What are you?

xxx_porn_account_xxx · 2021-11-10T21:40:00+00:00

We are always talking about the value, worth, and measure of a woman. Rating them 1-10.

People in this sub also talk about men's value and worth as partners all the time.

What are you? What would rate/place yourself- 1-10 in regards to looks, success, status, & social skills.

I'm a 3/10 facially, 5'5, shy, neet. My SMV/RMV is 0.

social_mule · 2021-11-10T21:29:16+00:00

We need categories.

Looks: 5

Finances: 8

Persona....you know what? We don't have all these categories when ranking women. It's just looks. So I give myself a 5.

Bold_Bastrad · 2021-11-10T21:20:08+00:00

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chilikettlechips · 2021-11-11T01:36:51+00:00

A miserable little pile of secrets

social_mule · 2021-11-11T01:50:58+00:00

Ah, so you edited the original post. Cool. Here's how I'd rate myself on the updated categories.

Looks: 5

Success: 8

Status: 8

Social skills: 6-7. This is a tough one. I'm an introvert so it takes me a while to open up. Friends that I've known for years tell me that I seemed cold and distant at first but became more warm and engaging as time went on. I've never been the life of the party but can carry on fairly interesting conversations in a one-on-one setting.

A HVM in the dating and mating sense or a HVM in the broader sense? In the broader sense I'd say a HVM is a man who puts the needs of others above his own. A leader, not because he was appointed to a high position or because he has the right connections but because others genuinely want to follow him.

JALopo1 · 2021-11-10T22:15:43+00:00

A high value man is someone like Achilles, Alexander the great, Caesar, Napoleon etc. anything else is cope

baresquad · 2021-11-10T22:04:44+00:00

I’m gonna go with 10 😂

FDS might not think so, to them I’m a low value man and that’s fine. I’m not ready for a relationship so I avoid commitment, I date around, and I don’t do anything traditionalist or even traditionalist adjacent

RP might not think so either and that’s fine too. To them I’m a simp beta etc. but at the end of the day my dating life is perfect (to me)

I have a decent career, great degree, and nice social circle, life’s good and I have fun and that’s really all that matters so yeah, 10

Intrepid_Place5390 · 2021-11-10T21:25:54+00:00

what I am is ultimately what the specific woman reacting to me , rates me.

I know generally, women find me attractive, an 8 or 9.

Facially, I'm attractive, I'm lean and muscular and old, so I'm unusual in my age group.

Not 6ft tall, high income, and everything else.

Women would probably rate my a 6 to 10, it depends on their preference. If they look for 6ft tall guys, i'm going to be less attractive to her, many would rule me out because of it. Hence the 6 rating.

Some girls, I exceed all of her check marks, 10.

Then most will be in between.

Not all women will see a guy as a 10 or not is the point, lots of variation. Girls would generally say, yeah, good looking, but not really my type,etc.

wheelsonmeal · 2021-11-10T21:01:09+00:00

I am am a hottish ugly man. Probably a 6. Just slightly above average. My personality isn't that great either. Too autistic.

wtknight · 2021-11-10T21:32:35+00:00

I’m an old dude now. In my prime I was probably a 6 looks wise and a 3 when it came to social skills. Status, I’m just an ordinary middle class guy. I could attract quiet introverted women, and that’s the kind of woman who I’ve always ended up with.

old_wise_man_ · 2021-11-10T22:44:47+00:00

sunkized · 2021-11-10T23:00:10+00:00

Looks: 5

Finances: 6

Siegfried66 · 2021-11-10T23:03:03+00:00

Looks: 4

Finances: 7

Social: 2-3

Lookswise, I'm nothing special. I'm on the border between a normal and an overweight BMI. I could stand to lose 30 lbs and get fit, which is my goal. I'm also 5'7", so I'm a bit shorter than what a lot of women would prefer.

Financially, I do fairly well. I'm not rich, but I have money where I'm not too concerned if I'm out of a job for a good while. If I continue to make smart investments like how I have been doing the past few years, I could probably retire and live off passive income by the time I'm 40-45 years old.

Socially, I'm not yet a hermit. Most of my social groups are online. I have a couple friends I don't see irl often or at all. I do stuff after work with a couple co-workers, but that's about it. I tend not to be very chatty, mainly cause I don't find most conversations worth talking about or have anything to contribute, but I do like taking part in conversations even when I'm not verbally engaging that much.

flakybottom · 2021-11-10T23:38:43+00:00

3 in status, 1's in everything else.

Ohyarlysmiles · 2021-11-10T23:57:04+00:00

To me what makes a guy high value is the presence of ability combined with character.

Everything I do kind of emanates from my ethical core, which is a pretty simple credo of: no unjustified authority. I won't and can't tolerate it. In any situation. Come hell or high water, I'll take on the consequences for living the Don't Tread on Me life.

But I'm not a woman, so it really doesn't matter what I think about what makes a dude high value for purposes of this forum.

cornfedduckman · 2021-11-11T04:35:42+00:00

Undercover_Incel69 · 2021-11-11T08:06:27+00:00

0/10 in everything except money.

1/10 in money

goneaway2thewind · 2021-11-11T21:22:04+00:00

Looks 8

Success 8

Status 9

Social skills 10

Finance 6

WestsideMoonWalker · 2021-11-10T21:28:37+00:00

I am..... happy with my life? lol. Never really gave much thought to how I rate on a scale.

UnIntelligent_Local · 2021-11-10T21:08:46+00:00

I'm 5'8"...

Emervila · 2021-11-10T22:08:32+00:00

It's doesn't all the skills and personality layers, IF a guy is ugly or avg he's a ZERO. IF the guy is good looks he's ONE there's no middle ground, it's a binary scale where personality is an addition to looks which is desired but not required

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-11-10T22:03:29+00:00

All averaged out? Probably an 8 on the 10% scale (i.e. 80th percentile). Some people say i look like lucas till, some say younger diego klattenhoff, people whove seen me can weigh in, or not, anonymous forum anyways.

Probably 95% for body/genetics (hair, dick, muscles, height, etc), maybe 65% for face. My face isn't amazing. Averaged out, an 8 ish.

Finances, 0%tile, I'm a grad student. But i do have good potential if i may say so myself, lmao.

Social skills-- very good in a crowd/life of the party, very very bad trust issues interpersonally. So for LTR, far below average. For hookup or fwb, far above average.

HedgeRunner · 2021-11-10T23:06:47+00:00

I constantly rate myself 1/10 yet I constantly outperform society's 9/10.

Expensive-Guitar3609 · 2021-11-10T23:14:50+00:00

Well...

Looks 8-9 Money 7 Social skills 8 Status ?

I consider myself a high value man because I don't give a fuck what others think about me, I'm a good man, I'm intelligent, I can play Altitudes of Jason Becker and I ride a Honda Black Shadow '13 750cc with a V-twin engine I customized myself and turned into a nice Bobber.

Suck it up bichs.

djblackmith · 2021-11-10T22:19:56+00:00

Looks? Well I am black, 182 cm, broad shoulders, light brown eyes, normal jaw, nice beard (people say) massive dick, skin complexion is light brown but not too light (think Micheal b jordan or trey songs or Bryson tiller complexion) though I am the slimmer side but going to the gym now and the results are really increasing my looks. Overall I would 6.5/10 at this moment though I could raise it by a point especially after seeing the effects the gym is having on me (I am trying to). from what I have heard from women the most attractive features I have or have been completed on are my eyes, Beard, height (short country) voice and legs (didn't know women were into legs) but women have commented on me being very handsome including men and male friends

Success? Just got my bachelor's in business, purchasing and supply chain management about to start working at one if the largest organizations in the country more than $50k which is a lot this side of the planet, side hustle is even more promising could be making 7 figures in a couple of years (imagine those figures for an African) and I am only 25.

Status? My dad is a high ranking government official (sucks sometimes as people are always trying to use you to get to him) and I am still young so women in the age bracket fall for that stuff (ouuooo he's dads a minister) so like 9

Social skills? I would say above average 8/10 (my dad's a politician some of the social skills I have benefited both genetically and from watching him), awalys taken leadership roles in situations, I was student class rep from 2nd to 4th year at uni because I was the only capable of handling students issues with themselves and lecturers

Overall I would say I am good catch 8/10, the number of women propositioning themselves to me (though i was bit paranoid that it was only about money so didn't get a lot of validation from that) and how attractive they are would prove that but I live in a country that has a higher female population in every demographic from birth to old age so the bar for men is really low

I am just here to see what datings like in different countries around the world and trying to understand differing view points from the ones I was raised with. It's fun honestly

IOportA · 2021-11-10T21:14:20+00:00

I went to EDC in las vegas last month. When people are on MDMA they tend to say whatever is on their minds, with no filter. I walked by a woman who looked at me and said "holy shit...you are beautiful". I'd rate myself a 9

Slyfer_Seven · 2021-11-10T21:23:54+00:00

Looks 5, Awesomeness 8, Life shit 9, Getting the outcomes I desire 8

Overall... https://youtu.be/VMuV1FuJLPc

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-11-10T21:06:55+00:00

Physically: 7ish / 10

Financially: 9.5 /10

Morally: 3 / 10 lol

Socially status: 7.5 /10

Idk I'm just throwing numbers around now

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-11-10T21:20:08+00:00

I'd rate myself around 5.3/10 but idk what women would rate me.

IHaveSalesQuestions · 2021-11-10T21:36:53+00:00

Looks - 8.5 Success - 8 Status - 8 Social skills - 8 Sex - 9 Height - 10

SonicBackScratcher · 2021-11-10T21:37:14+00:00

Looks 6

Success 9

Status 9

Social skills 7

SMV 6.5

RMV 9.5/10.

Back when I was relearning game I decided to study this shit and at the time my looks was a 4, maybe even a 3.5 and social was a 5. That's not going to work.

Bold_Bastrad · 2021-11-10T21:56:32+00:00

Honestly, I started out trying to reply & think of thought provoking and unique questions for everybody. But this post kinda blew the F up. Please be patient with me. And be kind our fellow brothers & sister of the community.

Hopefully we can all take something away from each other, if not teach another.

AreOut · 2021-11-10T22:15:24+00:00

looks: 8 finances: 10 social skills: solid 9 (thanks TRP)

if I was a woman, a HVM would be someone that's masculine, confident, knows what he wants, doesn't cheat around, isn't possessive, knows how to please a woman in bed and make her happy and feel like a woman in general

jayval90 · 2021-11-10T23:02:12+00:00

Numbered ratings don't work for guys. Women don't have a sliding scale like that, because they're not the ones who have to do the ranking to figure out who to ask.

Paralax300 · 2021-11-10T23:31:05+00:00

I would rate myself a 3 or 4. I'm a school teacher and I don't make very much money. I'm 5'10, not fat but not muscular either. I'm bi and that makes me incompatible with most women.

-Ohaimark- · 2021-11-11T01:15:08+00:00

Looks: 6

Social Skills: 4

Finance: 7

Status: 5

I'm 6'4, weight roughly 290. I rate myself a 6 because I don't think I'm too bad looking in the face area and obviously my height could gravitate people towards me. I could definitely loose weight and gain some muscle but I don't hardly care about that kind of stuff. I've lost weight in the past and reached 260 but gave up due to changing to Grave Shift and basically fucking my whole body sleep schedule up and eating habits and also fell into a very deep depression of nihilism. (You're not supposed to be depressed if you're a nihilist, but I was for some unknown reason)

I work 40 - 50 hours a week and mostly want to stay home and play video games. I've always have had crippling social anxiety. I've overcome that by forcing myself to get out and push my limits so my social skills are better then they were. I used to not be able to look at someone in the eyes or talk to anyone. I stuttered all the time as well which really fucked me up mentally.

Glad you made it this far. I have a decent job and make pretty good money. (For my standards at least) I'm a certified HVAC/Electrical Tech so my future looks bright at least. I have no debt. I paid my trade school payment with money my parents put back for my education.

I've been in relationships in the past but none have worked out due to my social anxiety. No hard feelings though. I've met some red flags and some decent people (currently my ex). My ex and I are still good friends. I don't care about dating anymore. I don't put a lot of effort into dating or going out with girls/guys. It doesn't bother me that I'll be alone. I'm not scared of being alone either. I'm just being happy with myself and my time.

I do hope I can meet someone but if I don't, well whatever. I'll find someone down the road anyway.

Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.

Mustbeaight · 2021-11-11T01:51:05+00:00

Lol I’m not particularly good looking more like average to slightly below average . Black(when it comes to women this hurts more than it helps if you’re not the flavor of black guy the stereotypes show). My penis ain’t small . It’s just average. I don’t have the famous BBC that apparently every black guy has to have (god forgot to install it.) Height: average . Just 5 "10 nothing too short but nothing that would be considered tall. I’m quite fit. Success wise Im still young in college trynna get a degree(not a trash ass useless major Ofcourse) so I’m not any where near successful as I can be. Social skills? I’m alright . Most people say I’m very funny. One of my good friends called me Dave chapelle level funny but absolutely don’t take that seriously. I’m not scared to talk to anyone even women and can navigate my way through anyone. I just don’t have the looks or sexual appeal to spark a woman beyond platonically.

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NotTheBestMoment · 2021-11-10T21:02:53+00:00

8, is there a follow up to this?

BasicallyYogurt · 2021-11-10T21:24:28+00:00

Looks - 4-6 not sure tho

Success - 10

Status - 6

Social skills - 7

jojomcflowjo · 2021-11-10T21:59:16+00:00

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-10T22:00:25+00:00

I go to 11

purplish_possum · 2021-11-10T22:14:51+00:00

I have an excellent track record of siring tall smart healthy offspring. Just doing my part to improve the planet.

Prestigious-Mud-1304 · 2021-11-10T22:16:21+00:00

Looks, 0/10, everything else doesn't matter.

I consider a "high value man" to be between 5-9/10 in looks cause nothing else matters.

kyjolski · 2021-11-10T22:17:15+00:00

What I think about myself is subjective and doesn't matter if it can't compete in the dating market.

sine120 · 2021-11-10T22:27:58+00:00

Overall 7, 8 total on a good day, probably? I'm 6'2", 180's lbs, enough facial hair to hide my facial asymmetry. I'm pretty introverted but can pretend to be an extrovert for a few hours if I need to. I've got the "provider" stuff going for me. Good with kids, finances of an engineer (unfortunately the body of one, too). In terms of success I'm professionally weirdly in demand right now. Almost weekly I'm turning down interviews and offers of people offering $110k-$180k because I don't really feel like moving to a big city.

I'd consider other high value men to be smart and well educated, generally attractive and sociable, making good money, sub 40's who have already secured high value women.

maplehobo · 2021-11-10T23:17:36+00:00

Looks - 6

Financial - 7

Social - 5

theosamabahama · 2021-11-10T23:22:58+00:00

Most women I hook up or date with are 7/10. So I guess I must be a 7. As for the specifics, I would score myself:

Looks: 6-7

Success: 3

Status: 5

Social Skills: 7

Swordfromthecement · 2021-11-10T23:41:42+00:00

4-5 ish I guess? I’m not sure but here’s my list.

Looks: 5 on a good day (maybe higher but I’m short so you have to subtract points for that)

Success: 7 (Make 60k+ at 23. Not bad)

Status: 3 (Pretty low on the totem pole at work, in my personal life I’m not someone who inspires a following if you know what I mean)

Social Skills: 4 (Can hold a conversation with pretty much anyone about anything. Have crippling anxiety and struggle with crowds and new stimuli. Don’t have many friends.)

over348 · 2021-11-10T23:44:28+00:00

Aubrey_D_Graham · 2021-11-11T00:05:29+00:00

Looks: 6 Success: 3 Status: 3 Social: 7

alialahmad1997 · 2021-11-11T00:20:42+00:00

Looks propably 7 - 7 and half at most but i don't take care of myself always so if i am not on a date i think 6 or maybe lower

I did score dates with some i consider a 10

Personality thats tricky, people generally feel comfortable around me, trust me and like me fast But generally i am too serious and not that funny

My personality is not attractive to people who wants to live the moment but more attractive to people who generally like to discuss things about life in general

Soscio economically i am from a known family which is pretty important for marriage were i live but personally i am broke but also a med student so i don't know if its good

I have a tones of friends and known by most my colleagues

I am not that good with relationships simply because I don't persue them and hate courting If a beautiful woman came to me welcome if not i am too busy

DrinkItInMan11 · 2021-11-11T00:29:37+00:00

As a whole? I'm only around 4 right now, that's a combination of both looks, money and status though. I have pretty decent looks where I'd put myself as probably a 6, my financials are crap right now and I'm fairly middle of the road status.

But that's ok though, because 19 year olds aren't meant to be 10s under that criteria unless they were extremely lucky to become millionaires or celebrities. Under this criteria an average man or woman can only level themselves up to a 7 anyway at most, even a 6, to become an 8-10 you have to reach celebrity status or recognition.

An regular person can not be a 10, that's not how it works. A true 10/10 is someone rich, famous and extremely attractive, unless you have all three of those things you cannot be a 10. Hell I don't think you can be anything higher than a 6 or 7 if you're not a celebrity.

Playful_Art_5364 · 2021-11-11T00:48:38+00:00

Looks: atleast a 7. Reddit said 8 when I asked them. Success: like a 2 I’m just starting off Status: subjective Finances: like a 6? Maybe 7 Social skills: if I care 10. If I don’t 4.

On paper it looks like I’m high value since I’m a young dude with a decent job. But that subreddit will find SOMETHING to complain about

PMmeareasontolive · 2021-11-11T01:04:48+00:00

Fives. But a solid five.

I could inch my way up if my partner and I were compatible, like if we had similar senses of humor. Or sense of adventure. But as far as strangers go, using the reasonable person criteria I'd say five.

Sagittarius_AAA · 2021-11-11T01:12:03+00:00

Looks: 8 Success: 4 Status: -20 Social skills: -40

webernicke · 2021-11-11T01:31:49+00:00

Looks: 6 Success: 1 Status: 1 Social Skills: 4

Spiritual-Tourist227 · 2021-11-11T01:35:23+00:00

Looks 7 Success 2 Status 2 Social skills 3

I'm always going to the gym I'm confident in my looks, I'm still in community college and work retail a little over minimum wage. I'm 22 trying to get my associates in electrical engineering still because I left school for 2 years. I live with my uncle but have my own crappy car and a non running motorcycle in storage. I have friends from highschool school that were the jockey types and pretty cool and I was in some clubs and rushed a fraternity at ASU but didn't join. I'm pretty smart I read a lot and graduated with 3.5 gpa from highschool.

The reason I see my social skills as low is because I don't go out because I work and focus on school and the gym.

I think a high value man has to be good at everything but also regardless is not a womanizer and can retain his seed and remain celibate to devote himself to his purpose in life and also to prevent himself from gaining more baggage and problems from women and stop contributing to everyone making more sluts out of women. I also think he would deserve a high value women who does the same in terms a feminine attributes and has very little sexual past as well, if any at all and or has remained celibate for a very long time like him. I do believe in dating you're equal in regards to experience and how valuable they are as a man or women.

I get hit on by women older and younger as well I've said no to a lot and at times it has made me look like an idiot to my friends, it's not easy for guys either.

LAndLight2 · 2021-11-11T01:59:03+00:00

Looks:3

Social skills: 7

Finances:In college

Prize-Thought-4205 · 2021-11-11T02:18:49+00:00

What am I? What kind of question is that lol i'm a human being.

I don't think it's fair to try to summarize countless subjective abstract metrics of value into a single number or for any other human being to estimate their or other's value even if it could be stripped something as simple as a number.

The reason men do it with women so much, a 1 to a 10 (and most intelligent men all still have their own standards for what they consider to be 1 through 10 on the scale so it doesn't matter) is because men are only looking at beauty & attractiveness for casual sex.

If you want to say for marriage & LTR men's scales would change MASSIVELY.

But for casual sex men don't really care if she has a shitty personality, many will even get more turned on by a toxic attitude & just boil her down to be a "crazy" women that can ruin your life but is fun to mess around with.

ThisBoringLife · 2021-11-11T03:52:17+00:00

Huh.

So, I tend to give myself a value of 6-7 overall, based on my confidence that day.

As for being a high value man, I guess it is more subjective based on the potential interest, but good social skills and solid looks tend to help in that regard.

A healthy mindset for a potential relationship helps as well.

ledatherockband · 2021-11-11T03:56:51+00:00

Looks: 6.5-7 if you use r/TrueRateMe’s make standards

Financially: 8 and still going to climb (software developer)

Attitude about life: Sigma male grindset bro max grinding dawg can’t stop dis hustle son whoop whoop/10 bro

Socially: 10/10. I’m smooth af

5x_the_Charm · 2021-11-11T04:00:16+00:00

Looks: 4-5, at least as told from photo judging sites like photofeeler

Finances: 8, not quite a millionaire yet but def on my way to one.

Personality: I dunno. Depends.

Status: 4. As far as status of desirability, I'm a half-Asian and that has always held me back in life regardless of my financial status.

Social Skills: 4, I'm an introvert but if it's something in my comfort zone or just outside of it I can be pretty talkative.

gangweedsavedme · 2021-11-11T04:05:40+00:00

I was gonna say 5/10 overall, but one major trait I have pushes me up to a 6.

calisthenics-guy-96 · 2021-11-11T04:31:47+00:00

Probably

Looks: 6 Success: 6.5 Status: 6 Social skills: 7

Zcuzz · 2021-11-11T05:16:03+00:00

Looks: 7/10 Financial: 3/10 Social: 9/10

I'm great at pulling chicks, can never keep them because of my financial instability.

keithcarterarkansas · 2021-11-11T05:19:59+00:00

8 is the first number these jumps in my mind. The more I think about it I'm a 7 or a high 6, but the first number is what you really think you are. Lol

Pastelitomaracucho · 2021-11-11T06:03:22+00:00

I never considered myself attractive, but I must be a 7 or a 8 considering the kind of women I have attracted. Never solid, Instagram model 10s, but some traffic stoppers here and there and generally cute and intelligent.

Status-wise, probably an 8-9. I own my own company, I publish papers, I'm growing to become a reference in my professional sector. Definitely on to the top 10% among my peers.

Money wise meh, 5. I have some savings, I don't have a house. I'm far from being rich and I live a mediocre middle class life.

CosmicBioHazard · 2021-11-11T06:07:24+00:00

looks; 8

success; 2

status; 1

social skills; 4

nick1812216 · 2021-11-11T06:28:20+00:00

I was chatting with a woman, she was asking me a lot of questions: ‘are you seeing anyone?’ ‘Why did you end your last relationship?’, etc… as soon as I sent her a selfie, she stopped texting

So in the looks department: 2-3/10?

cel-shaded · 2021-11-11T07:07:10+00:00

Social: 6

I put myself in social situations and make friends easily. If there's silence, i break it and i have no problem talking to strangers, including women. I give myself a 6 because, despite being socially affluent i am less interested in "normal" activities like getting wasted and going to the club - which i still do sometimes but i prefer games or sports or a chill house party. Unfortunately not being interested in common activities knocks a lot of points and it doesn't help that I'm the calmer, not-party-animal type. Men laugh at my jokes, women not so much (see looks)

Financial: 7

I'm not rich but i have no debts and earn well above the average income in my country. I rent a nice apartment (I've been complimented on it multiple times) and can afford every material object i want, save for the sailboat of my dreams. I like to think that i could make more money if i wanted to but I'm comfortable with the amount of work i have to do and the money i get for it so why bother?

Looks: 3

I am somewhat fit for my age. I exercise and love cycling. I admit I'm not the paragon of fitness, perhaps because i can't commit to a diet that'll get me leaner, but I'm nowhere near fat. Unfortunately, I am six inches below average height, bald and i have an incurable skin condition. My body frame is naturally below average in terms of width and while focusing on my shoulders at the gym can give the illusion of wider shoulders, i can never reach someone who's genetically average. I believe i would have had a nice face were it not for my baldness and skin conditions. I am not extremely facially hideous but the combination of bald, short, below-average frame and skin conditions have made women literally grimace in disgust when looking at me. Despite meeting plenty of women in the groups i join, none of them have shown any interest and the best compliment I've ever received is that my clothes are nice.

I have recently become a wizard.

What i consider a high value man? This may sound narcissistic, but someone like me except not ugly.

yungthrowaway97 · 2021-11-11T07:11:53+00:00

Looks 7.5 I think. I don't really struggle in online dating it is my go to. Success 7.5/10. Status 2-10 absolutely an introvert and don't give 2 shits about social media or my social status. I avoid new people as much as possible. Social skills 5-10. I actually have a lot of male friends and chad friends I grew up playing sports through college, but I am terrible in group settings. I immediately become a mute and don't talk in large groups. One on one conversation I am actually pretty good and have never been nervous to go on dates.

gucciwillis · 2021-11-11T09:20:34+00:00

looks - 8 success (with what??) idk like 7 maybe status - 7 social skills 7

hydrogen_sulfate · 2021-11-11T12:11:57+00:00

other men would rate me 3-4/10 women would rate me 1/10

2021-11-17T13:55:04+00:00

No idea, I don't see any point in rating myself.

All I know is the more I workout, the more I work on other self improvement stuff. The easier it is to meet women and sometimes they do all the work.

And what do YOU consider to be a high-value man other than having a particular level of financial success.

The guy that women want to be with and men want to be.

ScarAdvanced9562 · 2021-11-10T21:13:49+00:00

Looks- 5/10, I’d say average

Success- 8/10, so far pretty successful, but there isn’t much to go of

Status- 3/10, yeah, I’m not even close to popular

Social Skills- 5/10, vast difference between texting and real life.

Intelligence- 10/10. I’d say being in the top 10% is an achievable statement. I’m probably in a far higher percentile.

Title	What are you?
Author	Bold_Bastrad
Upvotes	19
Comments	201
Date	November 10, 2021 8:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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