Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.

RealHumanBeing2021 · 2021-07-19T12:46:35+00:00

Delete her number and find someone who’s interested in actually meeting you.

VersionMobile9713 · 2021-07-19T11:16:36+00:00

I’d say close channels of communication with her and move on

naughtychick9999 · 2021-07-19T11:46:21+00:00

Maybe there was another guy..

dildoshwagins3131 · 2021-07-19T11:31:50+00:00

Stay away!

That is an individual you want absolutely nothing to do with.

Hmmkey · 2021-07-19T13:49:58+00:00

Definitely an interesting insight, to be fair I haven’t met a single woman yet that was into Modeling and was very active on instagram that I would describe as without major Issues. This also sounds like a super immature insecure young girl with emotional issues

2021-07-19T15:32:04+00:00

She wasn’t referring to you. She cancelled on the other 15 dudes that she had plans with.

spicy_simba · 2021-07-19T13:12:30+00:00

You are better off not looking much in other people's twitter posts nor reading into them and overanalyzing them.

Your time and energy are more valuable than that.

Fist0fGuthix · 2021-07-19T13:18:16+00:00

She probably thought you taking 8 minutes to respond was you being mad at her, which is a red flag imo. Just don’t bother

2021-07-19T13:30:50+00:00

Shes done some paid product promotion Instagram but doesn’t have a huge following but posts a lot.

If she is an Instagram influencer she might give you brain cancer.

Bkri84 · 2021-07-19T13:51:48+00:00

Believe it or no I had the EXACT same thing happen to me. She cancelled then posted how their are no good guys and she was tired of spending Friday nights alone.

HammertonMili · 2021-07-19T13:57:28+00:00

You didn't dodge a bullet, you dodged a fucking ICBM brother.

ThePhunkyPhantom13 · 2021-07-19T13:31:22+00:00

She either actually believes this or she is making stuff up. Either is pretty shitty so I agree that this is a bullet dodged.

ghost_wit_deh_most · 2021-07-19T12:52:15+00:00

I think sometimes people project their assumptions onto other people. So she assumed you would be upset, tweeted about it, only to find out it was really no bother to you.

Sounds like a red flag to me if I ever heard one

MeteoraRed · 2021-07-19T13:35:26+00:00

Clearly evident she's playing hard to get and will continue to play mind games to get your attention,block her and swipe more !

JambalayaGreenerbort · 2021-07-19T14:06:30+00:00

Dodged a bullet bro.

Calmmmmm · 2021-07-19T14:20:14+00:00

Welcome to the mind of a modern hot woman 😂

2021-07-19T13:01:17+00:00

Maybe cancelling on you reminded her of a time that another guy got upset and she decided to tweet about it.

coolwater85 · 2021-07-19T11:45:06+00:00

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paperfairy · 2021-07-19T14:17:52+00:00

dawg none of this is worth your time. delete and move on.

HellsCandy · 2021-07-19T15:50:33+00:00

(I know im not a guy) When a girl posts frequently on something her like in this case..her life.. its because she wants to be seen, attention, etc.

2021-07-19T14:20:17+00:00

She is crazy.

Rule #1 is don't stick it in crazy.

Hashashin_ · 2021-07-19T13:09:11+00:00

Maybe because you replied 8 mins after reading the message she assumed that you are going to ignore her because you are mad.

SmartPuppyy · 2021-07-19T13:08:01+00:00

Dump her ass like radioactive lava. Sorry for using such language but I am stunned beyond belief.

FreeBuddhistReloaded · 2021-07-19T14:12:05+00:00

It doesn't matter what's going on there.

If she doesn't date you, she doesn't. Stay with the facts.

Don't assume anything.

If there is something I learned, it is that the less you make an effort with women, the better you are going to do.

I'm not saying you shouldn't ask her out and stuff like that. That's okay, it's what men do.

But it would be more something like GIRL YOU LIKE ----> YOU CLOSE TO HER ------> YOU GET HER NUMBER ----> YOU ASK HER OUT -------> YOU FUCK HER - -----> THEN WHATEVER (SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP, ONLY SEX, NOTHING, ETC)

Everything that happen or doesn't happen within that context it doesn't matter to you. Or so it should be. There is a very interesting illusion of the mind in believing that the more you try to figure out a woman, the more you pursue her, the more you will get her. But it's not really like that. They're always after the guy who likes them but doesn't care at the same time. They're always after the guy who takes it easy. So guess how you should take it?

I would even go so far as to say that it works in many things in life as well. Try to push yourself at your job for a promotion. It will be achieved by your partner who tries much less and is a complete idiot and he watches porn when he can at work. Who of you has not experienced similar things?

So the skills you develop in your work are for you. It's okay to push yourself, but you do it for yourself. And if you're not enjoying it, stop.

Don't get me wrong, I think it's fine that you have searched her on other social networks to verify she's not a trap. That she doesn't work for a Mexican drug cartel or things like that.

But trying to figure out why she posted that is a waste of time. You will never know. She probably has another guy behind her and she does it to make him jealous. You don't care.

Go for the next one. If she wants to go out with you, let HER chase you. Let HER check your twitter or your social accounts and break her head trying to figure out what you meant when you publish on twitter: "Today I scratched my balls while I opened the refrigerator ... Houston: There is no more ketchup, I must go to the supermarket later ... P.S. I have to search the name of that Lynyrd Skynyrd song"

So go for the next one, tiger ;)

MrDownhillRacer · 2021-07-19T14:28:01+00:00

Possibilities:

She's talking about a different guy she recently set up a date with on Tinder. She's a woman on Tinder, so she obviously is talking to multiple guys.
She was actually making up a story about you, and she's just vain and feeds off of internet validation.

2021-07-19T15:43:20+00:00

So comment on her Twitter post calling her out on it, lol

Happy_Cancel1315 · 2021-07-19T15:47:59+00:00

in today's "social media" world, EVERYBODY lies about the most ridiculous things. followers like to see drama and conflict, so those who live their lives in social media are going to give them what they want in order to keep them.

surfmobster · 2021-07-19T15:50:41+00:00

I hate social media and avoid any “influencers” or “models”

PhnX_RsnG · 2021-07-19T17:43:47+00:00

Sounds like she has some mental issues and is out for attention, whether or not she has to fabricate it or it’s negative/positive - as long as she gets attention somehow.

I’d run the fuck away from that one.

LookingAround34684 · 2021-07-19T18:58:32+00:00

She sounds like she is addicted to social media attention, more specifically sympathy.

“Can you believe that this happened to me?” style posts get a lot if attention because they appeal to people’s natural tendency to offer advice, which then boosts their social media relevance.

If she were to tell the truth, people would be bored with her and keep scrolling.

Angieer5762923 · 2021-07-19T20:30:20+00:00

Since you didnt reply by then and also you didnt make any fuss, id imagine that she had another cancellation where guy got upset or talks about her past experience. (But id vote for first option).

kinking96 · 2021-07-19T21:10:21+00:00

couldn't she have felt bad she had to cancel and while trying to figure out what to say she remembered another time she had to cancel and the response from the person was less than ideal so she mentioned it as she does often about the many things on her mind...

bluntsmoker_420 · 2021-07-19T23:46:24+00:00

Bro she’s probably talking to like 10 other dudes, I think you are the one overthinking it

Stone-Cold-Advice · 2021-07-19T23:54:18+00:00

Twitter and Instagram are not real. It's all fake bullshit. The faster you realize that the happier you'll be.

She lost a tryout with you and didn't make the cut.

Move on to someone without the drama. Don't reschedule with a flake.

indyradmama · 2021-07-20T00:19:32+00:00

You guys REALLY like to generalize, and assume you know things you truly have no evidence of. Speculation isn't working

nuccia13 · 2021-07-20T01:34:14+00:00

Maybe you weren’t the guy who got upset.

Ancient_Educator_76 · 2021-07-20T02:51:02+00:00

Tweet could have been about someone else she cancelled on weeks ago, then cancelled on you and it reminded her about the other tool so she secretly hoped you wouldn’t be like this, but nonetheless she still posted a truth about a pet peeve she has. It wasn’t even about you probably, especially if she’s a 8-9.

HoldenCoughfield · 2021-07-20T04:17:03+00:00

So the underlying lesson here is this looks to be a “type”. Instagram promotion, twitter hyperactivity. You’re going for this girl for looks, makes sense. But the price to pay for the looks of a social media junkie can be heavy. If you got to know her or went on more than one date / one encounter, she likely would have spun something else to give herself the granduer she craves.

You found a type to avoid, look no further when you see an indicator of this behavior in the future

rovch · 2021-07-20T05:07:57+00:00

If it’s still worth it to you, then you meet with her call her on her shit in the most joking but matter of fact way. Don’t let people walk over you.

jquint97 · 2021-07-19T12:54:54+00:00

God she sounds like high maintenance

KingoftheNorth412 · 2021-07-19T14:14:19+00:00

No woman is a 10.

2021-07-19T14:47:12+00:00

What a clout whore. The saddest of fake lives.

EU-Howdie · 2021-07-19T13:34:34+00:00

Maybe she did not ment you. But in common .....

And mayb she just wanted to post something because she want to get more followers, andit has nothing to do with anybody or anything.

So, just go on having contact and dating her. And wait with deciding what to do untlll you know her a little better.

cbc1724 · 2021-07-19T13:40:51+00:00

Omg she’s such a sad bitch

Legitimate-Lies · 2021-07-19T12:18:27+00:00

I think you have oneitis and I think this chick is nuts

overtrick1978 · 2021-07-19T15:53:41+00:00

You should reply to the tweet. 😂

Woujo · 2021-07-20T01:55:05+00:00

Most women you run into nowadays have trauma from how they were treated by other guys and this is just something you have to deal with. I'm sure she assumed you would be upset, and was probably pleasantly surprised when you weren't.

Everybody here is telling you to delete her number, but rescheduling is not a sin. You should try to invite her out one more time and see what happens. If she flakes again, THEN you ghost.

Snoo12980 · 2021-07-19T11:56:59+00:00

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bictictccg44555555 · 2021-07-19T14:24:21+00:00

That’s what women do….. it’s just their nature. They always have to have drama and use manipulation to gain attention and status.

hotrod427 · 2021-07-19T15:14:35+00:00

Either she interpreted the shower delay as you being mad (which is ridiculous) (Side note, turn read receipts off) Or, she was double/triple booked and a different guy flipped out when she cancelled and she decided to cancel everything.

__sad_but_rad__ · 2021-07-19T15:29:59+00:00

So what are your guys thoughts what’s going on here?

attractive girls always date multiple guys at the same time

she picked the one she liked the most, and then canceled the other dudes

one of them got mad, she wasn't talking about you

realhero83 · 2021-07-19T22:57:46+00:00

She's a loser, and you interrupting your shower to answer a message from her also sounds like desperation.

I never interrupt a shower for a woman. Move onto the next.

panthus1 · 2021-07-19T13:47:34+00:00

It might even be another guy which she wrote about. Sorry, but dont get things personally. You can ask her if it was about you if you really wqnt to find out.

quantumactual · 2021-07-19T14:43:54+00:00

No, this is not a snap shot into the mind of a woman who cancelled on you. She doesn’t want you, so move on. This is what a loser does.

Hoffmaster21 · 2021-07-19T13:09:00+00:00

You care too much. Call her tomorrow or the next day and talk.

Exmerus · 2021-07-19T13:40:16+00:00

She thought you were upset because you read the message but hadn't replied.

I would move on to the next one unless she schedules the next date.

Western-Cartoonist-1 · 2021-07-19T13:41:23+00:00

for fun, my niece went onto tinder (recently broke up with boyfriend who is not taking the breakup very well...he is in the emotional stage and acting out...so she needed a distraction)

in 2 weeks she had over 1,000 matches...she said she had no intention of talking to or meeting any of them...she might chat with a couple for fun...maybe consider making plans...but never intended to follow thru

she would sometimes make plans with 10 guys and flake on them all just to see how they would react.

when i was on tinder i would schedule 2-3 dates for any given night...assuming 1-2 girls would flake...and if they all showed up i would choose the best one and flake on the other 2.

people behave according to their own best interest...and don't take YOUR interests into account...AT ALL.

Interesting-Brief202 · 2021-07-19T13:44:50+00:00

My thoughts are you are overthinking and pedestalizing. When a woman stands you up or cancels you get a new woman

letsgetrandy · 2021-07-19T14:07:20+00:00

It's all too common. There are a lot of attention-seeking women in this world, and they manufacture more lies that you can keep up with. It's often best just to never go looking at their social media, because you're almost always going to be pretty put off by how they behave.

But let's be real -- it's no different from the guys on reddit who post fake photos to r/mildlyirritating or r/uselessredcircle. People will do anything for internet points.

Krystal1982 · 2021-07-19T14:23:11+00:00

Maybe she seen the message on read and after a few minutes thought you were just going to leave it on read and over reacted a little early.

Snoo12980 · 2021-07-19T14:31:36+00:00

I wonder if she was hoping you'd be mad so when you did respond she could post a screenshot of your text to her in the tweet. What did she end up tweeting after?

r1bb1tTheFrog · 2021-07-19T14:33:34+00:00

She probably had dates scheduled with multiple men, and then dropped them all when her first choice agreed to a date.

While you were one of the men she canceled on, you probably weren’t the one she referenced in her post.

jwooouwh12 · 2021-07-19T14:50:07+00:00

Girls get a shiton of attention and if you’re considering her a 9. Bro— she could be talking to 10 guys at a time.

To keep this short, she’s probably not worth the time. Move on and find someone that respects you a little more than that.

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2021-07-19T14:51:55+00:00

First things first; she wasn't interested in you in the slightest. You just provided her with a quick dopamine fix by finding her attractive and asking her out. Period. Next, she had an entire conversation of how cancelling on you would play out in her mind before she even did it. She cancelled on you AND to keep herself from feeling like a horrible person she demonized your actions so she could feel better about it. AVOID women like this like your life depends on it! They will shit all over you to justify their feelings to themselves. Finally, i would suggest you avoid ALL women on IG, cuz they are only there to feed their egos and be snatched up by the highest bidders. Extremely self absorbed!

loofyd · 2021-07-19T14:55:28+00:00

Dodged a bullet

now go find a sane lady

TheRealAlkemyst · 2021-07-19T14:55:28+00:00

Are you sure you are the only guy she scheduled for a date?

mweinb · 2021-07-19T14:56:08+00:00

People are weird

2021-07-19T15:04:50+00:00

This is a crazy person. She seems to live online and it seems it’s more real and important to her than you are. This is one to take a huge pass on! Just cut her out completely. Be interesting to see what lies she tells about that...

JourneyToBeKing · 2021-07-19T15:31:04+00:00

OP if I am not mistaken you are just sharing your findings. And you don't ask about what to do with this girl but you are asking general idea of how a girl can come to this conclusion. Am I right?

Because i am also interested in learning the thought process and which actions/texts triggers it.

MommaG0614 · 2021-07-19T15:46:38+00:00

She’s all about the attention. I’ve known several women like this!! I always think honesty is best when ending things with someone instead of just ghosting them. I would suggest telling her you aren’t interested. More than likely she will try to convince you she’s amazing and this great catch or flip out and tell you how you’re missing out.

Girls like these are a waste of time. It’s always all about them and they want all the attention, all the time.

2021-07-19T15:49:32+00:00

People nowadays are definitely looking out to have their assumptions validated. It's a deep issue most of us have; literally writing our fates and being oblivious to it.

WeakEmu8 · 2021-07-19T15:55:37+00:00

*piqued

And who cares what she thinks. What she does is all that matters.

myqwel · 2021-07-19T16:01:42+00:00

Yeah dude move on from this chick

light_90 · 2021-07-19T16:04:37+00:00

Should’ve been more honest about it

DegenDame · 2021-07-19T16:10:53+00:00

My first thought was, she had multiple dates line up (or at least more than one) and she was posting about someone else’s response. Or someone else’s response from a different encounter. If her post seemed that over reactive to your response, could it be unrelated?

2021-07-19T16:23:32+00:00

Maybe there was another guy she also cancelled on

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-07-19T16:25:12+00:00

Pathological attention seeking

Definitely don’t waste any more time on her

covidified · 2021-07-19T16:27:03+00:00

Post her crap so she is then one defending herself. Obviously move on.

aacevest · 2021-07-19T16:33:15+00:00

"accidentally stumbled"

sure, sure, sure

theyretheirthereto22 · 2021-07-19T16:39:47+00:00

Doubt it was about you. She probably double or tripled booked

Han_na_ · 2021-07-19T16:48:10+00:00

U should totally get her out of your mind that is all. Bc probably you weren't her only date man.

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-19T16:48:52+00:00

Attention.. from other girls and her army of betas all over her social media.

2021-07-19T16:50:13+00:00

I'd say you dodged a bullet brother, she's a member of the BBC club.

Ajax376 · 2021-07-19T17:03:09+00:00

Coom and scoot my guy

ellWatully · 2021-07-19T17:12:20+00:00

Sounds like you're reading into it wayyy too much. Most likely, she's always glued to her phone and so assumes that's how everyone else is. You not responding instantly was a sign to her that you were upset about cancelling because the only reason SHE wouldn't respond instantly is if she was mad.

Silentgurl-23 · 2021-07-19T17:23:38+00:00

Good for her

2021-07-19T17:24:47+00:00

Google narcissistic personality disorder.

1812323 · 2021-07-19T17:29:56+00:00

Honestly that a good 75% of the women available happy hunting brother

elmsfordays · 2021-07-19T17:37:18+00:00

I've had the exact same thing happen. A girl accused me of being upset on a dating app when I wasn't.

I think girls love getting reactions out of guys especially if it's upsetting and just do it for some extra validation. Sometimes they expect you to be upset even if you aren't.

There is a lot of toxicity in online shit with women. It's why cold approach is better, you cutt through the bullshit.

Paralegallyblonde · 2021-07-19T17:42:10+00:00

Maybe she was double-booked and the other guy got upset? Everything is not always about you all the time

Hariharan_VN · 2021-07-19T18:05:50+00:00

so I'm not the only person who do these stalking. its good to know that I got some company

willgo-waggins · 2021-07-19T18:09:42+00:00

The human need to self justify poor and rude behavior is endlessly fascinating to me.

Super-Competition-57 · 2021-07-19T18:30:15+00:00

If she’s anxious attached which it sounds like she is, she may have felt the 8 minute delay in your reply as you being upset. Not all, but some people show dissatisfaction with delay replies or no reply at all.

So then she posted her thoughts and didn’t care to delete it after you had actually replied.

Sounds like you’re a nice decent guy. Her loss.

1sa712 · 2021-07-19T18:37:56+00:00

Nah she just the type of girls playing "The victim" ,you could catch her cheating and she would still blame you and play victim,but I think since you know the type of girl she is,use it to your advantage,eat her pomegranates 😄

Teamtoast · 2021-07-19T19:02:43+00:00

I think this Twitter post might not even be about you? Anyways, ignoring the tweet, rescheduling last minute can be a test from her. Just keep cool and move on my dude

geron123 · 2021-07-19T19:38:47+00:00

Lol she assumed you were mad because you read it and didn’t respond right away. I’m guessing you have your read receipts on maybe? Not sure. Or she just thinks she’s THAT important

C2_Evol · 2021-07-19T19:40:04+00:00

She probably saw you opened the message and didn’t instantly reply. Thus she assumed you were upset. Forget her, she obviously has an ego

tropicsGold · 2021-07-19T19:57:29+00:00

A girl that vacuous definitely goes to the bottom of the list. Don’t block her, I mean you can still potentially screw her, but don’t ever think of her a potential gf.

king_of_nogainz · 2021-07-19T20:16:05+00:00

Move on king.

innergame · 2021-07-19T20:18:07+00:00

I think this

AdrianFish · 2021-07-19T20:34:27+00:00

I wonder who hurt her

richie_royce · 2021-07-19T21:12:33+00:00

Whats her twitter?? Lmao

jajais4u · 2021-07-19T21:27:25+00:00

After reading the story, then the comments, I agree with the guy that said to not prioritize her. Keep it moving, and look elsewhere

Thest0rm_99 · 2021-07-19T21:30:43+00:00

Modern women, particularly hot women, are fucking insane these days. Posts like these honestly make me want to exit the dating market altogether. Dealing with this kind of stuff repeatedly honestly makes my stomach turn.

Count_Giggles · 2021-07-19T21:31:50+00:00

that hamster wheel must have been glowing red hot.

okletsg0 · 2021-07-19T22:17:28+00:00

For a while ago I posted a thread detailed about this flake and reschedule topic.

If she flakes or reschedule once, she’s going to flake again with almost 100% certainty. Unless you happen to text her when she’s drunk, horny and DTF, don't expect to see her again.

This is from my previous experience with thousands of woman online.

And also setup the date before taking number or social media. Woman online are time waters and have buyer mentality and buyer are liars who find reason to not buy.

Shakespeare-Bot · 2021-07-19T22:25:30+00:00

Plot twist … Maybe she cancelled on more than one guy o.O

jradz10 · 2021-07-19T22:40:46+00:00

Make her fall in love with you

Dcm210 · 2021-07-19T22:54:39+00:00

Delete her number and find someone much better. I'm not sure if it's even worth the effort to screenshot the Twitter and text her the screenshot.

n1tw1t · 2021-07-19T22:58:10+00:00

Maybe I'm a gluten for punishment but its kind of cool having a little feedback loop you can read later, even if its quite distorted. I'd go out again and have fun with it.

DeidaraHatake · 2021-07-19T23:12:15+00:00

People are strange man

vze1fm8gn · 2021-07-19T23:28:13+00:00

This is a common mental condition. I have noticed this too and not just women,even men. Some people have an inflated view of themselves and they build fantasies in their minds about how others behaved. This is a serious mental health condition. I can only sympathize.

yourgirlfriendsdad · 2021-07-19T23:54:31+00:00

Online dating is for bitches

indyradmama · 2021-07-20T00:12:32+00:00

She thought about a previous dude who did that and hoped you wouldn't be mad like he was?

2021-07-20T01:09:30+00:00

If you aren't getting anywhere she ain't worth it dude. No woman deserves to be treated like royalty without earning that treatment first.

2021-07-20T01:15:18+00:00

Crazy people on the internet lol

hermagic · 2021-07-20T01:45:34+00:00

eh it's not that deep. she probably texted you, felt anxious hoping you wouldn't flip out, and tweeted. It's more about past experiences than you.

imnotcreative635 · 2021-07-20T02:02:54+00:00

She probably tripled booked honestly it’s not worth it to even try with someone who doesn’t value your time.

Ok-Boysenberry-9481 · 2021-07-20T03:21:59+00:00

Interesting why does she want you dead?

2021-07-20T06:15:07+00:00

You answered your own question, unknowingly of course. When you said she’s 8-9/10 you should’ve realized that women that attractive tend to be the ugliest people, on the inside.

Rionic · 2021-07-20T07:07:36+00:00

Probably referring to one of the other ten guys she cancelled on in the same day

ZodiacKatil · 2021-07-20T07:53:10+00:00

Or she actually might have something happen and someone other than you might have given her horrible response.

ProFriendZoner · 2021-07-20T08:09:41+00:00

Who the fuck cares? Where is your abundance?

Sapthadhri · 2021-07-20T09:13:12+00:00

You are lucky she cancelled on you. Better than you going on a date with her, wasting time and money and cancelling on her. You dodged a bitch.

Sapthadhri · 2021-07-20T09:15:19+00:00

Just play it cool actually. Be patient and let her keep rescheduling it and when she finally reaches the decided place for the date, don't show up. Later tell her, you were expecting her to reschedule for sure, so you never showed up. Then you delete her number.

daddysgotanew · 2021-07-20T14:34:45+00:00

It wasn’t even you bro. There were 3 other guys, then Chad hit her up so she had to cancel on all 4 of you. One of them took it bad. You vastly underestimate the amount of attention even a 4 gets online. Your average girl that isn’t fat can date local celebrities, athletes, doctors and business owners

FreeBuddhistReloaded · 2021-07-20T19:43:59+00:00

I have seen many comments that say that the girl is a bitch.

Well, it's possible. Or it wouldn't be unreasonable to think about it, at least. Based on how little is known about her.

Now what if she wasn't?

What would happen if she worked in the red cross helping Syrian refugees, was an example of a woman in all aspects and on top of that she had an incredible butt, incredible tits, a stripper body, beautiful lips, eyes, hair, etc.

If she were morally and physically amazing. And he rejects you and cancels your outings.

What would you do? Would you kill yourself?

That's why thinking for her is useless. Don't live HER reality. You have to live yours. ALWAYS.

All that counts is: do you fuck her or not. Even if you want a serious relationship. That is the way. Put your meat in the taco.

That's why you must relax.

With that "she-could-be-the-woman-of-your-life" garbage you have been controlled your whole life. That's Disney. You have to realize.

If she's really perfect but doesn't want to go out with me, she already has a defect: that she doesn't want to go out with me HA HA

This is how one should think, in my opinion.

It sounds narcissistic, I know. Sounds like I'm a *** son of a ***.

I'm not. I am a man who knows what he wants, is willing to share it with girls but does not waste his time. As simple as that.

But they call me bastard and etc, etc.

Okay. But guess who they end up sleeping with at the end of the day. With the guy who spends his days trying to figure out why she's not with him or the bastard.

You know the answer.

AwarenessHuge1584 · 2021-07-21T22:11:25+00:00

Assuming you don't want to pursue a future with Miss social butterfly, you might want your parting gift to her to be your final text, reading something something like this,: "Hi, got your text to reschedule, but I can't be there. You see, I came across your Twitter feed for the afternoon you canceled last time. For the record, I was not then, nor am I now angry. What I am now not interested. Game over.

Steelforge · 2021-07-22T12:39:54+00:00

She literally made up a story about a guy (me) getting upset

I mean she wouldn't be wrong- you're clearly upset or you wouldn't be talking about her here.

If you weren't upset, she wouldn't be living rent free in your head. And as others pointed out- you don't know that she's talking about you. That's your emotions making you feel aggrieved.

I then continued with the rest of my evening.About an hour later my curiosity peaked

This right here is you lying to yourself and us. You didn't continue with your evening. And you're still stuck in self-pity and anger mode over the very minor issue of her changing her mind about a date.

Step back and take a look at how unhealthy your response has been.

dry-foo · 2021-09-17T09:31:01+00:00

Just ignore the game and nonsense. If you're into her and she's into you, you will meet eventually and have fun together.

It's easy to miscommunicate through text.

If she reschedules another time or treats you disrespectfully just ignore her entirely or tell her assertively that you find that disrespectful.

Maybe she has had some bad experiences in the past and she's afraid that will happen again. We can never know.

Title	Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.
Author	Snoo12980
Upvotes	773
Comments	239
Date	July 19, 2021 10:59 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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