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lulll · 2023-01-02T17:09:39+00:00

"women have better social skills than men"

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2023-01-02T05:26:22+00:00

Okay I laughed

lonelyspaceboy1 · 2023-01-02T05:32:47+00:00

I’ve had this happen a few times, and a small number of them are so indignant that I never made a move despite giving me zero indication they were ever interested.

CaptainObvious4000 · 2023-01-02T06:03:22+00:00

Way more effort than they actually make.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-01-02T08:43:11+00:00

You forgot the part when they come back years later and say "You know I liked you. How come we never talked?" lol

kvakerok · 2023-01-02T14:57:00+00:00

You forgot the hovering. Hover to the left, hover to the right. "Why is he not hitting on me?"

CringeButCorrect · 2023-01-02T05:38:56+00:00

I notice women doing this and I ignore them. The ones who make an attempt at a convo are the ones that get attention.

ThatGuyNicho · 2023-01-02T07:24:42+00:00

Rule Three, gentlemen: be a mind-reader!

GG55222 · 2023-01-02T08:55:02+00:00

And then they'll cry about men they're not interested in approaching them after misreading a signal, sorry we can't read your fucking mind. I think dating would be much easier for both genders if society encouraged women to be more explicit instead of just sitting there and letting men play guess.

saraimarsena · 2023-01-02T07:42:35+00:00

honestly the only reason i had the courage to verbally hit on my partner was because i was drinking

can’t be mad at this post lol

alphasupremacy5555 · 2023-01-02T19:20:32+00:00

This is legit big facts.

So many women don't have game, they play stupid games.

Only a minority of women actually make a serious effort to cold approach the very few men they find to be very attractive.

Most women want to be chased and pursued. They love that shit. They want men to put in so much effort, not reciprocate and just waste his time.

This is not all women just most women.

eeeekkkkgggg · 2023-01-02T20:06:05+00:00

This is simply not true. Women do go after men who are high quality enough. It's just that 80-95% of men are not.

NakedlyStripped · 2023-01-02T11:22:33+00:00

It's always the men who have to approach for some reason. It's bizarre. I feel like women want to have full power in the situation.

If they like the guy, they can say yes and decide how things go from there. If they don't like him, they can take out their anger on him, insult him, call him a creep, and put him down as much as possible.

The risk is insane. Some women will literally destroy you for approaching them. If I was a hot guy I would approach women, but being on the average side of things, it's a no go.

Even bigger women are relentless. There's only a tiny chance she will say yes. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

I would much rather use sex dolls and visit prostitutes than put myself through so much stress.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-01-02T13:36:26+00:00

My (now wife) pretended to “fall into my lap” then got up and bent over right in front of me to “fix her shoe buckle” and then sat back down in my lap.

Robotemist · 2023-01-02T18:03:37+00:00

That second frame should be her looking away.

Women are seriously a hot mess.

PresentMission2022 · 2023-01-02T18:35:03+00:00

It is what it is though. As guys, we have to recognise the subtle signs, if any. Or just risk it and approach her. Always have to keep the threshold low, although at the risk of being called a creep.

avarciousRutabega99 · 2023-01-02T10:55:56+00:00

Oh yea no I see you checking me out sweetheart. Problem is you’re about 70lbs overweight

AngelCrumb · 2023-01-02T16:17:26+00:00

For me it’s play fighting. If I start trying to bait you into wrestling me, it’s because I like you a lot

localmicrodosechamp · 2023-01-02T17:43:52+00:00

accurate and i stand behind it

GridReXX · 2023-01-02T18:06:15+00:00

Fair.

TATA456alawaife · 2023-01-02T23:41:08+00:00

Oh no, women act like women. How terrible!

Brandy96Ros · 2023-01-11T12:20:00+00:00

As a woman, I'm going to say that for me this has a lot to do with self-confidence issues. When you see a woman you're attracted to, just remember that there's a good chance she doesn't see herself the way that you do and is likely quite insecure about her looks. Men and society have caused a lot of body image issues in women.

No, I wouldn't make the first move. You know why? Because I assume the guy is not interested in me. Men need to understand this about women. Us women have to put so much effort into our appearance just to feel pretty.

sakuragasaki46 · 2023-01-02T08:36:20+00:00

How introverts date

LocalDegenerate123 · 2023-01-02T08:07:49+00:00

Whatever his loss

You are not a prize to begin with. Vain cunts I swear

MattPayneWrestler · 2023-01-02T07:48:27+00:00

😂

Peacesquad · 2023-01-02T16:57:55+00:00

This is so true lmao

ted_blitz · 2023-01-02T22:22:05+00:00

A friend once revealed to me that her best friend hates me now because I didn't approach her.

I remember starting a small talk convo a few times and barely got anything out of her. Sometimes they just expect you to take on the full load.

Flightlessbirbz · 2023-01-02T22:10:56+00:00

Ngl I laughed, because it’s true.

But it’s hard to figure out what men actually want from us in terms of making a move, because it seems men still want to call the shots and feel like everything was their idea and tend to place more eager women in the fuckzone. But at the same time, I know we miss opportunities with more shy and reserved guys because of this “the man must approach and pursue” shit. Overall I just hate the “gotta show I’m interested but not too interested” dance, pretty sure everyone does but we all just keep doing it.lol

rickjames334 · 2023-01-02T14:31:41+00:00

“Females”

okbuddychill · 2023-01-02T13:58:16+00:00

that's just nature, the male is supposed to impress

2023-01-02T12:57:26+00:00

Hey, it works for me. Why change ?

HorikitasTheBest · 2023-01-02T19:46:41+00:00

Aka when women don’t like you so they don’t shoot a shot😲

pearllovespink · 2023-01-02T13:21:24+00:00

I’m not approaching a man. A great way to get used for sex.

WhoAmIEven2 · 2023-01-02T05:51:34+00:00

"females" incel energy intensifies

januaryphilosopher · 2023-01-02T07:41:27+00:00

Come on, you can't tell me the men on this subreddit do any different.

horonlapsi · 2023-01-02T09:35:47+00:00

why is there memes here now

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MikeNo-land2 · 2023-01-04T05:50:12+00:00

The use of females in this meme is telling.

RegularDue9718 · 2023-01-02T06:05:31+00:00

You are very misogynist

gymbro718nyc2 · 2023-01-02T13:36:22+00:00

This type of meme seriously shows me how retarded and scared most men are of women. She is literally holding the door open for you and failure to walk through is squarely on you. I get it, you are more interested at getting back at these bitches and hoes than actually stopping your self sabotage and getting laid. Pathetic losers.

lawn-mumps · 2023-01-02T07:01:15+00:00

Ah, so you’ve never interacted with a woman before, understood.

lewdakuma · 2023-01-02T08:44:11+00:00

im aware im in the wrong here, but i feel like if he was attracted to me he'd approach 🤷‍♀️

edit: the downvotes are bonkers yall 😭😭😭😭

mlo9109 · 2023-01-02T13:47:47+00:00

Only because we get called clingy or crazy for actually shooting our shot despite it being 2023.

imeannothing · 2023-01-02T20:58:12+00:00

I agree but also sometimes it's me, and i'm a male

Ohyarlysmiles · 2023-01-03T08:33:35+00:00

Completely true.

davaniaa · 2023-01-10T22:05:53+00:00

I can only makes moves on men when I'm drunk lol

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Date	January 2, 2023 5:25 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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