Why... are men ??? 🤢😳

Resident-Equipment95 · 2021-05-06T13:16:54+00:00

My LVX was like this. I broke down crying once out of stress and he “comforted” me for about 10 minutes before trying to take my pants off. Will never cry in front of a man again 🤢

katathe · 2021-05-06T13:40:49+00:00

One dude got hard when i talked about my childhood sexual abuse and i was crying.

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-05-06T15:00:58+00:00

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Big-Paleontologist13 · 2021-05-06T14:35:53+00:00

I had been in a life threatening car accident. Literally was covered in these little stick on devices to measure my heart and brain activity over 48 hours and a lvx couldn’t help himself, o was so tired confused snd scared I just laid there and let it happen. My reasoning that ‘he had been so good to me that day and had dropped everything to stay in hospital for most of the day with me while the staff ran tests’

Positively-Occult · 2021-05-06T14:07:12+00:00

Every day I learn of another aspect of my humanity that I have to hide lest it turn a man on

I tear up freely, I don’t hide getting emotional but I’ll reserve that for women’s company

Mella_20 · 2021-05-06T15:35:06+00:00

That's so disgusting.

I remember reading a post on a sub for men, asking how they react when their gf/wife cries. A lot of them responded that they would feel horny. One guy even commented "30 seconds to sad sex!". Very few said they would comfort them/offer support. They generally lack empathy, and are very perverted.

dogeatpawworld · 2021-05-06T16:25:28+00:00

I was vomiting from food poisoning and my LVX tried to get me to give him a blowjob because my gag reflex would have been weakened because I vomited 20 times before that

It was bad I had to be hospitalised.

Edit: FYI I basically had salmonella bacteria in me cuz I ate a bad chicken. That’s why it was so bad. Doctor said I could have died.

1Here4Bach · 2021-05-06T13:22:52+00:00

My friend’s ex got hard when she told him the story of when she was raped so this definitely is a thing.

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-05-06T14:44:19+00:00

This is why Ive never cried in front of men. Ive seen to many stories of them being turned on by it

Ok_Meringue9724 · 2021-05-06T12:42:43+00:00

I'm literally speechless. I assume it's a joke, but some dudes actually are like this. And even if they aren't, joking about stuff like this this just shows how much regard they give to women and their emotions. It's almost like the only purpose of a woman is to make their dick feel good. I've literally distanced myself from men in my life, and I've noticed how peaceful my life has become. No stress, no drama, no nothing. 😚

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-05-06T14:23:14+00:00

And I bet after she was feeling better or during her cry session he tried having sex with her as a "I'm taking care of you" method.

Thestral-glow6 · 2021-05-06T12:10:22+00:00

They truly are disgusting.

MadSeaPhoenix · 2021-05-06T17:02:03+00:00

The day I found out my grandfather died, a close “friend” that showed up to comfort me then proceeded to try to bed me while I was balling and basically dissociated. He had a gf at home who I had been becoming close with.

They are seriously deranged. That man has been blocked and deleted and his gf found out about all his creepy behavior from me. I wish she’d gotten out of her pickme shit, but instead she married the creep. He did a lot more awful stuff but it’d take pages for me to detail.

I am fortunate to be married to a very HVM, but I no longer maintain close friendships with any men. I gave too many men far too many chances to be friends, and none of them could return that favor by treating me with respect. They’re just not worth the energy.

zazaleaz · 2021-05-06T18:59:33+00:00

A lot of men have no apparent concept of consoling or any sort of physical touch other than sexual. They're completely emotionally stunted.

shoo_coworker · 2021-05-06T13:21:24+00:00

Men like this seem to become aroused when women are vulnerable, because the more vulnerable we are the better their chances are for forcing themselves on us. Disgusting and predatory

Watzoo · 2021-05-06T13:23:43+00:00

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spinsterchachkies · 2021-05-06T15:33:06+00:00

Porn sick.

Watzoo · 2021-05-06T16:24:03+00:00

insert burning trash dumpster gif here

I’m not sure why we acknowledge actual psychopaths with this kind of attention, tbh.

Finding a guy who won’t pitch a tent when you’re mourning a loved one is a pretty easy bar to get over, even with the pool of men in today’s dating game.

fairywakes · 2021-05-06T18:19:04+00:00

I was kicked out into the -10 weather and snow at 3 am because I wouldn’t continue to have sex with a guy who forced it. He was a seemingly steady boyfriend who I was growing to be comfortable with sexually so I started oral with each other...he thought it was a signal to slam himself into me. I screamed in pain, punched him, and he literally threw me outside.

As I cried walking around the corner and tried to fumble with my phone to find an Uber, a man pulled up to me. Confused and scared at 19 years old, also stupid and barely lucid, I began talking with him. He attempted to get sexual with me and bring me to his place. Unbelievable.

amyanubis · 2021-05-06T19:20:49+00:00

My ex performed anal sex on me in the hospital hours after my c-section. I feel like an idiot for letting him get away with doing so much to me. In the end I had enough after multiple sexual assaults while he was drunk. He now has a sex offence caution on his record for life, most men get a slap on the wrist for serious assaults against women. I don't think I could ever be in a relationship with a man again after the crap a few have put me through. I also caught him watching "Teen" porn and he tried to expose himself to a 14 year old girl when drunk. I can't wait till his liver packs up.

eating_dirt · 2021-05-06T18:59:07+00:00

I’ve had multiple friends confide in me and tell me their child abuse/SA stories and never ONCE did a sexual thought cross my mind because why the fuck would it???? I literally can’t even comprehend what mind space these men are in that would make them think and act in that way? When someone is confiding in you, it’s the most ultimate act of trust between friends that I can think of, how could you violate that trust like it’s nothing???? Someone is literally pouring their heart out in front of them and their reaction is “haha, that’s hot.”???????? WHAT THE FUCK. I don’t think I’ll ever understand

Technical_Moth248 · 2021-05-06T14:51:53+00:00

Oooh this one gets me. My ex was like this, and I ended up making a Reddit post about it. People told me it’s a normal reaction and their brains get confused but it happens to most men so I was being a bitch if I kept getting mad about him trying to shove his penis in my face while I’m literally sobbing. I was still a teenager so I thought “Huh, I guess?”

NO. Bunch of degenerates.

Champagne_bitch · 2021-05-06T12:24:55+00:00

Lowest of the low.

Lavender_flow · 2021-05-06T13:02:56+00:00

So he cared more about his erection than her feelings. Ofcourse! Some men get off on women in pain and crying. Sick

orangeboobert · 2021-05-06T15:17:34+00:00

fdsThrowaway2021 · 2021-05-06T12:51:21+00:00

They are conditioned to that because of pornography. This is not a natural phenomena.

FDS-GFY · 2021-05-06T15:47:37+00:00

🤢🤮

dogeatpawworld · 2021-05-06T16:24:32+00:00

This is disgusting

UnabashedCalabash · 2021-05-06T17:12:35+00:00

I cried telling a man I was dating about my sexual abuse, and he then proceeded to get aroused and sexually abuse me, then blamed me for it (I dissociated, he screamed at me “why didn’t you stop me?!”)

Somehow or another I didn’t think this was a massive red flag (I know, I know, I was broken), stayed in a relationship with the guy, and surprise to surprise he turned out to be an abusive rapist loser creep.

Never, ever, ever, ever stick around for a guy who finds crying or stories of sexual abuse arousing.

yetanotherhail · 2021-05-06T20:26:03+00:00

But you don't understand! It's nothing sexual for guys to get a boner while you're crying in their arms. It's a compassion boner. A boner out of empathy and bondedness. -----> this is ACTUALLY how they justify it. Go to any sub where they are present and ask. You will get a variation of what I have written above. Disgusting.

I wonder if they also get a boner when they console their own daughters, be they grown or little. If no, then their boners for crying women aren't empathy boners after all. If yes, then ... I wouldn't even be surprised.

miphasgraceful · 2021-05-06T14:24:59+00:00

Nice job in using a woman’s grief for your sick sexual pleasure. 😳

lisa_allday · 2021-05-06T14:09:44+00:00

Because they all sadly have a one track mind. Hideous

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-05-06T21:22:34+00:00

His creepy icon matches his post perfectly.

frappe21 · 2021-05-06T13:52:26+00:00

Imagine how much of a degenerate you have to be. Ew.

ilackinventiveness · 2021-05-06T16:18:07+00:00

I almost downvoted this out of disgust. They’re truly so fucking vile.

StormRunner_Resa · 2021-05-06T19:00:05+00:00

I was seeing this guy casually and he accidentally triggered a sexual assault memory of mine in conversation and while I completely froze up and held back tears he collapsed in my lap and started playing w my hair Bc he thought it was “the right thing to do”. I’m still confused.

Goblin_at_heart · 2021-05-06T20:45:36+00:00

It feels like they see an opportunity to take advantage of someone who is vulnerable, and that's what turns them on. I'm repulsed

Thesseli · 2021-05-07T01:03:35+00:00

That guy was a perv.

vagesta · 2021-05-07T06:33:03+00:00

I remember when I was 19 I went to a male therapist and he got an erection when I was crying about being sexually abused at 3

16February2021 · 2021-05-07T09:49:45+00:00

This post and all these comments just want me to "Noah get the boat". I don't want to be in this planet anymore

thatrecoilwhenyoucme · 2021-05-06T22:58:23+00:00

This is precisely why I go on their little subreddits and remind them of the degenerates that they are, with my favorite stat ^{_^}

Rape 96.8%, Murder 88%, Robbery 84% (US Dept. of Justice, 2019)

Midnight-writer-B · 2021-05-07T01:21:04+00:00

I feel as though the internet has officially broken humanity. People (men) with odd and disturbing appetites had to hide, and now they can find each other and get vocal and push the envelope...

XxShykatxX · 2021-05-07T04:24:25+00:00

Reaalllyyy hoping this is a joke though I wouldn't doubt it if it actually happens. =\

queen-wannabe · 2021-05-06T23:19:53+00:00

What if he got a boner because this was his first contact with a woman in years or he doesn’t have female friends. I’m not defending him getting a boner in a really scary time in this girls life but it could be a possibility. But even then, when he looks back on this moment, he doesn’t seem sorry for it

Title	Why... are men ??? 🤢😳
Author	AcadiaLeather5071
Upvotes	639
Comments	123
Date	May 6, 2021 11:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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