Would you date a bi man?

CreepyVictorianDolls · 2025-11-15T05:42:03+00:00

At this point I would only date a man if he's bi

p_fulga · 2025-11-15T03:12:03+00:00

I'm bi, would be funny for me to have a problem with anyone else being bi. I honestly couldn't care who my partner dated in the past. Has zero bearing on how great they are with me.

EmpressJJ · 2025-11-15T02:19:19+00:00

YES, because I am bi too.
Less likely, because my bubble is more queer and I prefer if they know what they want (could be the case)
Yes

middleoftheroad133 · 2025-11-15T15:06:24+00:00

No no no.

Generally women are looking for reasons to screen men out of their dating pool and there’s no real compelling reason (for me at least) to say yes when theres plenty of men who haven’t had those experiences

CancerMoon2Caprising · 2025-11-15T02:23:02+00:00

I like bisexual men and have dated bisexual men. None of that bothers me.

My current guy is hetero (I think).

I dont desire women of any kind. So im definitely hetero. At most i find some masculine lesbians and transmen handsome but there's no romantic nor sexual desire for them if that makes sense. Real dck is a must for me personally.

attendquoi · 2025-11-15T04:01:38+00:00

Yes to all. Actually, I'd probably date exclusively bi/pan men if I ever became single again.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2025-11-15T05:16:11+00:00

Yes yes and yes

Not only would I but I have

bondepart · 2025-11-15T09:27:59+00:00

Yes to all. I exclusively date bisexual men.

The-Cherry-On-Top-xx · 2025-11-15T20:39:51+00:00

Im a bi female so yes. I would rather date a bi male than a straight male.

Edit

Yes
Yes
Yes but it depends on how he feels about jk rowling and terfs

fiftypoundpuppy · 2025-11-15T02:38:39+00:00

I don't care about answering posts from three day old accounts with hidden histories and blackpill usernames.

However let's be very clear - this is going to always go the exact same way:

1) women who say yes will be left alone, called outliers at worst

2) women who say no will be viciously personally attacked, harassed, called all kinds of names and -phobics, and generally abhorred for the crime of not wanting to fuck men entitled people think they ought to fuck. No minds will be changed, this is only ever a setup for men and liberal women alike to demonize women for their preferences and be filled with righteous indignation that women can not date men for reasons they don't personally approve of.

It's already started, as you can see.

If you can't negotiate attraction, then this is all just a transparent circle-jerk to attack women. You can't insult someone into changing their preferences.

Antique_Mountain_263 · 2025-11-15T02:42:15+00:00

If this was before I met my husband obviously 1. No, sorry. 2. Yeah, I think I would at least give him a chance if I like him otherwise. 3. No, sorry.

RelativeYak7 · 2025-11-15T03:09:44+00:00

No to all, not my thing

Tylikcat · 2025-11-15T02:28:37+00:00

Yes to all.

Of course, I'm bi, I think the best way to know your orientation if you have questions is to experiment, and I've gone out with trans folk in the past.

Avast_Lion · 2025-11-16T22:39:34+00:00

Yes, yes, yes. I don't see how having had sex with a man in the past (or touched a penis, or thought about penises, or whatever) could possibly impact someone's attractiveness now. What, is he contaminated? Is there some kind of gay residue? Please.

OtomeManhuaKitty · 2025-11-15T02:42:23+00:00

I’m straight. Yes to all 3. It’s kind of crazy to me that other straight women say no. It’s almost as if they think people who have sex with men aren’t clean, despite having sex with men themselves.

Makuta_Servaela · 2025-11-15T14:06:19+00:00

I prefer bi men to straight men. A man who's been harassed by men knows what it's like to be harassed by men and is less likely to do it to me.

MyLastBestChance · 2025-11-15T02:23:34+00:00

Nope, I’m (maybe unfortunately🤷‍♀️ absolutely straight). And I also wouldn’t date a religious person (I’m an atheist), a conservative person (I’m liberal), a person from a vastly different background or socioeconomic strata. A person who prioritizes health and fitness very differently, a person who enjoys a very different lifestyle (think city mouse / country mouse thing) etc.

Romantic relationships are hard enough without mixing in vastly different experiences or lifestyles. No reason to add additional opportunities for conflict.

Old_cress3828 · 2025-11-15T03:05:33+00:00

Yes Yes No

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MiddleZealousideal89 · 2025-11-15T03:38:54+00:00

Yes to all.

alphamaker420 · 2025-11-15T04:13:22+00:00

Yes
Yes
Yes

Why do you guys keep asking this? The answers are always the same, varied.

Who he dated in the past is none of my business. I'm only concerned with whether he's interested in me or not.

Traditional_Lab1192 · 2025-11-15T04:51:26+00:00

Yes to all 3 because I’ve dated men in the past who fit all three lol

operation-spot · 2025-11-15T04:56:30+00:00

Yes to everything.

Lemon_gecko · 2025-11-15T05:31:39+00:00

yes 2. yes 3. yes.

cb8585b · 2025-11-15T07:26:57+00:00

Yes, No,No.

This might sound contradictory but any indication of POSSIBLE DL behaviour is a red flag to me. Those men are notoriously dangerous for women.

Werevulvi · 2025-11-15T07:27:15+00:00

Yes to all if he's monogamous and fine with just vanilla sex. I say that because I've met more than a few bi men who are polyamorous and strongly into bdsm. And I want none of that in my dating life. Also as long as he's not with me only because I have some masculine features.

Thing is though I'm not really all that for the transgender thing, I'm a detransitioner and kinda put off by it because of that. But I still wouldn't mind it if he's been with a transwoman in the past. I'm straight and I've been with women and transmen in the past, but I'm not interested in any of that anymore. Also most of my exes have been bi men.

FitnessBeth · 2025-11-15T10:19:36+00:00

Yes
YES
Yes

SnooMarzipans8221 · 2025-11-15T11:00:34+00:00

Yes to all (but only if he's nice to me and not an asshole to my friends as I have very few of them).

UselessCynicism · 2025-11-15T13:00:50+00:00

and 3. Yes
Depends on what you mean with experimenting. But Probably No. Maybe I am wrong but I assume that most people who say they „experimented“ with their sexuality are promiscuous and did so in a causal way. For different reasons it makes me uncomfortable to imagine that my partner had a promiscuous past, regardless of the gender of the people he slept with.

NoDanaOnlyZuuI · 2025-11-15T14:17:59+00:00

I’m not single but if I were, yes to all three

ChadChasingBReturns · 2025-11-15T14:41:30+00:00

I would have dated a bi man. I wouldn’t have dated anyone with a sexual history of any kind.

Stunning-Potato-1984 · 2025-11-15T17:09:20+00:00

Yes.

DeskHead4035 · 2025-11-15T21:35:50+00:00

Lost_Reaction_5489 · 2025-11-16T02:58:57+00:00

Absolutely not to all 3, and I have a gay brother who I love and support. I love and support everyone doesn't mean I have to let them inside of my body.

Sonia314 · 2025-11-16T09:06:05+00:00

Absolutely. If people are out here seeing those as dealbreakers, no wonder we have an epidemic of unwanted singlehood.

Confident_Counter471 · 2025-11-16T13:04:15+00:00

I would have some insecurities from my past about dating a bi man, but that’s a personal insecurity from a past situation that happened to me (dated a guy who came out as bi we ended up breaking up, then a year later said he was gay and always knew it and while good he found himself, it’s not fun to feel used as a beard).

Pitiful_Home5655 · 2025-11-17T17:15:32+00:00

No, and take the responses ITT into account before ever taking anything anyone on this sub says seriously. I promise you the 90% of yes's are not at all indicative of how real life women in the real world who aren't terminally online feel on the topic. The women on this sub might be even less representative of women in real life than the men on this sub are to men in real life, and that's saying something.

MotherPermit9585 · 2025-11-21T18:30:47+00:00

Yes to all three.

theminxisback · 2025-11-15T02:44:41+00:00

I'm very strict and only date men who are actually in touch with their sexualities and know what they like and enjoy. Also, most of whom I date and am attracted to are sapiosexual and pansexual like myself. I stay in my dating lane.

Sonia314 · 2025-11-16T09:01:03+00:00

Yes. I have almost zero preference against these characteristics.

TeapotSoprano · 2025-11-15T08:23:45+00:00

No. There's straight men and gay men.

If he isn't straight, he's gay.

ThatBitchA · 2025-11-15T02:16:53+00:00

Maybe, I need more info.
No. He needs to come to terms with his sexuality.
Maybe, I need more info.

Title	Would you date a bi man?
Author	5foot6itsover
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Comments	190
Date	November 15, 2025 2:03 AM UTC (9 months ago)
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