Women are more likely to cheat than men

rbrockway · 2022-08-24T15:06:42+00:00

It’s a notion women like Gabriella*, 28, from Sydney, have been aware of for some time. “I’ve had lots of affairs since my first long-term relationship when I was at university,” Gabriella says. “I love sex and I get bored easily, but men take [an affair] as an affront to their masculinity.

And how do women take affairs Gabriella?

Glass-Dimension-8827 · 2022-08-24T16:16:56+00:00

I’m not surprised. Had a friend who was cheating on her bf. Randomly on vacation she starts talking about bad relationships and things like that, jokingly I said “the answer is to cheat!” She started nodding and cheering me on, at the point I knew I something was off. I say to her “I’m joking though….” Long story short, once I found out she was actually cheating, I told her not cool bro and ended up losing a friend. However, if one were to go browse her social media pages, her other friends are cheering her on with “finally you’re smiling again!” Because she eventually left the guy she was cheating on for the man she cheated with. Mind you, she cheated on him on his dollar, he brought the tickets (multiple times, he thought she was just visiting family) for her to get to the guy unknowingly.

There’s a lack of accountability and morality in people, especially in certain women who have been taught that they should be able to follow any hedonistic whim they feel. Too much “you go girl,” and not enough critical thinking and empathy.

biff64gc · 2022-08-24T15:51:30+00:00

And of course we will just hear more rhetoric that they only cheat because the men in the relationships are lacking. Can't take responsibility.

IanHawkess · 2022-08-24T15:22:13+00:00

Marriage really does look increasingly like a mug’s game, doesn’t it?

marks1995 · 2022-08-24T15:55:58+00:00

They also have much more opportunity. It is not very hard for a woman to find a sexual partner. Even top-tier men strike out pretty frequently.

matrixislife · 2022-08-24T18:02:20+00:00

They reported being in sexless or orgasm-less marriages and they simply wanted what they couldn’t get at home.

Applies to both sexes. which one gets sympathy though?

Nathaniel66 · 2022-08-24T16:55:55+00:00

The first sentence says all:

"Science is finding that women struggle more than men when it comes to staying faithful in relationships.

It's not that they cheat more, it's that they struggle more which means it's harder for them. Again trying to justify women cheating.

TAPriceCTR · 2022-08-24T18:05:25+00:00

"He made me feel special" 🫢

SCArnoldos · 2022-08-24T15:48:16+00:00

And it comes as a surprise to absolutely no one.

CawlinAlcarz · 2022-08-24T17:13:28+00:00

If you read the article, it's basically excusing and applauding women for being promiscuous.

This article is an attempt to engender sympathy and acceptance in the mainstream - essentially normalizing promiscuous, unfaithful women in order to blunt the effects of men not wanting to settle down with the town bicycle.

Meanwhile, I'd be willing to bet even money that the author of this article has probably written an article vilifying promiscuous males (fuckboys) or the like.

Conlusions from the supposed researchers cited in the article are that men are happy with regular sex from their monogamous partner, while it's not necessarily so for women. I find this premise to be utterly horseshit as the basis for normalizing promiscuity and unfaithfulness among women.

I can GUARANTEE you that men, in the aggregate, have MUCH MIORE to lose if they cheat while married, and women in the aggregate have much LESS to lose if they do so...

SamaelET · 2022-08-24T17:37:42+00:00

If I rememeber well, married women are more likely to cheat than married men but the trend is reversed if not married.

Wonder if it has something to do with women knowing married men will get fucked if they leave ?

How can the title be so different than what the study it cites says ? https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/relationships/relationships/the-amount-of-people-who-cheat-is-higher-than-you-think/news-story/4174f3ab1c4ba938a1871b540751004f

ijustdontcare74 · 2022-08-24T15:40:19+00:00

It's simple common sense. Women, even the avg looking one's, have FAR more options than men today. Your avg women on a dating app will get dozens if not hundreds of approaches, whereas a man might net a handful if he's lucky.

Those with more options are likely to be both tempted to cheat and exercise those options, especially when breaking any promises made (fidelity and marriage) comes with ZERO social stigma, zero financial consequences and is actively cheered on and supported by the culture.

Do women cheat more..........of course they fucking do, because they CAN.

phibeforepi · 2022-08-24T15:34:59+00:00

Also water is wet

Ninja_Arena · 2022-08-24T18:17:58+00:00

I don't really care about this as far as "mens rights" issues go EXCEPT so many regions have laws where men have to raise/provide for kids that aren't theirs, which is fucked up.

LJHpowerful · 2022-08-24T20:34:21+00:00

Alot of women are monkey branchers, they just wait till something better comes along, then they're onto the next, even if you end it, they usually always got someone else lined up who they've remained in contact with, that's why you'll see them move on quick, but most guys don't usually

Lumpy_Constellation · 2022-08-24T16:14:25+00:00

I am Jack’s Complete Lack of Surprise.

Three marriages: three infidelities.

I can absolutely vouch for the science.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2022-08-24T20:24:15+00:00

Ofcourse girls cheat a lot more then men. girls egging on each others bad choices all the time. You go girl. Yea you had to cheat if you did not get your needs met its his fault you had to.

Wail men do get shamed for there bad choices.

As long as girls always get saved after any bad choices the made. Why would the need to learn. Why would the change.

There is always a capitan save a hoe out there for them. (Sorry bad english)

sanem48 · 2022-08-24T15:45:11+00:00

It’s less effort for them and plus they get hit on more than men.

Authorwannabe69 · 2022-08-24T21:53:42+00:00

I love how when the narrative said men were more likely to cheat, it was an evil, selfish thing that no one should ever do.

Now that the narrative says women are more likely to do it. It's a natural response to desire.

infinitofluxo · 2022-08-25T00:26:17+00:00

Man that’s depressing. So many men live in a sexless marriage being forced to either cheat or live in forced celibacy by a woman who, odds are, is cheating on him with another man literally giving another man the sex her husband is craving from her. Then when they get caught nothing changes. its just excuses and blaming a man who’s clueless to the situation, even going as far as to accuse him of cheating “well you probably did it first!” With absolutely no proof to the allegations she is throwing out just to get the focus off of her. I think every man has been told by the woman he’s with “i just don’t have that high of a drive” my ex did and got mad because I didn’t wanna just have sex once or twice a month 2 times a week frankly felt like it wasn’t enough, but i found out she was sleeping with a lot of other men pretty regularly and got mad when i caught her. Thats the life of a man when he’s the victim everyone blames him or gets angry at him even other men. Its just so bizarre. I personally think we’ve done it to our selfs we put women on some kind of pedestal treated them like they could do no wrong and told them ALL their feelings were justified.

ReadingHunter · 2022-08-24T16:16:55+00:00

Most things get boring when you do that for a long period. One of the reasons why people struggle to stay at the gym. Does that mean you always chase exciting trends? Also yes I will take cheating as an insult to my marriage, not only masculinity. Then want if I cheat? I won't cheat in my marriage and I don't want my wife to do so. If my wife cheats then it is a divorce. Been cheated on and betrayed by many of my "friends". I still trust people but once your break my trust -bye-bye.First, it will be sex, then something more, and finally divorce.

LionVenom10 · 2022-08-24T16:29:04+00:00

Saved! Every time I feel attraction again, I’ll come back and read this article.

Aimless-Nomad · 2022-08-24T17:13:42+00:00

So you are telling me the gender that can get no strings attached sex as easy as taking a breath is more likely to cheat? Wow. Who knew.

eldred2 · 2022-08-24T18:07:49+00:00

I find it telling how the article frames women who cheat as "struggling" to be faithful, as if somehow they were the victims. Hypo-agency at its finest.

Algoresball · 2022-08-24T16:29:23+00:00

The full headline was “Women are more likely to cheat than men – here’s why”. This article is typically BS trying to justify men being treated badly

ShaidarHaran2 · 2022-08-25T02:52:28+00:00

So many of my female friends and family think cheating is just a thing men do, even though we have several examples of female cheating in my friends group and none of men. Their minds just like filter out anything bad that women do and just focus on the bad men do.

Another toxic take is it's still the guys fault if the woman cheats somehow. I've known great guys who treated their partners incredibly well and she just cheated because she was bored, not because he was abusive or anything remotely close to that, it was because she could and it gave some feeling of power or something, but not his fault. If you're tempted to cheat, just leave the relationship, cheating is always the cheaters fault.

It's the same disgusting fallacy as "Whatever you're arguing about, just apologize", always directed at men, as if women are children who can't understand being wrong. Hell you wouldn't even do that to a child, you'd make them understand why they were wrong.

2022-08-24T16:39:51+00:00

I mean, this is the gender than runs around not only excusing it, but saying men caused it, that changes their minds constantly about who they want resulting in extremely lopsided divorce numbers. Of course they cheat more.

RowanSomewhere · 2022-08-24T22:03:49+00:00

Yep. Men have known this for hundreds of thousands of years.

w00ters · 2022-08-24T23:22:11+00:00

Sweet, an article that essentially normalizes the notion of women cheating. The future is bright for the next generation of men.

Fearless-File-3625 · 2022-08-24T17:26:26+00:00

Never get married. Never accept paternity without DNA test.

So many women cheat that's why DNA tests are stigmatised and many countries (like France and Germany) ban them.

Trev6ft5 · 2022-08-24T17:29:59+00:00

And this is why an ever growing number of attractive men say f this to the whole LTR, kids and marriage. It's too much of a mugs game.

powerroots99 · 2022-08-24T18:33:09+00:00

But Andrew Tate is bad? Hypocrites

ELPwork · 2022-08-25T00:40:12+00:00

It is also infinitely easier for women to cheat. Basically they just have to ask a guy, and if they are attractive/in shape, the guy will be good to go. It's not brain surgery.

StingRayFins · 2022-08-24T18:21:28+00:00

Definitely.

More options, more emotional, more impulsive, and more likely to be unhappy due to hypergamy.

This is why a form of order is important. It used to be religion and shaming for sleeping around. (Men and women)

Now women are "liberated" from duty and responsibilities while men are still expected to be traditional.

This is why we see the collapse of the family unit and our happiness as a whole. More freedom and choices but also more loneliness and depression.

ZekalMacabre · 2022-08-24T17:54:08+00:00

So in other words, this rag is giving women carte blanche to cheat.

Disgusting.

throwaway3569387340 · 2022-08-24T18:26:32+00:00

No shit.

I've been cheated on in four separate serious relationships, including two that I've caught literally in the act. Ask me why I'm done with dating. My dog is a better companion than any woman I've ever known. If I want physical intimacy, I'll just pay for it.

Strigon_7 · 2022-08-24T21:05:16+00:00

Not surprising to be honest.

le_maitre34 · 2022-08-24T21:22:39+00:00

Why are women whose doesn't like long-term relationship starting a long-term relationship? This is the problem. If your mindset is "new day new man", break down your long relationship and go ahead, it's never be a problem. First, you are taking yourself guarantee and after cheating the innocent guy.

Jack_Lewis37 · 2022-08-24T23:22:11+00:00

Ima just stay single, thanks.

Untimely_manners · 2022-08-25T03:50:01+00:00

I know heaps of women who have cheated, and I have also been cheated on a number of times. One thing I noticed, they were all unemployed or just had too much free time on their hands. A couple of my female friends who are self proclaimed nymphomaniacs which I laughed at, I suggested they get a full-time job then see how things change. They did eventually get full-time work and yep suddenly no time to cheat and to exhausted for sex or partying anymore.

Suitable-Mind-8559 · 2022-08-25T04:12:19+00:00

Because men are more likely to go to a strip club or massage parlor if their needs aren’t met. Women, on the other hand, will have a collection of men in their DMs all lined up ready to replace you on a whim if you stop checking all her boxes. Women will break up families to have their needs met. Men will keep the family together even if they’re miserable. We’re more willing to put up with a woman’s bullshit because we’re conditioned to. Women are continually told, “upgrade your man upgrade your life”. They’re more conditioned to cheat.

2022-08-25T04:20:56+00:00

We know

rocket717_ · 2022-08-25T05:26:37+00:00

They get more offers, that's all boys.

Back to work.

chobbo · 2022-08-25T07:34:00+00:00

No fucking shit.

Women have unlimited opportunity for an "upgrade".

Men have limited opportunity for "something else".

infinitofluxo · 2022-08-24T18:25:11+00:00

They will just say they needed to explore themselves and find out ways to make them happy. Which is BS cause you can just leave instead of cheating. I am so sick of the "you go girl" bullshit being used an excuse to being a terrible person. Just because you are "strong" and "independent" and don't "need a man to tell me what to do", doesn't give you a reason to cheat on them. Just leave first.

biscuitheque · 2022-08-24T16:46:57+00:00

Hypergamy:

the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background.

bfte2 · 2022-08-24T20:43:50+00:00

In the words of Arnold....

"No shit."

Ubergeek2001 · 2022-08-25T02:29:24+00:00

And water is wet. News at 11.

TheMorningJoe · 2022-08-25T05:11:43+00:00

Water is also wet

TheSnesLord · 2022-08-25T09:15:39+00:00

"I love sex and I get bored easily, but men take [an affair] as an affront to their masculinity. They all think they should be ‘enough’ for me"

LOL. And women never think that they're 'enough' for their boyfriend or husband do they?

Anyway - if there's ever a message to advise men to not get married then this is it.

spelczech · 2022-08-24T19:53:52+00:00

From the article:

Think of the marriages and relationships that could be improved if women could discuss their desire for sexual adventure and work with their partner to find solutions that bring them closer together.

I'm no Casanova but I have been around the block a few times and I can tell you anecdotally that it is rare for a woman to be forthcoming about their sexual desires. Men generally find out their partner was sexually unsatisfied after the relationship is over or by catching her cheating. Maybe that's because it's also been my experience that women don't take constructive criticism of their own sexual performance well?

Minute_Guarantee5949 · 2022-08-25T01:26:13+00:00

Women are hoes that can gobble up cock and lie right to your face without a sliver of remorse

Blow-it-out-your-ass · 2022-08-24T19:38:29+00:00

I'm assuming one of the reasons is because it's easier in general for women to hook up.

non-troll_account · 2022-08-24T22:44:53+00:00

So I just tried reading the article to find specific sources or even specific claims about statistics, or... Anything.

When I clicked on the link, "a growing body of research", the source cited there actually presented polling evidence than men cheat more.

This article didn't cite any evidence or even make any specific claims except to say, without sources or specifics, that women cheat more.

I'm perfectly open to either idea. But this was a terrible article, and didn't make its case at all.

Seriously. Read he article, click the links to its "sources". It's just a shitpost.

ninodelumbre · 2022-08-24T17:30:20+00:00

I think people like this should be publicly exposed, doxed.

infinitofluxo · 2022-08-24T21:05:34+00:00

Women usually cheat out of spite, men usually cheat for pleasure.

Laytheblameonluck · 2022-08-24T21:21:03+00:00

I've read a lot of Wednesday Martin's stuff but she really hasn't coherently argued why it's a gender difference and not a gender treatment difference.

Essentially, guys get told they have to work at monogamy, they don't get all their sexual fantasies filled and that's life.

Women are getting told the opposite.

So it's then no surprise that women struggle at marriage and monogamous sex now.

There's no "new science" showing women are less monogamous by the way - that's editorial fiction.

I think a big mistake is the structure presented to women now that their youth is for promiscuity because afterward there will be monogamy. I don't think men should commit unconditionally anymore, unfortunately, as women now subconsciously see marriage as a way to trap men sexually and that's the cause of this libido loss, Esther Perel covers this in Mating in Captivity.

ThrongSong- · 2022-08-25T01:39:53+00:00

I'm guessing this research is shallow and shabby. I wouldn't dismiss it out-of-hand but it smacks of the usual "progressive" research that uses shoddy methodology to affirm ideological conclusions. I mean, we live in times where various medical experts, complete with sophisticated bona fides, can't define a woman because of their ideological derangement. Where doctors pretend sex reassignment surgeries are normal and healthy and where they support giving life-altering puberty blockers to children. The ideological derangement is very real, even among many medical "professionals."

How remarkable, even unbelievable, that this woman, "Wednesday Martin," and the new "research" she has collected, has flipped every traditional assumption about sexual desire and monogamy on its head! (Hmm. Martin. Interesting last name. Noticing increases. Hiding the truth from wiki but it's not so easy in the age of the internet. https://forward.com/opinion/363887/pussy-riot-why-women-should-be-angry-at-ivanka-and-melania/ )

Wow! As it turns out, women are the ones who have a harder time being monogamous! Wow! Women are the ones who crave novelty, more than men! Wow! Women are not at all like the "sad, sorry picture of the female libido" that so many have been propagandized to believe! (Muh patriarchy lies!) "Myths" about females being less horny are being exploded! OMG! The research from users of the Ashley Madison website proves it! (No sample bias there!) It's women, not men, who feel "institutionalized" in marriage, who find sex unsatisfying and crave new partners! Wow! Men are the ones satisfied with marriage sex and it is women who get bored! Wow! The "research" shows that women "simply need novelty and sexual variety more than men do!" OH. MY. GOD. (Geez, this all aligns with how modern men are scrambling to get married and yet women keep resisting! "Give me the sexual satisfaction that is marriage!" is what men are screaming.)

How did generations of humans get all this exactly backwards? (Wait! Perhaps it was due to... muh patriarchy!)

Oh, and more evidence for women being sexual powerhouses while men are limp sods is this; heterosexual men are narrow and biased in their sexual stimulation, only getting aroused by... women! Meanwhile women feel aroused by a much broader array of stimuli, including both male and female homosexuality! OMG! Wanting to have sex with more stuff means women are more horny and more in need of variety! (For variety doesn't count unless you have a broader palette, can't just go from one girl to the next!)

Oh, and let's not forget that women aren't just more sexually aggressive and craving of variety than men (because women are the new men!) but also women are trapped in relationships where they are victims! Yes, shed a tear for all the women who must provide unfulfilling "service sex" to their male partner!

So being the more sexually aggressive sex and being more likely to cheat means that women are actually victims... victims of men's lack of robust sexuality! OMG! Women are so put-upon and yet so giving! (If you're a man you probably wouldn't understand this, being the sexually dull and perennially satisfied gender.)

I'm convinced! Women really are everything men are... only more! And they are also victims of men! It's all so revolutionary!

Sarcasm aside, it all stinks of the usual "progressive" science, part of the tsunami of bullshit we happen to be under right now. But hey, this "research" comes just in time! Media have finally caught up to this new "science." It perfectly syncs with all the "strong womyn who don't need no man" shows like 'Rings of Power' and 'She Hulk' and 'House of the Dragon' et al. Bring on the lady warriors vesting 300 pound guys as they fly on invisible greenscreen wires screaming "FUCK YOU PATRIARCHY REEEEEEE!!!"

rochesterslim · 2022-08-25T04:33:15+00:00

Wow the NY post really dared to tread past men bad women good

sanem48 · 2022-08-25T05:24:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing, as always reading the comments here of men who've been through divorce, even amicable ones, convince me marriage is about the worst decision a man can make. At best I'll look for serial monogamy where I'll date a girl for an extended amount of time before finding a new one.

And I'll do so in countries where courts don't (yet) enslave men with alimony payments, if only because they can't force men to recognize the child.

MarsRisen · 2022-08-25T10:36:11+00:00

Pretty sure we had a hunch of this truth for quite awhile. But I can’t help sense they’re still blaming men for this, “sexual sameness”….what are modern women doing about that? I’ve initiated hundreds of sexual encounters when in a relationship, the frequency of their turn downs only increase. Eventually they end up cheating and blaming me. It seems many quit trying to entice us once “committed”. Countless relationships have played out this way. Doesn’t matter if you flirt, take em on fancy dates, spontaneous trips or give them gifts. Ultimately they just mentally and emotionally check out. Just like so many men have experienced.

Vivaelpueblo · 2022-08-25T12:40:14+00:00

My ex-GF was proud of her previous cheating and anonymous sex, I didn't judge her because, as I said to her at the time, I cared less about what she may have done in the past but I did care about what she was doing now when she's in a relationship with me. Obviously she reassured me that our relationship was serious and she cared about me.

Yeah, you can guess how that worked out. The warning signs were obvious, who boasts about having one night stands and anonymous sex? She was merely reminding me that I was easily replaceable and eventually the evidence that she was continuing her previous behaviour kept piling up, such that I couldn't ignore it any more.

74_LafayettePlace · 2022-11-11T14:23:34+00:00

Women Help Women Cheat.

Never before have I seen a father help a son cover an affair.

MANY TIMES before have I seen Mother help a Daughter cover up an affair.

Women help their girlfriends keep affairs secret. Sisters help their sister keep affairs secret.

Women get away with cheating EASIER.

Women have a TOOLKIT of ways to cover up affairs.

Men do NOT have this same manipulative toolkit.

A man gets screenshotted EASILY. Don't get me started.

Screen shots. Screen shots. Screen shots.

TLDR

Women get away with affairs easier and their friends/family members help women COVER UP affairs whereas men are forced by society to "come clean".

Mycroft033 · 2022-08-24T17:02:01+00:00

In other news: Water turns out to be wet!

2022-08-24T18:16:31+00:00

Tip: If you have nothing to do with them then they can't cheat on you. You really have to ask if the whole scam is worth it.

Hanzo_The_Ninja · 2022-08-24T16:38:58+00:00

They wanted to find partners for sex. They reported being in sexless or orgasm-less marriages and they simply wanted what they couldn’t get at home. But most were otherwise happily partnered or married, and these affairs were a way for them to remain in their primary relationships.

Fire_Fist-Ace · 2022-08-25T01:02:44+00:00

well considering ive never cheated but been cheated on a lot yep that makes sense

DerogatoryDuck · 2022-08-25T05:55:35+00:00

New York Post is absolute trash bordering on tabloid

IdiocySalience · 2022-08-24T17:43:17+00:00

I don't know what to believe when it comes to this. Can anyone find the data sited by op from you gov? I'm getting a 404.

https://ifstudies org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america

this site claims the opposite, too.

WallyWiff · 2022-08-24T22:21:29+00:00

Gunna be honest, article seems misleading considering the first article it references says in its own article "according to a US survey completed by YouGov, a whopping one in five people aged 18-29 admitted to cheating on their significant other. (And that’s just the ones who confess.)

The survey found that the people most likely to stray were male, but that women are not exempt, either. 25 per cent of those who admitted to cheating were male, compared to 13 per cent of females surveyed."

Just saying.

ClassroomLow1008 · 2024-05-09T16:02:37+00:00

This is a poorly written article. Even the study they cite shows that men cheat more than women.

Ethanol_Based_Life · 2022-08-24T18:56:39+00:00

The cited article says the opposite

https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/relationships/relationships/the-amount-of-people-who-cheat-is-higher-than-you-think/news-story/4174f3ab1c4ba938a1871b540751004f

Lumpy_Constellation · 2022-08-24T19:32:47+00:00

If the NY Post says it, it must be true. Surely they'd never do something shady like misrepresent the findings of the very study they're reporting on!

Oh, wait.

I clicked the source linked in this article. It says the exact opposite of what the NY Post article says. Fucking shocking.

https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/relationships/relationships/the-amount-of-people-who-cheat-is-higher-than-you-think/news-story/4174f3ab1c4ba938a1871b540751004f

"The survey found that the people most likely to stray were male, but that women are not exempt, either. 25 per cent of those who admitted to cheating were male, compared to 13 per cent of females"

MistyCD · 2022-08-24T18:43:30+00:00

The article is titled "Women are more likely to cheat than men"

but then they link you to the following as a source:

>The survey found that the people most likely to stray were male, but that women are not exempt, either. 25 per cent of those who admitted to cheating were male, compared to 13 per cent of females surveyed.

https://www.bodyandsoul.com.au/relationships/relationships/the-amount-of-people-who-cheat-is-higher-than-you-think/news-story/4174f3ab1c4ba938a1871b540751004f

I also find it hard to believe that women have the same libido. I don't know, I'm confused.

melk8 · 2022-08-25T00:33:31+00:00

I'm currently in a new relationship with no issues whatsoever but I've found it hard not to just look at other men as possible partners. I really, really don't want anyone else and I'm trying to stop myself from thinking like this :/

So in short, I can confirm that the urge to cheat is more prevalent in women, and for some of us, whether we like it or not.

LiquidDreamtime · 2022-08-24T21:51:09+00:00

Monogamy sucks.

justlooking128 · 2022-08-24T23:56:56+00:00

ny post, please

medlabunicorn · 2022-08-25T09:32:50+00:00

The data do not support this assertion. https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america

TAPriceCTR · 2022-08-24T19:01:01+00:00

women are less driven to infidelity, but they are also much lower in self discipline.

RatDontPanic · 2022-08-24T17:38:45+00:00

Not so sure I'd want to use NY Post as a source to defend that argument. I think men and women cheat equally.

BoopEverySnoot · 2022-08-25T02:33:45+00:00

Well if NY POST says so…

thestrucguyYT · 2022-08-24T17:30:06+00:00

Women cheat when they don't love you anymore, men cheat for sex only. Cheating in both cases is bad, but if a woman cheats on you, she is gone. If a man cheats, he still loves you, he most likely wanted sex.

CSharpLife · 2022-08-24T22:47:37+00:00

Pick Up Artistry is amazing.

HikuroMishiro · 2022-08-24T23:58:13+00:00

While distinctly possible, this is a bad article to cite as their 'source' is just another article that actually says the opposite. That being said most of the article is about it being okay for women to cheat/excusing it which would have probably been a better post title/focus since they didn't back up their statistic.

drifters74 · 2022-08-25T00:26:18+00:00

Why do they cheat more?

Newyorkcity45 · 2022-08-25T09:31:39+00:00

I think both parties do their fair of cheating

Dark1rising · 2022-08-25T11:55:53+00:00

😂😂😂🤣😅😂🤣🤣😂😂

infinitofluxo · 2022-08-25T12:29:42+00:00

This is the source article, which is hardly reputable in the first place, but it also says this:

"25 per cent of those who admitted to cheating were male, compared to 13 per cent of females surveyed." And also:

"What’s so jarring about the study is that the majority of women described their ideal relationship as being completely monogamous, while only around half of men thought that fidelity was the best arrangement."

So this article is misconstruing the 'research' done and in fact saying the exact opposite of the research.

AdGlad3656 · 2022-08-25T14:38:37+00:00

yk if you just look up "which partner is more likely to cheat" it literally says that men are..but okay

2022-11-20T22:27:55+00:00

Good there's nothing wrong with this. It's nature after all. Women cheat ,men cheat.

2022-08-24T17:17:43+00:00

The article just says the ovious, women generally like new and vareity and men generally will be content with having mostly the "if it was good before and nothing changed then its still good now" mentality. It doesnt excuse cheating but it explains it. Y all are quick to trash talk tho

Huffers1010 · 2022-08-24T19:24:35+00:00

I guess that might be mainly a men's issue but is it really a men's rights issue?

This shouldn't just be about clobbering women.

NotHighEnuf · 2022-08-24T22:27:07+00:00

(x) Doubt

cuddaloreappu · 2022-08-25T03:09:29+00:00

wymen have been subjugated and oppressed by the patriarchy for so long, cheating should be a privilege only available to women. it is their birthright to cheat and have fun in life.

beleidigtewurst · 2022-08-25T14:11:37+00:00

Why link bazinga article instead of actual research?

Last time I've checked men were more likely to cheat.

CreeperAsh07 · 2022-08-24T16:27:28+00:00

What does this have to do with Mens’ rights?

Jarboner69 · 2022-08-25T03:22:33+00:00

I don’t get how this is relevant to mens rights lmao

RealEstate9009 · 2022-08-24T21:01:19+00:00

This just goes to show that men and women are very similar... Some of you can get off your "boys vs girls" bullshit now and go get ur dicks wet! Congrats!

FoxesandFountains · 2022-08-24T20:12:20+00:00

Is this an incel subreddit?

Terrible_Departure90 · 2022-08-24T21:28:56+00:00

“Cheaper to keep her” didn’t just come out if thin air and isn’t just about divorce.

SeeTheLight0 · 2022-08-24T23:36:12+00:00

"Exploring their sexuality" = change teams lol

TFME1 · 2022-08-25T00:45:41+00:00

For most sections of the article, the author could have replaced "human" with any gender references and the article would still be almost entirely accurate.

mpusar · 2022-08-25T00:52:51+00:00

No shit.

2022-08-25T01:46:25+00:00

I have known this on an intuitive level my whole life.

roccobaroco · 2022-08-25T04:32:59+00:00

What does this have to do with men's rights?

DecimatingDarkDeceit · 2022-08-25T10:34:21+00:00

In other news : [ Water is a liquid | Water is wet ]. What a suprise (!) -- Alas at the very least we have more legitemate evidence now :I

Black Pill yet ?!

Toran_dantai · 2022-08-25T12:25:01+00:00

Is there evidence for this because I’d like to add my exes to it ?

What anoys me more is the fact is they cheated not because of the sex but literally because I didn’t like their disrespectful attitude

Eve N when with other people they always wanted it

Hate this feeling sick of it

cuppa_tea_4_me · 2022-08-25T14:43:30+00:00

Oh I wish someone would post it on 2X.

C9Shiro · 2022-08-25T18:28:51+00:00

Wait what? Has ANYONE of you even looked at the actual research linked? You reach it when you click on "a growing body of researches". Go ahead, do it!

"The survey found that the people most likely to stray were male, but that women are not exempt, either. 25 per cent of those who admitted to cheating were male, compared to 13 per cent of females surveyed."

Can you actually start looking at actual research (that's even linked in the article!!) before believing everything blindly?

Affectionate-School3 · 2022-08-25T20:18:30+00:00

New York Post is a tabloid. Not serious news. It’s like the National Enquirer, but wasn’t always so.

Fair_Daikon1494 · 2022-11-23T23:03:20+00:00

Yes this is true. Women are likely to cheat. Especially these days where there are more options for women to not be bound to one man.That is why women have multiple children with different men, but also never settle down. Women need constant attention, good sex aswell. Many men don't put in the effort to please women, nowadays women aren't loyal because they can't trust men too. So they rather go jump on a few dicks to make up for it Women are also more sneaky when it comes to cheating and women tend to fall in love with all the partners they sleep with.

Title	Women are more likely to cheat than men
Author	rbrockway
Upvotes	1457
Comments	461
Date	August 24, 2022 3:06 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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