(Warning: Kind of long and stupid post, but I'm obsessed with listing things, so yeah)

Also, if you don't mind, state your age and general background if you can.

Here are the multiple categories:

  1. I regularly enjoy it
  2. It's something I can do but I choose not to do it very often
  3. It's something I enjoy but I can't get it very often
  4. I never have had and want nothing to do with casual
  5. I've had casual and decided it's not something I want
  6. Never had it, but want it
  7. I've enjoyed it in the past, and I still would if I weren't in a relationship
  8. If the opportunity presents itself, sure, but I ain't seeking it out and I'd be fine without it
  9. I might've been open to it in the past, but I'm in a relationship now, but I don't technically know how I would feel if I weren't in a relationship
  10. Only during dry spells or on the rebound

Personally I find myself belonging to category 8. I'm also a BM from a middle class (at times working class) background. In the past I would've been considered the nerdy kid but not so much now. Even still, I find that I likely give off bf material vibes as opposed to smash-n-dash vibes. Therefore pursuing it outside a relationship is probably gonna bring me more pain and hassle than anything else and I'm probably better off not focusing on it and instead going the relationship route.

You all?