This is the video that inspired me to make this post, and most of the points I'll be making will be from this video. If you want to watch it, that's fine. Here's the video by Karen Straughan: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9XDb0nxSO4

If you go and look at /r/NiceGuys, some of guys ARE in fact assholes. They will message a woman, get rejected and then blow up in her face because she didn't respond to him in time while at the same time, claiming to be 'nice'. Those are not the guys I'm talking about, and those guys deserve to be made fun of. However, most of the posts are just innocent posts venting their sexual frustrations.

The NiceGuy I'm talking about is the socially awkward guy that does not have any charisma, and uses kindness as a way to get a woman to notice him. This is the type of guy I am talking about. One who has no game, and just sucks with women. One who didn't feel 'entitled' to love/sex. One who was just extra kind to them in hopes that he might get noticed "hey. He's actually a great guy! I might give him a shot!" But someone never got mad when the feelings were not reciprocated. But according to modern feminists, this guy was one of those 'evil nice guys' that they love to shame.

It seems a lot like a two way street. A lot of women will exploit a guy that she knows has a crush on her. Karen, in the video, was talking about one of her coworkers had a NiceGuy, and she laughed to her telling him how "[NiceGuy] is totally my bitch." The guy over heard, and then whenever she asked a favor from him again, the guy DID tell her off, and rightfully so. Karen then says that the NiceGuy didn't feel "entitled" because people that are "entitled" don't try to "earn" it or go out of their way to get it. She said that people that feel "entitled" don't jump through hoops, they expect it to be handed to them. He didn't tell her off because he felt "entitled" to sex, he told her off because she used him and she exploited his crush on her. If anything, the girl in the situation felt entitled to his nice actions.

Probably the most misogynistic guy i know gets tons of success with women, most of the women he fucks are just another notch in his belt and he jokingly refers to the women as disposable fuck toys. You can get away with that when you're 6'3" with a swimmer's body and good facial aesthetics. Moral character has nothing to do with getting laid, that's why feminists attack 'nice guys', in order to rationalize a type of just world fallacy in their mind.

Women mock nice guys because they're desperately searching for reasons to reject a man whom a "civilized and virtous" women ought to love. The indifference or disgust women feel towards these men must be rationalized. Thus, the man is accused of being manipulative and evil. To further aid the cause of preserving women's facade of superior morality and virtue, a cultural strawman saying nice guys are also unkempt, awkward etc. is created and dragged through the virtual and verbal streets which young women frequent.