To avoid linking to their loathsome site, the new proposed definition of rape is reproduced here:

New feminist rape definition:

Consensual sex is defined as sex that is free from acts of coercion, manipulation, or abuse, but consensual sex is an oxymoronic term; without consent, the act of sex isn’t really sex at all. It is assault.

Before I engaged in a sexual relationship with my last boyfriend, William*, I made the terms for my consent very clear: if we were going to become sexually involved, it had to be within the context of strict monogamy.

We didn’t officially consummate the relationship until about a month had passed, but, as I came to find out about fifteen months later, he had begun drinking, doing drugs, and having frequent and unprotected sex with other people behind my back.

I was rendered completely helpless against his intentional deceptions. Because of his lies, I was powerless to protect myself from his reckless endangerment of my health and well being. I entered into a relationship with him under an agreement of mutual honesty and strict monogamy. I wouldn’t have been with him under any other circumstances, and he knew it. And yet, he went to great lengths to keep me around. In addition to all of the mental manipulations described above, he also acted the part of the devoted, loving boyfriend by bringing me into his life with his family; I was invited to Sunday dinners, major holidays, and get-togethers with his grandparents. He presented me to them as if I were his intended. He even went so far in playing the role of the dedicated boyfriend that he participated in couple’s therapy with me—his way of proving to me how committed he was to making it work. He even told me that he wanted to marry me. Multiple times.

These situations call for a reevaluation of the law. We must consider what protections ought to be in place for the victims of these sneaky, slithery, crimes. This is a matter of bodily integrity, sexual autonomy, and personal safety. William’s use of deception and manipulation to obtain sexual favors is a violation, and it is abusive. He robs his victims of their freedom of choice and makes himself the overlord of what should be their autonomy, in every possible way.

We cannot let this continue, because no consent = rape. Period.

EDIT: By popular demand, here is a link to a screenshot of the new definition. The screenshot is a composite compilation of the parts that have to do with a new definition of rape, skipping the tearful melodrama that characterizes all posts on that feminist site. If someone wants to visit the loathsome feminist site and screenshot the whole thing, I will post that link here also. However, unless you are going to take action, I discourage people from visiting the feministe.com site and giving them traffic.