Just because female hypergamy is the way it is, doesn't mean men should have to settle for less then they are worth, simply because they can't find any other woman to like them.

If women like those in the r/FemaleDatingStrategies don't want to settle for a dude simply because he didn't want to pay a 300$ bill, by himself, on the first date... Then men shouldn't have to settle for a woman they don't find super attractive.

We should let them know our standards, loud and clear.

If you don't want a fat chick, don't go out with a girl that says she "is fat, but carries her weight like a queen". That's just code for: I'm obese.

Don't settle for some loud, unfeminine feminist (the irony).

If she won't ever split the bill, then she can go back to daycare. You don't need to take care of no child.

If she is obsessive and controlling, dump her. Your friends are the ones who will really stick with you through thick and thin. Find someone who will accept both you, and them.

If she doesn't want a family, and you do? Don't get involved with that. You don't want the heartbreak of your baby being aborted, because a woman (you thought would be the love of your life), decided her career was more important then a family.

Have standards. Do not settle. Improve yourself.

Over the years, they will get the message of equality.