notice the double standard

cannedboelyn · 2020-07-23T03:06:47+00:00

“She has to be able to bleed like a human but not have any veins 🤦🏼‍♀️” lol

Or my favorite part is when they find out a girl they like had plastic surgery: “I don’t like fake boobs or butts. I prefer natural”

Thestral-glow6 · 2020-07-22T22:29:39+00:00

She’s got to be “thiccccccccc” In all the right places, with no cellulite, stretch marks, scars, body hair or “skin imperfections” 🤦🏼‍♀️👀🤦🏼‍♀️🙄

Booty_Hair · 2020-07-22T22:04:28+00:00

Flat tummy, big boobs, fat ass? This ain’t no build-a-bitch!

meecy166 · 2020-07-23T00:01:11+00:00

As a skinny flat chest, flat booty girl, I don’t get offended and entitled when men say that, and trust me I’ve heard it all my life, straight to my face and I don’t even react, tell a man that he is not your preference and you could lose your life

talldrankofH2O · 2020-07-22T21:57:47+00:00

Literally them. I saw one argue last night that a woman can get “unfat, but I can’t get unshort”, like it’s partially true, but we also cannot change our bone structures or where we gain fat (boobs or ass for example). They can’t stand women even mentioning height

crenelates · 2020-07-23T05:12:33+00:00

men bring up the height thing like they’re so oppressed because of it. then also in the same breath will treat tall women like they’re freaks of nature and not feminine, and say that they only want a woman below 5’9”.

source: i am 6’1”

MonicaLSolis · 2020-07-22T23:31:38+00:00

To be honest, I do not mind rejecting short men at all. The most misogynistic and abusive men I ever dated were all short. They all had a chip on their shoulder when it came to women.

GlitterLoveAngel · 2020-07-23T01:12:52+00:00

It’s funny on how they get mad at women for wanting to date tall men yet men won’t date a woman unless she’s shorter than him.

MonicaLSolis · 2020-07-22T22:16:29+00:00

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MonicaLSolis · 2020-07-22T23:18:41+00:00

Men: She has got to have big tits, nice ass, but she has got to have a flat stomach.

Women: I like tall men

Men: You ******* shallow whores!!!!!1!!!1

It is okay for men to want women with good secondary sex characteristics. But if we want a man with good secondary sex characteristics (like height) then we are the shallow ones

circescircus · 2020-07-22T22:39:00+00:00

I think most women just want a guy who is taller than them, a plus if he's still taller when she's wearing heels. Scrotes exaggerate even the smallest preference women have, and make it into something grotesque and ridiculous. Based on the way they talk about women's preference for tall(er) men, you'd think that women refuse to date any man under 6'5. Yet go out into the world all around you, and you'll see that men of average or even below average height are partnered.

I also have a theory that part of this is scrotes having homoerotic feelings for men, and they project onto women by saying we're the ones who prefer jacked and/or very tall men. Dude, maybe that is your preference, it's not mine.

I prefer a man who is taller than me, more muscular than me... aka someone who looks like a man and not like a blob. 5'9-6 feet, muscular/athletic in a natural way (not beefing up the same few muscles at the gym). I do think men like Dolph Lundgren back in the day are a specimen and are very easy to look at, but appreciating a beautiful person's looks does not mean that that's literally what I want in a life partner, or what I insist on. But I also view men as human and don't think of them as a subhuman monolith with different ages, bodies, superficial characteristics the way men do with women.

They think women are like men, where they look at a top 1% physicality woman and think they are going to cross paths with someone like that, have that person be interested in them, be compatible, etc. They are delusional and are always projecting.

Pahapan · 2020-07-23T02:25:24+00:00

I'm 5'10" and I don't really have a height preference. I'm not into super tall gangly dudes and I can appreciate a stocky Wolverine type who's shorter than me. But the two guys I dated who were shorter than me had a complex about it. It lowkey made them uncomfortable to be dating a woman taller than them. And then a more recent guy I dated who's 2 inches taller than me said that if I'd been the same height as him or taller that he wouldn't have been interested in me. 🤔

mermaid-babe · 2020-07-23T00:35:11+00:00

I’m skinny, and taller then average. I’ve got a flat ass and smaller boobs. I had a guy tell me I was thick... I was like I’m not ? That’s just a lie. So I was mad, if you want to compliment me, say something true,not something you think I want to hear. And I told him as much. Got the classic “aright bitch just accept the compliment”

Elturtleo · 2020-07-23T04:33:43+00:00

They’ll also yell about how fat women only have nice hair, makeup, and nails to “hide” them being fat. The fuck? Nails and makeup make me happy and I can make a damn good polygel set. Losing weight doesn’t happen overnight either. I have a diagnosed stress eating disorder that I’ve mostly gotten a handle on and pcos or something similar(can’t follow up till my insurance switches.).

They can be fat and ugly all they want of course. I feel so bad for straight women.

stalolol · 2020-07-23T04:44:16+00:00

Men also have a height preference for women under 5'8"; multiple studies show a drop off in interest for women above that height. Having a preference is fine. Where some men err is when they become enraged that women have them as well. It's obnoxious when a 5'6" guy acts like a woman not being into him is a transgression.

Parking-Act · 2020-07-22T21:52:43+00:00

Precisely!!

giggirltra · 2020-07-23T02:01:46+00:00

SERIOUSLY!!!!!

loudest_gusset · 2020-07-23T13:34:51+00:00

You can do everything possible and still not have that "perfect" figure without surgery. I had boobs and an ass, but I had rolls, chub rub, and a protruding belly. I lost 70 lbs, packed on muscle, and sure I lost the rolls, chub rub, and earned a flat stomach, but now no boobs and no ass.

Yet, I'm the shallow bitch when I ask for a man with muscular arms and no beer belly. THAT is totally in every man's control, unlike where our fat distribution ends up.

vietnamese-bitch · 2020-07-23T12:55:44+00:00

Accurate. I’m Asian and a slimmer woman without the idealized boobs, ass and snatched waist that plagues today’s society standards and the body men are pigs for. They have no problems bashing and skinny shaming my body type for it. But god forbid I tell them they’re too short for me.

https://youtu.be/ueNvsBcqusI

The comments in this video talking shit about the short girl wanting a taller guy is an example. So just because she’s short, she’s not allowed to want a taller man? The title of the video is straightforward. You’re supposed to be blunt about your preferences. Men can’t handle it when women got standards or tastes.

(Also @mods, I’m seeing scrotes lurking here giving unwanted opinions and just reported a few users that are obviously men.)

2020-07-22T23:02:47+00:00

Men are full of shit.

They think It’s OK for them to dislike fat women, but women shouldn’t dislike short men, because “she can lose weight” but men “can’t grow tall”.

But if she has a medical condition where it’s impossible to lose weight, they still wouldn’t date one!!

capresesalad1985 · 2020-07-23T14:37:27+00:00

Rihanna said it best...”if you want a butt, your gonna have a gut”

Orphanedpinkpetals · 2020-07-23T00:19:52+00:00

I just read that women arent sup posed to have flat tummies. Is that really true? I've been wasting my life since 10- 21 trying to get something unattainable???????

heladosky · 2020-07-23T01:28:12+00:00

I remember one time I had a thing with a guy, he always told me he loved my butt because is big he said, but obviously I have belly, idk why but he thought I had a flat stomach, then he started to compare me to other girls because they had flat stomachs, I ignored him and he was confused, he’s so delusional istg.

ThrowingItIntoTheSea · 2020-07-23T04:17:38+00:00

Tall... and, uhm, not last in line when the D was being given out. Sorry boys, it’s totally true. It absolutely matters.

certifiedcatfish · 2020-07-23T07:58:47+00:00

And these same dudes will argue you that 130lbs is fat unless she is 6' or something. They are trying to preach about bIoLoGy, but they don't know sh*t about it.

whiterabbit818 · 2020-07-22T22:05:18+00:00

Hahaha TRUE!!!

thinkpinkhair · 2020-07-23T04:16:35+00:00

My man treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king, he loves me for all my curves not big boobs and ass, but all the rolls in between. This post is right on.

love2cit · 2020-07-22T23:16:04+00:00

Ever green post.

2020-07-23T13:36:20+00:00

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missyou2017 · 2020-07-23T02:58:15+00:00

BuT YoU CaN'T ChAnGe YoUr HeIgHt

2020-07-23T06:16:16+00:00

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gigababejfl · 2020-07-26T22:10:47+00:00

Oop!!!

sisterofnarcissus · 2020-07-23T07:36:30+00:00

„B-but... a woman can lose weight, men won’t grow taller!” Sorry, I have standards. I can let it go if you have tattoos, but I refuse to date below 6’1, just like you refuse to date above 55kg. Gee, what random scrote downvoted me? 😂😂😂

freebirdfly · 2020-07-23T04:23:05+00:00

Too accurate

Title	notice the double standard
Author	makeitfeelfaraway
Upvotes	2634
Comments	173
Date	July 22, 2020 9:50 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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