Its insane how much status a beautiful woman can give you

Different_Cress7369 · 2024-06-28T08:22:34+00:00

Hence the popularity of escorts for formal occasions and functions for middle aged business men.

ComfortableJeans · 2024-06-28T07:29:32+00:00

It's sad how many people never get over this highschooler need to be seen as cool by the popular kids.

Jazzlike-Tap-2723 · 2024-06-28T05:42:04+00:00

Ok what you said about women of Switzerland is next level cope

RahLyt · 2024-06-28T13:04:02+00:00

Sure if you want to impress dumb people.

Trikger · 2024-06-28T06:43:09+00:00

This sort of happened to me... At one point in my last relationship, my ex confessed that he wasn't actually attracted to me, but wanted me as his girlfriend for "status" since I'm conventionally attractive and young. He was one of those "nice guys"... 0/10, wouldn't recommend. Lol.

BrainMarshal · 2024-06-28T09:45:42+00:00

Status? Jesus Christ, dude, dating is about finding a genuine human connection, not some fucking status. This reeks of narcissism. Who gives a fuck about what others think. Social status is so damned fickle that it can turn on you on a dime. You gotta worry about how she does you right or wrong. None of those people whose respect you want give a shit about you. But when you have a woman who gives a shit about you and loves you for you? Yeah that's the best drug around, and it doesn't have side effects except making you a better person.

Acceptable-Truck3803 · 2024-06-28T14:06:49+00:00

As delusional as it seems, OP isn’t wrong with this experience. Ideally you date and match as people for personalities, attraction, interests, aka chemistry.

When I’m single, the reaction I receive from strangers in public and friends with their single female/girl/women friends it’s a complete change. OMG some lady chose you ? Hhhmmm what do/did I oversee when you shows some interest but I indirectly blew you off? I must figure out if I still got it/were you interested ?

It’s been known for years and is now coined the term “social proof.”

WebBorn2622 · 2024-06-28T14:44:24+00:00

Unfortunately this is true. But it’s another example of ways society objectifies women

badgersonice · 2024-06-28T15:25:39+00:00

irl, if we take 5/10 as thin, plain average girl.

Are you in the US? If so, thin, plain looking, and under 30 years old is not “average” or a 5/10. That’s well above average according to what men care about.

Sharp_Engineering379 · 2024-06-28T04:58:30+00:00

Sounds homoadjacent.

Why would a man care more about how other men regard him than how the woman on his arm feels about him, if he isn't gay or closeted?

nightsofthesunkissed · 2024-06-28T13:29:18+00:00

Is the girl you're dating aware of the numerical value you've assigned for her?

UpbeatInsurance5358 · 2024-06-28T05:34:44+00:00

Men are weird.

RubyDiscus · 2024-06-28T09:14:29+00:00

Anyone who respects you more because you have a hot partner aint a good person tbh

wtknight · 2024-06-28T12:30:33+00:00

I’ve never hung out with anybody who would give someone higher status just for having a hot partner. I wouldn’t want to hang out with anyone like this either. I don’t think that your statement is true for all humans - just for some people.

Plastic_Ad_5473 · 2024-06-28T20:31:32+00:00

It's a thing. That's the value. As a society we can keep talking around that it's not a thing but it just is.

The reality is, it's partially what represents her value at a young age. You can hate it you can love it but it's the truth. You don't have to be as physically attractive is her if you have other points of value, student, got your shit together, got your head on straight, that kind of stuff.

America is full of reasonably decent looking obese men who have a dime piece.

DBEternal · 2024-06-28T05:22:04+00:00

lmao if you're not good looking and you have a hot girl on your arm people will laugh at you and call you a sugar daddy who gets cheated on constantly

2024-06-28T09:41:34+00:00

Its true. I was at a bar one night with the Managing Director and some other management from a firm I worked for, I am not even sure why I was there.

When they saw me talking to someone who was hot, I was suddenly part of the click and invited to functions that as someone making my way into the industry and at the time being on lowest rung of the ladder in the company, had no business being invited to or whatever.

Then due to this, my overall status improved within the company and the way people viewed me because of the people I was hanging around with socially, drastically changed.

Success creates success.

At the time, I was like "WTF is going on". But its just the way the world works, I am happy I figured it out. Imagine living a life not understanding this, it sounds horrible.

gusGus86_ · 2024-06-28T08:17:37+00:00

So got a list of any examples of the “status” it gives you.

If it improves it in so many way, wouldn’t you have some examples of the different “perks”.

I’ve dated beautiful women and all I really got was looks from others, and a lot of headaches…

FunCarpenter1 · 2024-06-28T10:44:27+00:00

true.

I had a HOT gf, most beautiful woman I had seen in my hometown ever.

guys would say "dudes a beast" and things like that about me, and it made my friends look up to me, believing if I could get with her, I must have some good "game"

(I didn't. She just happened to like me from hanging out in group of friends)

and even before we broke up, I had women including some of her "friends" heavily flirting with me who were acting like I didn't exist prior to her dating me

and when we did break up, I had more options than I could manage. it was not like that prior to dating her.

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Difficult_Falcon1022 · 2024-06-28T12:21:45+00:00

What's your looks scale?

renfsu · 2024-06-28T14:07:04+00:00

Preselection

Cevohklan · 2024-06-28T15:48:06+00:00

Swiss girls are so much prettier than Serbian girls. 😄😆

Serbian men have this dumb thing where they always claim that Serbian women are the prettiest. They just have to say it even if its not necessaryin the conversation , just like in OPs post. Serbia is the most this, the best that, it has the best blah blah blah

No matter what, SERBIA ALWAYS NR ONE ! ( thn why yall move out ? :P )

It can be hilarious sometimes. A Serbian friend never would shut up ( unasked ) about Serbian women being the most beautiful. And his girlfriend from Serbia was sooo beautiful. No one knew her or saw her pic so everyone was expecting an unbelievably beautiful woman when she came to the Netherlands.

She wasn't even average. She was downright very unattractive. 😆

But he kept on saying it. While everyone was making fun of him. ( not in front of her )

They're just as delusional in claiming that there are NO GAY SERBIAN MEN. No one. Not one gay men has ever been born in serbia.

Its so dumb hahaha

( and yes I've been to Switzerland. And I've been to serbia many many times. And i know many Serbian people. )

Green-Quantity1032 · 2024-06-28T17:45:42+00:00

It doesn't sound crazy and it's not crazy - human mating prospects are always a sign of status - it's called trophy wife for a reason.

EDIT: In that same vein - When I'm walking with a girl I get stares from almost every girl sitting around, when I walk alone I'm almost stealth mode

Dense-Tell-6147 · 2024-06-28T19:05:24+00:00

Depends on the "status" we think of.

I once had a short situationship with an extremely attractive lady, who wasn't really the sharpest knife in the drawer.

She insisted to once go out with me and my friends, I let this happen but if ever, going out with an arm candy could have "tainted" my "status" with my cultivated acquaintances, needless to say, as soon as the novelty wore off, the sit'ship was over.

I descend from a line of marquises, but I couldn't care less. It's fun though, especially here in the US, seeing how people treat you differently, once they see that the unassuming, quiet guy dined in castles back in Europe.

I dated working class as well as noblesse, I own 5 figures watches as well as 10 year old jeans. I know my own value and deal with people who understand it: those with culture and lineage find each other without showing off

8won6 · 2024-06-28T19:11:02+00:00

pre-selection.

AlmostKindaGreat · 2024-06-28T19:57:04+00:00

Does it? Your bros might make comments about how they're jealous of you but for everybody else it's like this:

Dating a woman on your level -> you already have the status if you're hot (no status upgrade)
Dating a woman above your level -> they assume it's because of your money (no status upgrade)

Melodic_Structure928 · 2024-06-28T20:46:04+00:00

Yes, this is known as mate selecting. Once a women sees you with a another women they start to think that the resources and attitudes you bring are attractive. Men also see this think the same but to a lesser extend

on The other hand though there’s some drawbacks for both genders. Women might be assumed to automatic be gold diggers or Using and taking advantage of the guy for some other reasons. And the guy might be assumed to be abusing the women and trapping her in an unfavourable situation, or he’s consistently ridiculed and told that his women deserves better then him.

T12J7M6 · 2024-06-28T21:54:16+00:00

She doesn't even need to be your girlfriend. Like I have couple of kind of hot sisters and guys are super nice to me because they know I'm their brother. I think they think that by being good friends with me they could gain access to my sisters, even though they date who ever they want and I have no say in that matter, lol.

Routine-Bug9527 · 2024-06-28T22:34:18+00:00

Thin is default 8/10 in most western countries bro, 70% are overweight or obese

PMmeareasontolive · 2024-06-28T22:48:48+00:00

I don't know from status, but as a man you are treated differently if you are with a woman. Women are taught to fear you. Men are taught to compete with you. Couples wonder if you're going to steal the hand towels or some other low life thing that a social reject like a single male might do.

But if you're with a woman, you're fine, everything's rosy!

Part of it could be a feedback loop; you know that when you're with a woman you can be friendly and others won't misinterpret your intentions or see you as a weirdo attention whore, etc, so you act friendlier and get a similar response from others.

TheYoungFaithful · 2024-06-28T23:23:05+00:00

It is crazy, but it’s the same if a woman is married to a hot or super rich guy.

Sure-Mechanic2883 · 2024-06-29T23:10:16+00:00

and there it is

liltomzon · 2024-06-28T13:56:37+00:00

No cap, it has always been like that. I see people in the comments like "fuck what other people think", you can be like fuck what other people think on the outside but inside you think about. It's similar to when if go out with you girl and she is dressing in u unpresentable way, you will feel embarrassed and people will look at you both as a couple.

Expensive-Tea455 · 2024-06-28T17:24:40+00:00

I love how the men here will whine about women chasing Chads and being hypergamous, but then get on here and make posts like this 🌝

AnalSexIsTheBest8-- · 2024-06-28T14:25:11+00:00

Like non existent, you can‘t compare it to belgrad for example.

You're goddamn right 🇷🇸🦅🇷🇸🦅🇷🇸.

People underestimate how much a hot Girl improves your status. You simply get seen as more high value, and other Men respect you more.

Yeah, because getting one is hard unless you are a HVM, superlikable, or just rich. Most men don't have hot women as their partners, which is why men who acquire one are held in high esteem.

Also, LMAO to all salty ladies in the comments, calling men fags and pathetic for caring about other men's opinions, which is apparently not something women ever do. It's crazy how so many of you self-proclaimed egalitarian feminists default to female chauvinism whenever male behavior hits the nerve.

harmonica2 · 2024-06-28T12:51:06+00:00

This seems to have happened to me. I don't have high status at all but my current girlfriend is 16 years younger than me. All of a sudden I'm now the supposed stud just because I got her, to a few people I know.

Title	Its insane how much status a beautiful woman can give you
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Date	June 28, 2024 4:54 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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