Oh dear god...

berryberrykicks · 2021-04-10T00:19:02+00:00

You know who else didn’t like their sexual partners to move around? Jeffrey Dahmer

52490 · 2021-04-10T00:20:38+00:00

This is how serial killers’ girlfriends describe their boyfriend in their true crime documentary 30 years later. “Something was off when he could only come while I was playing dead...but I don’t know”

Shinygoldendragonfly · 2021-04-10T00:27:14+00:00

It's called NECROPHILIA, just because you chose not to label it as a fetish, doesn't mean that it's not a fetish. She has every right to view you as a serial killer ,If your actions are matching with those who go on a murder spree later on in life.

Notspecificc · 2021-04-10T00:12:17+00:00

She needs help, ASAP! She's acting like he's some "creepy serial killer" because he is or soon will be!

atreegrowsinbrixton · 2021-04-10T01:04:45+00:00

Notice how "people have different tastes" and there's nothing wrong with it. But the second she voices a preference he gets defensive and expects her to imitate his exes.

Apprehensive_Ad_7917 · 2021-04-10T01:34:57+00:00

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huevos_and_whiskey · 2021-04-10T00:39:38+00:00

Please be a troll, please be a troll, please be a troll...

lilacrain331 · 2021-04-10T00:23:04+00:00

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carlther · 2021-04-10T01:49:34+00:00

6 or 7?! He clearly has a problem that even the best therapists can't fix (and, mark my words, he will wind up in prison for depraved shit). And, if he's not lying about his exes allowing him to do it to them, this is why we need to EDUCATE women that they do not need to put up with this shit! It hurts all of us!

officialvevo · 2021-04-10T00:28:11+00:00

This guy is definitely a necrophile and can only get off if he can imagine the girl he is fucking is dead 🤢

spinsterchachkies · 2021-04-10T00:57:00+00:00

He’s like “you’re acting like I’m some kind of creepy serial killer!” Yep you read my mind Dahmer.

amhran_oiche · 2021-04-10T02:57:28+00:00

All the people in the comments saying that a lot of "non-vanilla" people are into "sleep sex" like those are your only 2 sides of a coin?? People get off on limp partners (and if course it's always going to be a woman, how can you fuck a limp man?) and not enough people think that's a little too fucking close to rape and necrophilia? I seriously feel so ill.

Just because someone has a desire does not mean it is natural, normal, or should be indulged.

2340000 · 2021-04-10T00:10:52+00:00

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esoldelulu · 2021-04-10T02:28:59+00:00

Aside from the blatant triangulating tactic by mentioning how his ex’s did it, this boy is beyond messed up. He’s been re-enacting the depraved ped0p0rn he prolly stumbled upon on the internet. The mentioning of committing sexual assault at a young age ... I can’t ... like ... I’m prolly gonna have to talk to my therapist about it cuz I’m a grown ass woman and it’s triggering for me.

I don’t get it. Whyyy is this girl still with him? I dumped boys when I was in high school for much, much, MUCH less. And I certainly would’ve run for the hills over this weird sex.

How in the hell does it get to this point where a young person asks, should I be worried? Like whyyy do you need this sense of wrongness validated still ... think for yourself, woman, listen to your instincts, and GTFO there.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-04-10T02:13:12+00:00

I know a woman whose baby daddy convinced her to take sleeping pills so he could get off with a limp body. They’re not together, but she’s still obsessed with him. 🙄

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-04-10T03:23:57+00:00

comments section ; let me just eggshell around the worst crime known to man (kink shaming)

The reality is that her boyfriend is probably a sociopath/psychopath and will escalate to murder and necrophilia within is life until he gets caught

2021-04-10T01:29:12+00:00

Too many layers of fucked up to even unpack this one ladies.

throwaway32132134 · 2021-04-10T02:20:02+00:00

WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. I AM SO DISTURBED. I don't even know what I would say if a guy ever asked me to be motionless during sex. I think I would just leave. I hate when men say "oh well so and so let me do it." That's great for them. Unfortunately I'm not them, so I'm not doing it. What's even the point of that? Like I'm going to suddenly be like "Oh, I was against it before but now that I know that so and so does it, I'm on board." No, everyone's boundaries are different. I've even had guys do that with mundane things like music LOL. One guy was like "oh my ex likes country music so you should listen to it more." (Not even like with him, say if we were in the car together going somewhere. He wanted me to listen to it on my own. He wanted me to be familiar with the bands/songs he likes) LOOL. Do you think I started listening to country music? No, I just said "Okay that's great. Unfortunately, I'm not your ex and I don't like country music so I will not be listening to it." Why do I need to like everything they like? I'm a completely different person.

Fitncurly · 2021-04-10T02:48:36+00:00

This is serial killer shit

2021-04-10T00:45:16+00:00

Is there even a question here?

Splatzy19 · 2021-04-10T03:13:11+00:00

This is the type of background stuff the police dig up in those true crime stories.

2021-04-10T01:39:09+00:00

Omg LEAVE?! He’s not the one!

DisastrousSundae · 2021-04-10T01:08:23+00:00

I'm sure if they just communicate the problem will be solved 🤡🤡

daisy_0720 · 2021-04-10T05:45:33+00:00

If his exes were so 'happy' doing this... where are they now?

Greendreem · 2021-04-10T02:40:59+00:00

My ex would make me stay very still and force me to stay quiet during sec. I felt like a human fleshlight. I hope this girl leaves this scrote.

amhran_oiche · 2021-04-10T02:49:31+00:00

This makes me sick. I literally can't believe that regardless of what the defenders think this "kink" is they're just totally okay that he is asking her not to enjoy it? She is not a participant any further than she is a masturbator sleeve for him? I'm going to throw up.

MoreMochaPlease · 2021-04-10T02:36:30+00:00

I’m pretty sure this was a Criminal Minds or Law & Order: SVU Episode

She needs to cut contact with him ASAP.

Gloomy-Ad3145 · 2021-04-10T05:32:06+00:00

Had a guy ask if I could cry during... Called him out for being creepy and I was the bad guy.

throwawayheyyy5 · 2021-04-10T03:56:22+00:00

Future killer and necrophiliac. Disgusting.

c_a_t_lady · 2021-04-10T08:39:49+00:00

Some people don't like super "active sex", and that's fine I suppose. 🤷🏻‍♀️

But if a girl "feeling too alive" is a turn-off and he even tells her to pretend she's dead, then it kinda sounds like he wants to date a doll or a dead woman. 😰

In which case he should look for some kind of sexual counselling/therapy or she should look for a new partner...

TululahJayne · 2021-04-10T05:32:23+00:00

I'm still upset about the gal with the slugs in her drink. This is too much. 😂😂😂 Ya boy is a whole serial killer, sweets!

AnniaT · 2021-04-10T04:29:47+00:00

Necrophiliac? Wtf is this? Serial killer in the making. She needs to run for the hills now.

Novemberinthechair · 2021-04-10T06:42:40+00:00

He wants to have sex with a corpse?

She needs to take his name down and start documenting. He's a future serial killer.

thinktwiceorelse · 2021-04-10T07:37:32+00:00

I wish it was a norm to talk to their exes... Somehow the exes are always fine with the fucked up shit their ex boyfriends used to do...But somehow they're exes too.

ello-motto · 2021-04-10T10:14:48+00:00

Can someone message her to come to FDS?

We don't need any more women second guessing themselves like this.

ceramicunicorn · 2021-04-10T02:35:49+00:00

Sigh.

zorua · 2021-04-10T04:51:27+00:00

Thats mortifying.

Davina33 · 2021-04-10T08:12:09+00:00

Ooh, just what I've always wanted. To fuck a necrophiliac/s

Woman, get out of there! Bet this man is already digging up graves.

2021-04-10T11:11:50+00:00

I'm not going to fuss about his preferences. We all have them.

Well I will. The rest of that paragraph made sense but that part was so dumb. His preferences are a clear sign that he will someday graduate to necrophilia and/or rape and murder (and not necessarily in that order). This guy is sick and I hope she leaves him ASAP.

anywaysheresrational · 2021-04-10T05:14:21+00:00

FUCKING YIKES

frostedgemstone · 2021-04-10T08:53:31+00:00

The behavior stemming from childhood is extremely horrifying. Of course it was never seriously reprimanded/corrected by anyone because nothing men and boys do is bad if it’s for their pleasure (/s). Even the top comment couldn’t stop itself from somehow making it seem like the basis of this behavior is normal

BabyGothQ · 2021-04-10T10:09:36+00:00

..and what about her orgasms? Is she never supposed to enjoy sex again? She’s doing what he wants.. what about what she wants? Yikes.

Resident-Equipment95 · 2021-04-10T03:14:35+00:00

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2021-04-10T07:36:28+00:00

Triangulation..girl, run!

2021-04-10T09:25:51+00:00

I have never heard of a kink that's not fucked up and comes a t a woman's expense. Kink-shame away. This shit needs to die. (no pun intended)>

But this is serious more effed up then usual. I hope she dumps him.

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-04-10T08:48:55+00:00

Should I be worried? YES!?! How is this a question!?

MadameDestruction · 2021-04-10T11:03:04+00:00

And they're only 18...

Talismantis · 2021-04-10T06:59:15+00:00

This can be so damaging for a woman. A friend and I were trading stories and he told me: "Once I went home with a woman and when we were kissing on her couch she asked me to go up to bed with her. Upstairs she took off her clothes and lay down very still in the bed and said 'do what you like.'. all I could think to do was apologise and leave."

I can't imagine what led her to this stage in her sexual behaviour. It's upsetting to think that she probably more often than not got a positive reaction with this approach.

Feminineprincess · 2021-04-10T11:39:59+00:00

Another Jeffery Dahmer on the loose smh

Orcrista · 2021-04-10T14:51:25+00:00

Let me clarify what he said for the confused young woman:

Don't move around. I get turned off when I realise you are actually alive. You being alive when we have sex is gross to me.

Now, young lady, proceed however you will with this information.

pinkcityscape · 2021-04-10T14:12:04+00:00

Sounds like a serial killer’s origin story. Poor girl.

ugglee_exe · 2021-04-10T14:41:45+00:00

‘I’m not going to fuss about his preferences’. Sis, is this not the origin story for a lot of necrophiliac serial killers?...

1Here4Bach · 2021-04-10T21:18:24+00:00

These same men would blame her for not seeing the warning signs if he ever murder her and had sex with her corpse.

2021-04-11T00:40:30+00:00

It is a fetish.

You should be worried.

Time to move on, sis.

CityOfBirth · 2021-04-10T14:28:31+00:00

"Just pretend to be a corpse or I'll make you into one. Actually I'll probably make you into an actual corpse anyway because kinks always escalate. Hey no kinkshaming!"

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-04-10T16:39:06+00:00

I love that they get offended when you accuse them of being exactly what they are.

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light_workerx3 · 2021-04-10T19:33:17+00:00

Ummm... Yeah. I'd run so fast. 🏃🏻‍♀️💨

Noogirl · 2021-04-10T20:47:28+00:00

HAS SHE NOT WATCHED “THE FALL”???

radsera99 · 2021-04-10T21:25:06+00:00

Liberal feminists will be like don’t kinkshame

Title	Oh dear god...
Author	AcadiaLeather5071
Upvotes	758
Comments	119
Date	April 10, 2021 12:09 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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