Daily Community Chat Megathread

jobbo321 · 2023-03-04T14:33:02+00:00

How do clothing brands exist that sell a basic shirt/sweater for $100, while there's an identical one for $20?

Not just talking about ralph lauren, even random brands I've never heard of.

eye_fuck · 2023-03-04T12:24:12+00:00

how hedonistic are you from 1 to 10?

Billsandasonom · 2023-03-04T11:38:34+00:00

Came across this clip from CNN on YT.. was surprised they were covering this since I associate CNN with left-wing blue pilldom. The comments were also a breath of fresh air...it was like all the stuff men complain about here but from just normal dudes speaking frankly, and surprisingly not as toxic or filled with animosity as one would associate with most YouTube comment sections. To me this hints that the average blue-pilled man these days is thinking the same thing as the red or blackpiller variety here, or at least it's trending that way.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vK4y6C1Uuhw

So if most young men are single, and most young women are not, are most/many young women just dating older men in their 30s and beyond, or is Chad just seeing multiple women long-term and not telling them (or maybe the women know and are okay with it)? Because that's a huge gap to account for.

SlashCo80 · 2023-03-04T10:54:05+00:00

Random question: Do any women enjoy pegging because they're actually into it, not just because their partner wants it?

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-03-04T10:20:11+00:00

I don’t understand guys who get off cumming on a girls tits or face or whatever. Nothing feels as good as busting inside balls deep

asofiro · 2023-03-04T10:03:09+00:00

Measuring the success of my life by whether or not I have sex on an airplane before I die.

I have to meet the woman on the flight. It can't be with a wife or gf.

SwinginPastMyKnees_ · 2023-03-04T08:56:25+00:00

Is livs4drpepper still active on here? She might have blocked me, but I never got to explain myself.

big_lenad · 2023-03-04T08:34:01+00:00

In my real life anecdotal experience

beta bux/ alpha fux does exist but not in the way you think. Usually unless you underwent some sort of major change the woman would’ve slept with you quickly in her younger years on the cock coursesel. The difference is now she’s more demanding, “mature” (lol) and wants more commitment as she’s ready to settle down. My point being that the reason you don’t sleep with her in her younger hotter days was simply because you didn’t know her or make your intentions known. Like I said. They want the same men just with different expectations.
women will not break up with you for crying or showing emotions. It won’t win you points but I’ve found the just console you and keep it moving.
rushing for sex actually hurts your chances. You end up like every other man who’s afraid to get beta buxxed and used. Women are aware what a low effort Netflix and chill date means. I’m not saying to be abused and used but bring something different to the table especially if you’re not Chad. You can always pump and dump her after the fourth date. Why rush to win on the first date just because Chad did?
women on PPD are anomalies. Sex workers and childfree women are overrepresented here. The latter of which means they can be openly demanding and misandrist with little to no repercussion (or less than if they had wanted children).
women in real life (like on the internet) seem to give balanced and nuanced takes. The reality is actually very different. The very same woman in who seems very logical etc will act seemingly irrationally when it comes to actual romantic interactions. I had a woman upset at me because I went a day without calling her for the first time since we started talking. She admitted that although her rational brain understood that this was because i suddenly became sick and my meds made me pass out early her female brain was still angry at the fact that I didn’t call.
women will ghost/reject you for a small dick. Not average or below average. Genuinely small.
height is bonus but you just have to be taller than her when all is said and done.
if you can get past your fear and the many rejections. Cold approach (if you can make it natural) is one of the best ways to approach next to social group game.
there will always be that conventionally attractive woman who likes you for whatever reason. The chances go down the uglier you are but there will always be at least one.
don’t be bitter. Just do what works.

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-03-04T08:15:15+00:00

Why doesn't anyone talk about the actual best okcupid study:

Women were offered 3 men of otherwise equal attractiveness. A) openly likes her B) openly dislikes her C) unclear whether he likes her or not

Majority of women liked C the most, then A and lastly B.

3RADICATE_THEM · 2023-03-04T07:58:52+00:00

I'm living with my parent right now to help save for a down payment on a house, but the thing I don't get is why would anyone want to be married for the long-term? Like I'm saying in terms of the day to day lifestlye.

Sounds absolutely horrific having to sleep with someone in the same bed and constantly disturbing your sleep for the rest of your life. Not to mention, don't people actually like living by themselves, or are they so scared of loneliness they'd rather have their partner with them all the time?

Just sounds exhausting to me.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-03-04T07:16:25+00:00

I love pussy

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-04T05:33:26+00:00

A comment under a video where a girl got her face completely destroyed by a dog

"The fact that she stuck with her boyfriend through his cancer treatment
and now he’s sticking with her through her recovery is amazing."

WTF PPD women he was supposed to leave her!!!

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-04T05:12:40+00:00

"Money,pussy,food solves every men problems"

Dude preaching the Gospel

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-03-04T04:58:09+00:00

Q4A: What is something you c0ped about in the past?

DeshaunTalyor · 2023-03-04T04:51:05+00:00

How do l know if she likes me ?

Plays with her hair
Stares at you non-stop
Body language
Invades a bit of your space while talking to you
Touches you regularly

How do l know if he likes me

He won't be or even have a conversation with you if he didn't

Guys are literally so simple

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-04T04:48:37+00:00

is it possible to be a good parent and have overweight kids?

biggestuzifanea · 2023-03-04T04:17:10+00:00

Who's worse, the I;m going to leave the dating scene men or we need to go on a sex strike women? Realistically no one care about either

samtheaccountant · 2023-03-04T04:07:29+00:00

What do you guys think about the asian FOBs on OLD? I generally match with ones that are hotter than my western women matches, I just can't form a connection with them and their english is normally kinda trash.

dbz__f · 2023-03-04T03:55:12+00:00

Post nut clarity (PNC) for men is like peering into true gnosis. You know what is true and what is not true. All the clouds obfuscating your vision are temporarily blown away.

When a man is in a state of PNC, he knows whomst've'd he loves and whomst've'd he doesn't. In the moment of PNC, you can know if the woman you are with is "the one" or if she isn't. It's why some men want to cuddle after sex and some men want to get away from her as soon as possible. In that moment you know the truth, you see the future, you know whether the person before your eyes is your soulmate that you are meant to be with forever or not.

When you are in PNC, all other women who aren't your loved one may as well be men to you. Your sexual desire is 0 towards them. It's like you just had sex with a guy if you had sex with a woman you don't love. Hence the feeling of disgust men have after sex and one night stands and wanting to get away from her.

If she is your soulmate and the one you love forever, then you will see it at that point and it will intensify your feelings of love for her.

When you are in PNC, your inclination to cheat is 0. You are in peak oneitis. If a man is having regular sex with his wife and he loves her, and she is maintaining that oneitism and PNC through regular sex, he will love her forever and his inclination to cheat will be zero.

If he cheats, that means there is something fundamentally wrong with the marriage. Either he is not getting enough sex and she's not keeping him in a state of PNC around other women, or he doesn't love her and this method of making him PNC around other women is 0.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-03-04T03:42:44+00:00

PPD Men locked themselves in their own cage & gave women the key.

The problem is: Women never asked for the key.

Scarce12 · 2023-03-04T03:36:23+00:00

Don't smoke cigars!

samtheaccountant · 2023-03-04T03:35:14+00:00

Is there such a thing as a good casual dating personality and a good LTR personality or is that just cope?

ItsAllSexual · 2023-03-04T03:23:19+00:00

Men always ask, how do you know if a woman likes you? Does she touch her hair? Does she touch your arm?

1) She'll just straight up tell you

2) She'll hyper focus on your mouth.

12throw1234away34 · 2023-03-04T03:11:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ask/comments/11hhmup/do_women_really_only_wear_make_up_strictly_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Why do men and women insist on saying they don’t enhance their looks for others?

The amount of mental gymnastics I saw in that thread made me think I was watching the Olympics.

“I do it for myself because when I look attractive, I feel better about myself.”

Attractive to who?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-04T02:38:56+00:00

Should I go to Respiratory Therapy school or continue with teacher's college? I'd prefer to be a RT but I have a feeling AI/nurses are going to make respiratory therapists homeless in 2 decades.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-03-04T02:35:46+00:00

A message to ALL women:

We have passports and we are NOT afraid to use them. You better shape up, literally and figuratively, if you want to even have a chance at being with us

Comprehensive_Art506 · 2023-03-04T02:13:08+00:00

Q4M: would you only date a girl with perky boobs?

lulll · 2023-03-04T02:06:37+00:00

women scrolling through tinder

men scrolling through tinder

huhwhatokok · 2023-03-04T01:34:57+00:00

See this good looking desi/arab man sitting next to me at a restaurant and this white whale comes to sit at his table and they kiss 🤮. I want better for my people.

meteorness123 · 2023-03-04T01:17:34+00:00

From what i've observed the whole beta bucks thing only applies to broke former party girls looking for a meal ticket. Those women are usually extremely easy to spot based off their personality, demeanor and often occupation as well. You also have to be somewhat socially inept to not being able to tell genuine interest from a money grabber

lulll · 2023-03-04T00:50:08+00:00

oh god now reddit is giving me dating site ads, one called seeking. these little bastards

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-03-04T00:47:21+00:00

I think I’m seeing a pattern with males who cant socialize and/or are chronically online: parents just don’t bother helping them socialize. If the parents do bother helping them, its not helping in the right way.

For example, a friend’s little brother hates that he’s forced to socialize with people. I can see why, because their idea of getting him to socialize is JUST going to church events. Also, he is homeschooled.

This is why I hate hearing conservatives talk about just homeschooling their kids to combat woke leftists, because that’s not good for social skills.

In fact, from my experience, most woke leftists came from shitty religious households. Also, their dad was in their lives. He was just a terrible person that caused more trauma than anyone else in the family.

Himay_Dino · 2023-03-04T00:46:42+00:00

Q4M do you ask your partners body count?

Personally I only ask if I see potential for a LTR and don't bother asking ONS. Mind you I don't ask as bluntly as the title and I use different terminology. Also in my experience if she has a low count she'll answer in a very positive and proud manner but if she has a high count she'll answer inversely.

It's also worth noting that I'm asking because on a previous post about body count on this sub 90% of the women said they are never asked and I wanted to see if mine and my friends personal experiences are abnormal.

Thank you in advance for your honesty!

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-03-04T00:44:35+00:00

I wonder if elderly men who were once 6' tall and shrink to 5'11 due to age get divorced by their wives on the spot

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-03-04T00:16:35+00:00

Things that make a woman irresistible:

Being skinny
Having a pretty face (no makeup)
Being young

BrummieAMN19 · 2023-03-03T23:44:10+00:00

Ye I’ve got to be honest I struggle to believe height>physique since despite being 5”9 I constantly catch some tall guy who has an average to the build of a toothpicks gf keeps on checking me out and staring especially at the gym. Earlier today coming home some girl was looking at me from the other side of the road whilst talking to and walking with her her tall skinny bf and after 30s or so he started looking at me, I turn around and then I see them walking past with his arm around her. I just want to go to these locations certain people live who claim otherwise lol.

Or I always have some bloke (of all heights tbf) hold his gf extra tight, try and move her away from the area I’m in cause he’s clocked that I’m there and better than him. It’s comical at this point.

liefelijk · 2023-03-03T23:37:53+00:00

Looking for a relaxing, feel good show? I’d recommend The Climb, which is an HBOMax game show about rock climbing. It’s really calming and I love how most people seem so kind and understanding.

I never really got into rock climbing, though I love hiking. Any climbers here?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-03-03T23:34:46+00:00

>The variability hypothesis, also known as the greater male variability hypothesis, is the hypothesis that males generally display greater variability in traits than females do.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Variability\_hypothesis

NJFlowerchild · 2023-03-03T23:33:42+00:00

Andrew Tate most likely does not have lung cancer. He has a nodule that presented on a CT scan in March of 2022. He then waited until December to seek any further diagnostics. 50% of the adult population shows lung nodules on a scan and only approximately 5% are cancerous. The odds are very much in his favor of being fine. He has not been diagnosed with cancer or illness of any kind. He could receive appropriate treatment and testing while remaining in custody. His leaked medical information, if true, says doctors want to investigate further. He was told to get more testing a year ago and chose not to do so until December. I will repeat it. He has not had any biopsy or confirmation that there is an actual problem that 50% of adults do not present with on scans.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-03-03T23:32:05+00:00

You should at least 21 before you permanently decided to ruin your reputation with porn.

chancetolive · 2023-03-03T23:23:21+00:00

Dang. https://youtu.be/7OQr9FJ1HFk

Purple-Following-422 · 2023-03-03T23:15:10+00:00

Mods please let me post 😭

-AvatarAang- · 2023-03-03T23:12:52+00:00

I'm a short (5'8, barely), probably-autistic Indian male who is looking for love. I am 27 years old.

I have so much affection to give. I fantasize about an imaginary girlfriend every single day. My love language is touch, but I am completely touch-starved - so I sometimes kiss my hands and arms while pretending that my imaginary girlfriend is the one doing it. I have many other fantasy roleplays that I enact by myself, at the comfort of my desk.

"Friends-to-lovers" is a big one of these fantasies - I imagine myself having a close relationship with a female friend, who always found me cute but wants to ease into a romance with me rather than bring me into it right away. For example, one day we're hanging out at her place and she asks me what kind of things I'd do if I had a girlfriend, and when I tell her my relationship fantasies she finds it so wholesome and endearing that has difficulty restraining herself from kissing me in that moment. She'd also purposely do things to produce a flustered reaction in me because of how cute she finds it when I react that way, such as sometimes running her hand along my face, stroking my hair, or calling me "sweetie". I would always conceal my romantic feelings for her out of respect for the friendship and the assumption she doesn't see me that way, but one day something would happen where we'd end up in eachother's arms, look into eachother's eyes, and slowly begin to kiss...we'd immediately become partners afterward, and the relationship would last our whole lifetime.

I want my girlfriend to see me as her child, and to call me very cute nicknames like "baby", "pumpkin", "cupcake", "angel", and so on. I think the love between a mother and her child is one of the most intense in the world, and it would be nice if my girlfriend had very strong maternal instincts that she then directed towards me. Thankfully I am noticing my desire for this unconventional dynamic to decrease the more confident and self-reliant I become, whereas previously I felt so desperate for it that I could barely function.

I'm a feminist or at least agree with many feminist viewpoints. I hope my receptivity to female issues will help me with getting a girlfriend, even though that's not the reason I hold those viewpoints. If a woman sees that I understand or empathize with her experiences more than most other men she has met, it will hopefully help me stand out in her eyes.

I'm so sad at the fact that I'm ugly. How do I cope with it? I can't stand being in this body. Even if I could be with a woman I found attractive, I'd feel guilty since I'd think she deserves to be with someone more physically attractive than me.

I am trying to use the Law of Attraction to change my physical appearance. That will sound silly to some people, but that's the stage I have reached. If it doesn't end up working, I'm not sure what I'll do.

Note: I know my comment seems like oversharing and cringey "loserfeels", but I wrote it in order to show others on here that not every man on this subreddit hates women or is only looking to manipulate them into having sex with him. Some of us are classical romantics, and are looking for a wholesome love story just like the ones traditionally marketed to women.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-03-03T23:11:09+00:00

CMV: If promiscuity is to be shamed, it should be shamed on both genders.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-03-03T22:58:30+00:00

Q4W:

To what level of accuracy is this video?

https://youtube.com/shorts/k55xHIKrpp4?feature=share

SmarmyPapsmears · 2023-03-03T22:54:37+00:00

Are PPD women the lowest value women or do they represent most women (and by proxy most women are low value)

BrummieAMN19 · 2023-03-03T22:44:45+00:00

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Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-03-03T22:40:32+00:00

This girl on Twitter went viral for saying " getting a man is the easiest thing ever becuase men are the easiest thing in the world, but getting the right man thats the hard part". What yall think

Katatonicsnake · 2023-03-03T22:31:21+00:00

What do you do every single day? I study languages, and tell my husband I love him. It’s actually pretty wild to think that 10+ years ago he just came into my life and now I tell him every day how much he means to me. Relationships are fascinating.

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-03-03T22:24:30+00:00

Q4M: why do y’all let incels latch onto the ‘average man’ label? That would irritate me if I was a man. Everyday you have someone claiming the average man is DESPERATE for a crumb of attention from a woman any woman. Like I would not be ok with being painted as desperate and begging for scraps.

You know what I will say when that one dude was saying he/men would want to be raped, there were a couple of men who told him he was wrong. But for the most part it goes unchecked. Why?

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-03-03T22:21:34+00:00

theres some leaked documents showing Andrew Tate has medical visits in Dubai for lung cancer issues in Dec

meteorness123 · 2023-03-03T22:18:08+00:00

I think that most of the stuff people here talk about like body count, behavior etc are symtomatic and are not dealing with the core issues. Most people here aren't interested in finding the true source of their problems.

meteorness123 · 2023-03-03T21:45:35+00:00

Who here meditates ?

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