So if the 10% of men that were left over, were on average less social (shy)

Or not as tall

5'8 and below

Or overweight/underweight

Or not a big earner.

So either one or multiple of these traits, and none of the women were killed in this calamity, let's say it's an airborne disease that only affected men. The only thing this %10 had in common was a natural immunity to the disease.

Some of all different races and culture survived, but most of the men are gone. Like you have some cities that have 200k women with less than 1k men in them.

If all these guys were average, would women seek them out before they're snatched up, or would they still pass on them?

Edit: I personally believe the incels still wouldn't get girls lol