How to be emotionally abusive 101

ReignOnYou95 · 2021-02-19T16:12:14+00:00

Men HATE it when women have confidence or an ego or "entitlement" and want to humble women so they know their place. They really just hate women. They dont want women to be happy or be treated to what they deserve.

cherrycIouds · 2021-02-19T17:30:18+00:00

Is he sure that he even likes women? I don't get why so many "heterosexual" men hate women so much. Doesn't make any sense.

chasingastarl1ght · 2021-02-19T16:35:02+00:00

This is so sociopathic omg

outgrabed-momerath · 2021-02-19T16:25:05+00:00

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aclick1999 · 2021-02-19T16:37:24+00:00

The last time a man told me I should lose weight, it really motivated me to lose 200lbs of him. Good lord this guy is sad as shit. And you can tell the way he talks about this EVEN he isn't 100% on his advice. Sad sad sad...

Lemon_bars_addiction · 2021-02-19T17:26:23+00:00

What a loser. But side note she’s gorgeous 🥰

esthermaniii · 2021-02-19T19:26:59+00:00

This only works on women with low self esteem.

And either way, this is so messed up. As a black woman, I’ve noticed that there’s a rising trend of black incels. It’s scary. I don’t know how much more difficult the world will be to navigate when the pandemic is over. These men have literally been sitting indoors binging this toxic rhetoric.

Mimosa_usagi · 2021-02-19T18:18:47+00:00

Men were a mistake.

HappyCoconutty · 2021-02-19T16:48:47+00:00

Why does he seem so nervous and unconfident? He is stuttering, imagine this guy attempting to put you down in real life, you would bust out laughing.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-02-19T17:14:01+00:00

The woman in this video 😂😂😂 love her

Forwardgash · 2021-02-19T18:55:13+00:00

Steal her joy and then...what? You systematically dismantle the woman you love so then...I’m trying to follow what happens next, because logic is simply that you discard her for not being the woman you fell in love with.

Fucking mastermind right there. 🙄

_differentmentality_ · 2021-02-19T16:10:49+00:00

Instead of bringing each other up, let’s bring each other down! With partners like these who needs enemies...

siberiansummer · 2021-02-19T20:02:30+00:00

So a long while ago a guy (who I wasn't dating or anything like that) told me after a very special event where I looked top-notch that I was "a total 7". I laughed, turned around and walked away. I literally took it as a joke not realizing until years later he was trying to neg. I 100% knew I was a 10 :)

eveloe · 2021-02-19T18:24:19+00:00

This guy is so dead behind the eyes. I’m sure I’ve seen some of his videos before.

favoritesound · 2021-02-19T18:54:46+00:00

“Treat your SO like shit to destroy their self esteem!”

What would this guy say if he heard a woman giving the advice to tell a guy that his penis is kinda small. Or to get better in bed. Or that he’s a little too weak so he’s gotta hit the gym. Or to say around him “hey your friends are hot”? You know. Just “knock him off his pedestal. Deflate his ego.”

KindredMaximus · 2021-02-19T17:46:32+00:00

Can you imagine how butthurt a man would get if you did this to him? The mantrums would be extreme. He would probably dump her. This is why men are hypocrits - they sure know how to dish it out but they abso-fricken-lutely cannot take it. I think their hypocrisy is the thing I hate the most and the fact that they are completely self-delusional when it come to level of hypocrisy most of them have for their own behaviours and what they will put up with from women.

MadamLeFay · 2021-02-19T16:17:37+00:00

This is coming from a guy who probably has a dingleberry tree hanging from his ass... I'd just tell him he has a small dick and move on...

BBQCoolRanchQueen · 2021-02-19T18:41:45+00:00

Any man who says this to me would get a reply along the lines of "You're wallet is looking a little thin, like your receding hairline. You're skinny everywhere except for that beer gut you got going on. Hit the gym. Do something. I kinda like you best friend, he's kinda tall, and his dick probably works too, just wow". That'll deflate his ego right quick. Knock him down off that pedestal he puts himself on.

Affectionate-Cut-460 · 2021-02-19T19:28:03+00:00

Good luck telling me im fat, im 90lbs 🙃 good luck telling me someone else is cute, you single now. Humble him ladies, by leaving his ass❤

sugarplumcutie · 2021-02-19T19:33:56+00:00

But don’t men claim to love confident women? And that they love to be chased? LOL😂

GoldandGlowing · 2021-02-19T20:16:10+00:00

Not with that fucked up hairline 😂😂😂😂

RikaRikaw · 2021-02-19T17:11:21+00:00

Men be like: 1) tell girl she is fat (most cases she probably isn't or is just) barely overweight) 2) girl gets self consious, with great chance that she will do crazy stuff just to loose weight, maybe even developing an eating disorder in the process 3) then dump her because she became too skinny and you can't appreciate someone with no boobs and butt anymore 4) ??? 5) profit

Source: happened to me

popsthrowsup · 2021-02-19T19:54:12+00:00

Men: women only like bad boys who treat them like shit! proceeds to call woman they want to fuck fat

Also men: why won’t she like me!

Idk usually when someone tell me to lose weight, calls me ugly, says my friends are cute while not giving me a compliment, I think they’re uninterested...

It’s even more awkward because I’m sure in the same breath he’ll say he wants someone natural.

Literally beat down a woman and her confidence then get disgusted when she goes to manufacture her body for society standard approval

Sensitive-Shoe-1079 · 2021-02-19T21:14:47+00:00

This guys self esteem is SOOOOOO low. You just know he's a porn watcher.

melonmagellan · 2021-02-19T18:39:40+00:00

Her facial expressions are goals.

LucysFakeTits · 2021-02-19T20:57:26+00:00

Tell him he has a baby dick and can't make you cum. This will knock him off that pedestal 🙄 my ex made fun of everything about me. He would tell me how hot my friend are, how hot any woman was really. Once I mentioned that Brad Pitt in Fight Club was hot and he got so bent out of shape. I wasted my whole early 20s on that idiot. I wish I had realized I would have been happier and more productive alone focusing on myself. I wish I had understood that almost all men will literally fuck anything and my worth as a human/woman didn't come from a man's desire to insert their penis into me. Being fuckable was what I thought made me matter. I tried so hard to be a perfect horny fuckdoll bang maid. Nothing I did was ever good enough. There was always someone hotter and better he would compare me to. The problem wasn't me. If he makes you feel like you aren't good enough let that be his fucking problem and LEAVE.

queendorkus · 2021-02-19T19:30:34+00:00

Some guy told me I had a nice jacket..... But it looks kind of big on me. Expected it to hurt my feelings and when it didn't he continued to just assume it did. It makes a huge difference to finally know the names of these manipulative tools these @ssholes use.

Villanelloh · 2021-02-19T20:43:05+00:00

The sooner men like this go extinct the better.

tetrissnake · 2021-02-19T22:05:51+00:00

Imagine spending time and/or money on pick-up artistry con shit instead of therapy just to be a manipulative abuser. These scrotes completely gave up on having a personality and think the only way for a woman to stay with them is to gaslight her into not loving herself.

catkalt · 2021-02-19T19:19:03+00:00

My LVM ex told me I was “too vain” because I liked looking at myself in the mirror and always said “I know” when he said I look nice. Sorry (not sorry) that I think I’m super hot and won’t let anyone tell me differently. When we broke up, he said my vanity was part of the reason, and he couldn’t handle that I thought I was “that hot.” What absolute NONSENSE !!!

Representative-Let40 · 2021-02-19T21:13:00+00:00

This is why it is so important to level up and love yourself. A pickme would have her ego knocked out, but a HVW would just look him dead in the eye, burst into laughter and walkout from that fool like nice try! BUHBUY NOW 👋

heythere360 · 2021-02-19T19:31:45+00:00

The funnnnnnniest part about this is the average dude, who the girl likely isn’t even attracted to in the first place, is going to do this, and the repulsion we will feel in response will make us recoil.

Make sure the girl is fucking obsessed with you before you try this boys. Otherwise you’ll just be another joke in the girls group chat 🤏

zorua · 2021-02-20T00:59:46+00:00

How gorgeous is the woman in that video though...

This guys a real asshole.

Aggressive_Birthday4 · 2021-02-19T23:56:51+00:00

Ewwww what a loser

Imagine meeting a scrote with a boring face, a dead-end job, no personality and he’s insulting YOUR looks. Like these dudes are so desperate to get a girlfriend that they’re banking on women being deluded enough to believe that there aren’t decent men out there... get a life.

corago513 · 2021-02-19T16:54:22+00:00

I wish a man would. Being fat is not an insult.

Cool-Fill9819 · 2021-02-19T20:06:46+00:00

Her face is priceless LOL.

Is this one of those egomaniacs giving advice on Youtube instead of going to therapy. LOL got it.

Substantial-Win-7612 · 2021-02-19T19:42:57+00:00

I am still at that strange level where I understand that they consciously choose to break our soul and where I also can't accept that they really don't feel the shame of treating like this a woman. I am having a hard time accepting that they hate us so much, otherwise why would you want to inflict so much pain in a woman?

crapcakes0987 · 2021-02-19T21:57:50+00:00

Look at how many views and upvotes it has!!! Clearly some other degenerates are watching it and agreeing with him!! Sad

throwaway1378420 · 2021-02-19T18:32:03+00:00

chances are if she needs validation from a male about her appearance, she's not super confident in herself and doesn't need to be "humbled"

rsoko2 · 2021-02-19T23:41:58+00:00

Let a motherfucker try this shit with me lmao. He will get kicked to the curb SOOOOOO fast.

MagnfiqueMaleficent · 2021-02-20T06:38:03+00:00

“I charge $75 an hour to dole out tips to other loser incels such as myself on how to get laid by putting women down. It doesn’t work but these guys are too stupid to know that and i already got my money. Be sure to press like and subscribe for more moronic tips!”

🤡🤡🤡

DeepestWinterBlue · 2021-02-20T00:18:19+00:00

This guy should be forever alone

LeslieWit · 2021-02-20T16:42:57+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️ this fool is childish, and couldn't maintain a relationship to save his life which is why he has to resort to these weird broke-ass games. When literally every het Woman in the world who is powerful is using her power to uplift all people he wants to stumble in and try and undermine her mental and emotional well-being.

When you try to weaken a Woman's power you are making your community weaker and you are making the world weaker. He knows he couldn't hope to maintain even a friendship with a woman for long without trying to trick her into staying with him. Pathetic.

Paradox_Blobfish · 2021-02-20T06:56:33+00:00

But start laughing when he shows his pp and he will cry for 20 years straight 🙄

Turbulent_Gazelle · 2021-02-20T00:36:02+00:00

This is EXACTLY why the background of my phone is the picture posted here that says, "Carry yourself with the confidence of a mediocre White man."

You can't tell those delusional, unhealthy, stupid, unemployed neckbeard having fucks that they aren't hot af. Laughable, but faking it until you make it is definitely a great tool to use as a talisman against crusty dusties like this.

505ithy · 2021-02-20T01:19:49+00:00

Someone did this to me except it was the opposite. Because our job was very laborious I lost a lot of weight, as well as my boobs and butt. He bullied me about it and said I looked 12 even though he confessed he liked me and baby ma’d and like thin women’s pictures. When I was thick he’d say I was chubby too though. It still fucks me il to this day.

Montanegro · 2021-02-20T02:12:11+00:00

This is sick! This mentality is disgusting. I couldn’t imagine putting down my s/o just to break them. Mean like this are scary!

rebel4acause · 2021-02-20T03:18:16+00:00

I posted his original video to FDS months ago and I’m so glad more women are becoming aware of it!

redwineandsolitude · 2021-02-20T03:26:36+00:00

This video is giving me murderer Elliot Rodger vibes.

breadandbunny · 2021-02-20T03:57:50+00:00

He's preaching being a manipulative, disgusting, asshole. Sickening.

bringtwizzlers · 2021-02-20T04:23:15+00:00

Her facial expressions lmfaooo

cat-inspector · 2021-02-21T06:10:14+00:00

No lol it would make me mad. I was wondering why guys say this shit so I’d say it back. It’s only fair. The second you reference a friend? It’s over. Blockt.

FluffandRainclouds · 2021-02-19T20:55:22+00:00

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No-Conversation-3823 · 2021-02-20T00:52:18+00:00

These are the Kevin “kitten heels”Samuels scripts🙄I watched a videos of him tearing down a woman to shreds, telling her she looks average at best hence not attractive enough to deserve a good man.🤯😭😭😭🤧

Boopisque · 2021-02-21T23:21:58+00:00

He actually seems stupid. He puts his face up for the world to see how disgusting and evil he is lol.

SorayaSeven · 2021-02-22T15:18:44+00:00

He is a waste of sperm.

Title	How to be emotionally abusive 101
Author	iaintgonnacallyou
Upvotes	868
Comments	105
Date	February 19, 2021 4:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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