I've retired from dating scrotes. But these are/were some words and terms I've found to be red (pink?) flags, in no particular order...

Obligatory #NAMALT - but on OLD they probably are 🥴

KEY WORDS

Entrepreneur: He's jobless.

Sapiosexual: I've said this before. Most people like some intelligence. Usually people aren't attracted to other people they perceive as dumb. When have you ever ripped off your clothes and went, "you're so fucking stupid Brad, that's so hot"???

Demisexual: I feel like the men who use this just aren't into casual fucks or being seen as sex toys with a pulse. It's almost like you know, most women? But we had to invent a term for that so that dudes can show they're "not like other [scrotes]" (they usually still are.)

Reciprosexual: he wants you to chase him. Hard pass.

Empath: he's very sensitive to his emotions, not yours

PHRASES

"Let's see where things go...": Fuckboi, possibly wants a bangmaid

Other contributions...

  • "looking for open-minded women who aren't afraid of new experiences" = porn-sick pervert

  • "Go with the flow."

  • "Just checking this site out."

  • "Let's just see where this goes."

  • "Not here for anything serious."

  • Work Hard Play Hard or YOLO: Susceptible to or already has substance use disorder

  • Any variation of "shoot my shot": He thinks audacity is manly and will get unbelievably butthurt if anyone views him negatively for overstepping boundaries

  • All about the grind: Always the last guy to go home, never the senior partner

  • New to this or never tried this before or looking for new experiences: He's been there, done that and already used the t-shirt as a cum towel

  • “here for a good time, not a long time.” More like... here to waste your time.

  • "Love to cook" (yes this is a good thing but most men here write that on their bio and use it to invite the women to netflix and chill I'll make you dinner first or second dates)

  • "My love language is physical touch.” He will post on a dead bedroom subreddit if you refuse to prolapse for him on command.

  • "I'm not on here much, at me on Snap/IG"

  • "Must be into fitness."

  • "Just on here when I'm bored." (Which translates to "I just message my matches when I'm horny hoping that I'll get nudes.")

  • School of Hard Knocks—-high school drop out.

  • Speaks English—-........living in the south sux.

  • I like to be friends first: He will still expect sex immediately and will not see you as a human being any more so than any other person

  • I'm an asshole, but I'll be your asshole/Asshole with a heart of gold/Nicest asshole you'll ever meet: He's an epic piece of shit who will laugh anytime someone expects him to grow as a person or just, like, not be insufferable all the fucking time. He thinks he's won the game of life by curating a group of friends and coworkers who he is generous to often enough that they either feel obligated to pretend they like his asshole schtick, or are too dumb to realize what he's doing and genuinely think he's so nice except for all the awful things he says

  • "Keep up with me" will control the course of their relationship with you without considering you 🥴

  • Let’s get drinks “i’m not serious about you. I’m trying to date as many women as possible so my chances of sex increases. Oh yeah and we’re gonna split the bill.”

  • You’ll know if I like you if I tease you a lot and am really sarcastic lol “this is how I try to get away with being mean to you. You better know how to take a joke b.

  • Good vibes only “I want a chill ass female who I can manipulate as much as I want and now she’s pressured to keep the vibes good. Meanwhile I’m toxic af 😜”

  • I’m overly competitive about EVERYTHING this could go one of two ways: he’s actually useless and not competitive but wants to appear manly. Or he’s so competitive about things, it’s impossible to enjoy anything with this fool. Also another basic male phrase.

  • "If you want to know anything about me, just ask." = Too lazy to write anything on his OLD bio.

  • "I recently divorced"

  • "Looking for a strong/independent woman." He's going to be zero value in your life, and emotionally blackmail you about being strong/independent, so he can continue being worthless while reaping benefits.

  • "I'm 48, but Tinder won't let me change it" = lying piece of shit Note: never trust their age

  • "Being spontaneous is a must" = I demand you're available 24/7 and drop any plan you have to please me and my limp dick.

  • “Ethical non monogamous"

  • "well equipped"

  • "Good sense of humour" (usually means laughs at the expense of others)

  • “I am single looking for......” Why state this on a dating app?? He’s clearly not single.

  • "I'm a hopeless romantic at heart"

  • "Not really into politics" / "Don't get the point of politics"

  • "no drama, no games" Code for LVM who can't deal with emotional intelligence and being held accountable to hold up his end.

  • "Must love sarcasm" = "I'm an insufferable ass with no sense of humor but will gaslight you into thinking the problem is you when you point out my shitty behavior"

  • "Tell me about yourself" /"Message first" / "Meet me halfway" )"I like women who make the first move" Low effort guy

  • 'Massive foodie' = overweight

PFP

  • Has thin lines for a goatee/beard: Literally any sexual contact will result in stubble burn, which he will pretend he doesn't notice is bothering you

  • any shirtless pics most likely means he’s a hoe.

  • Photos that look like they're from over 10 years ago - he's now fatter and more unattractive that he was in those pics

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Feel free to add to this list or chew me out

I'm not sure if you guys want to be tagged, but I'mma add your suggestions to the list

Political in nature, I will probably avoid out of respect for everyone here, as I know we all come from different leanings