Is Chad generally blue pilled?

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Puzzleheaded_Card_71 · 2024-07-20T01:36:09+00:00

Interesting comment. Chads don’t need to deal with these mindsets I would argue because women will give their best game to get and keep them and will even make excuses for their lack of interest. Women will break rules for chads - the rules that the normies try to navigate via red or blue pill mindsets.

According_Second4222 · 2024-07-19T23:27:39+00:00

Normies tend to be the more bluepilled ones from my experience, unless the Chad is very dumb.

The profound impact of looks is obvious on the lower end of attractiveness and on the upper end. It's easy regardless of how smart someone is to notice that people are treating you worse. A Chad will generally notice that they are treated much better than normal. However, it's easier to miss special positive treatment than special negative treatment.

The red and blue pill apply more in the middle. Here is where people generally don't have particularly extreme experiences and neither do most of their friends, so it's hard to notice the impact of appearance. From their perspective, the more motivated ones do succeed. They and most people around them are mid so effort makes a difference to them. This was especially true before Tinder came out and normies didn't know you could get 10 matches per day as a male :).

Fabulous_HonestTea · 2024-07-19T23:24:50+00:00

They aren’t blind, deaf, and dumb, they’re perfectly aware of their genetic blessings and the rewards it brings them.

This is most evident when Mr. Norwood comes to collect, they’re on the first flight to Romania to get that Cabbage Patch Doll hair stapled to their heads.

Environmental_Day558 · 2024-07-20T00:02:42+00:00

The ones that are in relationships tend to give the most blue pilled advice. They are the equivalent of trust fund kids who would let you believe their hard work is why they are in the position they are in. It makes sense though, if all he had to do is be himself then he wouldn't notice the advantages his looks gave him unless that was taken away. Then it becomes the flirting vs harrassment meme.

NockerJoe · 2024-07-20T04:00:59+00:00

No. The aggressive blue types you see here insist that some stuff that happens doesn't. A hot socially adept dude who goes clubbing or hangs out at parties will probably be aware people hook up there. Likewise that dude is still dealing with the same bullshit on apps, he just gets more matches to do it faster and he gets more women willing to have some kind of initial buy in, in the mix.

Thats not to say that guy has to rack up a bunch of casual encounters or consistently use any of these services or venues at all. But if you gave them the kind of spiel you get here that every young woman just wants a guy her exact age to immediately begin a committed relationship leading to marriage with a chaste period of three to six months he'd probably give you a weird look because he actually goes outside and sees thats not the case.

You don't need to be cynical or bitter about it but they probably don't think of the world in the same terms as an aging gen X suburban dad or a 28 year old church woman.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2024-07-20T12:19:03+00:00

I was watching a lifting video where a guy who essentially trains trainers on how to develop programs and how teach corrections in lifts.

And in the Q&A one of the people asked “why aren’t these proven techniques being taught in places like Div-1 big time college football programs (think Georgia, Michigan, Alabama etc)

And the speaker replied bluntly “because to be at that level you have to be such a genetically gifted athlete, that it really doesn’t matter what program they use. Almost any lifting program will work and they will get bigger and stronger”.

When it comes to the “Chads” the way PPD and pill poppers describe, they are the “gifted athletes”. Whatever their god given gifts are: size, strength, model facial, freak talents, charm (yes charm too) etc. whatever they naturally lean into works.

So they don’t need “pills” of any color. They don’t need a “system or pillosophy” what they do works.
And each one can do their own thing and so each one’s going to have a different “take” on what works. Because what works for them works so well.

Ppdebatesomental · 2024-07-20T02:34:31+00:00

They range from the most cynical players around to the the sweetest, most romantic guys you will ever meet.

The cynical ones tend to be raised in macho cultures where they actually dislike the women they can seduce. Only men are supposed to enjoy and engage in sex, so seeing willing women is, on one hand, a temptation they can’t resist and on the other, something they find deeply disturbing

Other guys not raised with a strong sexual double standard will often really genuinely like women, because women have always been nice to them. Let’s face it, everyone is nice to you when you are attractive. As a handsome charming young boy, my husband was even treated well by his friend’s mothers and still to this day he is really glad when he runs into them.

caption291 · 2024-07-20T03:12:54+00:00

I think Chad is generally blackpilled because "he may notice how women treat his lesser attractive buddies." is a LOT more likely to happen than not happen. Part of the reason is that Chads usually don't feel much pressure to pursue things besides what interests them so they often end up in groups that are typically full of guys that struggle with women. Not necessarily all the time but everyone has an interest that's not great socially.

Also their experience with women often involves women fighting over them or being desperate to be with them which brings out the worst in women...

But it really depends on what you mean by Chad exactly, because if were talking about attractive men but not attractive enough that they can afford to not care about female aproval, then what I just said goes out the window.

MongoBobalossus · 2024-07-19T23:29:02+00:00

Most “Chads” aren’t “pilled” at all, as they exist outside of the pill continuum.

DarayRaven · 2024-07-20T00:35:02+00:00

Yes bluepill guys do get laid all the time since most guys are indeed bluepill by default, l don't know why this is profound, most guys l know who easily get girls are very bluepilled

People have to stop thinking just because your a certain pill, your going to get laid, you can be redpilled/bluepilled as hell and still be celibate because getting is women is a practice not a theory of how the world works

Green-Quantity1032 · 2024-07-20T00:46:51+00:00

I think if you're the only guy in your group who often gets hit on and gets sex offers, and friend's gfs offer you weird things - you generally notice things.

I can't say I've seen too many proper chads in my life to even worry about it tbh, maybe if I lived in the netherlands.

Five_Decades · 2024-07-20T01:05:52+00:00

The people who learn about pills are people who struggle on the market. That would not describe chad

Cyrrow · 2024-07-20T07:58:56+00:00

Yes. They think everything falls into lap by being nice.

SnooMarzipans8221 · 2024-07-20T00:31:42+00:00

I would like to think that the Chaddiest Chad is just out there living life without having to prescribe to either of the "pilled" ideologies.

He is based and doesn't know it. And he does not need to. I hope he is out there living a fulfilling life and spread genuine positivity to everyone he interacts with - and when his time comes, hopefully the meaningful relationships he has built in his lifetime make sure he is surrounded by love and warmth as he gracefully passes on. Fulfilled and truly beloved.

Opening_Tell9388 · 2024-07-19T23:35:02+00:00

Uh. I Guess i would be considered a “chad.” 6’4, green eyes, curly hair, calisthenics fit, beard that connects, shining clear skin. I have been told I am not red pill and that I don’t understand men’s experiences because of my looks.

I think the red pill is largely a bunch of bullshit to keep men trapped and unhappy. Besides the self improvement aspects but, you can find any self help book that will suggest these things.

ColbyXXXX · 2024-07-20T02:14:51+00:00

The most red pilled guys I know irl are guys who learned through experience with women what works and does not work. They aren’t all chads but they all get women with relative ease.

Whiskeymyers75 · 2024-07-20T03:56:03+00:00

People who get pussy don’t subscribe to pills. Neither do I. I only needed the flair for posting purposes.

Apex__Predator_ · 2024-07-20T04:01:10+00:00

They get so much experience with women that they learn the red pill truths faster than others. Also, they need not pedestalize the women they get because he already has many options and hence less value of the present. They're not bitter but naturally understand women's nature.

Innocent_boi_77 · 2024-07-20T05:19:43+00:00

Pill is bs.

SupportRemarkable583 · 2024-07-20T08:00:52+00:00

TeensyTrouble · 2024-07-20T10:49:26+00:00

Chad is pretty sexist, they ranked 160 out of 162 for gender equality, I wouldn’t call them a blue pilled country.

Xennial3999 · 2024-07-20T11:10:42+00:00

All the Chads I know personally are also the biggest misogynists I know. That's why I always laugh when women claim they can pick up if someone's an incel irl or whatever by vibes they give off. Chads get a first hand view at how disgusting many women are, how willing they are to cheat on their BFs, etc. I've heard some shocking tales.

Adject_Ive · 2024-07-20T13:34:35+00:00

I don't think I've ever met a true "Chad", but from what I'm seeing attractive people in general are either the most evil, manipulative pos you've ever seen or basically an "angel" that oozes naivete. Some of them realise their "power" and use it to the fullest, some of them think most people are good so they try to be good as well.

Cor_ay · 2024-07-20T00:21:45+00:00

Being red pill doesn’t make you bitter towards women lol.

The Chads I know are red pilled through experience, they are more likely to be red pilled without a label than blue pilled.

Sharp_Engineering379 · 2024-07-19T23:57:06+00:00

Every fit, attractive, outgoing man I know is nice and laid back. I don't know any of the evil boogeymen that terpers describe.

Why would anyone whose life is easy be a jerk?

FirmQuarter6623 · 2024-07-19T23:34:33+00:00

It depends on experience. I don't think there are men who get laid a lot and blue pill at the same time. Unless they're retarded. It's 2 different sides of a coin, you aren't going to get laid a lot if you blue pill, even if you're good looking guy.

obese_tank · 2024-07-20T02:41:23+00:00

Chads that lean towards monogamy are probably more blue-pilled, chads that lean more towards sleeping around are probably more red-pilled.

boom-wham-slam · 2024-07-19T23:27:04+00:00

Usually red pilled.

sprckets21 · 2024-07-19T23:28:08+00:00

Relationship Chad is super blue. Player Chad talks like red and black pill guys.

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aslfingerspell · 2024-07-20T01:49:53+00:00

No. Someone who is very special and attractive will know it.

Someone who is 6 foot or more will literally look down on other guys. You can't not be aware of standing out in a crowd like that literally and metaphorically.

Someone who has a six pack on the beach knows who he is. He knows most other guys don't diet and exercise like he does.

Someone who earns 100K a year knows who he is. He knows most other guys aren't a lawyer/doctor/etc.

squiddy_s550gt · 2024-07-20T04:08:58+00:00

They are often as blacked pilled as the incels.. nothing like married women constantly hitting on a man before he starts to catch on..

EveningEveryman · 2024-07-20T04:19:25+00:00

If they are its probably a marginal amount compared to regular men.

Artistic_Bumblebee17 · 2024-07-20T04:39:40+00:00

Sometimes not when they see how women will jump to cheat with them.

T-Rex-The-Alpha · 2024-07-20T11:14:22+00:00

I was a blue pilled chad, and i find the description cringe AF because i'm not 6ft and i wasn’t anything perfect. Even i turned invisible at some point and then got back again.

I just got interests from women, i had them literally handing out numbers, luring me into swimming seasons at night and i ignored everything, i was chasing my dream girl that never existed and i thought i'm a good man. I never had to develop the skills to keep a girl, because everything was kinda easy to get into.

But just because you’re "chad", women are still women and start causing problems, nagging, complaining, manipulative behaviors, withdrawing sex, crying to manipulate outcomes and you still get cheated on. But being blue pill, you just don’t see all this. You just don’t take responsibility in a relationship or leadership. The cheating part was always wild to me, her crying and telling me it wasn’t her fault to control the outcome. I mean, theres more wild stories. Braking up telling everyone what a horrible monster i was, just because she couldn’t be responsible to brake up with me.

One had an affair at work and did everything that it was my fault.

Blue Pill.. it’s a difficult thing to explain and everyone makes it to an identity, but essentially that moment when you get cheated on and get manipulated to what is best for others instead of doing what is best for you, describes it.

Once you go the other direction, you see all this, and you know it better if someone is there to be with you, or they take you on a ride until something better comes along.

LongDongOfMojave776 · 2024-07-20T14:48:43+00:00

I think a lot of the "just see her as human, treat her with respect" type of blue pillers are naturally privileged with good looks and are extremely well socialized with good childhood, well off parents and passed preselection. That can also happen if they're average looking, but they basically need a great home life as I said, so that makes them bluepilled. Every dude that turned to red pill or "How to get a girlfriend" guides are in some way shafted or unfortunate in one or more categories.

Intrepid-Rip-2280 · 2024-07-20T16:16:28+00:00

It's a bit strange to ask it on a site where a significant portion of audience have seen women only in movies and Eva AI sexting bot.

Cactus2711 · 2024-07-20T20:27:44+00:00

Tom Brady was a perfect example of a blue pill Chad

Proper_Frosting_6693 · 2024-07-20T21:02:58+00:00

Of course! When everything comes easy why would you not believe the mainstream ridiculous fairytales

I mean it’s crazy/borderline impossible to imagine a black pilled Chad

Flightlessbirbz · 2024-07-20T21:18:39+00:00

Blue pilled in what sense? I would say yes in the sense of being mostly unaware of or not caring about the “pills.” But not necessarily blue pilled in the sense of a Disney view of life and relationships.

Attractive people are more likely to have the Disney mindset, just like people with rich parents are more likely to claim money doesn’t matter or believe they are successful due to hard work. It’s easier to claim looks don’t matter when you’re blessed in that way. However, it’s not like they are blind and deaf, they very well may be aware of their privilege, it’s just not something they fixate on like those who are struggling.

EugeneCezanne · 2024-07-20T21:31:52+00:00

The most successful men I've ever known with women have been, basically blue pilled. However, "blue pill" isn't typically defined by blue killers. It's defined by other pills, who often reduce it to a dumb caricature of all the worst arguments they've ever heard.

So, for example, if you ask one of these guys if women treat attractive men better, they'll probably say "Yeah, people generally treat attractive people better." If you ask them if all women chase the same man, they'll probably say "Some people are more widely desired than others, sure."

It's only in the exaggeration, extremism, fixation and "us vs. them" stuff that you're likely to lose them entirely.

DelDivision · 2024-07-21T04:06:05+00:00

Eh it's a mixed bag, I think those who were born that way probably are, while those worked their way up probably are more black/red pilled.

just_a_place · 2024-07-21T04:37:54+00:00

By definition yes. Chadhood stops when one gets Red Pilled.

KayRay1994 · 2024-07-20T00:22:43+00:00

lemme tell you a secret, most genuine actual “chad” type men don’t even know what a redpill or bluepill is - then again, most of these identifiers are silly and frankly the only people who truly seem to care are people calling themselves a (insert color here) pill

SecondEldenLord · 2024-07-19T23:44:20+00:00

They're not blue pilled, they know exactly how they're getting women, but they want to also feel like they achieved it through sheer skill and work ,which is why they keep telling people all sorts of advice like be yourself and work hard on your personality, but reality is if Chad had awful looks and the same personality, he wouldn't be as succesful with women.

MisterFunnyShoes · 2024-07-20T00:19:02+00:00

They are red pilled. They spend a lot of time with women.

untilfurthernotic3 · 2024-07-20T01:41:06+00:00

I could see them going any direction. I could see a chad becoming blackpilled because of women bending over backwards for them, even cheating on their significant others which would cause them to believe looks are king. I could see them thinking that their game, money, and status are what attract women the most, thus becoming red pilled. And I could also see them being blue pilled for the reasons you mentioned.

Miserable_Cap_8608 · 2024-07-20T11:11:06+00:00

Any ' Chad' with a functioning neuron is black pill. Cause you should realize that your personality/effort never matters and only your looks does to people.

LillthOfBabylon · 2024-07-20T00:45:53+00:00

Listen. Chad is an imaginary goal that a bunch of “red pilled” beta males obsess over.

meteorness123 · 2024-07-20T04:04:41+00:00

Bitterness related to the opposite sex is related to your early relationship or the lack of it with your mother/father. Being "Chad" is irrelevant.

Sadsad0088 · 2024-07-20T08:35:41+00:00

My dream man is “bluepilled” because life has been kind to him, both genetically, socially and economically.

Redpill is something you get into because something isn’t working for you.

Being aware of social dynamics isn’t anything pilled.

flipsidetroll · 2024-07-20T12:54:20+00:00

Something to consider…. All the redpill “leaders” think they are alphas. By their definition, women want them and flock to them. They believe they are desirable and successful. They are chads. So why then would they even think of the red pill? Why would they share it with the “lesser men”? The answer is they either aren’t alphas or they wouldn’t even find the red pill. Either way, it shows an agenda.

GridReXX · 2024-07-19T23:14:30+00:00

Maybe I’m not sure what “blue pilled” means here?

Most of the “Chads” I know I wouldn’t call “blue pilled” if I’m assuming “blue pilled” means “ignorant to the motivations, hows, and whys” of things.

Jazzlike_Worth_9908 · 2024-07-20T07:09:10+00:00

Chad is bluepilled because he's seen himself lose a ton of girls because of his behavior

PrettyBoysenberry867 · 2024-07-20T00:18:59+00:00

A Chad is just a blue pilled incel who's gotten their dick wet through sexual mimicry, which is why they go out of their way to prove that they aren't ideologically the same.

Time_Faithlessness27 · 2024-07-20T01:11:06+00:00

There is no reason for any man to be bitter towards women because a man is not good with getting a woman. I’ve had some real assholes in my life in my past relationships and I’m not bitter towards men; I’m cautious, I take things slow, I’m accountable for my participation in any conflict and choose wether or not certain behaviors are dealt with breakers. I date men for who they are and not what they look like. I’ve surprised myself by who I’ve found myself attracted to after some interesting conversation. When men learn something about me that might be a deal breaker I have to accept it. It hurts, but there are humans all around me and new possibilities around every corner. I’m always working to be the best version of myself. Maybe you guys who are sounding so desperate and betrayed should be looking in the mirror and within instead of blaming women and other attractive men. You’re NEVER going to make anything work with the level of self pity I see in this sub.

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