Daily Community Chat Megathread

threeman_2 · 2023-06-25T10:08:35+00:00

I’ve approached a lot of women. Honestly most/all women regardless of looks/attractiveness are going to be difficult and have lots of men chasing them. You might as well go for the most attractive (in your eyes) woman.

Ylduts · 2023-06-25T09:51:01+00:00

Why is it ok for women to tell men, “shit or get off the pot” when it comes to marriage/dating but it isn’t ok for men to tell women, “shit or get off the pot” when it comes to sex/dating?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-25T09:08:04+00:00

To all the dads with daughters

No matter how much of a good dad there's just somethings she won't open up about especially about the guys she's seeing

So make peace with that

throwawayVishot · 2023-06-25T08:39:19+00:00

PPD Chads. Women overestimate the value of youth. Agree or disagree?

Rebexl5150 · 2023-06-25T08:39:04+00:00

90% of men are ignored by women.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-25T07:31:22+00:00

I swear some women have no concept how money is made

The idea you need to make more than someone who also works to the point where you financially take of them but simultaneously need to also do chores/household work is bizarre to me

If l'm making more than you to the point l can financially take care of you, then just make my life easier by doing the damn chores since you've more time on your hands

lehibu38 · 2023-06-25T06:36:09+00:00

The tiktok algorithm mentally destroyed me again, saw multiple "what race would you not date" 80% of the answers are Indian, it's all so tiresome.

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-25T05:46:34+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/ALs40QP

What the fuck is going

I’m in Capitol Hill

Wtf is this

They’re doing that BOOM BOOM BOOK song

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-25T05:36:44+00:00

I’m now traveling in beteeen bars: I successfully made multiple people very uncomfortable by being in their space

I didn’t talk to anyone but all the chairs on both sides of me for 2 rows were gone because people moved further away from me 😎

There were people on this subreddit who unironically told me to warm approach people just fyi

Anyway off to the next bar in an Uber

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-06-25T05:21:59+00:00

So many men would improve their lives instantaneously if they just followed the ideology of:

"Do the hard work even when you don't feel like it."

Masculine men don't make their decisions based on how they feel nor do they choose to do something based on how they feel, they workout every day because they have to, they don't apply themselves to everything they do based on how they feel, they just do it.

If every man did things based on how he felt, he wouldn't get anything done.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-25T05:04:27+00:00

Just came back from a local anime convention. Was very interesting as a lot of women there were actually very attractive and the amount of women who had their nails painted were very high. I’ll be going back next year to say the least.

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-25T04:34:43+00:00

And I’m off to da bar

SorryEm · 2023-06-25T04:19:23+00:00

All of these old men trying to STEAL our young women.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-25T04:09:02+00:00

Serious:

What’s the biggest regret you have?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-06-25T03:45:57+00:00

In my experience, if you have a bad argument with a female friend, chances of reconciling your friendship are practically 0.

But with guys, pretty much some bonding time is needed to mend fresh wounds and then you're boys again.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-06-25T03:33:22+00:00

Dating sub chats...

Only young people meet their parents for dinner apparently.

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-25T03:12:10+00:00

I do think it is VERY interesting how men and women react to me differently

At a bar to men I am a very amusing oddity so I’ve had some convos with dudes about why I act like I act and they’re like “that’s so wild man” and they’ll call their friend over and be like “hey check it out the reason he’s like this is” and then he’ll come over to look at the zoo monkey too

But women are like understandably extremely annoyed or kind of scared

saraimarsena · 2023-06-25T03:08:44+00:00

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dbz__f · 2023-06-25T03:00:10+00:00

At what point did you stop being cutesy lovey dovey with your partner? Me and my gf will never stop. We even wear matching clothes most of the time

Feel free to vomit

dbz__f · 2023-06-25T02:57:56+00:00

Finding a gf doesn’t cure depression but I think that having someone you love and who loves you and is a source of warmth and emotional support goes a very long way in changing your life and bringing in a lot of positivity

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2023-06-25T02:45:37+00:00

Kanye has put on a shit ton of weight wtf

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-25T02:35:16+00:00

I sent my fiance this and she just reacted with a "🤨". Idc tho whoever made this is speaking facts.

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-25T02:19:05+00:00

Should I go to the bar tonight and bother (be physically in the presence of) women again? 👀

Last night I was asked to move because she thought I was weird and she wanted someone else to sit there, maybe we can get that craziness again

Willow-girl · 2023-06-25T01:23:02+00:00

We visited our (hopefully) future woodlot, poked around a bit and discovered it isn't much of a woodlot at all! Beyond the thicket along the front of the property (which turned out to be an overgrown privet hedge) was a large, sunny clearing -- the old homesite -- not grown over with trees as I had thought. It was a lovely space, surprisingly private for being so close to a road, and for a few hours, I spun a fantasy about buying it and building a tinyhouse on it as an AirBNB artist's retreat.

I had a great deal of fun mentally designing the exterior, which would be of waneyboard shellacked the color of fried chicken, topped by a galvanized tin roof. I sketched in a front porch big enough for a basket swing hanging on either side of the screen door, plus twig tables to hold a book and the morning cup of coffee.

Inside we'd put one of those little electric heaters that look like a fake woodstove with some comfy chairs pulled up to it; a kitchenette with an old Hoosier cabinet to hold blue-and-white swirled graniteware plates and flatware, a little stove with an old-fashioned percolator for cowboy coffee. Also in the kitchen, a table for two, and above it a chandelier made from a variety of old lanterns hung in a circle, at varying heights, retrofitted with those little battery-op lamps that look like candle flames. (No I didn't see that in a magazine; my brain comes up with this shit all. day. long.) In the bathroom, an old clawfoot tub encircled by a red-and-white toile shower curtain. Perhaps a wall covered with old, tarnished mirrors laid edge to edge, some with frames and some without (another idea that just popped into my head while writing this).

Back in the main room, under a big window, I'd put a worktable with a gooseneck lamp and, flanking the window, shelves holding all sorts of art supplies -- bottles of India ink, tubes of watercolors, blue Mason jars full of brushes, pens and pencils, an oak picnic basket stuffed full of skeins of oatmeal-colored yarn and knitting needles. Under the table, an old Underwood typewriter on a metal stand with a stack of crisp bond.

The brass bed would be covered with a duvet of buffalo-plaid flannel, and beside it would be a bookshelf nightstand. I gave a great deal of thought as to what I'd include here -- Annie Dillard's "Pilgrim at Tinker Creek," for sure, and some of David McCullough's books which touch on the history of western Pennsylvania, and (even though it's not topical) James Agee's "Let Us Now Praise Famous Men," bookmarked at the passage which begins, "The light in this room is of a lamp. Its flame in the glass is of the dry, silent and famished delicateness of the latest lateness of the night, and of such ultimate, such holiness of silence and peace that all on earth and within extremest remembrance seems suspended upon it ..."

Outside of the cabin I'd plant a picturesque little garden: a few tomato plants, onions, sprawling blue-green heads of cabbage, herbs in big clay pots -- lemon balm, marjoram, mint; things which require little care and the deer won't eat. A bird feeder and one for the hummingbirds, too, filled with ruby nectar. And, of course, a firepit surrounded by log benches, perhaps a little shed (or just a cupboard attached to the side of the house) with an antique croquet set, a pair of binoculars suspended from a nail, a shelf containing a few dog-eared books for identifying the common birds, butterflies and wildflowers.

After drawing up all my plans in loving detail, I consulted our township's rules regarding AirBNBs, and -- oh. Well, damn.

It was fun dreaming, anyway.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-06-25T01:17:20+00:00

Q4All: What hobbies/pastimes would you describe as "sexy"? For men? For women?

potoricco · 2023-06-25T01:16:38+00:00

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Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-06-25T00:55:12+00:00

All these PPD threads about someone should do, shouldn’t do, what is fair, preferences are all dumb asf. At the end of the day you don’t need to justify yourself to anyone, especially people on the Internet.

Better discuss ideas and discuss Why things are what they are.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-06-25T00:44:11+00:00

In an alternative universe there is a glurple pill debate where deadbeat dads and attractive young girls complain ONLY about married women and socially stunted men.

potoricco · 2023-06-25T00:40:26+00:00

It’s morally wrong to eat octopus/squids Just like it is morally wrong to eat dogs, pigs, cat, rabbits, any bird that is in the parrot family

It’s okay to eat poultry, beef, ungulate animals, fish, shellfish, insects(but I don’t recommend)

You see, the line that distinguishes what animals are okay to eat and which ones aren’t is intelligence

Poultry birds, fish, cows, such animals have rather low intelligence

Dogs, pigs, octopus, parrots, etc are known for their intelligence. They are unsuitable for consumption. You should never eat them

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-06-25T00:37:32+00:00

I have nothing but respect for people that follow religion and live by a set of beliefs.

I'm not religious myself, but I can see for the most part religion makes so many people better as a human being.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-06-25T00:27:36+00:00

I've talked about this before, but I think I'm actually going to try to put together a dating guide for autistic guys. As a guy on the spectrum myself, I know how shitty this stuff can be. But I also know that it can be overcome, and in certain situations it can even be an advantage- I've probably done better at dating than most of my neurotypical friends.

potoricco · 2023-06-25T00:25:41+00:00

Imagine your husband doing this job

I’m crying just thinking about it. I feel bad for this man.

potoricco · 2023-06-25T00:19:40+00:00

Take autism bingo

I have autism yayyy

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-25T00:07:29+00:00

Q4All: what should the takeaway be if you ask out over 50 people and every single one of them is both disgusted and offended by the idea?

At what point do you stop?

Is it at 100? 200? 300?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-25T00:07:12+00:00

I would recommend dating women across multiple fields of your personality in order to find one that matches you well

So when people say "date women who are also xyz"

Yes logically you should but also try dating women who have a opposite personality because you never know if your compatability is gonna click

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-06-25T00:06:43+00:00

Spent the last few days hooking up with this super hot Canadian chick I met at a nightclub in Italy. According to her, she was initially attracted to me because I "sounded British".

I'm not British at all, so I'm not sure how she got that, but I need to figure out how to replicate whatever shit I was on the night I met her.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-25T00:02:25+00:00

Sometimes l really ask myself

What's the point of your girlfriend having big boobs if she ain't gonna let you play with them or breastfeed you

potoricco · 2023-06-24T23:56:02+00:00

Woman wears this

Everyone:Yass queen

Man wears it

Everyone: bro put on some pants 💀

potoricco · 2023-06-24T23:37:59+00:00

When people say it’s okay for men to cry, we mean it. What we DONT mean is that it’s okay for men cry like women.

I often cry during movies or over insignificant things, and once in a while, for no reason. A man that cries like this is just ick. Like feminine and not in a good way. Emotionally unstable

It’s not okay for men to cry like women. It’s okay and perfectly acceptable for men to cry during serious moments

DerayRevan · 2023-06-24T23:35:46+00:00

Honestly am probably the laziest bf my girlfriend has had when she tells me about all this romantic gestures her past boyfriend did for her

But then again l'm not really a fan of romantic gestures even when l had my first gf back in school

l appreciate the title laziest bf since it separates me from her past romantics

meteorness123 · 2023-06-24T23:20:49+00:00

I ghosted two women that were highly interested in me this year and then 4 or 5 others as well.

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-06-24T23:17:09+00:00

Men of PPD, today I swiped left on two men for being too tall and swiped right on a 5'7" guy.

Feel free to nominate me for the Nobel prize.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-06-24T23:14:57+00:00

Midget wrestling enjoyers are really overweight.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-24T23:08:18+00:00

The moment we ask, “Why am I here,” shows that we are not just animals.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-06-24T23:02:36+00:00

I kind of like my father-in-law. We have lots of mutual interests, mainly nature and gardening, and he’s actually funny and quite hospitable. But we have very different values. It’s interesting because he hasn’t brought them up when I’m around.

I didn’t even know he had such views, but my husband once said that his dad is different around me. He’s normally very open about his views and doesn’t spare them, even when it would be wise. He’s quite dismissive about his daughter, bullies his son-in-law, and is not a generally warm person, apparently.

I don’t understand this dynamic, and I’m wondering when he’ll treat me the same way, if ever.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-06-24T23:02:13+00:00

Feminists, why do you hate men? Did your dad not love you enough or did you choose poorly in the past?

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-24T22:59:00+00:00

And then the second thing:

Suplexed the fuck out of a few people at a BJJ competition

"Why would you suplex someone at BJJ? That doesn't make sense. That's not the point of BJJ"

Yeah well they can't exactly stop me from suplexing them because they're too stupid to pull guard so

SUPLEX CITY BABY

(also I lost, only won 2 matches, but I did get the suplex every match, which was all I wanted. I thought it would make for a really cool athletic picture unfortunately nobody was fucking recording my matches)

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-24T22:48:44+00:00

Oh two more things before I go to walk ghost.

I got into a fight! I think I started it, which is actually unironically making me cry

like a lot

LIke..every day

A guy almost hit me and ghost with his car (from my perspective? Maybe I was wrong?) and I yelled at him and he kept going and then got out of his car and then I ran at him grabbed his leg picked up and and put him down...then I thought he was someone I recognized? Like it was really dark? And I got off of him for a second which gave him a chance to get on me but I just kind of....stood up because he didn't know what he was doing and then I pushed him down onto the pavement and held him until a constructionist worker said he was going to call the cops and I ran away

My dog literally stayed on the sidewalk watching us the entire time not moving a muscle

good dog

But still I am like actually crying like a lot it's not easy for me not because I got hurt but because I found that guys blood on my shirt (I never hit him) and that made me throw up and like...I'm pretty sure I started it so that fucks with me a lot. If you've ever seen me comment on here before I have always said, over and over and over and over again, anyone who ever gets into any fight under LITERALLY ANY circumstances (outside of the cage) is a dumb ass mother fucker

And now I'm that dumb ass mother fucker

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-06-24T22:48:13+00:00

I wish I could have hair like korean men. I've noticed asian people in my city are always dripped the fuck out with perfect hair.

I want to go for the aaron yan look but idk if I can do it with my shitty western genetics.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-06-24T22:44:56+00:00

Ladies. It's 2023. We know where most of the child support goes:

And your food, rent, and other bills.

Please stop trying to tell us otherwise.

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
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Date	June 24, 2023 9:00 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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