Every time a woman expresses a standard like “I need flowers gifted to me consistently” or “he needs to open doors for me and pay for dates” men start to foam at the mouth and cry “women need to reciprocate too!!11!!1” What gets me every time is that women end up on FDS because the average woman is doing everything for their partners while getting nothing back.

How many of you went half on everything, but would still buy small thoughtful gifts for your partners constantly? How many of you would buy expensive gifts for holidays and receive either nothing or something that you could tell they put little thought into? Or how many of you would clean your partner’s spaces when you noticed they were in a bad mood but never had that reciprocated?

I could go on and on because I’ve had so many girlfriends tell me their grievances on this issue. The average woman is not some narcissistic, sociopathic woman who takes takes takes. And from what I’ve witnessed, men don’t actually have an issue with the lack of reciprocation with these types of women in real life because they get the best treatment. Only men who live on the internet obsessed with hating women feel this way.

So ladies, stop listening to men’s whining when we up our standards. A majority of us deserves it because we suffered through one sided relationships. It’s men who need to learn to reciprocate not us.

And for the men who’ve let women use them, just choose better women.😌