I've seen with friends, most virgin males usually go for one or two woman then they put max efforts and after that they get burned out and give up on dating altogether.

It's only 7+ attractiveness rating men who are making approaches now, getting with women and because most men are no longer desperate after learning female nature from redpill and lived life experiences and finally online dating apps.

Unless you are 7+ you ain't getting date off the OLD.

And even if you are below 7, most women are like mehhh, see me what you can do clown. And she will not do a thing for you, sooner you'll realize you are only one putting efforts and she's looking for someone else.

Finally, biggest setback is dropping testosterone level.

There's a bird study where they take male bird with low testosterone, they pain his wings with attractive colors and then check the testosterone level after sometime, they see the boosted testosterone level because brightet colors result in social success for the bird! Which increases its testosterone level.

Similarly, most males today have lower status than females in social circle, one wrong accusation and you are basically gone, cancelled!

This is resulting male attractiveness and testosterone droppinh which is shrinking supply of attractive and confident men who are willing to lead and put efforts.

As a result most viable men for women are few among many many men, and this abundance in option for those limited men means most women get very little effort from them and almost no commitment making their life hell.

I do not want women to drop their standards, higher they keep their standards, smaller pool of men they fight for and more suffering, hurt, trauma they accure.