Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards him

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-05-09T06:40:34+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Eu8bckAr1 · 2024-05-08T11:32:07+00:00

I lived in a house with multiple models for a few years in London (male and female).

You cannot even imagine 1% of the pretty privilege they experiment in the daily basics.

JScrib325 · 2024-05-08T13:01:41+00:00

Looks and money are the 2 cheat codes.

That said, as stated above, you gotta have something to keep them past the initial attraction. You may draw them in, but if you have nothing to offer once they get there, looks will only take you so far.

If you just tryna hit and quit tho, yeah its easy mode.

Dandys3107 · 2024-05-08T10:57:30+00:00

Female instinct to hunt for best possible genes for offspring still very strong in modern society.

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-05-08T10:57:43+00:00

The same way extremely handsome men have it easy is the same way extremely beautiful women do as well. 9s are still 9s regardless of gender.

That being said, if that man's game was off, it would affect his results. If he acted weird, awkward, or dumb, it would turn most of those girls off.

Your appearance only determines initial interest. You still need good game to turn that initial interest into results.

But yeah, of course that dude gets a lot more initial interest than the average guy does, making it easier for him by way of more opportunities, but that's life. Everyone gets dealt different hands and you make do with what you got.

average_hight_midget · 2024-05-08T11:00:44+00:00

On the flip side, maybe it’s lonely knowing everyone only cares about your looks and not your personality at all (I would trade places in an instant).

luroot · 2024-05-08T12:16:20+00:00

Just goes to show...if a girl is attracted, she is fully capable of opening and carrying a conversation.. And I guarantee then has no 3 date rule or other hoops to jump through for sex, etc..

thankyouryard · 2024-05-08T11:46:02+00:00

i had a "glowup". the difference the way the girls treat me is day and night for sure. It actually made me lost interest in women because how "Easy" it felt.

Dry_Manufacturer3846 · 2024-05-08T11:20:43+00:00

Having great looks is truly amazing. And I am genuinely happy for the ones who have received this genetic gift. However, it is not something you want to rely on as it fades overtime(hair loss, wrinkles, etc.)

palatine09 · 2024-05-08T11:53:41+00:00

Women are attracted to great looking men that other women want. This is crazy new info. Can we get this published in Nature or at the very least a lead story on CNN.

NichRigga- · 2024-05-08T12:19:49+00:00

Yup witnessed this a few times, its the best motivation to get to single digit body fat imo lol. Experienced it personally when I got shredded in Uni, but havent been that BF % in a while, hope to get back there within the next month or 2 though

HoneySquash · 2024-05-08T13:21:43+00:00

I wouldn't want to hang with people that are so obsessed with someone's looks, but what can you expect from the nightclub crowd.

NewOCLibraryReddit · 2024-05-08T13:47:46+00:00

It definitely happens. I've seen it multiple times. It's one of the reasons I tell guys that it is about location as well. If you are attractive, but stay under a rock, you aren't going to get chicks. You have to get out there around women.

G0dZylla · 2024-05-08T13:20:18+00:00

looks are the most important factor in attracting women

this is the truth yet it's so weird that only a small % of the human population believes this, the rest will just say stuff like personality/confidence when in reality with top 1% genetics you just need to exist. i have an attractive bestfriend and the way women behave around him just makes me more blackpilled day after day, he just needs to exist

SagHor1 · 2024-05-08T14:15:09+00:00

People say looks don't matter but it does.

Being funny or confident pales in comparison to being good looking.

I've had the privilege of having good lookin guy friends (not models) but the random attention they receive is astounding. Stranger Girls offering him a seat at the bar. Girls coming up to him saying they are cute. Waitresses lingering around with more small talk than usual. And guess what, these guys are not tall - 5'10 and 5'11.

The only upside is that I know I'm not him. So I treasure any girl who pays attention to me. I don't have the luxury to throw away one girl and get another one easily.

boysick · 2024-05-08T14:45:43+00:00

Similar thing happened to me. It was three of us guys went out with two female friends. Hottie girl came into bar. I never seen girl that is so beautiful. Maybe we didnt talk about her just like your friends but we were hypnotized. Monica Belluci type od beauty. One thing i noticed: jelaosy in our female friends.

Cheesegraterr · 2024-05-08T16:55:37+00:00

Reading the post and the comments makes me feel really discouraged. I’m ugly 22 year old man and never had a gf. Should I just give up do ugly guys have a chance in this world

MacFatty · 2024-05-08T11:34:02+00:00

So, all aspects in life are on an uneven playing field if you compare to the extreme outliers.

What a shitty statement.

Remove the extreme top and bottom.

Also, this dude probably cares a lot for himself. Exercise, eat well, sleep well.. and all that shit. This alone will put anyone ahead.

mcchigguns · 2024-05-08T22:56:28+00:00

I never think these posts are constructive because they shift people's focus from making the best of what they can change and instead to comparisons with people that are only visually (can't stress this enough) at the top 1% of people.

If you want to take solice in something, know that most of them don't need to go on huge self discovery journeys and end up miserable.

I had a really close friend who is a 10/10 guy in terms of looks, the dude would stand around and women would open him so much he'd get annoyed going out. Long story short he has 3 kids with 3 different women and can't find a decent job outside of modeling and instagram, dude leads a sad life where he ended up becoming a crypto scammer and on christmas called up his boys to try to sell them NFTs. He no longer has boys outside of scammers now.

Focus on your self, you'll truly never understand other people's trials. Most people who are handed everything will never understand how valuable working on yourself is and how it leads to a happiness most people will never experience.

With regards to pickup, relax, approach, enjoy. Everything else is an excuse.

lisafrankposter · 2024-05-08T12:17:51+00:00

My most conventionally attractive female friend gets her rent paid for just existing; I don’t get that even though I’m hot too. Doesn’t get me down.

helping083 · 2024-05-08T14:45:37+00:00

So it's better to be rich and handsome than poor and ugly ?

SnooRabbits6595 · 2024-05-08T20:37:30+00:00

Must be nice. I’m sure it all has its downsides but I’d love to experience that just once. But at 5’6, its only a pipe dream lol

throwaway-research1 · 2024-05-08T11:09:16+00:00

Been saying that for a long time, looks maxing > all other pick up tricks

Edit: pretty privilege is more prevalent now than it ever has been. Good looking people get compliments out of the blue, free drinks, free drugs, guest lists on clubs, hookups, after party invites, better job opportunities and whatnot while average looking people are ignored left right and centre in social interactions. Look maxing is not only important for your dating life but its important even in your everyday life.

caesarfecit · 2024-05-08T14:12:38+00:00

It's called women chasing status. That dude is a walking trophy to every woman in there, that's why OP saw what he saw. It's not that the looks don't matter, it's that the looks lead to the status, and the status leads to the chasing.

Afraid_Composer_8356 · 2024-05-08T12:27:50+00:00

Share the I'd so that even we see what the benchmark looks like in terms of looks 😓

HCHDGSH · 2024-05-08T11:43:57+00:00

Good for him, but what he fucks doesn't make me cum so I think I'll continue focussing on what I'm doing and how I can improve instead of fantasizing about what it would be like to be another man.

Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better type shit.

BravoPUA · 2024-05-08T17:09:30+00:00

Life isn’t fair.
Just like a video game character, max your levels in the areas you CAN control, and you can still have a blast playing the game of life!

MrPound4Pound · 2024-05-08T17:16:15+00:00

I'm not the best looking guy but the girlfriends who I've been with and made the initial move always told me that they found me attractive and that's why they even made a move so I can imagine a dude who's at levels of looks where they actually get paid for it, must have women approaching them on a constant daily basis.

Yes women do go for looks to but if you don't have em, you gotta play with the cards u were dealt with. Work out, dress better, style ur hair, and work on your seduction skills to increase your chances.

richsreddit · 2024-05-08T17:37:39+00:00

Yeah...the 'perks' of being good looking as a man or woman are real af tbh. I have a friend who is on the better looking side who is not only good looking but is also talented with singing and guitar while also being good with jokes as many friends or people around him also find him fun to be around in that sense.

He definitely seems to have a seemingly endless supply of friends or people around him who just either show up to chill with him or even outright invite him without him having to make any effort to reach out to those folks for that. I also happened to have experience with doing security work for bars/clubs and notice that when I 'do my job' in trying to enforce certain policies or rules for these establishments the more attractive looking women tend to respond in a shocked manner as if I'm supposed to grant them some sort of 'break' or 'concession' just out of the fact they look good. Personally, when I was trained for my job I was never told to only 'enforce' such policies on people based on how good they look and I also believe personally believe in the idea of being fair about how I do my job in the sense I make sure certain policies are being followed by patrons regardless of their looks, social status, and etc.

Overall, based on what I've experienced or seen firsthand, your observation about attractive people having it 'easy' isn't too far off from the reality of such a situation.

DrRonnieJamesDO · 2024-05-08T17:39:22+00:00

I'm convinced there's 2 kinds of attraction: wild primal instinctive instantaneous lust, and the affinity based kind the rest of us have to settle for.

Epiphanic_Eros · 2024-05-08T17:57:12+00:00

Sure. You’re not talking about the top 20%, or even the top 2%. You’re talking about the top 0.002%. I say that with confidence because I live in NYC and still NEVER see guys like that. On top of it, this guys sounds like he was centered and warm and confident — he came up to the round table and acted with magnanimity.

In general, looks are far less important than guys think. But they certainly help, and if a guy is mind-numbing hot, and self-assured, he’s going to have women throwing themselves at his feet. It’s even worse the other way around

Visual-Guide5473 · 2024-05-08T20:23:52+00:00

As someone who’s been getting involved in the modeling industry I’ve noticed this too, but the girls are usually not the female models and more so average looking girls trying to prove themselves. Female models usually go for promoters, DJ’s / artists & photographers, as well as guys who are in their social circle

hommejetable · 2024-05-08T12:39:23+00:00

Brutal blackpilling experience

MBicks · 2024-05-08T14:50:52+00:00

You’d be surprised how many good looking dudes do not get laid. The number is higher than the average looking dude thinking grass is greener on the other side realizes

AromaticPlant8504 · 2024-05-08T12:49:04+00:00

How tall was he?

iamthespectator · 2024-05-08T14:41:46+00:00

It's very easy to go the blackpill only looks matter route when something like this happens. Which is why I want to offer some counterpoints:

While looks obviously do matter, they matter less for women than men. Average-looking guys can still do great and get girls that others will consider "out of their league" if they do well in other areas (fitness, clothes, career, charisma, game, etc.). But I will admit younger girls seem to care more about physical looks, perhaps even to the same level as men.
Try to step into this handsome guy's shoes for a second. Because of how easy it is for him to attract women, it feels less satisfying and less of an achievement. While you may be jealous that he can easily attract girls that you've never been able to attract (let's say a "9" in your scale), he doesn't actually feel much satisfaction from that because of how easy it is. Whereas if you were able to do it for the first time, it would feel fucking amazing. Point being, everything is relative, and just because he got lucky by being born handsome doesn't actually mean he's happier than your average dude.
Because of how easy it is for highly handsome guys to attract women, they never bother developing their game/personality. So many of them can suffer by turning girls off after the initial attraction, or not being able to get a solid girlfriend that they actually like (related to above point). And maybe to these guys, getting a GF that they care about is harder than "normal" guys.

MadonatorxD · 2024-05-08T15:04:59+00:00

Imagine being born rich, smart and attractive. 😐

Honestly you only need two of those qualities, but imagine having all three. It might also ruin your life because everything is easy for you and you are most likely spoiled. But, if you are a tad bit responsible, you are set.

On the other hand, imagine being born ugly and poor (me) lmao

Independent-Crew-723 · 2024-05-08T13:13:54+00:00

My take away is that at least when we(men) see a group of girls where one is a goddess we don’t ignore the rest

timewavetheory · 2024-05-08T13:22:35+00:00

Not all sunshine and rainbows. Theres downsides to everything.

EhveOnLine · 2024-05-08T14:39:30+00:00

Big news: attractive people are more attractive

habbo311 · 2024-05-08T15:03:24+00:00

This is why I really prefer prostitutes. If they wanted to they would. They do for the right guy

SuperPoop · 2024-05-08T15:31:21+00:00

rule 1. be attractive.

side note: I've been the average guy who goes out with the really attractive guy.... and if you play your cards right, you can do really well. Really attractive people are used to the attention, so it's nothing to them. They don't realize the power that they possess.

Artistic_Tradition50 · 2024-05-08T17:34:37+00:00

OP: I am straight, at least I thought....

AriaMeow4677 · 2024-05-08T19:19:48+00:00

Share his Instagram so we can really tell if he was really that good looking as you say. What may be 9/10 for you might not be the same for everyone.

Also I am really curious because of the way you described him.

AnImbroglio · 2024-05-08T19:57:05+00:00

Charisma stat OP, plz nerf.

Disastrous_Airline17 · 2024-05-08T20:39:09+00:00

What aspect of him made him so attractive in your mind? Was it muscle? Grooming?

epimpstyle · 2024-05-08T21:47:25+00:00

A handsome guy doesn't have to learn teasing, bantering, negging, cocky/funny, push/pull. qualification, statements of interest, false disqualifiers .... cold reading, hand games... and so on... All these concepts are for those of us that nature hasn't been so generous to and we use these concepts to have a chance against the lucky ones.

kungpowradic · 2024-05-08T22:58:53+00:00

80% of their pull can be emulated by adopting their mannerisms. that 20% can make a bit difference, but you can still get any girl that you want in the majority of settings by echoing that charisma and confidence

ClitPlayaBootySlappa · 2024-05-08T23:14:05+00:00

u gay?

"I actually told the dude that my friend (The girl) thinks hes attractive."

Come on dude lol

romeMAJOR · 2024-05-09T00:17:43+00:00

I’m used to ( and still am) of the idea of dressing like an Uber driver from Walmart and try to see how far I can get with just game and personality. Idk I’m stubborn man, it’s actually worked and have had some really attractive women once every so often just make excuses to try to talk to me or get me to go somewhere with them under the guise of something else.

I don’t know if I’m in the wrong for this but I’ve actually felt my game has improved by brute forcing and not giving a shit and using my mental, psychological and body language game.

Those dudes are ready made and require almost no game to get laid. But I think the playing field is levelled more than you could imagine with the fact that game exists. Game is just another route to the same destination of male model looks if done to a well enough level. I’m not at that level of game yet or even as close as I’d like to be to that, but the belief is there and I do think it exists even with dollar store ass clothes. I know it sounds ridiculous but I truly believe it

WomenPickMales · 2024-05-09T05:50:21+00:00

Eh, it's neither here no there. Reality is women look for any outlet to discourage unattractive / broke men from engaging with them and will go out of their way to desexualize themselves. All huddling around a good looking guy is a good way to signal to unattractive men that they're not willing to engage.

I'm not incredibly attractive but I'm apparently sexy enough (maybe it's just a fetish for my race), that women have just flat out stated that they wanted to do PiV with me. Unless a girl says that straight up to a guy I doubt he's truly attractive.

Complex-Peak · 2024-05-08T12:38:08+00:00

How tall was he? /u/TodayOrTmrw

SaaSWriters · 2024-05-08T13:34:50+00:00

Why do you care?

riccardo2002ric · 2024-05-08T20:29:53+00:00

Get mogged and share the Instagram envious incel.

Title	Literal model walks into a bar and it's amazing how girls naturally gravitated towards him
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Date	May 8, 2024 10:48 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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