Breadcrumbing is one of the darkest psychological tactics that men use to keep you on the hook.

Run far far away whenever you sense it happening to you and don’t look back.

Analogy:

Imagine a dog gets a wonderful bowl of food on a porch and it eats it’s tummy full.

The next day the dog comes back and there’s another bowl of delicious food waiting for it. Yay!

The next day it comes back... nothing. It thinks hmmm... maybe it’s just an off day... then leaves hungry.

Dog comes back the next day, there’s a small itty bitty piece of food. The dog gobbles it up and is not satisfied; it knows full well it’s not enough, but is too hungry to leave it. It hopes tomorrow will be better.

Next day the dog comes back, there’s a slightly bigger piece of food, but nowhere near the original heaping bowl from the earlier days. The dog is disappointed, but still eats it.

The dog goes back the next day but decides if the food is still not enough, maybe it will try going to another porch for more food. But surprise surprise... suddenly the bowl is full again, like the earlier days. No need to go elsewhere. Yay! We’re back in business.

The dog comes back again the next day... hopeful... and sees the smallest piece of food yet.

You see the game?

Please don’t allow men to do this to you!!! This is the height of MEANNESS!!

They’re making you hungry and feeding you bits of food to keep you in the hook, hoping for more one day. They baited you with the original full heaps, and they know you can smell it... crave it.

This is a f*cking EVIL tactic and you should run from any man that attempts to screw with your mind like this.

They’re doing it for attention and validation!

There are likely many others waiting for food. 10,15 even... a harem... all getting bits. At the same time it’s someone else’s turn to get a full bowl!

This is DAMAGING and can waste your life by making you come back to the porch over and over again for months or even years, hungry, in hopes of regular full bowls.

If someone did this to your pet you would go BALLISTIC.

Why would you allow it to happen to you?

Don’t!