In a recent thread of mine I asked what depictions of men straight women "lusted after." And there were a lot of answers. Many of them, maybe even most, were "Women don't lust like that. Men like tiddy and booty. Women like the 'character archetype' a man and his assets/personality/penis convey." Which, if true, would imply to me that women by and large need to get to know a guy and build an image/concept of him in her head before she has sex with him.

But women do "hook up," from what I hear. As in, they meet a guy in some kind of social situation and decide to have sex with him that very night. Not enough time to build an "idea" of a man. Maybe the women who hook up aren't hung up on that, I don't know. So it's the perspectives of these women, these women who meet and fuck a guy the same day/night, that I'm interested in.

So ladies, if you have ever found yourself at a nightclub or bar or whatever, meeting a guy and going back to his place, or if you ever hope to try this out in the future, what are you looking for? Because I always found it pretty intriguing that adults with adult lives will make time and reschedule their routines for sex they didn't initially plan on having. You go to the club, your mind is OPEN to sex, but it's not necessarily what you came here in search of. You meet a guy, and you're like "You know what? I will have actual sex with this person."

To that point, I'm not really interested in situations where sex is the point of the social situation. Clubs are "conducive" to hooking up, but it's not the same as, say... a swingers party or something, where you're explicitly encouraged to find someone to have sex with. Where that's the point of the whole event. If you're browsing "IllLiterallyFuckAnythingThatMoves.com" or something, the answer is clear for what you're looking for. You just happen to be in need of some physical release with someone who can release you. Attraction to the person isn't a factor.