You guysss 🤮🤮🥲 “Ugh- husband woke me up in middle of night for sex and it was gross”

MsWriteNow07 · 2022-02-04T15:46:49+00:00

Ugh. The man forces his five months pregnant wife to wake up in the middle of the night and go down on his sweaty unwashed junk, which even he said was disgusting, and then play with his sweaty unwashed ass, which he knows she hates and she is still wondering if she hurt his feelings by gagging and not being enthusiastic. She is still wondering if he’s the victim after he did her like that. Female socialization is a hell of a drug

Monstermagnetmarye · 2022-02-04T16:51:00+00:00

It's so hard to read. Women you can say no anytime. Disgust is a gut signal, listen to it.

shelballama · 2022-02-04T16:22:29+00:00

"I don't want him to feel embarrassed and disgusted with himself"

Umm...why not?

Edit: apparently the mods removed some post by some loser who said "uhhh because he's her husband and she cares about his feelings as she should?"

Guys the bar is in hell 🤣 this absolute walnut must have conveniently missed that her husband knows she hates that sex act, that she is pregnant, that he didn't care about her feelings when he pressured her into putting him, dirty and disgusting and unwashed, in her mouth. Where was his care then?

If the lurker is still here, fuck right off. He started this bullshit with his lack of care and disgusting selfishness, she should absolutely be frank how disgusting she found him, it's the very bare minimum of what he deserves and he'd be more than lucky to get off with just being told off for this. This is repulsive behavior on his end. Fuck his feelings and fuck your feelings, you braindead troglodyte

Zeniite · 2022-02-04T16:26:53+00:00

Just based off of how much she felt she had to justify to the reader why she wasn’t feeling like fingering his asshole, I feel like this is an all around shitty relationship and the husband is pushy in other aspects of the relationship. FDS save her, please

Ill_Toe4120 · 2022-02-04T18:34:07+00:00

I think it's weird that anyone wants to be in a relationship where they can't be honest with their spouse. Why are you breeding with someone that you don't feel comfortable saying "Dude, no" to.

He'll feel ashamed if you tell him to take a shower? WTF.

He'll stop being spontaneous if you tell him, "Stop trying to shove my head into your groin!" Good.

In all seriousness, don't get married or have babies with men before you get the opportunity to say "You stink" or "I don't feel like having sex right now" so you can vet their reactions.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2022-02-04T16:10:02+00:00

Men with fetish shit 🚮.

He's never going to view her as a person.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2022-02-04T16:21:45+00:00

I would have simultaneously vomitted on him while I dug my fingernails right right up high into the walls of his poop shoot.

Then I would start organising a divorce. The fact he was so "disgustingly dirty" is the reason he woke her up, something she said didn't happen often. He wanted to humiliate her by making her choke on his filthy worm and finger his putrid ass. Something he KNEW she hated doing. He totally got off on making her do something so vile.

AphoticEnigma_ · 2022-02-04T16:36:35+00:00

I couldn’t finish reading this 🤢🤢🤢

Junior-Lion7893 · 2022-02-04T16:26:13+00:00

Can she just throw up on his dick while he forces himself on her? He’ll get the message.

electroloop · 2022-02-04T15:53:04+00:00

I can’t stand weddingbee. It’s a bunch of lonely girl boss type women who talk about “their hubbies” and basically a dick waving contest.

Yuck.

paperwasp3 · 2022-02-04T17:45:03+00:00

NEWS FLASH FOR MEN

No one likes the head jam to the crotch. NO ONE So get a new move or just ask for what you want already.

stereochord · 2022-02-04T17:02:06+00:00

This is giving sexual assault. Pregnancy nausea with disgusting dick in the middle of the night? I would have punched him. Who cares if he's your husband, this is repulsive.

Technical_Moth248 · 2022-02-04T18:15:50+00:00

This is r*pe. She even says when they plan to wake the other up with oral they don't jump to it immediately, which means this was not a situation she has ever consented to happening to her while she's half asleep. That whole post is incredibly sad, you can tell she's battling guilt that she's not "taking care of him" enough 🙄 while also being disgusted that he forced her to do sexual things she did not want to do while he was disgusting (and absolutely getting off on degrading her or he wouldn't have mentioned it)

I'm also 🤮 that she went to sleep with her hands still dirty from his gross, unwashed ass

aclick1999 · 2022-02-04T17:21:04+00:00

😶 No words. The last time a man tried to direct my head anywhere I broke his pinky. This is disgusting. She may as well start divorce proceedings now, because she'll never see him as a man, father, and lover again.

LindaBitz · 2022-02-04T19:11:55+00:00

Omigosh, I looked up this poor woman, and later she talks about how her husband’s phone was filled with gay porn around the time of their wedding and how he always wants butt play, but she doesn’t want to do that to him. He wants her to get a strap on and “f*** him like a man,” and she has no interest in that. She’s insists that he is not gay. This was four years ago. Wonder if they’re still together?

I don’t know if he’s gay or not, but definitely porn sick and forcing things on his wife that she has made clear she has no interest in. Ugh. Of course they have a couple of kids, too.

Later she thinks she got a gut parasite by being forced to “rim” him. (!!!!) Ladies, just watch yourselves out there.

Fun_Sherbet · 2022-02-04T19:27:14+00:00

So she's carrying a rapist's baby. Great.

EDIT: one of the fds hating subs shared this and says "I don't understand why FDS is upset about this story, they must be jealous of the relationship" THIS IS THE LEVEL OF STUPIDITY WE'RE GOING UP AGAINST. If you can't fathom why this is upsetting, you're a fucking idiot

Vaahla · 2022-02-04T17:02:08+00:00

🤢 it’s too early to read this

meninadalua · 2022-02-04T18:24:26+00:00

Just because you see something in porn doesn’t mean it’s a healthy sexual act between adults. The porn industry literally makes money out of people’s desire for the next new high.

MajesticSkyPachyderm · 2022-02-04T17:12:47+00:00

So now that she's pregnant, he punishes her for perceived slights by coercing her into dirty sex acts - basically ramping up the abuse now that he has her baby-trapped. What a surprise.

cutiebranch · 2022-02-04T19:42:17+00:00

“If I told him this he’d be disgusted with himself”

Bull fucking shit. If she told him he’d play the victim and pressure her into more gross sex to “earn” his forgiveness.

Man she kept saying that she was nauseous-I kept hoping it would end with her puking on him.

levelitradically · 2022-02-04T16:24:38+00:00

I don't know if I'm being too liberal with the definition here, but isn't this rape?? She was asleep at first and didn't consent. Absence of a no is not a yes. Given my own history of being sexually abused I've been taught to doubt myself when defining these things, but what are y'all's thoughts??

Davina33 · 2022-02-04T17:23:23+00:00

What the fuck? He wanted to humiliate her. Why else would he want her to suck on his cheese encrusted dick?

VesperLynd- · 2022-02-04T16:54:43+00:00

He forced her head on his junk. Isn’t this literally rape?? Also he did this bc he was unwashed and wanted to humiliate her. I would pack my bags immediately

Carneliancat · 2022-02-04T19:52:28+00:00

Never have I been more grateful that I only share my bed with my cats, and that my crisp white sheets smell fresh and clean, and not of rancid man ass.

TERFSareawesome · 2022-02-05T00:14:41+00:00

I know there are angry reddit scrotes who will say I'm kink shaming but for me it would be a red flag if a man I was dating wanted me to play with his ass. It's just totally gross. And add additional rapey vibes if they know you're grossed out by it (which probably 90% of women would be) and pressure you to do it anyway. The idea of touching a man's butthole is absolutely gross to me, especially cause men are just a lot dirtier than women.

CactiAndFungi · 2022-02-04T20:34:18+00:00

Hes not "spontaneous," he's a selfish pig. He wants what he wants when he wants it.

relaxsuziesaid · 2022-02-04T23:41:27+00:00

This is rape. I’m disgusted. It’s no coincidence her husband waited to rape her until she was already carrying his baby (can’t easily leave) AND she’s pregnant and struggling (also vulnerable.) This is scary. Men absolutely will play that long of a game, and put that much effort into deceiving you, just so that one day they might get away with raping you in the middle of the night.

This is why it is so vital to never stop vetting. I can only speak for myself and ask by that point though, is it even worth it? Not for me it’s not. I bet it’s also not a coincidence he waited until it was too late for her to terminate her pregnancy to pull this shit. It quite frankly fills me with unbridled rage and no man on earth is worth this to me. I can’t ever see myself giving a man power and trusting he won’t abuse it as soon as he feels he’s safe to get away with it. I’ve been seeing posts about vetting early by saying no over something small and inconsequential, and that seems especially vital.

Disgusting scrotes raping their wives to the point of inducing vomit, while she is pregnant with his child. Fucking repulsive.

HappyCoconutty · 2022-02-05T03:40:46+00:00

So while we are pregnant we are supposed to be careful about listeria, salmonella, lettuce, egg yolks, sushi and all sources of bacteria but it’s fine and healthy for us to suck on something covered in sweaty bacteria and centimeters from a hairy ass crack that probably only gets wiped with dry ass toilet paper and not even a bidet????

We have been conditioned to care more about a husband’s sense of “spontaneity” than the health of our own child??

itsirrelevant · 2022-02-04T21:35:51+00:00

First of all, no. Second, this is reading like he got off on his being dirty. Totally out of the blue he's approaching middle of the night stuff completely differently to where he's not allowing consent specifically when he's filthy. Yeah he's into that shit. What filth.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-02-04T21:51:14+00:00

This may be me being disgusted by BJs in general but if anyone woke me up for that I’d either kick his ass out or sleep on the couch.

The rest of the story is just…

[ETERNAL RETCHING] 🤢

preppykat3 · 2022-02-04T20:38:50+00:00

This ruined my breakfast

arabbel · 2022-02-05T05:12:26+00:00

Holy hell. I looked her up on that website, and like a year later she had a stomach parasite - the type that could be transmitted via rimming - and her husband refused to go get tested for it!! She is married to an absolute slug who clearly wants her to be gross and miserable. Her most recent post was four years ago, I hope she’s doing ok.

PicoPicoMio · 2022-02-04T20:44:10+00:00

I got nauseous reading this!

fairywakes · 2022-02-05T02:09:04+00:00

This is just unfucking believable. So disrespectful of her conditions (pregnancy, IBS) and general discomfort. All men who pull something like this are LVM if not ZVM.

I unfortunately have experienced men push push push me for intimacy when I’m exhausted, not feeling fresh enough, or just not in the mood. Never ever give in ladies. I wish this woman stopped immediately. Yet, she felt guilty and made herself so uncomfortable for his pleasure.

CheetahEnergy · 2022-02-05T02:46:18+00:00

I would literally rather die than be in this relationship and have this man’s child growing in me.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-02-05T06:25:33+00:00

yeah... she should test for giardia, especially 5 months pregnant. blergh!

anyway, I second normalizing to saying NO to sex ina relationship. just lay back and think of England doesn''t cut it anymore; also NO to unwashed male junk. how disgusting is that?

Big-Paleontologist13 · 2022-02-05T06:58:41+00:00

i see this was from 6 years ago. let’s hope she found a loving, respectful partner. or, is happy alone not sucking dirty scrote dick while suffering pregnancy illness.

Crystal403 · 2022-02-05T10:04:30+00:00

This made me feel disgusting to read.

Denimiaa · 2022-02-05T06:06:07+00:00

Maybe be a bit more concise? Could not even finish it. Yuck. But on to the problem: he is being a douch, and you need to let him know. Nicely, and not when you are both hungry or tired.

2022-02-04T18:32:28+00:00

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Title	You guysss 🤮🤮🥲 “Ugh- husband woke me up in middle of night for sex and it was gross”
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Date	February 4, 2022 3:40 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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