Yes there are a fair number of fat unattractive guys who harass women in the dms, but there are far more men who simply get sick of dealing with women having insanely inflated SMV and incredibly unrealistic standards.

The delusion of being entitled to top tier men simply because men are desperate and will fuck anything is no one’s fault but their own, much the same as an 80 year old billionaire is expected to be acutely aware of why his 35 year old supermodel wife is with him. Imagine the outrage if these crusty old reptiles began treating 8-9/10 women like second class citizens simply because the dime piece wants his checkbook.

Furthermore, most of the women who act stuck up right from the jump are mid grade at best, who need makeup to get from a 5 to a 6. 7-9/10 men should not have so much difficulty fucking these girls, yet more often than not they won’t even give them the time of day, its laughable. I’ve heard this explained as these 5-6/10 women get hit up the most by guys of all levels of attractiveness looking for an easy fuck, and that makes sense although I don’t buy the whole “hottest women never get approached and have low self esteem” narrative. That is pure bullshit.

So yeah, if women, like billionaire old farts acknowledged the reason they had abundance and didn’t let it go to their heads men wouldn’t respond with hostility when they condescended them for even daring to look in their direction.