People in the comments are debating whether or not this is a good thing 🤡

MyLifeIsWandsXIII · 2022-01-29T05:14:45+00:00

I just can't imagine not seeing half of the population as humans?? Wtf is wrong with these men. Do they think we are just these kind of non-sentient beings going through the world as a sort of "filler" like NPCs in a game?

lansburysoda · 2022-01-29T05:31:30+00:00

Holy shit, imagine having to realize this

DaisyDooDrops · 2022-01-29T05:33:20+00:00

Just some thoughts: the fact that this man is congratulating himself as if it’s some sort of enlightening revolutionary act to recognize a person as a person just shows me that nothing has actually changed in his mind as he’s still centering himself!!

And people congratulating him and saying “no he actually held women higher than men like goddesses” they don’t realize that it’s STILL dehumanizing women. Expecting women to be anything other than human is the basis for ALL misogyny. thinking a woman is “better” than a man will be their reasons for them tearing her down, for expecting her to take up all the unpaid labor of the household, to baby him through life and take up all parenting responsibilities. Thinking women are lesser than men leads to a whole other slew of problems that I’m sure have traumatized so many of us. I’m just. Tired.

DameSorciere · 2022-01-29T11:56:12+00:00

The worst part about this is that he's fucking lying. This is not someone who actually had a revelation of "omg I've been viewing women as objects/slaves my whole life and my worldview has totally changed." This is someone who went on a women's forum, maybe fds, saw women's top complaint for men in dating was "I just want to be treated like a human" and he thought to himself that making a post declaring that he think women are humans would GET HIM LAID. He STILL views women as a warm hole, evidenced by the last fucking line he wrote. He's full of shit and virtue signaling because he's trying to bait women. The sun ain't even up yet and I've had enough internet for today gdi

Bonds_Girl · 2022-01-29T04:50:10+00:00

IOW, we were just conceptualized objects before. 😳

aquietsword · 2022-01-29T04:26:05+00:00

Imagine being so emotionally and intellectually underdeveloped. No confident woman will find this man even remotely attractive.

Softrito · 2022-01-29T06:41:34+00:00

Lol. Yeah but before then he still wanted to be in a relationship with women. He just gained a feature that might help him attain one better.

ccro7 · 2022-01-29T08:19:54+00:00

It's also disturbing because does that mean that they also believe their own grandmothers and mothers and sisters and daughters and nieces and girlfriends and wives are not human? Or are these not actually 'women' to them? And if men ever believed during their youth and childhood that women were human, at what age did they 'unlearn' this fact? Was it porn that taught them that women are subhuman and worthless?

In any case, if men can pretend that women are subhuman and worthless it allows them to pretend that they are the opposite.

Fun_Sherbet · 2022-01-29T05:58:50+00:00

Y'all he's getting closer to realizing i'm not a hologram... i think he's the one <3 <3.... /s

throhawey123 · 2022-01-29T06:09:55+00:00

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Objective_Ad7771 · 2022-01-29T08:15:22+00:00

Women have it the other way around.

PicoPicoMio · 2022-01-29T08:00:13+00:00

Did he think women were thoughtless objects bumbling through life. So you basically told on yourself about having an underdeveloped intellect and the insightfulness of a cockroach. Interesting.

CrabEatingFox · 2022-01-29T07:37:16+00:00

Breaking News: man has to get into his 30s before he begins to have empathy for over half the population.

Give me a fucking break. It took him aging to realize women are people and not just pussy? Go back to your hand dude none of us want you 🤮

Efflights6 · 2022-01-29T07:04:29+00:00

Said the quiet part aloud

WorkaholicParty · 2022-01-29T12:31:23+00:00

This is such a red flag. Like they say this but don't even mean it. They probably mean human as in "she poops, is violent and can commit crimes". Those types of guys who think this way can watch a man abuse his wife and think the wife is an abuser too because he's so "enlightened" about his 50/50 mindset.

He probably still doesn't think women are human in the they have feelings, hopes, dream, inner world, pride, ego way.

Sewud · 2022-01-29T05:59:40+00:00

This is so gross!

Phase 1: women are unintelligible sex objects that exist only for me to evaluate my worth.

Phase 2: women have the same negative sides as men! It's so much easier to approach them!

Phase never: women have the same positive side as men

FI-REfox · 2022-01-29T04:38:06+00:00

Scrotes don't change their liver spots. I think his phone auto-corrected and what he meant was he thinks women are hummus. 🙄

europoor24 · 2022-01-29T11:59:10+00:00

This is pretty common given the amount of guys who sign up for events like « the real nature of women ».

JessyJK · 2022-01-29T09:51:31+00:00

Yo, that's fucked up. Like duuude what went wrong with your development?

SupermarketObvious92 · 2022-01-29T12:24:39+00:00

I just literally CAN NOT see men as not human. How do you even posses that little empathy?

I guess we’re going to have to see men as walking wallets, then, to get even. Unfortunately, most of them don’t even have wallets worthy of any mention. 😂

East-Willingness513 · 2022-01-29T06:52:55+00:00

The worst thing about this is that he made the CHOICE to share his misogynistic thoughts. LOCK HIM UP AND THROW AWAY THE KEY.

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-01-29T06:13:06+00:00

This has gotta be a Poe's Law thing, don't you think?

Colour_riot · 2022-01-29T15:05:26+00:00

the last line kinda says it all.

He still doesn't see women as humans, it's just a performance to get closer to "one".

100% ugly inside out

vagabond-playing · 2022-01-29T11:42:51+00:00

when i thought it couldn't get worse... they are SURPRISED about this basic fact...

Shot_Presence_8382 · 2022-01-29T16:04:59+00:00

Why even bother with 99.9% of men when they don't even see us as HUMAN BEINGS. Guess this choad thought of women as what, s3x objects???? Just so done with men..for a grown ass man to come to this "conclusion later in life" I legit have no desire to even look for a relationship with a guy, again. Ever.

CrazyPaine · 2022-01-29T11:26:04+00:00

Morty I'm scared. Because holy shit. What is going on with their brains for their thought process to not click?

Mcccy · 2022-01-29T17:05:18+00:00

Imagine women going "After I had my son I realised that men are actually humans with feelings Just like us!!"

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2022-01-29T14:39:00+00:00

Wow. I hope he never gets in a relationship.

Subject-Investment88 · 2022-01-29T05:23:57+00:00

Translation: the older I get, the more I come to terms that Im overweight, balding, still broke with ED and nobody wants me. Now that I’m completely undesirable, I have zero bargaining chips, so I have to be a bit nicer this time around. I still prefer a nurse with a purse who will do domestics duties and stay on top of my health.

FURYOFCAPSLOCK · 2022-01-29T09:43:44+00:00

Oh Jesus Christ 😑

MinnieMandy96 · 2022-01-29T18:03:58+00:00

But THIS is the toxic sub omg

EnvironmentalFuel75 · 2022-01-29T09:52:37+00:00

So who did he think was the “human” that birthed him?

found_thissubfinally · 2022-01-29T12:27:21+00:00

For women it's opposite. You grow up and find out how inhuman some men are.

FancyCocktailOlive · 2022-01-29T18:41:54+00:00

Goes to show how much men respect their mothers in general. Remember this when you’re raising boys. Don’t let them treat you with disrespect.

Puffpepinopickle · 2022-01-29T05:20:08+00:00

Holyyyyy shit. This is worse than when men say that “having a sister/mom/aunt taught me how to respect women” (and I’m sure that the men who say that DO NOT, in fact, know how to respect women)

cafehearty · 2022-01-29T06:13:08+00:00

Actually, the older you get the uglier you become (as men do) and the further away you get from getting into a relationship with a woman.

Successful_Film_1041 · 2022-01-29T06:19:23+00:00

disgusting, how are these people not rejected from society for not respecting half the population on earth.

friendly_pleb · 2022-01-29T18:24:35+00:00

"I woke up in my mid-30s and realized that mature and self-actualized women don't need men, but choose them if they want them around" moment.

It must really be fascinating to finally get a grasp on reality and see that this is how relationships should actually work.

SwampDwellingPirate · 2022-01-29T20:48:01+00:00

"the close I might get to being in a relationship with one"

I sincerely hope the fuck not. Die alone.

Orangecat72 · 2022-01-29T06:26:33+00:00

I weep for womankind.

ChickenChic · 2022-01-29T07:33:52+00:00

Thank goodness they haven’t figured out we’re actually all hyper evolved lizard people yet.

Environmental_Way577 · 2022-01-29T08:13:09+00:00

He's only excited because that's getting him closer to being in a relationship. I can't even...

icy_lilies · 2022-01-29T04:25:10+00:00

Satan called, and said he'll build yet a new circle to accommodate this new low. From now on, we can say ''the bar is in the 8179th circle of Hell''.

Throwaway_blarn · 2022-01-29T06:10:13+00:00

So much ewww

VesperLynd- · 2022-01-29T06:20:56+00:00

Does he want a cookie and a pat on the head now? This is pathetic, he should feel ashamed even typing this garbage.

funnierthan24_ · 2022-01-29T14:26:12+00:00

....good for him? How are we supposed to react to that LOL. "I've been seeing women as objects for years, turns out theyre human beings!"

Disturbs me to wonder if other men in my life feel the same way

Mb9890 · 2022-01-29T16:31:28+00:00

Awh he is soooo honest and thats what counts 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍🤩🤩🤩🤩 we need to encourage men to show these behaviors and when they do quietly leave and say there just isnt any chemistry so they can't fool the next girl...I know many lurk here as well and they are absolutely just taking notes to be better manipulators

AnniaT · 2022-01-29T20:49:18+00:00

It has to be trolling.

paddlesandchalk · 2022-01-29T18:00:03+00:00

Is anyone able to PM me the link to this post?

Townie1319 · 2022-01-29T17:13:01+00:00

Well…that’s horrifying and yet not surprising

Rude-System-3319 · 2022-01-29T17:57:53+00:00

Am pretty sure they are actually demons in disguise, that have learned to almost act human.

BetaNatalis · 2022-01-29T23:20:03+00:00

This absolute nitwit comes to the realization that women aren’t the walking sex objects he thought they were. Instead of practising some introspection and growing from this, instead of learning how he can begin to talk to women and enjoy their thoughts, experiences, and opinions, he focuses solely on how this big epiphany might help him get laid by “one” (😑) . Which is …………objectifying and dehumanizing??? Never mind not possessing the maturity, embarrassment, or general wherewithal to keep this information to himself.

And back on the hamster wheel of male logic we go…….

fingernmuzzle · 2022-01-30T11:44:24+00:00

EwwwDavid. Also, his post is a completely self-serving attempt to get laid: “now that I publicly acknowledged it’s humanity, it should def wanna fuck me” /s

chasingshoesales · 2022-01-30T15:40:03+00:00

The older I get, the more I realize I am perceived as just an object to men.

I had a discussion with my LVX about this. He was clearly a misogynist and I thought I could CHANGE him lol. We were talking about misogyny in music and how idk how he can stand it. Literally I had to break my point down to literally explaining that women are people. Like mid conversation I realized that was the major wall I couldn’t get past with him in this discussion. He did not see women as people. I had to express that we are half the population and it was like news to him. Eventually he just went quiet and then told me I was a hypocrite for not dedicating my life to stopping sexism if seeing women as people was really so important to me.

Idk how you can live your life being this in denial about biological facts, but men have been doing it for millennia.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2022-01-31T09:56:54+00:00

I bet that there are comments saying "better late than never" or "he's made progress, why are you so mean!?" when someone calls him out.

Edit: I still don't think he sees women as humans. Notice how being in a relationship with one is the goal. If he really suddenly realized what he said he does, he'd feel like shit for us because he would empathize with all the bullshit women go through or even what he put women through.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-01-31T16:24:06+00:00

You could fill in "woman" with any type of group and it would still be eye-wateringly stupid and offensive.

"I'm starting to see gay people as human"

Wow, how generous of you!!

I hate it here sometimes...And instead of working on himself with this "revelation" his first thought is "relationships" or rather how to get into a woman's pants. FFS

2022-01-29T11:50:20+00:00

Damn, imahine being so misogynist that you have to realize it.

blackmetalbetty · 2022-01-31T01:05:33+00:00

Any dude who thinks like this would be a half breed/ abomination if his mother isn't human...

PalmTreePhilosophy · 2022-02-02T08:14:18+00:00

How can a man be this fkn stupid???? He should be publicly humiliated. He should have reached this epiphany at the age of 3.

Title	People in the comments are debating whether or not this is a good thing 🤡
Author	DaisyDooDrops
Upvotes	1524
Comments	99
Date	January 29, 2022 4:10 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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