I'm sorry if this sounds silly, but since I'm a woman, I obviously don't know what being a man feels like. But according to several statistics, men are more likely to be victims of murder, aggravated assault, and even robbery. The majority of perps are strangers. But everywhere I see, it's always women being afraid to go out at night, clutching keys, not tying their hair in a ponytail etc.
I understand that we women are scared due to the physical strength and size difference between males and females but since men are the majority of violent crime victims, shouldn't they be more afraid? But all I see is men going out without even a hint of their safety.
There's also the expectation that when a man and woman go anywhere together, the man has to sacrifice his life for his woman/girlfriend/wife/female friend.
This actually happened to me, I (19F), my boyfriend (19M) and our friend (18F) were walking back home at night, and a male thief tried to grab our friends phone. My boyfriend immediately pushed him and was able to beat him but the thief ran away.
So, I guess my question is, why aren't men more afraid? And if they are, is it because they don't show it? Is it because they don't know they are majorly victims?
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This might not be a popular opinion, but I actually think women are too afraid. Even though men are more likely to be the victim of a violent crime, it's still very unlikely. I think it's more likely to die in a car crash and neither men nor women are especially afraid of riding in cars.
So I'm more curious why are women so much afraid (of strangers at night).
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Then maybe that's your answer?
Though I'm a short fat man, so I would probably get destroyed too and I'm not at all afraid outside alone at night. Frankly, I don't know why I'm not afraid, so I can't answer your question very well.
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/247233659_Costs_and_benefits_of_fat-free_mass_in_men_Relationship_to_mating_success_dietary_requirements_and_native_immunity
http://dieoff.com/_Biology/BeautyAndTheBeast.pdf
TLDR: The average man is stronger than 99.9% of all women. Our bodies are literally built for warfare.
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