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winter_lover28 · 2026-05-06T19:03:53+00:00

Sometimes I wish I looked like a model. Imagine how many women they could sleep with.

ThatBitchA · 2026-05-06T18:56:59+00:00

Why do the men in this sub always insult the husband of married PPD women?

Why is y'all default to insult a man because he's with a woman you don't agree with?

Does it make you feel better to insult the man who must be some simp/beta/cuck because he doesn't agree with you?

Do y'all dudes really think that every man thinks the exact same as you? That every man values the same things y'all do?

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-05-06T18:04:59+00:00

There's this cute Italian exchange student who I talked to once and who I lowkey have a crush on in one of my classes.

Today we coincidentally arrived at/in front of our lecture room at almost the exact same time. Internally I'm already like "very nice I'm going to hold the door open for her and say hi and maybe we'll have some smalltalk and sit next to each other"

I pull on the handle and the door doesn't open. It's locked. I look at her confused and she points out I'm at the wrong door and the one next to it is the correct one.

IT'S OVER😭. There's no salvaging or coming back from this. I remember back when "ick lists" were a thing 'a man failing to open a locked door' was near the top on many of them.

Reasonable_Mouse789 · 2026-05-06T17:35:58+00:00

All of my impressions tell me that women are completely disgusted by a guy if they wait a month to sleep with him on online dating, but for some reason dating statistics quote a month as the average time people date before sex. Idk how to reconcile this because, in my experience, “most women” who take longer than 6 hours to sleep with a guy aren’t physically into him

Logos1789 · 2026-05-06T17:24:28+00:00

Where do you draw the line between respecting your partner’s choices and tolerating disrespect?

I feel like every time a man takes issue with something his partner does, the woman is defended on the basis of her autonomy.

When a woman takes issue with something her partner does, the man is criticized for disrespecting her.

The behavior in question is usually related to the partner’s interactions with other women/men, like how much they communicate, what they communicate, when they communicate, etc.

I’m not looking for “well it’s up to the couple to figure out boundaries, etc.” I want to know where *you* think the line *should be* by default/for you.

-mixedsignals · 2026-05-06T16:35:26+00:00

I guess it's victim blaming ppd season

it's like the 5th post of the week

Novel-Tip-7570 · 2026-05-06T15:42:51+00:00

I know it's a heavy topic but do you think rapists ever feel guilt for what they do? I keep wondering whether the man who SAed me ever thinks about it or if it was just nothing to him.

Terrible_Mixture_759 · 2026-05-06T15:31:14+00:00

We joke about things but specifically oil commodity traders are legitimately legitimately cattle

KangaeruHi · 2026-05-06T15:30:50+00:00

How's it going?

I stopped posting music regularly for a while, but I've had this song in my head all day.

Bitter Sweet Symphony by The Verve.

It's a very famous song, and the video has been parodied a lot. It features a cool walking bad boy with a jacket going along the street and bumping into people.

winter_lover28 · 2026-05-06T15:18:39+00:00

When was the last time you had casual sex?

mcmlxiv1 · 2026-05-06T15:02:09+00:00

Do you think I have given the guy who asked what happens if you are high energy with no masculine frame to a narcissistic woman (most of them are) a realistic scenario?

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She won’t look for you, you will find her.

Story time of a common scenario:

For the most part things will go well at the start but eventually those shit tests you weren’t passing because of high energy will have worse consequences.

She will go from light insults to serious insults, serious insults to controlling behavior, all that energy to socialize and meet others you had well now you going out means you trying to cheat on her, she doesn’t like your friends or your family so when you go meet them you leaving her alone and you’re a shit person for doing that.

The physical abuse (pushing, slapping, screaming, freakouts) starts soon after because you’re making her mad but she’s never been like that for anyone else it’s just you who is doing that, it’s all your fault.

So, you want to fix it to make her happy but the solutions are shutting down yourself essentially (no going out with friends etc).

But of course nothing is ever enough because she will find something to explode again. Using the “Remember that time you did this…” strategy she will revisit past arguments to start drama so she can start shitting on you again.

Except this time you don’t have that energy anymore you’re a shell of yourself after a long time of repeated abuse so she is essentially beating a lifeless body.

You don’t react like most victims do and without a reaction she thinks her abuse isn’t working so she chooses to use her hands to wake you up.

Either slapping you, punching you, biting you or throwing your belongings everywhere. Then looking for a reaction, when you get mad she gets happy now it’s time to bait you into hitting her back.

If you take the bait she will play the victim after and have the police bury you under a prison for a day or two.

If you don’t every fight, which is gonna become more frequent, will continue to escalate, you will try to ask others for help but no one will believe you and no cares you’re a man and she’s a “dainty little angel”.

You will have been blue pilled so you can’t barely believe a woman can be that evil. So you will still love her and want to stay to fix her.

You commit to her, you have kids with her, guaranteeing a lifetime of torture, ridicule, and gaslighting.

Your kids think you are the spawn of satan because she speaks poison to them on a daily basis. You either put up with it and become the joke of the family seen as a loser your wife abusing the shit out of you, your kids thinking you’re a bitch.

Or you you finally say fck it and leave but now you have to pay for her, pay for the harpy that took your soul your dignity, while every time you help your kids she tells them you did nothing for them.

She lies to them making them think “daddy doesn’t care about you” even if you are tryin your best.

You complain about it she threatens to make up some shit up so the courts make it so that you can never see your kids again.

So now even if you got away from her physically she still has you under her thumb like the little bitch she made you into from the start.

Except this time she is fcking men in your house, on your bed, next to your kids’ bedrooms, and you’re paying for it.

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tinasawildflower · 2026-05-06T14:56:20+00:00

Hello everyone!

My name is Tina and I’m a student at the University of Padua (Italy). Me and my supervisor are conducting a research on the experience of MEN who interacted with the Manosphere and have then decided to part ways with it.

I’m looking for italian speakers who would be comfortable with having a chat about it, and would be willing to tell the story of how they came in contact with groups such as RedPill, Incels, MRA, MGTOW etc, and then eventually decided to leave.

This research is in no way aimed at changing people’s minds, nor is anyone going to be judged based on their testimony; the only scope is gathering accounts of lived experiences through the individuals’ own voices.

If you’re interested, know that safeguarding your privacy is of absolute priority to us, and you’ll be able to withdraw from the study at any moment.

Here’s a link to a form you can fill so we can get in contact:

https://forms.gle/rMBeCAkFE9nZpXam9

OffTheRedSand · 2026-05-06T14:36:37+00:00

a woman accused wade wilson of raping her, kidnapping her and punching her and threatning to kill her.

she went to the police, the officer who was responsible for her didn't believe her and said to wade she probably has alterior motives for accusing him, hinting it's a false accusation.

this was a year before he murdered the two women he's famous for killing.

so just remember a dude who didn't believe a woman because of muh false accusations ended up freeing a man who killed two other women.

watching the police officer interviewing wade was blood boiling, literally getting mensright subs vibes from the interview the whole time.

the officer basically asked wade "did you do it? kidnap her? rape her?"

and wade said "No"

and the officer replied, word for word "that's all i needed to hear" and closed the case before the DNA lab results came back.

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autistic_cool_kid · 2026-05-06T14:35:39+00:00

I can talk about it here since the post was deleted:

Men in that deleted post were so deluded thinking they can take like 4 women in a fight.

Here's exactly what would happen if the average guy was trying to fight 2 average women:

One woman attack defensively in front, no need to inflict damage just get the guy busy and don't get hurt.

Another woman attack from behind. The guy can already barely defend against that.

It just takes one of those two to grab him even for an instant for the guy to be momentarily too slow (a few seconds are more than enough) to dodge a hit to the head or the balls. And that's 2 women.

Add another woman if the guy happens to be very fast so he manages to defend against 2 (although he would get tired fast), one of the 3 can knock him off balance easily. Just hug his legs for a couple seconds while the two others push him.

Using their moderate strength and weight, it is very easy for even just 3 women to pin him down while still having at least one hand free to beat up his face (or balls, stomach, whatever). An average woman weight 60 to 75 kilos (in Europe), so about the weight of a washing machine, just the weight on an extended arm lying down flat is way more than the average man can deal with. The guy has 3 washing machines on him pinning him down and punching his weak spots. If they decide to kill the guy, he is dead.

That's with 3 women, add a 4th one and he has absolutely no chance

Arrowdodgingace · 2026-05-06T14:20:24+00:00

Parenting licenses should absolutely be a thing.

KangaeruHi · 2026-05-06T13:42:14+00:00

I love you all

DeciduousLesbian · 2026-05-06T13:38:05+00:00

If feminism was actually about equality then it would be called egalitarianism.

Unique-Afternoon6316 · 2026-05-06T13:34:36+00:00

😭This girl I went on a date with is so non communicative. I can tell she's into me but she only texts me once a fortnight. It wouldn't be so big a problem but if I'm trying to plan a date I only get like 2 exchanges before the week is up. I'm just gonna give her a place and a time and not think about it I guess

OffTheRedSand · 2026-05-06T13:20:35+00:00

wade wilson's dating pool really consisted of women struggling males would say "i'd date ANY female woman PLEASE (just not her teehee)"

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reezyreddits · 2026-05-06T12:55:27+00:00

Been in a casual/FWB situation with a girl for almost a year now, but recently the conversations have gotten more hostile and she started blowing up over me asking little questions about what she has going on in her life. In my mind I thought I was showing interest in a non-sexual manner that she'd appreciate. Only to be met with "Bro, use Google" 😭 I could use Google but I'm asking YOU so we can make conversation about the thing you're telling me about!! So I cut her off. And now I'm like, well damn, it's so easy for her to let go, she's not even trying to apologize or salvage anything here. Oh well, on to the next.

Novel-Tip-7570 · 2026-05-06T12:12:49+00:00

I need insight from males because I struggle to understand the psychology of the man who sexually assaulted me.

When I was about 16, I went on a date with a 19 yo male. Or at least I thought it was a date but apparently it wasn't. We met at a park and he immediately told me to go to his house. I was like "can't we get coffee first or something" and he was like "no, we'll just go to my house". I was like whatever, I'll go to his house but we won't have sex because I don't even know this guy. So we go to his house and he immediately LOCKS THE DOOR and tries to aggressively undress me. No talking, no nothing, just straight up assault while I was begging him to unlock the door because it made me feel trapped. After a lot of begging and fighting him off he finally relented and let me go. Never talked to me again. What was his problem? If he was even slightly more patient, I would have had sex with him as I was far from a virgin. Males, why was he like this?

Lonely-Fren · 2026-05-06T10:51:02+00:00

In order to not be a loser you have to be a loser

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Gold_Sheepherder6569 · 2026-05-06T10:43:37+00:00

Sub-5s getting caught trying to escortmax but tbh it is kind of his fault for cheaping out and not doing his research: https://x.com/AmericanCrime01/status/2051345048185323976?s=20

happy_discus · 2026-05-06T10:23:13+00:00

Last night I've had two long dreams about a friend of mine. It wasn't even sexual just really cute. We were flirting and cuddling and stuff. I hate these dreams.

beautiful_falcon776 · 2026-05-06T07:51:25+00:00

Once I fix my sleep schedule I can be more active

beautiful_falcon776 · 2026-05-06T07:44:41+00:00

Slow week ☹️

CapsuleCollider · 2026-05-06T07:20:51+00:00

gender roles r bad

why r u not peforming the male gender role?

thoughts I have trouble quieting:

only women receive attention

I am not worth anyone's time

I don't care about myself anymore

being lonely amongst female peers in the performing arts is soul-destroying (they are celebrated 20x more for doing the same/similar things), not sure there's a future for me anymore in my.favorite pasttime, I can't deal with being alone after performing when nobody else I performed with goes home alone

Arrowdodgingace · 2026-05-06T06:29:35+00:00

Every says to find someone that shares your values but how do you even do that? Just keep meeting people til you randomly find someone that does?

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-05-06T05:32:25+00:00

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Gold_Sheepherder6569 · 2026-05-06T05:07:44+00:00

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mcmlxiv1 · 2026-05-06T04:56:30+00:00

I want to know for women that go out on many dates how do you still view men as human?

Like you have 1000+ matches in the dating apps, you go on several dates a week, have had many boyfriends pumped and dumped many times, how you do not see men as a commodity?

Is this reason for the female burnout we see so often?

OffTheRedSand · 2026-05-06T04:52:59+00:00

Why can’t he make it 2066002?

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OffTheRedSand · 2026-05-06T04:51:57+00:00

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Arrowdodgingace · 2026-05-06T04:26:16+00:00

Say appearance matters for women in dating and nobody would disagree. Say it matters for men and people flip out and call you names. Why?

averagebear_003 · 2026-05-06T02:43:46+00:00

I haven't eaten junk food in a week and I'm now starting to feel its phantom taste on my tongue

GreatSmashPlayer · 2026-05-06T02:29:50+00:00

Kaitlan Collins is so fine. She makes CNN watchable.

growframe · 2026-05-06T01:40:02+00:00

Are people who are picky in dating also just picky in general?

A question in one of the weekly threads had me thinking. I don't really have a "type", but I'm just like that in general. Whether it's food, hobbies, media, people in general, I like a lot of things. I don't shy away from variety and I've always struggled honing on a defined best X as opposed to a cloud of things I like equally. Is there a similar/reverse phenomenon for other people?

fiftypoundpuppy · 2026-05-06T01:21:12+00:00

This is the world feminists want 😞

Mq200 · 2026-05-06T00:37:33+00:00

(Some) women seem to really like that 5'o clock shave. It signals you can grow a full beard but you still choose to shave it (because you're not in need of demonstrating your beard-ability) and it already creates a shadow after a few hours. What does it symbolize to you ?

hannahg000 · 2026-05-06T00:32:04+00:00

i saw a tiktok about this girl that got her degree in psychology, posting a graduation photoshoot in a straight jacket, pretending to be in an asylum. the girl deleted the post but here is one of the pics 💀

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let’s hope that she doesn’t want to continue her education and become a therapist. or want to work at all because this is a crazy digital footprint

Tardigrade_Disco · 2026-05-06T00:23:20+00:00

Followed a women on Instagram over a week ago and sent her a DM which went unacknowledged. Someone with mutual acquaintances, but that I've never met. Guess who just asked me to jump their car for them in a parking lot? 🙃 I wonder what she was thinking or if she even recognized me. I just helped and didn't say anything about anything else. It was so awkward for me. Idek if she saw my DM or if it's sitting in her requests with the other guys.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2026-05-05T23:46:44+00:00

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If you ever build a house and plan for a western sunset view from your porch…don’t plant a tree that will become gigantic in front of it 😂.

mackinder_egg · 2026-05-05T23:42:50+00:00

I left this place a long, long time ago but was a regular for a while, under various usernames. It's been interesting to see conversations that, at the time, were niche interests of internet oddballs now become mainstream political discourse.

Pretty sure I've seen Atlas around here still under her new handle, but how about Texastentialism (she had an even older sn that I can't remember now) MercedesBenzo, sublime_mongrel, goat, squidracer, Griddy, Nalka_Nalka, they still around?

grillopie · 2026-05-05T23:38:06+00:00

When you look at childhood pictures of yourself, and notice how much you look like your kids, it kinda makes you love yourself a little more.

Proudvow · 2026-05-05T23:15:18+00:00

We're never gonna have a president who triggers the libs like Trump again.

I wish there was some way to make Bernie president, he still triggers some libs while also triggering the rich cultured types and Israel shills.

Tough times ahead, next president is probably gonna be lame as fuck.

mcmlxiv1 · 2026-05-05T22:04:39+00:00

I miss being able to make posts. Good thing our sublords have decided we can’t have interesting posts just the same things over and over.

Anyway, Do girls put each other off? How does it feel to interact with a girl that has an incredible ego?

Like we know women are mean to men like they’re playing a sport but I could never easily switch being a dick to someone and then being a nice person to someone else instantly.

How do you guys not walk around with intense negativity in your souls and if you do how do girls react to it?

How do you interact with someone who thinks they are so amazing people must give them stuff for free?

Are those thoughts suppressed within a group of women?

A dude who is egotistical to a woman tends to be even more so around other men for example.

Mq200 · 2026-05-05T21:58:23+00:00

Can we talk about how much of a privilege it is if your partner comes from a good family, has a good relationship with their parents and ideally even siblings ? You'll gain a whole new family that makes everything in life easier.

legitimate-way-4077 · 2026-05-05T21:55:00+00:00

I am going to learn Shogi!

blooblyblah · 2026-05-05T21:12:20+00:00

PSA: practically all men have low testosterone and if you care about your masculinity and fertility you should avoid all processed foods and replace all of your polyester with natural fabrics because these things are all leaching endocrine disrupting chemicals into your body. and never touch a receipt again

beautiful_falcon776 · 2026-05-05T21:09:50+00:00

Made some stuff with cashew for dinner holy hell...I feel so full. I was gonna use double the cashews 🫪

Excellent_Badger123 · 2026-05-05T21:00:03+00:00

I used to care more about seeing what people wore to the Met Gala before the Bezos’ tried to buy their way into that circle. If I were a celebrity, I’d boycott it this year…sort of a dead event now. Nevertheless, I found Ann Hathaway’s gown very beautiful

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Steakman1 · 2026-05-05T20:57:44+00:00

The type of woman the whatever podcast guy would bring on to demonstrate how the average woman thinks and behaves:

https://youtu.be/LY9_M216Vco?si=fyOKWAsuwCqCUBYx

efficientaficionado · 2026-05-05T20:56:31+00:00

Men are far more ridiculed and criticized for thinking with their little heads than women are.

Woman falls in love with and marries a handsome dirtbag that abuses her - the guy is far more likely to receive full blame.

Man falls in love with and marries a hot psycho that abuses him - the guy is far more likely to receive full blame.

CofeeHideCrimsonMind · 2026-05-05T20:41:34+00:00

Whenever I ask men over 50 for dating advice, they always give me some variant of leading with money. Was there a point in history when this used to work? Because the few times I've seen it tried, the women simply try to enjoy the money without giving anything in return. Not sex, not companionship.

OffTheRedSand · 2026-05-05T19:52:44+00:00

"Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them."

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OffTheRedSand · 2026-05-05T19:38:52+00:00

it's not enough finding a husband, he also needs to be objectively a better husband than the husbands other women have.

otherwise how do i flex him and get validation and an ego boost over the fact that by husband is better than other women's husbands? it's just futile to finally get a husband but another womans husband could easily be better than mine.

Unique-Afternoon6316 · 2026-05-05T19:15:01+00:00

I think actually, playing the city elf origin as a female elf in Dragon age origins as a kid made me more of a feminist than any media has before or since. Can you guys think of any media that formed or radically changed your ideas on different subjects?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2026-05-05T19:03:02+00:00

Not going to lie, there is something endearing about fattie women food vlogs

Like aww, this porky fattie woman is showing the world her biggest passion, stuffing herself with food. Sooo much excitement over every little bite

ChadChasingBReturns · 2026-05-05T18:57:59+00:00

I wonder if people realize how many calories they consume a day or the amount of sugar that’s put into everything to make people fat.

IgorXY · 2026-05-05T18:38:26+00:00

How is my favorite sub doing? Missed me?

GreatSmashPlayer · 2026-05-05T18:34:40+00:00

Karens arguing with grocery store employees about prices is always cringe as fuck. They act like those employees have any control over the prices. It's as if these Karens are salty that they're not young anymore, therefore they try to exert what little power they have over easy targets.

Just_Alternative3167 · 2026-05-05T18:16:50+00:00

winter_lover28 · 2026-05-05T18:12:14+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/2kksqv5x0dzg1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1403beb76ce0a3f982dbca145b33d1b287fbf304

Lol

Rule_Number_7 · 2026-05-05T18:10:30+00:00

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MasterTeacher123 · 2026-05-06T13:26:30+00:00

I’ve had women who have told me I’m totally ok if I’m my man’s only female “friend”.

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