You usually have to kinds of women, or so most women would claim. The modern woman primarily wishing for equality with men and being independent. Then you have the more traditional ones claiming to want a chivalrous gentleman.

I, however think that most women today pick and choose what to be when based upon what benefits them. If they want to argue about wages, they are all for equality. When it comes to violence and self-protection, they are more old-fashioned not believing that men using violence to defend themselves against women should be viable. When it comes to the first date, they are more traditional wishing that men should pick up the bill. When it comes to home duties, they are about equality not wanting to do more in the home than the man, etc.

If women were truly principled they would not pick and chose what benefits women the best, they'd either be 100% for equality or 100% for tradition.....