Now this is gonna be a VERY controversial post. But if you can hear me out. I don't mean be malicious, spread negativity, or pot stir.

This is legitimately something that over the years most women and men seem for the most part to agree on. So it's not like most men disagree with this sentiment. But I will be the first person to fully admit that I very much disagree with this. For those of you that's just confused on what I'm talking about...

Its when women push the idea that the dating game would be easier or ALOT better if guys would just be honest about their intentions when it comes to the women they meet.

Ie. If you're looking for friendship? Tell them. If you're looking for an aquaintance? Tell them. If you're looking for a fuck buddy? Tell them. If you're looking for a one night stand? Tell them. If you're looking for a relationship? Tell them. Etc.

Now granted there is nothing at all malicious about the phrasing or even the practice of doing this. It makes logical sense that people don't wanna waste time on people who don't want the same things or too waste time on people who specifically have the intentions of wasting everyone's else's time.

Granted here's my gripe with it. Reality wise. That's not how it works.

I don't like Myron Gaines from Fresh and Fit but he did make a very great point when girls say this. The overwhelming majority of the time when women say that they want you to be honest they are usually trying to get you to tell on yourself so they can swiftly reject you.

I mean think about it from this perspective. How many guys if you tried to tally it by percentage can actually walk up to a girl and from the get go tell them they want no strings attached sex and no relationships? Sure there are SOME men that can do this and get away with it but the overwhelming majority of males can't do this. It's simply foolish for men to do this because even if they think the idea is enticing they are now put on the spot with the question without having built any trust with you

So most men are not gonna be forthcoming about their intentions to have nsa sex because in practice it almost NEVER works.

Now ALOT of women are gonna take this the wrong way and assume that I mean you should purposely hide your intentions, or lie to women to get into their pants. But that's not what I'm advising. I'm simply saying you shouldn't be so FORTHCOMING with the fact that you want it.

I think there is much better ways to show you want NSA sex without actually saying it.