Seriously. Find women, even very attractive women, and genuinely approach the relationship with the idea that no matter what, you will not try to sleep with them or date them, even if they come onto you. Even if you start catching feelings.

Women are amazing friends. It’s a different kind of friendship than friendship with men. Do social shit with them. Talk to them about your dating challenges and dating successes. They’ll tell you theirs.

The benefits are incredible. First, you get good friends. People who have your back and care about you. Second, you get to desensitize yourself to interacting with women if you struggle with that or have anxiety there. And lastly, you’ll meet tons of women through them over time, and you’ll already be viewed as safe and not-creepy,

Like seriously - if you’re struggling right now, forget getting laid and just try to make some friends with women.