Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?

MsWriteNow07 · 2022-04-06T21:11:17+00:00

Yes. I wrote the post about not letting men into your home and not letting them know you have your own house and it was crossposted to a red pill forum. The guy who posted actually wrote, “Let’s use their strategy against them! Don’t let women know that you have a house and don’t let them come over!” That would’ve been really something if any of them actually had a house. 😆 The thing is if I ever see in.cels saying, let’s do what women are doing, I’m all for it. Yes, don’t have sex! Yes, go to therapy and the gym! Yes, leave women alone and focus on leveling up your life. But it’s never anything that productive or positive, just a bunch of manipulative foolishness that we never said or did.

sleepysiri · 2022-04-06T18:58:48+00:00

Yes.

One of my comments which verbatim said, “it’s not that hard to be a HVM, or to not be an asshole. Just don’t be an asshole.”

And some butthurt village idiot shared it saying something like, “oh yeah, it’s so easy to change your height and be rich.” Like, projection much 🤡

I never mentioned anything about height or money. But if that’s what men think make a HVM, whatever.

Objective_Ad7771 · 2022-04-06T16:18:31+00:00

FDS isn't popular amongst men and this platform has a male majority. FDS might get hate but hey. Do we really care? I would rather get bullied on reddit by a nobody than being mistreated irl.

StrawberryMoon3 · 2022-04-06T18:27:22+00:00

Yes and it's not surprising at all. Just history repeating itself. Since when do men champion women's rights and women's well being enthusiastically? Since when do men have women's best interest at heart?

Pahapan · 2022-04-06T15:54:32+00:00

Those are our fanboys, lol. They're more obsessed with us than we are with ourselves. I used to check those responses out but I realized time and time again they cherry pick things to criticize, take things out of context, put words in our mouth, etc. None of it is intellectually honest discourse. They're trying to minimize the uncomfortable cognitive dissonance our content stirs up in them.

Davina33 · 2022-04-06T17:46:34+00:00

I've seen my comments shared in other subs. There are lots of scrotes obsessed with us.

thighvalue · 2022-04-06T16:41:19+00:00

Yeah I had one about my boyfriend, now husband, shared to fds pros. And honestly, that is just showing me that I’m doing something right

datthingy · 2022-04-06T17:13:54+00:00

Yeah any viral post on Reddit that mentions a woman usually has some reference to FDS in the controversial comments. They absolutely hate us lmao. They have this idea that we are man hating femcels who can’t get a man so we lash out on this forum.

😐 They are so obsessed with us.

stealthreplife · 2022-04-06T17:05:34+00:00

I've also had men stalk comments in other, irrelevant subreddits to try to get my attention after saying something relatively tame. A lot of men really can't stand the thought of FDS and having to put effort into a relationship, or having to treat women as human.

Biracial_tooth_fairy · 2022-04-06T17:39:02+00:00

I know they call us the "free dinner strategy" even though we've been the ones cooking for their asses since the beginning of time

blasthead99 · 2022-04-06T18:59:21+00:00

Literally all the time. Think of it this way - their whole lives, men have been told that what they are doing is completely fine. Watching porn, having sex with multiple women at once, hitting and quitting it, breadcrumbing etc. Mainstream (liberal) feminism even encourages this behavior. Now finally, along comes FDS (or any radical feminist subs) that actually point out how shitty their behavior has been their entire lives. Not only that, but threatens to enact change. If all women blocked guys out of their lives who did this stuff you can bet there would be a major global shift on a lot of these issues. They are very defensive and pissed about it or they'd have to admit how awful they have been to women this whole time, and they've had their own libfem girlfriends and media to back them up.

Any time in history where the norm is actually being challenged gets lots and lots of backlash. Even when women wanted basic rights, like voting, men lashed out and fought us tooth and nail.

It is no surprise they are lashing out against FDS. It is actually a good sign. We have grown to a few hundred thousand women and still growing. There is power in what we are doing. And now we have taken the movement outside of reddit with a kick ass podcast, Patreon, website etc so even without reddit the movement still stands.

SayNad · 2022-04-06T16:45:53+00:00

Yes it is normal. You will experience it a lot more once you become a regular posters.

Plus that redditcare message. Plus scrotes pretending to be good boyz trying to butter you up with empty praises and listing "proofs" why they are not like other guys. And trying to start a conversation with you.

Block and report. And turn off messaging. Pay them no mind.

motokos_ghost · 2022-04-06T16:32:25+00:00

yeah, i've seen FDS come up on the cringe subs. the posts are edited to make FDS look completely irrational, just typical propaganda.

Carneliancat · 2022-04-06T16:26:48+00:00

Oh, pay no mind! It's the equivalent of the naughty schoolboy dipping the pigtail of the girl he likes into the inkwell. Except with more scrote.

Just a bunch of lonely fools eating their hearts out over women they will never be able to have. They sure do find us fascinating, though. Must see something they like, to lurk here so often!

slayeroftruth · 2022-04-06T18:15:56+00:00

Yes. I saw view discussion in another community as well. They got mad when saying how men with beards change their looks and is worse than they moan about makeup being. I found it amusing how sensitive they were being. Women are bashed so much on internet for looks including men taking pictures of random women to be cruel about women online, yet they want to moan about post in FDS saying truth about beards. It shows how they would never be able to be judged like women.

saint-jezebel · 2022-04-06T16:44:34+00:00

I’ve seen it and at the end of the day, the general attitude I usually have is “IDC” followed by “Why’re you so obsessed with me (us)?”

For men who place us in categories such as So BaD, ToXiC, AnGrY, LoW VaLuE and UnAtTrAcTiVe, they sure follow us a lot and since they can’t sub, they actively type in the sub name and read our posts. For men who claim to think so little about us, they go out of their way to find us and get our attention. Outside of messages, cross-posting is the other way to get our attention since they can’t comment here.

I posted a while back about different strategies of vetting me, mainly through listening skills. My email (which forwards men who try to comment but can’t, Reddit still sends the messages) and inbox was in shambles. Imagine a man who doesn’t want me crying in my inbox that I’m evil, and that was just one of them.

Reddit has a new function to get people the help and support they need. If you wish.

extraodi · 2022-04-06T18:17:15+00:00

Oh absolutely! Even worse they don’t have the decency to cross your username out. If you don’t have your DMs closed they will blow that shxt up too. Send some kind of mental health prompt.

I’m convinced these are the kind of men who would probably retaliate in real life if you reject them or disagree with what they have to say.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2022-04-07T07:23:48+00:00

Yes, and it gets worse.

Apparently a bunch of YouTube/PUA and “podcast” venues will screen record my content and read it outloud for their subscribers, who would come and look for me on Reddit and, of course, tell me I’d die alone, my expectations are impossible…. 🙄

I’m delusional and crazy, I’m psycho, I’m imaginary and don’t exist, etc, etc.

So please, if you’re going to post on FDS, please exercise good OPSEC, because they WILL try to doxx you, and Reddit will side with the incels and protect incels over women.

These people will dig up comments from 2.5 years ago and send you threats at odd hours of the night because you dare be attracted to handsome HVM and not hideous LVM

ceramicunicorn · 2022-04-06T17:02:24+00:00

These are men who are shit on at work- if they have a job at all- and do not feel they are succeeding sexually. With respect from other men being of utmost importance to them, unlikely they have much social status or respect in the male pecking order. The usual paths where a man may assert his might and dominance do not exist for him, and as a lazy chap, instead of leveling up, he takes the easy mode and seeks quick gratification by “owning” women on social media….when he’s not watching porn. The whole “If you can’t fuck ‘em, fight ‘em” mentality is pretty common on Reddit. Especially when it comes to women who subscribe to an ideology that does not abide by needing men unconditionally.

The kind of men who used to find purpose in being pushed into wars and/or a guaranteed nuclear family. Those options aren’t givens anymore, so you have this whole class of men just hanging out not really knowing what to do with themselves by their own initiative.

oscine23 · 2022-04-06T17:17:04+00:00

No, but a scrote called me the N-word in my messages for a post that I made here shitting on fake ‘nice guys’

thighvalue · 2022-04-06T16:40:32+00:00

Yeah I got one about my boyfriend, now husband, shared to fds pros

Honestly, that is just telling me I’m doing something right

solstice100 · 2022-04-06T20:19:39+00:00

those are just our orbiters lol

ButterfliesHurricane · 2022-04-06T17:33:47+00:00

Lol that is pretty pathetic 🤣. Either they have very boring to no lives or they really want to become better people and religiously follow us to self improve.

I guess either way, it’s free advertising, right? 🙄

eatapeach18 · 2022-04-06T23:12:09+00:00

Someone went through my post history and shared pics of me in a wedding dress (that I had posted in the wedding planning sub) and said “this is the face of FDS” and called me fat, even though my physique is very much average at worst 🤷🏽‍♀️

instantsilver · 2022-04-06T22:20:55+00:00

I always laugh when I see subs dedicated to making fun of another sub, like they don't seem to realize that they look unhinged and obsessed by constantly lurking then re-posting what they perceive as stupid.

Lady-Kittycat · 2022-04-06T19:35:12+00:00

Its kinda sad that they have nothing better to do 😅

Kingkazola · 2022-04-06T20:11:15+00:00

Yeah they're pathetic so, I just ignore them. No use in arguing with brain dead scrotes 🤷🏾‍♀️

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2022-04-06T20:19:01+00:00

Yes, my post about why testing for sexual compatibility on a man's side is bullshit. They were so confused about the chickens 😂

GoldandGlowing · 2022-04-06T20:10:20+00:00

The short community cross posted a comment of mines and got in a tizzy lol

katiekat0214 · 2022-04-06T21:47:45+00:00

Yep, once on a cringe post. I remember that post and stand by it: no thanks to single fathers. So a woman having a preference and stating is is cringey? Yeah right.

JulyParade · 2022-04-06T18:21:52+00:00

I've seen FDS shared a few times. It's mostly to "prove" that we're bad people - total projection. Fortunately, people usually call out these posts. We just want to date terrific people. It's not that much to ask and most people get it.

Have you ever seen r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy reposted? Nope. Doesn't fit their women hating agenda.

ItsFreezen · 2022-04-07T16:19:46+00:00

Hey Scrotes and Pickmes. Women have a right to discuss how to protect themselves from abusive Scrotes. And if you don't agree with that You Hate women. Facts don't have feelings.

SarcasmSlide · 2022-04-08T03:07:07+00:00

What men think about my words is of absolutely no concern to me. 💅🏻

BopBopB00p · 2022-04-07T01:47:17+00:00

Men are so upset about not getting a concubine and house slave these days. And then they complain that THEY are the ones being oppressed and discriminated against. So tired of this rhetoric from crybaby men.

PalmTreePhilosophy · 2022-04-07T16:46:04+00:00

Can't remember how I came across that anti-FDS sub but I was stupid enough to engage with it. They're just very controlling men who don't understand that women are living, breathing people with opinions and feelings.

warinmymind94 · 2022-04-07T22:31:45+00:00

Several of mine are cross posted and dragged.

You're doing something right. We are onto lvm and exposing them, hence the mantrums

tiavarga · 2022-04-07T01:58:14+00:00

And don’t forget other subs banning you just for subbing to FDS—even if you don’t comment! SMH

Title	Have you ever seen your threads on FDS being shared in other subs?
Author	fireforestfairy
Upvotes	496
Comments	93
Date	April 6, 2022 3:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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