Redpill theories alpha fucks/beta bux dichotomy. Where women have fun hot sex alphas then choose betas to settle down.

The evolutionary theory suggests that we have sex because we are meant to reproduce. And it makes sense that women will go with alphas. Problem is, so do other women. And Alpha has more options so evolutionarily it makes more sense to him to not commit to one woman.

But being alpha is not the only thing that leads to reproductive success, a beta who is good father and can support the offspring to adulthood is a decent enough choice. Not that women wont prefer if an alpha commits to them but thats just not what alpha do. Its against his reproductive advantage. So betas can get a chance to reproduce by being a good man who brings value to his tribe. Women will fuck him but he will be on once a week duty sex diet and will be told that he is not entitled to sex and unconditional love will be demanded from him.

Alpha can spread his genes far and wide, it will diversify his descendents geographically thus having better chance to survive a localized natural disaster or something.

Women have found out a solution to it, they can just have kids with alpha and have beta raise it. One possibility is become a single mother but then quality of beta men who are willing to commit decreases or they may never find one. Other is paternity fraud and overwhelming support for paternity fraud by feminists is indication of larger female psyche.

Women can and will reproduce with beta if they cant help it but if they give birth to a son, he is also likely to be a beta which will only limit the woman's evolutionary success.

So men who are in deadbedrooms, need to act like an alpha. And alpha does not remain celibate just because their wife is not in the mood, he just find another woman. Not only that, he may also have sex with other women, just for variety because that is his calling. To spread his seed far and wide.

A beta is just a person who is not capable of getting it outside or is just not willing to. So his DNA is not that valuable because evolutionarily speaking, if his tribe is wiped out by a natural disaster, his gene pool ends. A beta is better suited being a workhorse for the benefit of the tribe. Obviously betas arnt idiots so they can just not contribute but blue pill conditioning seems to be doing a good job keeping betas in check by telling them that they are not "entitled to sex".

You cant be an alpha, and be loyal(except maybe because there are lot of unfit women around you). Either you are just not capable of cheating or that you are not willing to cheat. Both things on their own will cause a deadbedroom.

First part is straightforwards, if no other women is willing to fuck a man, he cant expect his wife to fuck him. But since his wife married him, he is not completely useless. Its the second part that cause the deadbedroom in long term relationships. Men who are not willing to go outside just demonstrate that they are a tribe workhorse beta rather than an alpha.

That translates to "unattractive" behaviors that women associate with a "man-child". Its not that they are not doing housework or chores, its that they are not willing to get sex elsewhere. If woman wants to fuck a man she will do it and then cook for him. If she doesnt want to fuck him its because he is a beta workhorse. His gene pool is not that valuable to her. So attraction is just not there. So when that beta workhorse demands compensation for his labor and commitment, he is called a man child.

To be clear this post is about sex and attraction. Not love. I am sure a lot of women love their beta husbands.