Men's "love" is dependent on things like sex, how submissive a woman is and how she makes him feel. When she is all submissive and obedient, this makes him feel like a man.

In most relationships, if the woman doesn't want to have sex with her boyfriend for a while, a man's "love" will start to disappear, because it wasn't really there in the first place. It was mainly about the sex and getting validation from being in a relationship.

Women should forget the idea of men playing the role of being the leader and provider in a relationship, and men paying for dates and so on. They don't accept these roles because they're selfless people, they only do it and accept these roles because it makes them feel superior, because of their conditioning.

This is why most men don't like the idea of women being the leader and provider in a relationship, and why some men actually don't like it when women insist on paying for themselves on dates. But ofcourse with him paying for the date comes the expectation for sex, or for the woman to behave a certain way and so on.