Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?

Flightlessbirbz · 2021-06-14T23:39:02+00:00

I mean I guess you could say FDS women are “red pilled” in the sense of being fully aware of the ugly side of male nature. But FDS and RPW are two pretty different approaches. They both believe in carefully vetting potential husbands, but the main difference is FDS focuses on putting yourself and your career first, while RPW is more traditional and focuses on finding a good man and keeping him, but isn’t necessarily full trad con. I personally find RPW tend to a bit naive actually, but FDS isn’t great for actually getting or keeping a relationship, just weeding out the bad ones.

goatismycopilot · 2021-06-14T23:16:26+00:00

Redpill women is a bunch of anxious chicks trying to figure out how to turn their loser partners into kings while bring worried about 20 ways to cook chicken fingers.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-06-15T00:06:47+00:00

FDS is strategy for feminists to do their best to attract as attractive as simp as possible, all while being misandrist in the process

RPW, while I'm not as familiar with them it seems to push being a traditional woman to attract a traditional man

ToughAnswers · 2021-06-14T21:48:43+00:00

RPW: become a traditional woman to attract a traditional man

FDS: Pretend to be a traditional woman to attract a traditional man

SaBahRub · 2021-06-14T22:15:53+00:00

I’m sure a few FDS members are former RPW, but probably not vice versa.

alberto-hoff · 2021-06-14T22:05:42+00:00

FDS serve womens imperative, RPW serves men's

Liberal_On_Guns · 2021-06-15T13:28:03+00:00

It's not really the same. If you go to the FDS sub, you will find no shortage of women encouraging other women to string guys along. FDS seems to be okay with locking down BB, while keeping AF on the side. What Rollo Tomassi calls "Sandbergian Hypergamy." That just means you fuck all of the guys you want while you're young (Ride the CC) and when you're 30, you can settle for the "safe guy." The reason it's called "Sandbergian" hypergamy is that Sheryl Sandberg, the COO of Facebook, famously advocated for this specific dating strategy.

RP women acknowledge the existence of hypergamy and AF/BB, but they don't seem to be nearly as interested in riding the CC. These women are interested in preserving their value for the most part. FDS isn't concerned with preservation of value, or anything like that. It's a strategy to finesse men, whereas RPW is expressing the reality (or at least trying to) of what men find valuable in women. Don't get me wrong, RPW still gets it wrong sometimes (e.g. their reasons for why men cheat), but they are far closer to the truth than FDS.

FDS is simply PUA for thots.

IOportA · 2021-06-15T01:47:31+00:00

The red pill is an attempt to understand the opposite sex. FDS women have no desire to understand men, they only wish to hate them.

Mustbeaight · 2021-06-14T23:30:07+00:00

Rpw is atleast an attempt by a small minority of women to atleast try to understand the male perspective and atleast try to sit at the negotiating table. FDS is give me everything for nothing in return..

_lemazaki · 2021-06-14T22:34:03+00:00

I read FDS these days. Looks like regular modern feminist dating for me, as women the main focus of the relationship.
RPW at least acknowledge men´s perspective and take them into account.

rft24 · 2021-06-14T22:36:38+00:00

i mean to me, being red pilled just means believing in rp concepts and ideas; like any other “pill.” it’s like how some people say there’s a difference between the original red pill and the red pill as a modern movement.

there is no such thing as a “rpw” the way people here seem to think there is. in regards to the sub: a “rpw” isn’t tradcon (although tradcons would be considered rpw), nor is she a domestic slave, or anything else really. a “rpw” simply uses the framework rpw provides and tailors it to work for her relationship (if she’s using it correctly, that is).

some of the women who engage in the rpw and rpwives subs have relationships that aren’t anything like tradcons, they’re just using the advice to help their relationships.

but the obvious difference between the two is that fds is a dating strategy, while rpw is for relationships. so, realistically, a woman could be both if she wanted.

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-06-14T22:52:07+00:00

FDS seeks to exploit men and RPW seeks to work with men.

Kind_Entertainment_6 · 2021-06-15T03:39:49+00:00

I find FDS and RPW both pretty valuable. FDS helps women to not be taken advantage of, and really create a sense of self as main priority. FDS helps weed out the rotten apples and truly focus on the golden green ones in terms of dating. When I was not married, FDS was a great source of information. I still love FDS honestly

I am married now, and want to keep a happy home, and therefore RPW is really valuable in this aspect. RPW focuses on maintaining your man happy and how to cultivate the life of your dreams through respecting your partner and your family. A lot of people may not fully understand RPW, but then again, a lot of people haven’t taken the red pill so it’s not for everyone.

alberto-hoff · 2021-06-14T22:39:58+00:00

Not been there in a while but just found this:

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/nugnnl/husband_sends_me_pictures_of_instagram_models/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Historical-Agency334 · 2021-06-15T00:05:11+00:00

RPW really only works for religious women (read: virgins) who can go for men who will wait for sex. Anyone else using the strategy is a just "pick me" and will probably be manipulated.

FDS probably will not work because a man that will fulfill all their wishes will not want them.

nemma88 · 2021-06-15T09:33:35+00:00

RPW uses their own actions to try and steer men into being captains, to change a man. FDS only accept the finished product.

Which you know, men are human, have problems and few of them are great out of the box. As a woman you'll have to make concessions and put up with some bullshittery so if you want a relationship, just find the least annoying one you can :).

GridReXX · 2021-06-14T21:55:07+00:00

They’re sort of the same. FDSers are just in the “angry phase.”

SylvestorTalone · 2021-06-14T22:45:15+00:00

FDS is a play by post roleplay group where fat hags pretend that they are svelte hotties who are too good for any man. RPW seems to accept that men have an imperative which needs to be negotiated with.

poppy_blu · 2021-06-15T00:35:17+00:00

What does being a “red pilled woman” mean?

Does it just mean you’re pragmatic instead of idealistic about relationships? Then I’m a RPW.

Does it mean that you think TRP concepts have a great deal of truth or them (when you strip away the shock jock language). Then I’m RPW.

Does it mean you acknowledge that men require a certain amount of ego stroking to stay happy? I guess I’m RPW.

Does it mean you take a mediocre man and try to build him up? That seems like the boat a lot of those women are in from what I’ve read.

If I bring my H a cup of coffee in the morning (which has been our morning routine for 12 years) and or make him a sandwich or tend to his needs in a bunch of other ways, does that make me RPW? Is RPW the antithesis of feminist?

We don’t have a concise definition of the term. We don’t even have a consensus on TRP and there’s a fucking handbook available on the sub the most men here have never read.

Aldabruzzo · 2021-06-14T21:47:55+00:00

The current Red Pill women are just FDSers in training. Red Pill women are just women who have yet to be pumped and dumped one too many times.

luliloo · 2021-06-15T01:16:42+00:00

RPW: HVM are the prize and they’re looking for women with certain qualities. They could settle for young, dumb and beautiful women.

FDS: I’m the prize, I focus on building me and my career. I won’t settle for anything less than a HVM that is respectful, caring and treats me equal.

Psychological_Wear_7 · 2021-06-14T22:06:24+00:00

Both are women

AWALT, no exceptions

Emervila · 2021-06-14T22:02:00+00:00

FDS is basically a woman seeking to exploit men as a mere tool but Red Pill women are those seeking to team up with men to create the best possible family.

Teflon08191 · 2021-06-14T21:48:21+00:00

Red Pill women accept men for what they are (or at least pretend to). FDS women complain about men for what they are.

That's the primary difference in mentality between the two I'd say.

OmarNBradley · 2021-06-14T21:53:22+00:00

FDS to get him, RPW to keep him. You can’t be an RPW and be single, it is a state that activates once you are in a committed relationship. Women have too much to lose otherwise.

SuperSupremeKai · 2021-06-15T02:37:28+00:00

FDS and RPW both are out for their "HVM". The only difference is in how they act.

FDS believes in exploiting, stringing along and manipulating them into submission, RPW seek neo-traditional relationships with their "captains".

IntegrityDJones · 2021-06-16T08:48:20+00:00

FDS and Red Pillers are both people who can’t get laid and don’t get attention. And instead of admitting that they’re the problem, blame the other. Both suffer from sex droughts, bitterness, and anger. My favorite thing about both is they’re also undercover simps and pick mes, the very people they claim to hate. Red Pillers would turn into a simp if a hot woman paid attention to them and FDS would turn into the pick mes they hate if a hot guy paid them attention. They want us to believe their stances are by choice, when really it’s by default because they’re all unwanted, sexually undesirable, and angry about it.

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Smooth_Potato_4014 · 2021-06-15T04:57:42+00:00

FDS: find a great man then do everything in your power to scare him away.

RPW: find a great man then do everything in your power to keep him.

EfficientComputer5 · 2021-06-15T23:09:06+00:00

FDS is not red pulled. It's a hub for text book narcissist women.

I look at it time from time for whatever reasons. Generally, all there is over there is the basic tactic of mythologize-politicize-mobilise-and conquer. You'd be smart to keep your distance from that group.

Red pilled in the very least is just the practice of truth telling in its various delineation.

801735 · 2021-06-16T00:04:26+00:00

Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?

FDS is a failure (and will likely remain being one until it dies), RPW aspires to overcome her feminist-eductrination implanted by forced repetition delusions.

WhisperSecurity · 2021-06-16T07:25:13+00:00

Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman?

There is no point in arguing about that which can be resolved by experiment. Try to guess which group each of the follow post titles came from:

How to give better blowjobs?
LOCK THEM ALL AWAY! Time to celebrate this success!
Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a house
Ladies who have overcome daddy issues, how did you heal?
Moving in with my fiance next week
“Lorena” - the Lorena Bobbit documentary on Prime
I’m beginning to think all dating subreddits here are anti-woman to some extent
Pickmeisha behavior does not pay off...a case study
What updo hairstyles do men like on women?
Stop using the excuse that 'boys mature slower than girls' for bad behaviour
The Case For Not Settling

(These post titles were selected at random.)

If you can tell the difference, there must be a difference.

Suck-Less · 2021-06-18T01:16:50+00:00

I'm no expert but it seems to me that RPW focus on developing traditional home making skills and FDS focuses on being bitter. Both expect men to be a butler and an ATM, but RPW expect to pay for it in their own way.

beeguy727 · 2021-06-15T01:38:17+00:00

Women are women are women. AWALT.

Title	Is there a difference between FDS-er and being a RedPill woman? If any, what are said differences?
Author	Spread-Em-Plz
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Date	June 14, 2021 9:41 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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