I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.

berryberrykicks · 2021-03-28T20:45:52+00:00

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elementalvirago · 2021-03-28T21:04:12+00:00

"Gore" is related to violence and bloodshed.

What the actual fuck with these males.

Bbeautifulbitch · 2021-03-28T21:23:47+00:00

Breast milk is a bodily fluid. She should start calling his cum gory and refusing to be exposed to such gore!!!

pickadaisy · 2021-03-28T20:36:49+00:00

This is a 35 year old man?!

Betcha’ he doesn’t have any problems with movie or video game gore, nor the gore he watches in porn.

He’s just so childish, I can’t believe he’ll be a father to a human being. It should be illegal.

Fuckdoesithurt956 · 2021-03-28T21:34:44+00:00

He doesn't say it but I suspect he only views breasts as sexual organs and doesn't want that "ruined" for him. Men like this have no business having kids.

Blackrose_ · 2021-03-28T21:05:36+00:00

The amount of detachment from "dad" is amazing. He'll be around for the so called "golden moments" then will piss all over the family either checking out or just neglecting the house work and ignoring it until it crumbles out from underneath him. He's pretty much not interested really.

This situation is what creates sole parent families. I bet old Dad in about 30 years is going to wake up and wonder why no one talks to him and he's alone. Idiot.

carlther · 2021-03-28T20:45:41+00:00

He is going to completely check out, and when he complains that "she changed and won't have sex with me" after the baby is born, he will not think twice about leaving them both. He honestly has no idea why she is angry and paints himself as a victim before the baby is even born!

Subject_Ticket · 2021-03-28T21:42:52+00:00

Everyday I feel more certain about never having kids with a man.

cherryspacesong · 2021-03-28T22:58:14+00:00

Poor woman, he’s clearly dragging his feet through their whole relationship. They’ve been together since 21/22 and only married for 3 years? She’s reading birthing books and taking classes and he doesn’t want to hear about it or be involved at all? Does he even want this kid? I feel so bad for her, she may as well be a single mum.

feeturingmyself · 2021-03-28T20:40:55+00:00

Breastfeeding is gory? Even his friends and family are being dismissive of his approach to this. Imagine being this disinterested in the pregnancy of your wife when she will birth YOUR child. If she was apply FDS, she would have left him by the 5th year of dating and no marriage

Wchijafm · 2021-03-28T22:13:31+00:00

Apparently talking about pregancy, birth and breast feeding aren't "regular adult conversations". How on earth does he think he's the mature one in the relationship?

Knitter-of-Data · 2021-03-29T01:52:27+00:00

I’ve been a lactation consultant and perinatal educator for 25 years - this scenario is so so so so so tragically not infrequent, and it’s MORE common now than it was when I first started.

Even more depressing is how impossible it is to not notice how common this is among men who are white, yet incredibly uncommon among all other men (and I’ve only ever seen non-white men eventually pull their shit together on this issue, with all of the white men I’ve seen like this, their behavior during pregnancy was the tip of the iceberg) The horrors like this are so utterly heartbreaking, especially because it’s not uncommon for us (the LC / mama support crew) to be the first ones who see in real time what she’s seen and known deep down for a while but had been able to maintain denial about until that point. Worst of all, so so so so many of these mamas THOUGHT HAVING A BABY WOULD HELP.

IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS ROCKY, GETTING PREGNANT WILL MAKE IT A MILLION TIMES WORSE. Friends don’t let friends make babies to try and fix men.

_queeeen_ · 2021-03-28T20:48:12+00:00

He’s a moron and he hates women. It sounds like it’s too late for an abortion. She should be documenting TF out of this and getting her affairs in order with her lawyer. Maybe one of her friends and their supportive partners will take her in so the three of them can care for the two newborns together.

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-03-28T22:03:24+00:00

I never want to be pregnant

FluffandRainclouds · 2021-03-28T23:18:23+00:00

Pregnancy is pretty scary to me from a biological perspective, but this guy almost sounds like he would prefer a plastic doll to a living, breathing human who is about to gift him a child with the miracle of birth! He can't even respect the tremendous uptaking and sacrifice for the family. Is every messy stage of having a baby going to be too "gory" for him?

MomNateChloe · 2021-03-28T22:34:46+00:00

Setting her up for her having to change all the diapers.

Shame, now she’ll have 2 children to raise with no help.

hyperjinxx · 2021-03-28T23:54:39+00:00

So is creating a human gory too? Like does sex disgust him as well? Seems like it would if any NATURAL HUMAN THING DISGUSTS HIM.

He’s trash and it’s time to kick him to the curb. 🗑

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-03-29T00:42:22+00:00

She did not need to get pregnant. She already has an infant to raise. Skid marks, diapers, what’s the difference at this point

2021-03-28T23:41:44+00:00

BREASTMILK IS FOOD. There is absolutely nothing gross about it.

CowgirlMolly · 2021-03-29T00:43:38+00:00

What a total piece of shit. This is why vetting is so important. You just “this stuff is gory,” is going to turn into “diapers are gory,” “vomit is gory,” and “drool is gory,” and that she’ll be doing all the work.

I’d love to give him a NoseFrida and see his reaction.

I also have to say I really look down on men who can’t handle female bodily functions as cowards. They’re definitely not HVM.

burpleseaurchin · 2021-03-29T00:51:24+00:00

Lmao you just know this guy is going to be "blindsided" by the divorce. And claim he "didn't know" she wanted him to go to those classes with her "tHaT bAdLy!"

Nifteroni-and-Cheese · 2021-03-29T03:27:59+00:00

Woman - this is what I want you to do to be supportive, my friend’s husbands are doing this and it’s my expectation that you’ll do the thing.

Husband - but I’m being supportive from a distance by not participating and getting grossed out when you talk about it! Why aren’t you grateful for my very distanced support?

NurseBubbleGum · 2021-03-29T06:19:35+00:00

Wondering when the divorce is coming...

Resentment from childbirth doesn't just disappear, and this fuck is never going to validate her feelings or apologize for his shit behavior.

What blows my mind is that her vagina was good enough to fuck but once a baby comes out with blood, it's gross. Her ass was good enough to eat until she shits herself during labor. Her tits were good enough to play with until a baby needs milk from them. Fuck men who can't deal with natural body processes. I'm disgusted that they can't wash their ass or clean their penieses well enough. The audacity.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-03-29T05:34:19+00:00

It's insane and depressing to watch so many men collectively decide to behave worse than animals sexually, while they expect the female half of sexuality and life to be completely inorganic and sanitized, as if they were having sex with dolls.

It's some Brave New World shit. Expecting to live like a pet animal in a cage, while other beings care for all the unpleasant life things.

RecordingImportant94 · 2021-03-29T11:38:17+00:00

Typical. She’s boring for taking an interest in the most significant thing that will ever happen to her and could leave her with lifelong physical issues. Breasts are ‘gory’ to these pathetic porn sick men as soon as the idea of them being used for their biological purpose is in sight. I breastfed for two years and my ex stopped touching/caressing me during sex for the entire time I was lactating, made me feel gross for doing the best for our child and let his family bully me into covering up or going into another room to feed making their disgust clear. Not to mention breastfeeding can dampen a woman’s libido, add that to sex becoming purely genital contact with no foreplay and he wondered why I wasn’t into it. This poor woman has some really shitty times ahead of her, I hope she gets out sooner rather than later.

ItLou · 2021-03-29T04:38:43+00:00

Why marry someone & have a child with them if you can't handle it? There isn't any excuse - you should have researched & gotten some sort of idea about child birth before deciding to have one. Don't just go through the motions just to do it, it pulls everyone down.

This guy isn't going to be the greatest father...

yolosunshine · 2021-03-29T09:11:49+00:00

This man put his body fluids in this woman and can’t handle that she has them.

Throw him away. Like from humanity away.

emptiness1017 · 2021-03-29T12:14:59+00:00

I’m sure he has several supporters saying she is being ridiculous and ignoring his needs.

“Why can’t my wife just stay my fuck toy!? Why is she being so disgusting carrying my offspring. Why doesn’t isn’t she immediately back to giving me all her time and attention now that the baby is born? She tricked me cause I didn’t sign up to be with a real person I wanted and ageless blow up doll!”

AntiqueGhost13 · 2021-03-29T15:05:31+00:00

He sounds like the kind of guy who thinks menstruation is "gross" and should be hidden. People who act like normal physiologic bodily functions are disgusting or "gory" are the weakest.

CrepeCraze · 2021-03-29T13:22:14+00:00

This poor woman is finding out he’s squeamish (?) about literally the thing that has made every person exist AFTER she gets pregnant. What a loser.

And the rumor is that WOMEN are DELICATE!!?? BAHAHAHAHA

Novemberinthechair · 2021-03-29T03:24:13+00:00

Gory? Fuck off, dude.

berrylikeova · 2021-03-29T13:23:41+00:00

I hope she ditches him.

Waste-Win · 2021-03-29T15:19:55+00:00

I'm so worry for this woman, she will be a single mother of two (the kid and the manchild), I mean He thinks this is "gory" and disgusting, what about baby fluids, will He support her from afar too?

binbeenbetter · 2021-03-28T21:05:54+00:00

Can u dm me the link to this post pls!

firenest · 2021-03-29T06:32:45+00:00

Gory

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-03-29T07:28:35+00:00

Yup, this was a dumpster fire.

lumijumalatar · 2021-03-29T09:01:05+00:00

He finally found out what and who breasts actually are there for, wow.

Curiousalice88 · 2021-03-29T09:04:01+00:00

So he's 35 and she's 22.

Now that she's pregnant she is maturing and isn't all spontaneous and going to the mall and getting dressed up but learning about the biggest change in her life more than likely and how to ensure how baby comes into the world safe and how to be a good mum.

I think I see the issue 😑

AwkwardDisaster4150 · 2021-03-29T19:07:49+00:00

I hate when men think of having kids as something the woman is doing and his only role is to “be supportive from a distance.” It should be something you’re both actively doing together.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-03-29T19:59:41+00:00

Imagine when he has to change a diaper, will he just fall over and die because the image is too great for his heart to take?

Like dude grow up. You see worse things on the internet/tv etc. Dudes like him shouldn't be able to procreate if they can't handle breast feeding or active birth.

Title	I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.
Author	berrylikeova
Upvotes	678
Comments	142
Date	March 28, 2021 8:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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