How would you feel finding out a potential partner once appeared on "Gone Wild" DVDs?

hypotenoos · 2022-12-05T20:16:55+00:00

One of my roommates in college did solo fetish porn where the girls were covered in various foods.

It paid the bills. Never late on the rent. Though the girls in her sorority tried to get her kicked out.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-12-05T20:44:01+00:00

Girls gone wild, that's a fucking throwback I haven't thought about for years lol, it wouldn't be ideal, but my wife wouldn't have been of legal age to be on Girls Gone Wild before we got married, so maybe some nice lawsuit money coming

CLyD3_H3ffalump · 2022-12-05T21:06:03+00:00

I don't wanna associate with these people in my day to day, so yeah I'm out.

JDWhiz96 · 2022-12-05T20:58:59+00:00

If she told me that those types of incidents occurred before I saw the video, that’s on me for still being with her.

However, if she never told me/lied about not partaking and then I discovered the videos? She for the streets, no questions asked.

drew8311 · 2022-12-05T20:32:58+00:00

Seems pretty minor compared to OnlyFans, I think it was more of a spontaneous thing rather than "I'm going to put a lot of work into making this a side business for myself"

Gilmoregirlin · 2022-12-05T21:07:46+00:00

I actually was in a girls gone wild video, one of the first ones, I am 45 and it was during spring break and I had zero idea that I was being recorded for girls gone wild. That being said we did have to sign a consent form advising us that we could be being recorded, albeit not for commercial use. I was part of a wet t shirt contest where they cut your t shirt from the top and you wore the rest for your underwear. They dumped ice and water on you. I am only in it for a few seconds at most. It was only because several people I know from college were actually in the audience when it happened and where watching the video recognized the contest and knew to look for me. Up until that time I thought the only evidence was a few pictures that my friends and I had, the negatives were destroyed.

I suppose to be honest if I had wanted to fight them about using the footage I likely could, but I don't regret it. It's part of who I am and I am not ashamed. I did not do girl on girl action but plenty of the ladies there did. I have a great career now and maybe if I decided to run for office someday someone would find that old grainy video, but I doubt it would happen, meaning me run for office. I have told most of the men I have dated and my ex husband but not because I thought they would care just because it was a funny anecdote about my past. I would not though date someone that had an issue with it. It was so so long ago and we all do things in our youth we would not do now.

baresquad · 2022-12-05T20:20:56+00:00

I’m way too young for anybody that was in girls gone wild, but I don’t see what the big deal is.

It was a big part of early-mid 2000s party culture. At least they would have gotten paid(?) for flashing as opposed to probably doing it for free off camera. There’s no reason to obsess over small intimate details like this of other peoples’ lives. Like if you’re 2 years into a relationship or marriage, everything is ruined because you find out that person was a bit wild when they were younger?

If it matters to them, the afflicted person should have vetted better. This is the type of stuff that you make sure to find out about a person before you commit to them if it matters that much to you.

Caetraaa · 2022-12-05T20:12:38+00:00

No, I was born in 2005 and I don't want to date someone my parents age.

womandatory · 2022-12-05T22:36:41+00:00

I wouldn’t date anyone who produced, starred in or consumed porn. Most of us did stupid stuff in our late teens and early twenties, but I draw the line at being somewhere that could mean it’s recorded. That’s beyond stupid.

purplepillowed · 2022-12-05T20:36:59+00:00

If she did porn, I’d question if we have the same values. The longer segments were paid porn stars.

If she flashed her tits on GGW, I’d be amused.

TheRedPillRipper · 2022-12-05T21:13:58+00:00

a potential partner

Dealbreaker. If something of that nature appeared in a public forum; it would adversely affect our reputation. It doesn’t matter if ‘it just happened’, decades ago. Where I’m from people are held to account, for their actions.

Godspeed and good luck!

propyl21 · 2022-12-05T20:09:30+00:00

I wouldn't think anything of it. Good on her for having a good time and letting her hair down when she was younger, just as I would have been having fun at the same age, living my youth. And then when we'd meet, we would share our experiences.

If I were to instantly judge her after we shared our pasts, I'd be a bigot. And I'm sure you'd agree, that's highly hypocritical.

TotalTravesty · 2022-12-05T20:35:58+00:00

Well considering the history behind those videos my first concern would be if she was recorded with consent and not assaulted. Otherwise, meh. The college years are for getting weird with shit.

themostgianthorse · 2022-12-05T20:37:21+00:00

I would drop her. There are 4 billion women in the world and not all of them do shit like this.

Ok-Device1258 · 2022-12-05T20:44:20+00:00

she better act like that with me. she can't then become modest and expect me to wait for her while she threw herself at other men

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-12-05T21:57:54+00:00

My tits are absolutely floating around on some GGW B-reel, but I've also been married for 17 years to the guy who encouraged me to flash them in the first place. 🤷

In fact I'm pretty sure that B-reel contains footage of a faux lesbian kiss with my husband's ex-g/f.

Ahh the things we did to impress drunk frat bros.

judge_me_harshly · 2022-12-05T20:08:01+00:00

I'd drop them immediately. My children are not going to be embarrassed by their mother. Same thing applies to porn, onlyfans, or even just sexting with exes.

I honestly don't think I could even get hard for a girl who was on GGW. Hard to feel attracted to someone who has probably been ridden more than public transportation. When I get married, I'm not trying to lose half my shit and promiscuous women are more likely to leave a marriage than traditional women.

Also, a woman flashing her tits for attention just screams pathetic to me. It's like the guy friend who lies about life experiences to make himself seem cooler.

2022-12-06T06:24:05+00:00

Disgusted

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-12-05T21:21:18+00:00

I would wet myself laughing and never let them live it down

Return_of_Hoppetar · 2022-12-05T21:38:01+00:00

Twenty years ago? I don't think I'd have any particular reaction really. We were all young and talented once (and I like to think we still are, in the big scheme of things), good thing they did what they wanted to do, as long as everyone came out fine.

I think I might find a guy-on-guy video a slight bit funny though because it would be so odd.

And no, my reaction would not change if my relation to the person was anything else. If it was a friend, I might feel more comfortable asking them all about the experience though. I'd be afraid that asking it in a relationship could give the impression that the reason I was interested in it would be that I would see it as a problem, when really I would just be curious.

masterlaster1199 · 2022-12-06T02:31:04+00:00

I screen people enough to know for sure that a person will never appear on a porn tape.

AidsVictim · 2022-12-05T20:10:18+00:00

Something most men do not understand is a woman feels the same to make love to if she has been with one man or a thousand men.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-05T20:02:06+00:00

it wasn’t filmed but when my wife was on spring break her and her friends flashed some people. Considering I saw my fair share of “gone wild” things when I was in spring break (including a sorority friend of mine trade bikini bottoms with a girl right there on beach, then her bikini top with another later) it just seems like a sexy good time.

also from what I heard the ones that did the more hardcore stuff were actually paid to. So it’s just porn stars doing what they do.

wtknight · 2022-12-05T21:20:48+00:00

I don’t think the women who did that are my personality matches, but I’m not ethically opposed to it as long as she wasn’t having casual sex with any of the guys while she was doing it.

2022-12-05T21:25:13+00:00

I'm too young to really have been or know anyone involved with that stuff, and so is my partner.

Honestly if for some reason he was involved in something like that I'd just find it amusing.

NJFlowerchild · 2022-12-05T21:55:08+00:00

I wouldn't care as long as they didn't engage in casual sex of any kind.

RocinanteCoffee · 2022-12-05T20:45:53+00:00

My only thought on it would be making sure they were a sober consenting adult and if they weren't (as the Girls Gone Wild group has been found to violate consent with some of their models) to see what they needed, if they wanted to talk about it, to let them know I'm sorry that happened to them.

If they were enthusiastically consenting then I wouldn't care about it at all, good on them for having fun. Anyone who goes to Mardi Gras in New Orleans will see a sea of boobs all the time, no big deal.

Embarrassed_Cup2524 · 2022-12-05T20:59:35+00:00

if they are interesting to me *now* then what ever they did before must have been solved already because im not the type of person to be attracted to potential or a work in progress

localmicrodosechamp · 2022-12-05T21:27:05+00:00

I do know someone and it sickens me that men i know were filled with glee by sending around these images.

one of the many reasons i got turned off of men.

CimZim · 2022-12-05T20:24:37+00:00

If I saw my guy making out with another guy from in his early 20s, I'd think it was awesome as long as he had a good experience with it.

He's 52 though, so it wouldn't be on a gone wild video lol.

zerocovid-_- · 2022-12-05T22:39:27+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Smitten_Squire · 2022-12-05T23:42:13+00:00

Lol imo that would be funny tbh. a college girl at a party flashing a camera man and partying isnt anything too crazy lol.

Historical-System972 · 2022-12-05T23:58:08+00:00

I'd be cool with it if and only if I got to experience some of her wild side as well. That means I don't wanna hear any bullshit about she supposedly "grew up" in the meanwhile.

I'm fine with sluts really, but if she's a slut elsewhere only to turn into a prude when she's with me, then we got a problem.

Return_of_Hoppetar · 2022-12-05T20:39:14+00:00

Many were forced to weren’t they. Like it was human trafficking stuff?
I have a strict rule against women who sleep around much less prostitutes. Unless she was forced to and even then I probably don’t have the ability to be that type of therapist and would fail in that role.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-12-05T22:38:37+00:00

Meh. Wouldn't care. I've done way worse lmao. An ex of mine fucked a porn star, I've filmed myself dozens of times and who knows where those videos are

West-Ad-9697 · 2022-12-06T05:27:13+00:00

"Hows the lighting at your house?"

Followed up by - "Let me get my camera"

It's just sex mate. relax. America - here's the truth - you are very wierd about sex.

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Georgist_Muddlehead · 2022-12-05T20:58:32+00:00

I don't think it would necessarily be a big deal, but I would be interested to know their thought process.

How did I find out?

Mick_Shart · 2022-12-05T21:08:03+00:00

I get that weird auto stim meridian response when someone trusts me with an intimate detail about themselves, especially if its obvious they've been ah, "not been received with kindness" for it in the past.

I would probably feel my skin tensing with the goosebumps.

FlyV89 · 2022-12-05T22:34:15+00:00

What "potential partner"?

delight-n-angers · 2022-12-05T23:43:22+00:00

37 AFAB and bi - no i wouldn't care if a partner of mine was in a gone wild video or any other kind of porn for that matter. I've worked with and dated cam girls and strippers. I've dated guys who did camming solo and with ex girlfriends.

The red flag for me with the gone wild videos would be the booze more than the porn aspect. I don't drink and I don't like to be around heavy drinkers anymore. I'd also wonder if their footage was actually properly consensual which is my main reason for disliking the gone wild franchises - they're dubious about consent at best.

AidsVictim · 2022-12-05T23:54:51+00:00

Just flashing her tits I really wouldn't care.

If they're having sex with another woman on film or have an "feature" then I would probably either end the relationship or just stick to FWB.

Using GGW is odd though since it's far more likely the average woman at this point has done some shit on the internet.

2022-12-06T01:20:48+00:00

Couldn't care less if there was no compensation. I won't date a sex worker but flashing your tits at college and someone filming is no big deal to me.

KayRay1994 · 2022-12-06T03:24:33+00:00

eh - its not like she’d be a full on porn actress, i’d probably find it funny

FlexodusPrime · 2022-12-06T03:47:37+00:00

GGW is pretty tame compared to some of the other stuff being put out there.

prismaticbeans · 2022-12-06T04:19:44+00:00

I would be extremely amused and want to see the footage. I would never stop teasing him about it either. If he regretted it, I would leave it alone and not bug him too much but knowing him the way I do, I doubt that would happen.

tryhardereverydayy · 2022-12-06T05:20:44+00:00

Many of those girls were underage and plied with alcohol. Even the girl on one of the covers did not know her photo was about to be taken. Her parents fought for years to remove it. There's a documentary about it. These guys were sleazy and took advantage.

razorfloss · 2022-12-06T07:10:04+00:00

Wow this is old. I don't think I was supposed to even be watching these things but I tried like most of us I'm sure lol. Ggw was pretty tame honestly speaking so I wouldn't care to much. Onlyfans and porn are a different thing altogether although I would appreciate getting a heads up so I'm not blindsided.

Endlessly_ · 2022-12-06T07:36:20+00:00

Ehh probably wouldn’t care tbh. Would probably ask to see lol.

KingWhoCared86 · 2022-12-06T11:27:57+00:00

Weirdest story. I found one of these videos in my dads closet when I was younger and found my older cousin on one of them. Never told anyone but I was always freaked out when she’d hug me at family gatherings since. But I wonder now, what the hell did my dad think?

Furri-Friend · 2022-12-06T11:46:11+00:00

Aroused. Excited. Titillated.

Ragnarok314159 · 2022-12-06T12:25:08+00:00

I am one of those geriatric millennials, and if I met someone and hit it off with them and they later disclosed to me they were in GGG, zero fucks would be given. They were a predatory company finding drunk girls to sign a crappy boilerplate document to make money off showing their body.

Same goes with OF, although my reasoning is different. That is about the lightest form of sex work a person can be involved with. If a girl is taking pictures and movies of herself to make some money, it doesn’t matter to me. I dated a few strippers during my time in the army, never cared. Work is separate from their play time.

Impossible_You_8555 · 2022-12-06T14:52:02+00:00

Can we stop saying partner

How would you feel if your girl was on girls gone wild

I wouldn't care, although it would make a good story and so that makes it a bit sexy

I went to college around that time and every chick I knew did stuff not that dissimilar just not in front of a camera

Do college kids still get drunk and have fun in America

_demidevil_ · 2022-12-06T15:53:54+00:00

I’d be interested if they ever got any legal recourse after being taken advantage of by gross misogynistic men. Other than that I wouldn’t care.

Monkebizniss · 2022-12-06T17:43:54+00:00

I think being willing to expose herself on camera for nothing but a hat and a t-shirt shows a certain personality, whether she was mature or not at the time.

MC-Purp · 2022-12-06T17:51:24+00:00

I’d she flashed, group or solo. I wouldn’t really care If she did a scene. Red flag, but not a deal breaker.

HighestTierMaslow · 2022-12-06T18:38:46+00:00

Its a dealbreaker.

It would be an immediate dealbreaker if a woman did it, so I dont feel bad making it one for men too. Im fair.

jxjkskkk · 2022-12-06T20:26:30+00:00

Flashing your tits on GGW is meaningless. Hell I could see myself getting naked on camera if I was drunk af and they wanted to film for a sec lmao, and I’m a guy.

What is miles worse is OnlyFans. If she is actively peddling this side business of selling her body, she is NOT dating material and definitely for the fuckin streets. OF girls are not worthy of a relationship. They chose that lifestyle and should handle the consequences that come with it. Some idiot will prolly wife em up though and regret it for the rest of his life (those are the same dudes who would pay for her OF).

In general, actively engaging in making porn, to me, means you’re entirely unworthy of my commitment. I am a pretty high value guy, approaching a good career, pretty good looking, etc. girls who engage in that behavior, to me are taking the easy way out and absuing low-value men who are desperate and lonely. I consider them women, but I treat them like they treat ugly dudes: pretend they don’t even exist.

But back to GGW, nah. If they’re doing a whole bit for them; that’s borderline. But a quick flash on camera is meaningless.

Title	How would you feel finding out a potential partner once appeared on "Gone Wild" DVDs?
Author	brilliant22
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Comments	443
Date	December 5, 2022 7:56 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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