Let’s clear this up, lurkers.

High value men are not based on how tall they are, or how much money they make. Every woman has their preferences just like men have preferences (totally fine with it btw) But what makes a man high value is based on his morality.

And before you guys start up with the not all men BS, just 🤚🏻

Lie: High value men are 6 tall, or make lots of money.

Truth: A high value man is valued because he is a GOOD MAN that loves and treats his partner with respect.

Men say this lie because they can excuse being lazy and say “oh I’m not 6 tall or a millionaire”. Instead of just being a good man which isn’t hard!

Let’s debunk the lie and why it’s total BS now. 1. What good is a man with a million dollars to me if he doesn’t share it with me? I’d much rather have a poor man that is generous with what little he has. 2. What good is a tall man to me if he uses his looks to play the field? I’d rather have a short man that is faithful.

The reason many women PREFER being single (which is a good chunk of this group) is because of men’s attitudes towards women and the way they treat us on dates and in relationships. Why be in a relationship with a man when we derive absolutely no benefit from it??? When a man is just taking value from our lives and not giving back, that is a LOW VALUE MAN.

Women deserve better than shitty low value men. They deserve respect, they deserve love, they deserve loyalty, they deserve a partner in life. If they don’t find a man like this they have a community of sisters that support them so they can be single and thrive alone. It is far better to be alone then with bad company thank you very much gents.

Now, a high value man, is a man that will support a woman and help her grow. A high value man doesn’t hate women. A high value man does not cheat. He doesn’t abuse porn and drugs. He can cook and clean, take care of his physical and mental health, go to work, and pay bills. He doesn’t expect or demand her to do degrading things in bed even if she doesn’t want to. He doesn’t spend thousands on himself and balk at an engagement ring because oh it’s too expensive. You can call it a simp if you want to, because every guy that says the word “simp” is a red neon flag to women “DONT DATE ME, IM A SELFISH ASSHOLE”

This is the basic requirement for being high value. Height and financial status is dependent on individuals and everyone is different.

These things I’ve listed everyone can do. If you aren’t meeting this you are not high value and you should work on yourself by seeing a therapist.

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk