So I guess there are some obvious things:

  1. Being able to walk away financially from a woman who refuses to get an abortion even after previously having a discussion where you both agreed to not wanting children

  2. Getting a fairer shake in divorce court

  3. Not having your reputation completely ruined from a sexual assault allegation in instances where no proof has been put forward

Aside from all that though, what exactly do the type of men you see in red pill comment sections want? It just seems like a lot of complaining to me. I think deep down, they all want a stable, loving, deep, exciting relationship with a woman, but they can’t get it. But rather than admit that, they instead say things like they’ve voluntarily walked away from dating because they don’t want to deal with women who are promiscuous, shallow, and hypergamous. It’s kinda like saying “you can’t fire me, I quit!”

While these type of women do exist, I’m not convinced that most of these men wouldn’t jump into bed with women like that if given the opportunity. These same men that talk about wanting a good submissive Christian girl with a low body count, and make fun of women like Megan Thee Stallion, would undoubtedly hook up with Megan Thee Stallion if given the opportunity, and would even consider having a serious relationship with her if they got along well.

I think most men are just lonely. And the thing about loneliness is it leads to disappointment. Disappointment leads to bitterness, bitterness leads to anger, and anger leads to hate.

So my question is, when these men bring up topics like the male loneliness epidemic, what exactly do you want society to do about it?

Personally, I think the problem is multifaceted.

  1. There are no third spaces for people to hang out and socialize with others in the community. Places where you can just hang out and not be forced to buy anything (unlike a bar).

  2. The internet has made it easy to stay inside rather than going out

  3. The economy. Men and women are overworked and underpaid. This wears on you heavily. By the time you get out of work, you just want to go home and relax. Going out and meeting people takes effort and energy (and money, since there are no third spaces anymore).

  4. Not to sound weird, but I think men are jacking off too much. From personal experience, I fully believe it makes you feel less confident and less masculine. You also just look physically drained. You just look kinda dull. Of course people have always jacked off, but I think internet porn (along with social isolation) has made it way more common. I reckon the average man today jacks off a lot more than the average guy 50 years ago. Again, keep in mind, this is just a theory.

  5. Due to social isolation, many men just aren’t that great at socializing and holding a conversation. Conversation is a skill that needs to be practiced.

Anyway, I went on a bit of a rant there. This question has just been on my mind a lot recently: What do RP men want? Seems to me like the answer is connection. But rather than blame the powers that be/the financial elite for shaping the country (the United States, that is), into what it looks like today, they blame women instead, because it’s easier and requires less critical thinking.