FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!

myousername · 2021-04-18T21:24:25+00:00

First 2 names that come to mind are Gail Dines and Lundy Bancroft

DickBeCar · 2021-04-18T22:11:55+00:00

I do want an episode devoted to silencing women on Reddit and the efforts to ensure women don’t speak to other women and get advice from only porn sick men. Like if a woman shares a problem on a more generic relationship advice sub and another woman suggests FDS and the OP is super thankful scrotes chime in to not go there bla bla, other mods censor this information or any scientific discussion on effects of porn etc. They want to keep Reddit an echo chamber of pedophiles and keep silencing women who are trying to talk to other women

2021-04-18T21:37:25+00:00

I would love to see an older, established feminist. Just to see what they think of our generation's iteration of women's lib from a non libfem perspective. I doubt it could happen, but someone like Jane Clare Jones (been browsing her Twitter today) maybe?

Also, I know a lot of bi women/lesbians lurk here (myself included), it would be cool to have an LB episode.

Snugglyy · 2021-04-18T23:28:23+00:00

I’ll volunteer a voice if you ever need an episode with ex-sexworkers (I was stripper for 6 years)

I nominate Chloe Celine from the hypergamous hive, I’m obsessed with her

Getting Lundy Bancroft would be powerful

Saturnsloverr · 2021-04-18T21:24:12+00:00

Gail dines!!! She's an amazing anti porn activist!

Also maybe you could interview some ex prostitutes/porn stars etc to show it isn't all money and glamor but actual rape

spicyspa · 2021-04-18T21:47:57+00:00

Natalie Lue from Baggage Reclaim.

ENFP_Canadian · 2021-04-18T21:52:25+00:00

Cici B!!! (@thecrimsonkiss on IG).

She was the first person whose content helped me understand FDS principles and leave my pickmeisha ways behind before I even had a Reddit account.

spicyspa · 2021-04-18T22:15:22+00:00

Deborrah Cooper You Tube dating coach

Maingurl · 2021-04-18T23:35:22+00:00

Laila Mickelwait! Please!

elainejay82 · 2021-04-19T03:22:15+00:00

Rose McGowan and Jenna Jameson for their open commentary on sexual harassment, rape, and pedophilia in Hollywood, the music industry, and the porn industry.

oliveial4185 · 2021-04-18T23:23:45+00:00

I don't have any names, but if this is podcast-appropriate I think it would be really cool to hear from other former FSSWs who now practice FDS principles and hear their stories, like how they got here/levelled up.

easter_beagle · 2021-04-19T00:00:30+00:00

Dr Ramani!!

Maingurl · 2021-04-18T22:38:29+00:00

Dr Jessica Taylor author of "Why Women Are Blamed For Everything" And CEO of Victim Focus.

Also - Gail Dines

Catherine Mackinnon - I would love to hear Catherine's stories about working with, and her friendship with Andrea Dworkin.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-04-18T21:22:21+00:00

Pickmenique from vice. Since there seems to be misunderstandings about fds that could use clarification.

throwawayheyyy5 · 2021-04-18T23:44:02+00:00

DEBORRAH COPPER!

heroic_nincompoop · 2021-04-18T23:23:47+00:00

Oh, I have some more ideas!

-- Brittany Venti, an anti-porn YouTube streamer--although she's a bit of a troll so I'm not sure how cooperative she'd be--but she's called out Belle Delphine and is great at articulating her arguments.

She could give some perspective on bullying female content creators face, such as being told "you're jealous" when calling out toxic liberal feminists, etc. She talks a bit about high value and low value men, so she seems to have some FDS ideals.

-- Mina Irfan from the Universe Guru YouTube channel, a businesswoman who gives excellent financial advice I've used to help myself (just see her stream with the Pink Pill channel, which is stuffed with actionable steps you can take to improve your finance game).

She talks a lot about being feminine and letting men take care of you, ideas I've personally had trouble with, but she gives a ton of great advice. I'd love to hear someone interview her about her thoughts on marriage, especially dating multiple men at once and setting strong boundaries.

She lived the "I'm single until I'm married" mindset, and it worked for her. I'm still too scared to do that--but I think if you guys interviewed her about that, it could be super helpful for shy FDSers like myself who aren't sure how to put that dating strategy into action. 😅

Partypuppers · 2021-04-19T05:07:05+00:00

Noam Chomsky is anti porn and would be a rad guest.

ShegoGreen · 2021-04-19T08:07:40+00:00

I want to see the podcast really tear down the false lie of women loosing value after 30 and "hitting the wall."

I'd love to see how happy, single, women in their 40's+ live their lives. I'd also love to see women who married HV men later in their lives.

ga_shina · 2021-04-18T22:18:51+00:00

Natalie Lue from Baggage Reclaim would be awesome and Asha Christina (on YouTube).

eveloe · 2021-04-19T08:00:18+00:00

Meghan Murphy from Feminist Current
Dr Wendy Walsh from dating matters

Ideally you’d not only have someone to interview on your podcast, but also do an episode of theirs as well.

Look up journalists that have done articles about dating/ the sexual landscape and you could get an interview in exchange for a story.

There are also some incredibly knowledgeable subscribers in this sub already. /u/tallwomenneedlovetoo is always coming through with legal facts and the fact that she is already FDS minded means you cut through a load of the waffle.

Alternatively look at people who want to promote their books or their work, like - James Sexton the divorce lawyer who is currently promoting his book or - Dr Gail Dines the author of Pornland

I think the focus of these interviews would be best served if they focused on the strategy aspect of FDS. We already get the mindset of FDS, it would be good to get people more experienced in science, sociology, law, sexual health etc to give action plans for women who are not in the know.

eveloe · 2021-04-19T08:14:30+00:00

Also /u/LilithWon, as an aside, a good way to expand on the topics for the podcast would be reading out the handbook posts, starting from the most controversial

You could then have three other commentators read out their favourite comments that also add to the post

Great way to capitalise on outrage marketing 😈

spicyspa · 2021-04-18T22:41:00+00:00

Evie Lupine YouTube kinkmeisha. She needs an intervention.

what-is-sleep- · 2021-04-18T21:57:15+00:00

Sherry Argov? Would LOVE some FDS book discussions

Professional-Ad-457 · 2021-04-18T23:11:26+00:00

Dawn Masler (men chase, women choose author)

GodILoveTheEnglish · 2021-04-19T11:40:43+00:00

I’d really like to hear some interviews from FDS members themselves, how FDS has helped them, success stories, levelling up, etc. I think it’d be really nice!

edelbiatch · 2021-04-19T10:05:20+00:00

I would love to hear Sharon Stone's story. I recently saw an interview on Youtube and she is such an interesting brilliant woman. Unfortunately she is mainly remembered as the woman who flashed her genitals in Basic Instinct (and she was actually tricked into doing this by the scrotes producing this movie) so it would be interesting to hear how she represents herself.

As a survivor of narcissistic abuse, I think Dr. Ramani Durvasula would be a great expert to interview on toxic relationship patterns.

Jorinde Wiese is a German feminist activist who is organizing with other women and victims of sexual abuse to push a German metoo movement. Currently she is being attacked legally and online for speaking up about sexual abuse and powerful men / abusers are trying to silence her.

Furthermore, I would be really curious to learn about feminists who are less known in Western countries.

Sonita Alizadeh is an Afghan woman who was supposed to be a child bride and produced a badass rap song about the fate that she and countless other girls face. She received the opportunity to continue her music and activism career in the US and has returned to her country to fight for change.

Yemi Alade is a Nigerian music artist and activist. She likes to ridicule NVM and LVM in her music videos and I believe she has a very interesting personality.

Rebecca Lolosoli, the founder and matriarch of the women's village Umoja that was build to escape a violent patriarchal system (I think I saw her story here on FDS and it's a true inspiration).

pinkcityscape · 2021-04-19T00:58:38+00:00

I’d love to see Deborrah Cooper and Gail Dines

spicyspa · 2021-04-19T01:35:46+00:00

Chump Lady

ceramicunicorn · 2021-04-19T03:27:08+00:00

Tarana Burke! She started metoo.

heroic_nincompoop · 2021-04-18T23:13:24+00:00

I don't know much about her views on feminism, but I like Brene Brown. Her work on shame has been life-changing for me. Might be interesting to do an episode on how we as women are shamed and coerced into performing sex acts/accepting love that doesn't serve us. Maybe she could give some societal perspective on that? 🤷‍♀️

Edit Jean Kilbourne would be another great person to reach out to! She does a lot of speeches and research on how ads destroy the way we see women. Really eye-opening stuff!

FDS-GFY · 2021-04-19T00:42:02+00:00

Ellen Pao

Watzoo · 2021-04-19T01:41:46+00:00

It would be great to hear episodes with Tina Swithin and Phylis Chesler. Bell hooks. Even an episode dedicated to discussing “coercive control,” which a lot of people don’t recognize as relevant until it’s too late.

daisy_0720 · 2021-04-19T19:58:18+00:00

Monica Lewinsky.

sahu_ · 2021-04-19T06:51:42+00:00

Get Gloria Allred! I bet she would love to know this sub exists. And that it stands for many of the things she's fought about in her legal career!

She's the most feared women's rights lawyer in the US and has been inducted into the National Women's Hall of fame.

PinkBlair99 · 2021-04-18T23:56:46+00:00

Kim Love aka @kimmaytube, coiner of “Date Same Twitter” and “Marry Same Twitter”

Coder-Cat · 2021-04-19T16:18:05+00:00

Ashley and Brit from the “Crime Junkies” or the ladies from “My Favorite Murder” . I would love to hear their perspectives of dating and personal safety.

Lumplebee · 2021-04-19T17:21:46+00:00

I’d be interested to here from Mina (@ratbastardmina) on tiktok since she’s really blown up. I feel like both FDS and her are the reason why so many young women now are turning away from liberal feminism.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-04-19T22:04:41+00:00

Bell Hooks would be amazing.

mxmoon · 2021-04-21T13:32:44+00:00

I LOVE the podcast!!! I’m so happy I’ve found sisters that see things through a feminist/no bullshit actual female empowerment lens.

smm1892 · 2021-04-19T01:26:48+00:00

Chidera Eggerue / the slumflower!

taroenthusiast · 2021-04-19T07:21:27+00:00

Baggie reclaim and rising women

licoricespicedtea · 2021-04-27T12:36:13+00:00

Maybe some basic “level up” stuff? Like someone to talk about basic financial literacy/financial planning, someone who coaches how to negotiate job offers (the NPR This is Uncomfortable podcast had Carrie Menkel-Meadow who specifically coaches women), basic nutrition/fitness, etc

TB56 · 2021-04-19T17:32:27+00:00

Jameela Jamil a great feminist activist who has started iweigh and has helped pass legislations about ig not being allowed to promote dieting products to teens and children.

thowawaywookie · 2021-04-19T03:16:44+00:00

Clementine Ford

savedempath · 2021-04-19T00:46:06+00:00

If you can esther perel

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liligram · 2021-04-19T07:03:45+00:00

Successful women in STEM and how they navigate levelling up in their personal and professional lives

StarbornDancing · 2021-04-19T09:01:34+00:00

I'd really love to see a focus on hearing from women and not so much from men. Men are everywhere they don't need more of a platform. I'm sure there a certain men who get more exposure on certain things like Bancroft, but surely there's got to be a woman out there who can provide the same advice and insight who we can uplift?

firestorm717 · 2021-04-19T18:34:36+00:00

Gail Dines, Laura Bates, and Deborrah Cooper.

Dense_Cattle · 2021-04-30T17:06:16+00:00

Taylor Thomlinson! On breaking her engagement with no regrets, being a female comedian, her feminist comedy, etc.

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Title	FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!
Author	LilithWon
Upvotes	279
Comments	103
Date	April 18, 2021 9:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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