Men live life on easy mode

AnxiousPeggingSlut · 2025-05-11T11:41:58+00:00

Then why is easy mode so miserable?

HammieFondler · 2025-05-11T14:04:59+00:00

These range from fair and valid points to completely talking out of your ass

-All of the benefits of having kids

Except, you know, custody

-Majority of top paying jobs are held by men

The majority of top paying jobs are held by the 0.1% ruling class, their success is not our success

-Not as much pressure to get plastic surgery and other expensive cosmetic procedures -No pressure to prevent signs of aging

Debatable in the social media era

-Bodily autonomy (In some places women have their whole life ruined because of failed birth control and thus an 18yr sentence of childrearing and financial disaster).

Men have literally zero agency over childbirth after conception (which for the record is how it should be). Men in any part of the world can have their life ruined because of failed birth control too

-Valued for things outside of your looks

If by "things outside your looks" you mean your ability to provide and protect. Or in other words, your ability to make billionaires richer while bringing home whatever scraps they give you back to your family and risk your life in violent confrontations. Does that sound like "easy mode" to you?

-Opposite gender wanting you for who you are (humour, skills etc) and not just your body. Its such a privilege for men to open a dating app and having options of women interested in who they are and not just someone to masturbate in.

First of all, lmao at "opening a dating app and having options." Second of all, for every man that sees women as just holes to fuck, there is a woman who sees men as just a meal ticket. At least when a man takes advantage of you it's only for a night. When a woman takes advantage of us it's for our entire life.

-All of the benefits of dating with none of the downsides. Limited danger because women are weaker. Easier sexual fulfilment. Costs being split. Women still statistically picking up the majority of household chores and childrearing.

All the benefits except, you know, actually going on dates/having sex. And don't bullshit me that it's hard to get sexual fulfillment as a woman. All you have to do is find a guy who's eager to please (I don't buy for a second that this is hard) and make him feel special. As a man it is astronomically harder to find someone who will sleep with you. If your sexual partners aren't pleasing you then quit whining about it and find ones who will. And lmao at "costs being split"

-Less chances of your female partner actively lusting after other men

Clearly you've never watched a movie with a woman before

Logos1789 · 2025-05-11T06:56:18+00:00

Women retain their natural advantage over men, but men have to restrain their natural advantage over women.

WillyDonDilly69 · 2025-05-11T17:06:16+00:00

Tell that to men in ukraine

SamuraiGoblin · 2025-05-11T05:33:20+00:00

Many of these points have a male equivalent. Many of these points are the fault of biology. Many of these points are also the fault of other women.

Many of these are simply nonsensical. And many are outright lies.

Joey-Ramone_ · 2025-05-11T05:34:00+00:00

Biologically, definitely

Socially, definitely not

John_Oakman · 2025-05-11T11:32:24+00:00

The only times that the majority of the males are considered men are when it comes to atoning for the sins of those minority of real men. Thus there is no incentives for anyone to make meaningful changes to deal with those men's advantages.

Slow-Narwhal486 · 2025-05-11T05:56:09+00:00

Everyone struggles. Men struggle, women struggle. Women will think women struggle more, men will think men struggle more. Attempting to debate who suffers more, here of all places, is a fruitless endeavor.

One thing I will add to this list is taking walks at night. I've always been so jealous of men because they can take a walk at night and maybe even look at the stars without worrying about getting sexually assaulted because they're walking alone... (This doesn't always apply to men of color in certain areas...I know. I'm talking about the men who can just take a walk at night without fear). Not saying women have it harder in general, just that I'm jealous of y'all in this case.

caption291 · 2025-05-11T05:28:12+00:00

Most of the points on this list are suffering from an apex fallacy. I won't address every point but by example "If a man sleeps around he's a hero- when a women does she's a slut." is only beneficial to the men who actually can do it...and the downside of that "privilege" is that you're a loser if you can't.

You also seem to have very little empathy for men so you're unaware of what their lives are actually like. By example you seem to think that men don't have "real risks" if they go to a dangerous country...that statement isn't true...it feels true to you because you only notice when bad things happen to women.

ControversialDebator · 2025-05-11T06:54:55+00:00

1.Ok that is a benefit that men have ,not having to deal with periods

2.Yeah dealing with pregnancy sucks but your not forced to be pregnant so its not exactly a disadvantage.

3.Ok

4.What do you mean all of the benefits?? In Divorces women are far more likely than men to have parental control over the child.

5.Ok Post-Partum sucks so I'll say that men have a benefit.

6.And? Even if men had the top-paying jobs which they don't ,how is that a privilege? They most likely worked hard to get those jobs ,and mind you women tend to date guys richer than them so in some cases Men need to have higher paying jobs to be more attractive to women. Not much women would like to date a broke guy compared to vice versa.

7.Again how is this a disadvantage?? You are not FORCED to plastic surgery ,You are not FORCED to wear makeup. It is not a disadvantage any more than its a disadvantage for men to not be "allowed" to wear makeup or enhance their physical appearance.

8.Very unlikely for you to be sexually assaulted on dates ,especially if you pick men who aren't terrible.

9.Yes men do orgasm more during sex but that's because we don't need much to stimulate ourselves as we can cum pretty easily. Plus its women's fault for not being able to orgasm considering they intentionally pick men who don't bother making them Orgasm and then complain about it. Or they don't communicate their desires at all and expect the man to mind-read them. "Oh but the man doesn't care" then don't have sex with him and find a Man who will.

10.How is it a Disadvantage that you have men who find you attractive and are willing to spend money and attention on you? And people have a right to value you only your looks ,its NOT a sign of oppression anymore than people finding you unattractive. Should men be forced to like women beyond their looks? If so should women be forced to date ugly men ,after all they should look beyond their looks right?

11.There is no pressure to delay Aging for women as well ,no-one is putting a gun to your head and demanding you not age. People have a right to have an opinion and if men don't find older women attractive that is their right. Again women have a right to not find short men attractive so its the same.

12.You will be less likely to have STDs if you don't have sex ,which most men don't by the way.

13.OK that is an advantage for men.

14.Bodily Autonomy is not entirely a benefit for men considering that we endure Circumcision which violates our consent. Plus if a man has sex with a women and she gets pregnant and she keeps the baby but he doesn't want to be a father he is required to pay her child support. For a child he did not want.

I could go on but even then its all just stuff that are just easily ridiculous. You thinking its terrible that men look at pictures of women in bikinis is just prove you hate male sexuality. And women doing the majority of childrearing and domestic chores is not a sign of oppression because they also choose to do it. They are not forced to so its ridiculous to say its a sign of oppression.

I could outline Male Disadvantages like Women viewing you and your Sexuality as Predatory ,Higher Suicide Rates ,Higher Incarceration Rates ,rarely getting any Sex from any Women at all ,Higher Loneliness Rates ,Higher Rates of Conscription and socially it being taboo to cry or show signs of weakness.

BigMadLad · 2025-05-11T06:17:12+00:00

More importantly what the fuck is that background pick on your profile??? I’m not taking anything you say seriously with that lol

RareBasis9710 · 2025-05-11T11:39:15+00:00

This thread is a dumpster fire lmao

EulenWatcher · 2025-05-11T05:21:48+00:00

There’s no point in trying to prove that men or women have it worse overall. Both genders have problems, a lot of these problems are shared, some are overlapping and/or heavily influenced by one another and some are unique for one gender. We should concentrate on actually addressing the problems, and we should do it both for men and women. Victimhood competition just adds fuel to the divide and hate between the genders, which makes it worse for everyone, men and women.

I’m a woman and I can come up with a bunch of problems that make men’s lives worse: draft (look at Ukrainian and Russian men right now), compulsory conscription in many countries, higher risks of being beaten up or killed, higher rates of homelessness, suicides and addictions, little to no help for male DV or SA victims, stricter gender role expectations etc.

Men are people, and they have problems too. If you cannot see it or relate to it, you should take a break from social medias and socialize with people in real life more.

abaxeron · 2025-05-11T07:41:59+00:00

"Women have all the power (voter is a position of power), so if they had any problems, they would do something about it."

HendriXP88 · 2025-05-11T08:44:55+00:00

-No periods

I give you that one.

-No pregnancy

Also fair. It's a choice but I'll give you this one as well.

-No menopause

Men also have menopause. It's called andropause.

-All of the benefits of having kids

Absolutely not. Not even almost. In what way is this a reality?

-No post partum body

I got really bloated after my girlfriend was pregnant, but that might be a personal issue. I give you this one.

-Majority of top paying jobs are held by men

Yes, and a miniscule minority of men occupy them. Most of us are just struggling to get by.

-Not as much pressure to get plastic surgery and other expensive cosmetic procedures

True. Instead we're pressured to have a six pack and a strong jawline. Have you ever tried to exercise your jawline? It's a bitch...

-Not as much risk of being sexually assaulted by dates

Never actually been on a date so I'm not familiar with that situation but I'll trust your judgement.

-Orgasm mostly every time you have sex

Well this is interesting. True but not the entire picture. During intercourse, men are responsible for their own orgasm. A man has usually touched himself since he was basically 12. He knows his own body. The man is also, usually, responsible for the woman's orgasm. Hopefully, he hasn't touched her body since he was 12 and therefore is less familiar with it.

-Valued for things outside of your looks

Yes, but this is a double edged sword. Men will NEVER be valued for their looks. Every man has that one memory of when he received a compliment for his appearance. It's usually many years ago and he remembers it dearly because, in many cases, it was the only one he ever got. I was catcalled once. A group of girls whistled at me and one of them said, "I'd bring that thing home immediately." I swear I would win a hand to hand fight with a fucking grizzly bear that night.

The red pill spewes bullshit 99,7% of the time. But they are correct about one thing. Men have no inherent value.

-No pressure to prevent signs of aging

No, but we are pressured to prevent the opposite. Boys are pressured to look like grown men when they're very young.

-Less likely to get stds due to anatomy

Actually didn't know this was the case but apparently it is.

-Freedom to travel to dangerous countries whereas for women their are real risks of rape, assault and trafficking

Yes. We get beaten and murdered instead. Such joy.

-Bodily autonomy (In some places women have their whole life ruined because of failed birth control and thus an 18yr sentence of childrearing and financial disaster).

24 countries have a complete ban on abortion. "Some" indeed. 0 is another number. Wanna know what it represents? The number of that has banned male circumcision. As long as MGM is legal there is no male bodily autonomy.

-Opposite gender wanting you for who you are (humour, skills etc) and not just your body. Its such a privilege for men to open a dating app and having options of women interested in who they are and not just someone to masturbate in.

As i said before, to never be appreciated fir your appearance is not a privilege.

-Being coddled. "men mature slower" Is just a way of excusing poor behavior and immaturity. Whereas women are supposed to be mature at young ages.

In no way are boys being coddled. It's like pitbull and the chihuahua. The pitbull (men) are expected to be violent and are therefore closely monitored for that behavior. The chihuahua (women) are not expected to act violently and is therefore allowed to display acts of violence without repercussions. I work at a school and see it daily.

-No judgment for sleeping around. If a man sleeps around he's a hero- when a women does she's a slut.

But we do get judged for it. Not as much as women but I think there is an explanation for that. Women in general don't seem to care that much about potential partners sexual past while men do.

-Not having to take on the womens last name. I dont think men get how demeaning it is to lose some of your individuality by having to take a guys name. And if you dont you apparently dont "love" your partner.

This seem to be cultural thing. I've never encountered a women being shamed into changing her name. Is this a personal experience?

-No pressure to be on harmful birth control that has a long list of harmful side affects. Because "condoms dont feel good".

Sure, I'll get on male birth control as soon as they're able to create it.

-Less judgement for choosing not to have kids. When a women decides not to have kids shes a cat lady.

We're both somewhat shamed for not having kids.

-All of the benefits of dating with none of the downsides. Limited danger because women are weaker. Easier sexual fulfilment. Costs being split. Women still statistically picking up the majority of household chores and childrearing.

Except that the market is so much smaller if you're a man. The "most women don't go for most men"-thing. Plus that I'm expected to work more than my spouse.

-Less chances of your female partner actively lusting after other men. Because women aren't generally paying for guys only fans or following hundreds of hot ripped 6'4 guys on social media. But its almost normal nowadays to look through a guys following and see hundreds of cosmetically enhanced women in bikinis with only fans links in bios.

So it's a privilege for women to be able to make a living solely on your appearance?

-Less risk of getting spiked and groped at bars.

And an increasingly higher risk of getting physically assaulted or beaten to death at the same location.

Summary: Neither men nor women live on easy mode. Our obstacles and issues differ from each other. Women has issues that men doesn't. Men has issues that women doesn't. Some of our issues are shared. To say that one of them are living on easy mode is just another chapter in this endless gender war bullshit.

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2025-05-11T13:24:37+00:00

How about you reply to the long comments and everything listed in them? Instead of cherry picking short comments, which you also don’t fully reply to. Just the pieces that you think you have an argument against.

Junior_Ad_3086 · 2025-05-11T06:35:49+00:00

very cherry picked list but privilege is invisible to those who have it of course. some of these points are also pretty questionable. for example:

while men might hold the majority of top level jobs, they're also the majority of the homeless. on top of that male suicide rates are higher and most people in prison are men (and women tend to get less severe sentences). so maybe you should look at both sides of the coin.

nobody is forcing women to get plastic surgery or use a bunch of makeup to the point they're unrecognizable. it's voluntary. in fact you could turn this around and say that women have more opportunities that are socially accepted to enhance their appearance.

while men are almost guaranteed to orgasm during sex, women have a much easier time getting laid. the difference is astronomical and women can easily sleep with men who are significantly more attractive than them.

women are value for things outside their looks too, especially in their careers, by friends and family but even by romantic partners. if you go for people who only value that aspect, that's your issue - plenty of women are loved by their boyfriends and husbands.

men have no say when it comes to pregnancies and plenty of countries/states have legalized abortion. in those cases the mother can opt out of having a child altogether but the man has no say and might have to pay financial support for 18 years.

the fact that you mention being coddled is quite hilarious. women are constantly coddled by society, bailed out of their bad decisions, subsidized financially by men, getting lenient treatment in front of courts, benefitting from the 'women are wonderful' effect etc.

when it comes to being judged, men and women are judged for different things. sure, you might get 'slut shamed' as a woman but try crying hysterically in public as a man vs a woman and tell me about the reactions you expect in the respective situations for example.

you don't have to give up your last name, lots of women are keeping theirs or hyphenating. in fact you don't have to get married at all! and society will celebrate your childfree boss babe lifestyle while men are told they're immature and irresponsible for opting out. the whole judgement for not having kids vastly depends on who you ask.

you don't have to be on birth control either, there are other forms of contraception. the fact that some men don't want to use those is not something you have to put up with. in fact you can insist on condoms and still have many more sexual opportunities than your male equivalent.

all of the benefits of dating except having less options, being expected to pursue, initiate, plan dates, in many cases pay for them, having to create a spark and being confident/making sure the date isn't boring (women get much more leniency on this from men than vice-versa)

on top of all of this men get discriminated against in family court and when it comes to parental leave (depending on jurisdiction), we're expected to be tough/stoic and in control of our mental health, our lives are shorter on average, there are financial expectations set by women that aren't as severe when swapping the genders, there have been (and still are in some cases) DEI practices that favor women based on their gender while men are more likely to be working dangerous jobs.

darthsyn · 2025-05-11T05:33:04+00:00

Norah Vincent.

growframe · 2025-05-11T07:11:30+00:00

Opposite gender wanting you for who you are (humour, skills etc) and not just your body. Its such a privilege for men to open a dating app and having options of women interested in who they are and not just someone to masturbate in.

Lol

No judgment for sleeping around. If a man sleeps around he's a hero- when a women does she's a slut.

This stems from male and female selection. If women cared about male promiscuity, society would judge it.

Not having to take on the womens last name. I dont think men get how demeaning it is to lose some of your individuality by having to take a guys name. And if you dont you apparently dont "love" your partner.

I have literally never seen someone care about this.

WillyDonDilly69 · 2025-05-11T09:10:26+00:00

I mean men do have biological advantages, everyone knows that but they clearly lack social and legal advantages. Also in the comments you say that men can't be rape victims or domestic assault victims because they can just leave which is laughable.

shadowguyver · 2025-05-11T20:13:09+00:00

From my experiences

Shortly after birth my genitals were mutilated. Right now girls are protected by laws that are unconstitutional because they violate equal protection. I fought for 10 years to get boys and intersex children equal protections to what girls have as the Equal Protection Clause of the Constitution guarantees. Instead society seems to think boys and intersex children deserve less bodily autonomy than girls and that removing erogenous tissue and multiple light touch nerve bundles is ok, while protecting girls from less. I still suffer physical pain and damage still today. My mother got pissed I didn't tell her because WEin her words could have made money. She wanted to get paid for her decision which has ruined me feeling and sensitivity during sex.

Raped at 9yo and told by women all my life because I'm male it wasn't rape.

Gang beaten at 16 and had no support, was told it was my fault.

Sexually assaulted by a girl in front of a 2hole class while the teacher was out and not one other person called her out and no one helped me.

Took a soccer ball full force to my nuts in high school and the girls wete all making joke in front of the couch telling to stop faking because I have nothing to hurt and the coach did nothing.

Had a girl write me a 6 page note on why she would not date me as well as fuck me.

Had a girl falsely accuse me of harassment in school, her parents and my parents were there and I was not allowed to defend my self.

Had a gf yell rape out a car window while I was driving because she thought it was funny and almost got my ass beat.

At age 11 the therapist that was supposed to help me deal with the rape did jack shit, instead she just sat there and let me retreat into my jacket which was my safe space.

Did rideshare and was sexually assaulted and harassed by women and when I talk about it I was asked one time if one of the women pulled out her dick as if to imply only men SA.

Had women do kilt checks on me without asking.

I have been physically, mentally, and financially abused by women and I was blamed for it.

Been told by women my experiences don't matter.

Been called misogynistic because I include boys and intersex children in my fight against genital mutilation, because society only believes girls are harmed.

We are told we are responsible for other mens actions yet I never see women saying the same about other women.

I had to sign up under penalty of law for selective service in order to vote, you don't have the same obligations or are threatened to sign up or be fine, jail time, refusal of work, refusal of grants, refusal of citizenship.

And much more.

frozen189 · 2025-05-11T05:40:17+00:00

Everything you said is true.

Men have just one disadvantage.

All grown men are “loved” based on how good they continue to perform in their lives. We are very very rarely loved for who we are.

That balances the scale.

Livid-Log7463 · 2025-05-11T06:03:45+00:00

Most of these are simple apex fallacy comparing women to very above average men like:

-Majority of top paying jobs held by men, because the majority of outstanding workers for those jobs are men because men are more varied.

-Valued for things outside their looks, only if above average otherwise if you’re anywhere near average or below you aren’t valued at all.

-opposite gender wanting you for who you are not just your body, again aside from your body also being who you are this is again only above average otherwise you aren’t wanted at all. Ever.

-Being coddled, The difference here being women continue to be coddled their entire life’s.

-No judgement for sleeping around, exclusively judged for not being able to with far worse consequences.

-All the benefits of dating with non of the downsides, except for exclusivity being susceptible to the worst downside of all by far of not being able to date at all.

Outside_Memory5703 · 2025-05-11T15:41:34+00:00

Men live non-sex life on easy mode

But because sex is so important to them, their lives appear to be hard mode to them

Downtown-Airport-740 · 2025-05-11T09:30:21+00:00

Women had the fight for their right to vote. Women had to fight to get into schools. Women had to fight to get into workplaces. 1 in 3 women have been subjected to physical or sexual assault across the globe. By the time they are 19 years old, almost 1 in 4 adolescent girls (24 per cent) who have been in a relationship have already been physically, sexually, or psychologically abused by a partner. But , of course, men and women have it the same.

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Gold_Sheepherder6569 · 2025-05-11T06:02:15+00:00

I don't think any sex generally lives on easy mode just that there are things that suck for different sexes. Like I would generally agree women suffer more both due to biology and social expectations but for almost everything you wrote(aside from the female biology stuff), there is a male equivalent

Superannuated_punk · 2025-05-11T10:45:23+00:00

Yeah. It’s awesome.

Grow_peace_in_Bedlam · 2025-05-11T19:05:12+00:00

Part 1

-No periods
-No pregnancy

-No menopause

But also dying earlier.

-All of the benefits of having kids

Still expected to do the majority of providing, even after they get to an age where they don't need constant supervision.

-No post partum body

True

-Majority of top paying jobs are held by men

But most men don't hold top-paying jobs. Besides, for all those top-earning men who are straight, there is a woman who gets to enjoy the very same lifestyle without any of the stress.

-Not as much pressure to get plastic surgery and other expensive cosmetic procedures

Maybe that used to be the case, but I'm not so sure anymore.

-Not as much risk of being sexually assaulted by dates

But we're still more likely to be assaulted in every other way and to be murdered.

-Orgasm mostly every time you have sex

I've had sex with multiple women. Only the woman who became my wife has caused me to orgasm during sex.

-Valued for things outside of your looks

Like women over 60. I don't see too many women deliberately choosing to destroy their sex appeal.

-No pressure to prevent signs of aging

More like it's taboo to care too much about preventing them because it's seen as feminine, and then we are criticized when we do show aging after acting to avoid giving the ick for seeming gay.

-Less likely to get stds due to anatomy

That's just biology. At least no one is telling women to get mutilated to protect men's urological health.

-Freedom to travel to dangerous countries whereas for women their are real risks of rape, assault and trafficking

You think there's no risk of those things in dangerous countries? I've seen plenty of stories here in Mexico about male tourists getting murdered or assaulted. Most homicide victims in Mexico are men (88%, despite that whole narrative of a femicide epidemic), and I see no reason why that would be different among tourists.

-Bodily autonomy (In some places women have their whole life ruined because of failed birth control and thus an 18yr sentence of childrearing and financial disaster).

Others have already mentioned the fact that no boy on Earth is legally protected from circumcision, i.e. genital mutilation, even in so-called "civilized" countries. Plus, it's not like men don't have serious consequences if a woman gets pregnant and she wants and insists on having the baby despite his wishes not to be a father.

Kaminaxgurren · 2025-05-12T05:16:48+00:00

You wrote out a list of all the pros you could think of of being male, and all of them are correct. Anyone could write out a list of pros to being a woman. There are pros and cons to everything, but we tend to be prone to falling victim to 'grass is greener' mentality.

Acrobatic-Writer7734 · 2025-05-14T21:24:41+00:00

Couldn't tell how easy I had it. Thank you so much for opening my eyes to all my privelege.

Hey is it my turn to make the equivalent "all women don't understand shit about men's struggles!" post, or would that be down voted to oblivion too?

I think people visiting here need to get it clear in their minds.

Ppd is where we all meet to reconcile ideas and discrepancies.

We're not here to just mindless bash one sex or another.

Presenting such posts that are all encompassing with zero nuance or tact would be one such example of the mindless one sided bashing.

We can and should be better than that.

Surely you hate seeing posts from men saying "all women have it so easy" and so on so forth.

This is not a post you make here hoping to change hearts and minds. It's a lash out.

Take 10, breathe, then delete this.

Mionux · 2025-05-15T15:31:47+00:00

I see a lot of sex references to why. Why are men easier, if most can't even experience a part of their body/humanity even if they want to? But the woman can if she so chooses?

I'd prefer the ability to choose to exercise my body in natural ways, instead of being forced to adapt myself to regulate my biology for something that I cannot achieve. Emotional intimacy is seriously underrepresented in a causation for WHY men become so jaded. Lack of good brain chems and feeling of true connection.

Men are seen as failures for not having children. Same.

Most men don't have options.

STD's, I'd argue are from frequency as well as anatomy, so yeah less risk.

Freedom to travel to dangerous countries. People are stupid regardless of gender, I see stories of both men and women doing stupid shit in foreign countries and it ending badly all the time.

Bodily autonomy, ultimately a choice to have sex, miss. Women just have the luxury of being the final yes or no.

Man who doesn't wear condoms shouldn't be getting laid. Letting them dictate your body.

And coddling? Have you seen most men? Do the emotionally numb men of the world seem coddled to you? That's certainly interesting. You must not interact with average men regularly.

Most men don't date, and being disposable if you're not perfect when a woman has multiple options isn't exactly a benefit. Guys play it cool, but it's a constant struggle of 'is she not interested?', 'is she seeing someone else?', 'Did I do something wrong?', which is psychologically draining and why men often disengage from apps. They turn them bitter(er). Household chores and child rearing are things you should be screening for if you want that to be even.

Stats show with advent of social media young women are having an exceptional spike in cheating, so lust is there. It's human.

Yeah men don't get spiked at bars. They have the luxury of dealing with violent drunk men at bars. And my cousin got spiked and assaulted by a gay guy at a bar, so that's off the table. He is straight. Stop accepting strange drinks.

TL;DR they're both hard. I'd rather have the ability to make mistakes then not play the game. To say otherwise to someone who can't looks tone deaf.

zzz_red · 2025-05-19T09:26:44+00:00

Long winded way to say “I’m ignorant af”.

Adorable-Research-55 · 2025-05-19T10:45:24+00:00

I would recommend a book to widen your perspective but you don't seem like the reading type, or personal growth type

Dear-Quality-135 · 2025-05-20T07:38:14+00:00

Being a man is pretty great

Accomplished_Bass46 · 2025-05-20T19:19:56+00:00

Stupidest post ever

Cecayotl · 2025-05-22T09:58:20+00:00

Western feminists when a global south feminist tells them there are more factors in society than sex (race, age, wealth, connections, religion, skin color, etc.)

joshua0005 · 2025-05-23T02:56:44+00:00

ma'am i can assure you that i have not had a single person value me on dating apps. i've left the app one singular time and we stopped talking after like a day lol

Remignosh · 2025-07-08T02:31:08+00:00

The male ejaculation cycle is the equivalent of the female menstruation cycle. Nature mandates a loss of energy and centeredness with women monthly, but men play the strings themselves and can experience depths of emptiness and energy deficits women can't imagine.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-05-11T05:30:45+00:00

You're wrong about all of this, and I could write a book about each. But lets have fun with just one of these:

"-Orgasm mostly every time you have sex"

Women have more opportunities to have sex than men. Having sex and not having an orgasm is far better than not being able to have sex in the first place.
A substantial amount of women are on the non hetero spectrum Over 30% according to recent studies. The zeitgeist says women give women the best orgasms. So you can simply choose women.
20% of hetero women have orgasms from penetration, so they don't have an orgasm problem.
36.6% of hetero women just need to pick more sexually experienced men to orgasm from penetration.
It's the 44.4% of women who have a hard time orgasming with men, and most of that is because:

a) there's on meds that hinder orgasm ability.

b) they aren't hetero to begin with, which sexuality effects how good or bad the sex is.

c) they have a mental block.

d) they don't have enough experience to learn how their body works.

All fixable.

e) the only women in that demographic who have the bad luck are hetero women who's bodies formed in a way that doesn't allow for orgasm at all. And that's a small percentage.

Junior_Ad_3086 · 2025-05-11T06:10:28+00:00

very cherry picked list but privilege is invisible to those who have it of course. some of these points are also pretty questionable. if you think that women don't have any advantages in life, idk what to tell you but i cba making a list. maybe somebody else will.

wtknight · 2025-05-12T02:52:25+00:00

High value men live life on easy mode. Lower value men, not as much.

J-MAMA · 2025-05-12T16:05:29+00:00

Want to trade?

RelativeShock3940 · 2025-05-19T15:49:04+00:00

I am grateful to be a woman every single day.

-I barely notice my period and very rarely ever get cramps. If yours are that bad you might have an underlying condition.

-you don’t have to get pregnant if you don’t want to.

-yes women have menopause but we also live longer and are healthier for longer.

-the women who choose to have kids also love and enjoy their kids.

-men get flabby too, and statistically are more likely to.

-you can get into a higher paying job if you’re willing to take out in the time and effort.

-men are just insecure, but about different things. Women may be more worried about wrinkles and having a big nose but men are worried about looking too skinny, too short, having a small dick or weak chin. If yours look at looksmaxing forums for men you’ll see that their self loathing for their own appearance is just as bad, if not significantly more violent.

-true men are less likely to be the victim of violence compared to women but they are still often victims. Also less likely to go on dates.

-Personally, I cum almost every time I have sex with my husband. Just don’t sleep with people who don’t care about you or your pleasure.

-Obviously women are valued for more than their looks. My boss doesn’t care what I look like, he’s gay and married so he’s not even the slightest bit attracted to me, but obviously that doesn’t matter because he only values that I do my job well. My family values me for being smart and kind. My husband values my looks a lot but he also values that I make his life better.

-Men feel pressure to not show the signs of aging, it’s just different than us. They might worry less about skin smoothness as it’s acceptable for men to be rugged, but they do worry about balding, sexual performance, weakness, getting fat, chronic pain and other health issues.

-Statistically men are more likely to have STDs.

-Men may not be as likely to get sexually assaulted but it’s not like they are invincible. They can still get mugged or have their organs sold to the black market if they aren’t careful.

-If all the men you sleep with genuinely don’t want you for anything other than for sex, maybe it’s time to do some self reflection. What are they looking for in a friend or partner that you’re not providing? In my experience, men are fairly easy to please. My husband still gushes about the first time I made him a sandwich, his hands were dirty from working on the car so I hand fed it to him. It’s was super simple but he acts like it was the most romantic thing in the world.

-True women have the burden of pregnancy, but at least you always know that you really are the mother. Think of it on the flip side, an 18 year old boy may be held financially responsible for a child that’s not even his.

-I’m fairly coddled as a woman. I don’t drive, my husband drives me everywhere. I don’t have to lift my own heavy things, there’s usually a man around who will offer to do it for me. Nobody expects me to be strong, my husband says I can be a stay at home wife if I want. I think women, way more often then men, can live a soft life. Men can be househusbands but that’s way less common and people do question their masculinity if they aren’t the breadwinner.

-Personally, I judge men for sleeping around. I once went on a date with a man who told me he had been with around 70 or 80 people but lost count. I was disgusted and there was no second date.

-I haven’t taken my husbands last name. It’s up to you. He could take mine if he wants, and we discussed it but decided we would do it at a later time if at all.

-That’s true the burden of birth control is primarily on women. I don’t have much of a rebuttal for that.

-I don’t judge women for choosing not to have kids, and I don’t think most people do, but I could be wrong.

-I have never gone 50/50 with a man. If they weren’t the provider type, I wouldn’t date them.

-In my relationship I was actually the one who had to learn to stop consuming sexual content. I know it’s probably usually the other way around and I’m just a hyper sexual freak, I’ve never met anyone who gooned as much I did. My husband very rarely ever watched porn, and didn’t follow women in bikinis. He did used to follow a lot of women but it was mostly them doing cute things like comedy skits or posting cute couple stuff, and he deleted instagram now.

-Men get sexually harassed by entitled women all the time, as if men are completely willing to have sex with anyone at any time some women will be way too forward or grope them because they think he will be receptive to it, and if he admits to being uncomfortable, his masculinity will be questioned. Even male children as victims aren’t taken seriously, because people project that he must have enjoyed it. Men are also victims to other men, which is often be far to humiliating for them to ever admit for fear of being seen as gay or less of a man.

tldr; men have issues too, and overall I’m thankful to have been born a woman.

Odd-Talk-3981 · 2025-05-11T11:36:17+00:00

Off the top of my head, I'd add these:

- Walking or doing anything in public without being catcalled (most men seem to conveniently forget that no attention is still better than unwanted attention).

- Being able to use vocal communication in team-based video games without being harassed just because you happen to be a girl/woman.

Title	Men live life on easy mode
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Date	May 11, 2025 5:14 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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