Just DO NOT SHARE NUDES with anyone, INCLUDING your intimate partner.

Ask yourself, what do YOU get out of it? How is it good to women?

Not some bullshit reason like "it is empowering to me!!!!". Since when did sharing nudes increase your salary or reduce the gender gap or reduce femicides and misogyny? You're basically giving pornified pictures of you, you become the man's personal pornstar, at his fickle desire's mercy. He will NEVER ask "just one picture", he's gonna ask another, just a little one, he says he's gonna delete right afterwards, no big worries. "No worries" he always says.

You're basically counting on his honesty and he CAN lie to you and squirrel away the screenshots, downloaded pictures or screen recordings.

If ever you concede once with a lil bit risquépicture of you, he's gonna push and push for more and more and more hardcore and more risqué and more revealing. A cleavage picture can be pushed into revealing the boobs and so on. And if you refuse he's gonna go all guilt-trippy "but I thought you loved me! 🥺🥺 I assure you you're safe with me, I'm not like those fuckboys!" And PUSH for more.

Give one centimeter, they'll take a MILE.

Also, he's not gonna view you as the Madonna, he's gonna view you as the Whore. And you can't go back.

We must admit that women's reputation and standing can be EASILY torn down compared to a man's. And if ever you set him off, you make him angry, he's gonna have that heavy temptation to leak those in porn websites, or even Reddit (there's subreddits for nudes/porny stuff, and how the hell can you know it's NOT a leaked nude? You can't know for sure.)

It may be just a drop in a ocean of porn and nudes... But someone around you may discover those and spread those to your entourage. And you'll be looked at weirdly. You might miss employment, friendship, relationship opportunities because of that reputation ruined by vengeance. It's just not worth the agony and worry over this.

He may also use those nudes as blackmail material and hang that over you to force you into doing stuff he wants.

An ex-partner of mine saved EVERY single nude I did send to him, even those selfies that just contained my boobs. I asked him before if he did keep any pictures of me, he lied and said he just kept those that happen to be selfies. But he KEPT every SINGLE one of those pictures. He swore on his mother's head that he had none. Those got leaked, and I'm still hoping nobody around me found them.

Final point: if you guys are having sex and are intimate already, what's the point of nudes? And if you guys aren't already, sharing nudes would break the 3-month wait into exclusivity for sex, and it renders that wait totally pointless (reminder: it is done to vet his actual interest towards you)

Whatever men tell you, try to assure you it will be safe and confidential, you'll never ever be safe. So it is iltately better to unload the gun than wear a bulletproof vest and pray to all Gods out there.

Also, if ever a man asks for nudes, he's DISRESPECTFUL towards you and it should be considered as a RED FLAG.