us up.
Guy 1 invited me to join him in a threesome he was having with another guy.
That threesome became a foursome because Guy 1 invited another guy. This was not "train run on me", they all gave each other equal attention.
Seriously, spend an evening with pup players, they get an insane amount of tail.
Friend I met at a different kink event.

CalmAd4122 · 2026-01-13T03:21:30+00:00

35F.

1 - Reddit (specifically, a hotwife subreddit)

2 - current fuck buddy, he is also a bull for other hotwives

3 - play partner that my current fuck buddy introduced to me

4 - also another play partner that my current fuck buddy introduced to me

5 - Bull from the hotwife subreddit

eastcoastfashionista · 2026-01-13T03:51:29+00:00

Husband: Hinge Ex: at a bar 2 before that were friends with benefits that I met in my dorms Ex: he was a friend of a friend

I’m in my early 30s. Literally all of those prior to my husband happened in undergrad.

Blacktransjanny · 2026-01-13T00:15:07+00:00

Back of a prom limo
Key Party
In a shed
Frat party
Kegger

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SwimmingTheme3736 · 2026-01-13T04:39:43+00:00

Old

Family party

Friend from school

Nightclub

35 plus

No_Teacher_3313 · 2026-01-13T05:09:19+00:00

35+ All 5 on Bumble

UselessCynicism · 2026-01-13T11:32:33+00:00

Work - meet him when we both were 17, had sex with him at 19
School - meet him when I was 20 and he was 22, had sex with him at 21

I’m 27 now and besides that I didn’t had sex with anyone.

Disastrous_Agent9307 · 2026-01-13T12:54:21+00:00

I've only been with my husband. I met him when I was 25 and he was 29 at a Martial Arts gym.

Trouvette · 2026-01-13T13:24:59+00:00

35+

College
Bumble

conflictw_SOmom · 2026-01-13T20:21:23+00:00

22-27 and tinder, frat party, tinder, friend of a friend, house party

wild_squirrel_ · 2026-01-13T20:55:02+00:00

Hobbies and apps

krayon_kylie · 2026-01-13T23:22:50+00:00

shitty app, seeking.com, tekken local, shitty app, seeking.com

Tylikcat · 2026-01-15T21:50:33+00:00

-Someone I'd been chatting with on my nextdoor community. (He turned out to be a lot younger than I though - late twenties - and kept texting me for years.)
-A friend via my martial arts community
-A friend through one of my nerd communities
-A friend through a nerd communities (who also did martial arts, and it took me a while to remember which I met him though)
-A friend through local pagans.

I'm 52. Not an ordered list.

Sonia314 · 2026-01-16T08:47:51+00:00

35+

At a nerdy party
At a nerdy party
At a sexy and nerdy party
At a nerdy and artistic party
At a vocational school

DMmeClownPics · 2026-01-18T22:50:33+00:00

If you want guys only:

Discord, gay club, Reddit (maybe?), I genuinely can’t remember the two before that. I think there was one from Ok Cupid. Maybe another from OK Cupid.

I recently got out of a seven year relationship with a woman and I also hooked up with another woman for a month before met her. I have been with my boyfriend who I met on Discord for about two months.

I am 35+

CatallaxyRanch · 2026-01-13T03:07:28+00:00

Mutual friends (my husband)

Mutual friends

Tumblr (ex bf)

Work

Mutual friends

Edit: I'm over 35 now, the above took place roughly between ages 21-23

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2026-01-13T01:38:31+00:00

Tinder, Tinder, and the other 3 guys I met through friends or at parties/events.

BetterToIlluminate · 2026-01-13T02:09:24+00:00

1 and only. I met my husband when we were both in college. I was a freshman and he was a senior. We met waiting for a bus and he commented on the book I was reading. We exchanged AIM screen names (yes, I’m old) and phone numbers, and set up a coffee date a few days later. I actually saw him at Mass before our coffee date but I don’t think he saw me. We had coffee, dated; we got married and were intimate.

I have no other tales to tell.

Edit: I’m over 35 now. Met my husband at 18. Married him at 22.

hostility_kitty · 2026-01-13T04:30:58+00:00

Chess club
Bumble
Bumble
Bumble
School

Lysa_Bell · 2026-01-13T06:31:26+00:00

Twitch

University

In my bathroom

A fandom meet up I planned

kalashhhhhhhh · 2026-01-13T08:46:13+00:00

23, almost 24 F, 3N

his best friend was dating my high school friend's neighbourhood friend, together 15-19
we went to high school together, hooked up at 19
we met through mutual friends when I was late 18, first time hooked up 1 day after my 20th birthday, together since then

Lemon_gecko · 2026-01-13T06:49:04+00:00

Dating apps. Sex party. Friend of a friend.

SnooCats37 · 2026-01-13T07:58:01+00:00

Why you asking

Title	How did you meet the last 5 guys you had sex with
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