Not getting laid? Go travelling !

letsgetfit2019 · 2022-07-04T21:30:33+00:00

If you aren't getting any, go travelling nothing is easier ahha. All the girls are up for a good time I'm not particularly good looking and I've...

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Absolutely this. SE Asian girls treat having sex like shaking hands.Just be careful around the majority muslim areas. The women (and men) are a touch crazy there when dealing in sexual matters. Sure there's fun to be had but discretion is essential because there may even be legal consequences.

North Asia is much harder (and more expensive) by comparison. Chinese/Korean/Japanese girls need a really strong lead. They don't just throw themselves at you (well sometimes they do, but it's rare). You need to take a strong lead and force them as much as it is reasonable to do so - as they like to be overwhelmed by men in the sack. You've seen all the Japanese porn where the girls squeal like dying cats, right? You can have a great sex life there too as long as you're a bit pushy with the women who immediately like you. Not all women will though - there's some underlying racism in those countries - but that sometimes works in your favour as much as it doesn't.

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I thought that at one point too but from what I’ve seen, white guys that move to SE Asia mostly tend to go for dark-skinned lower class girls. These girls would be considered good looking by Western standards but in reality these types of women are quite low SMV at a local level.

The fact that SE Asia is much poorer than the west gives a lot of white guys the impression that they are more desirable than they actually are when in reality they’re just going for low level women.

You see white guys with lower class girls that look like this all the time, but it’s rare to see a white guy with a top level girl (locally speaking) that looks like this. If you look at who these girls end up with it’s mostly rich light-skinned Chinese guys.

A lot of these Chinese girls are stupidly rich, have conservative attitudes towards sex, are heavily into K-pop, and will only date guys that their parents approve of (cultural compatibility is important here), which imo gives the rich Chinese guys a slight edge at a local level in SE Asia.

Averaged out on a global scale, on the other hand, white men are definitely at the top.

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I thought that at one point too but from what I’ve seen, white guys that move to SE Asia mostly tend to go for dark-skinned lower class girls.

No offence, but white guys (non-expats) that move to SE Asia are mostly the hipster/poor backpacker types. I see a lot of these in Thailand.

These girls would be considered good looking by Western standards but in reality these types of women are quite low SMV at a local level.

Yup. Some are not ugly but SMV is definitely very low. Village girls is what I would call it.

You see white guys with lower class girls that look like this all the time, but it’s rare to see a white guy with a top level girl (locally speaking) that looks like this. If you look at who these girls end up with it’s mostly rich light-skinned Chinese guys.

Tbh, the dark skin girl in your pic reference is not bad looking lol I do sometimes see middle age white guys with very short Filipino-looking girls here (I'm from Singapore).

As for those light skin Chinese girls you showed in the other pic, they look pretty on the outside but I wouldn't date them even if I'm rich. They are not marriage material, many are ultra materialistic (money is God) and they rely on very heavy makeup. Once rthe makeup is gone, the 8/10 goes to 5/10.

Now, I could be wrong, but I feel one of the reasons why you don't see a lot of white guys with those Kpop-type fair skin Chinese/Jap/Korean girls is that, most white guys probably don't find them attractive. I feel white guys prefer those tanned looking Chinese girls (like those Asian American Asian baby girl types). There was a video on YouTube where one guy was in US interviewing passerbys and showing them pics of Chinese female celebs with diverse looks. The ones that got the highest votes from westerners are actually the ugliest ones by Asian standards, so I suspect Caucasian beauty standards for Asians are quite different compared to Asia.

A lot of these Chinese girls are stupidly rich, have conservative attitudes towards sex, are heavily into K-pop, and will only date guys that their parents approve of (cultural compatibility is important here), which imo gives the rich Chinese guys a slight edge at a local level in SE Asia.

Not sure if you've been to East Asia, but these kind of girls you're looking for are everywhere. Most are not rich though. But their outer appearance do look like the pic you showed. You can find plenty (a sea of them) in places like northern part of Taiwan, in the city areas, for example.

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Well you learned the heard leason that just being white and american is enough to get some attention from the local female population. I really wonder where this internet rumor come from. I have not been to Korea yet going there for the first time next year but have been to Japan 2 times already. And despite the internet rumors I had not the feeling that I am particulary interesting for the ladies. But maybe the reason for that is that these rumors just apply to younger guys. I am in my 30s so I am bit older and I also have to admit that I was just a steritopcial tourist touring tourist stuff. I did not get myself into a situation where I could meet females. In a typical bar with lots of foreigners I might have managed to get some attention. But that's just a theory. I will never know. For my upcoming Korea trip I might visit some bars for a drink. Maybe something will happen maybe not.

In general it is never good to asume just being foreign is enough to get some ladies. No matter where you are you need game.

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You’re in the wrong country bruh. I suspect it’d be even harder to get laid in Korea than in America. Perhaps South Korea is one of the hardest places in the world to get laid due to the factors listed below.

Here’s my formula

Easiness of Getting Laid = Area’s Sexual Liberalism * How Economically Undeveloped Area Is * Your Game * Your SMV / SMV of your target girls

Improving your game and SMV take time and effort, so let’s talk about the easy shortcuts: 1) Area’s Sexual Liberalism, 2) How Economically Undeveloped An Area Is, and 3) SMV of your target girls

In terms of 1), Korea is an extremely conservative country with regards to sex. This is reflected in K dramas where holding hands is the plot equivalent of having sex in American shows.

In terms of 2), Korea is an extremely developed country with the 4th largest economy in Asia.. You’re gonna have to be filthy rich to be a top level guy in this regard.

In terms of 3), a lot of women in your age group are probably very good looking (it’s a no brainer, Korea has the best plastic surgery in the world) and virgins as well. They also likely went to university and are gonna get high paying jobs. Their SMV is super high and they’re not gonna just have sex with anyone; you’re gonna have to be a real high quality man.

Here’s my advice, go to a developing/undeveloped country where there is high sexual liberalism. Most countries in South East Asia and South America will be great in this regard.

America and European countries might be high on sexual liberalism, but they are also very economically developed, meaning that you’re gonna need to have some game and SMV for good looking girls to want to fuck you. Either that or settle for lower level women.

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While you do see a lot of those couples because they stand out, it’s probably 5-10% (my guess) of the total population of their age group, especially outside of Shanghai.

Chinese society is controlled so tightly that the vast majority of mainland Chinese women in the 20-30s age group simply have no interest in dating a white man. Either because they’re not familiar enough with their cultures, or because they’re simply incompatible with their social groups. Again, even those looking for flings are going to be limited, not to mention serious relationships.

Basically you’re looking at a very small minority in the grand scheme. Most Chinese people don’t speak English good enough for a long conversation, and they rather stick with someone they can actually do stuff with (karaoke, escape rooms, etc). Foreigners also tend to not stick around, plus they tend to work in jobs that aren’t as competitive as rich locals.

I’m a Chinese American who’s lived in China for 2-3 years so i have somewhat of an understanding of the society there.

Note this May be different for southEast Asia, but this was my understanding of China at the very least. Even if it’s a small group, these women are into white guys enough for an average white dude to have a lot of success.

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Wow I was expecting my comment to get downvoted but clearly a lot of Aussies reading this feel the same way.

I’m all for people having standards and in south east Asia and South America they probably don’t have enough self respect and are disempowered by the culture but I really don’t understand what the deal is with Aussie girls.

I’ve literally been laughed at on a few occasions for just being friendly by women on a far lower tier of attractiveness to myself for what it’s worth

I guess it’s a cultural thing that reinforces itself? It’s like they’re always rolling their eyes internally.

UK women can be like that too but generally not to us because we’re Aussie.

When I was in Canada it was so refreshing like holy shit I can actually have nice conversations with women without it feeling like they’re just waiting for me to go away

But again you end up seeing these judgemental Aussie girls with some guy who looks like his hair dresser died halfway through his haircut who speak as though they’ve got extra chromosomes to share plus racist etc, it blows my mind.

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it's hit or miss. Overall I, late 20s hispanic dude, did have way better luck than in the US. The hardest ones were in asian and latin countries. Peru and Columbia I experienced the big shift when they realized I was american. In Europe, my luck depended on the country.

Worst luck in a European country I had was Spain. In my experience, even the girls who were interested and all over me would tell me that they would rather still try and get a white guy. Like the white american dudes, especially military guys, couldn't speak spanish, couldn't dance for shit, and were often really low energy since some clubs go till daybreak, and yet they would even try to cheat on their partners just to get a white guy. Actually, cheating is something I saw a lot of in Europe. Maybe it's super open overthere or it's a don't ask don't tell situation, or maybe it was just places I ended up at. The girls who had the most interest in me had boyfriends. Some were on holiday and some were at the pub down the street from their place. I personally am not a fan of that and don't knowingly sleep with someone if I know they're taken cause of karma.

The best luck I had was in Brussels, parts of Poland, and I personally loved Dublin and London the most. Funny enough, I got a lot of compliments on my brown eyes which was a great confidence booster.

If you go to Europe I highly recommend going to pub crawls. Lots of people on vacations and looking to hook up and have a great time.

[–]TooMuchJibberish 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

it's hit or miss. Overall I, late 20s hispanic dude, did have way better luck than in the US

Are you mestizo, Euro-white, mulatto? I should have clarified that from the beginning. I'm a 5'5" somewhat light skinned mestizo, slightly darker than a Caucasian but lighter than a dark skinned mestizo or mulatto.

I'm assuming being white vs being short mestizo like me makes a huge difference.

Worst luck in a European country I had was Spain. In my experience, even the girls who were interested and all over me would tell me that they would rather still try and get a white guy

I don't mean to generalize, but I heard Spain is kind of racist towards Latin Americans. Calling us "sudacas" even if said person isn’t south American, but I won't generalize too much on that regard. I mean that's the label they gave Hugo Sanchez when he played in Atletico Madrid.

The best luck I had was in Brussels, parts of Poland, and I personally loved Dublin and London the most

That's strange, I've heard those are the coldest places lol similar to Germany. Especially London, what do I know though. I've never traveled outside the country.

If you go to Europe I highly recommend going to pub crawls. Lots of people on vacations and looking to hook up and have a great time

I mean I was planning on visiting Honolulu (not purely to meet girls obviously), I don't know how things go for guys there.

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i live in honolulu! some girls will use their race as leverage to get the white guys since the stereotype is that they're all here for asians or a girl who looks like nani. lots of night life, but get out of waikiki, those are all tourists. dating apps are also pretty meh, lots of tourists are here to get brown girls during their visit too.

the general consensus for dating is they don't like american-white guys (no flavor, and it's valid considering what white people did to everyone who ended up here), but if you're biracial you'll be good. mexican, latin american, and black dudes are a hit as well. europeans and brits are a hit or miss, i'd say you'd have a better time if you have a cute accent or are multilingual. aussies have a litle bit more game than americans bc of the accent.

tourists from asia will almost always be here with their families or partners (you'll know, they'll be wearing matching outfits), so no luck there.

also keep in mind that not everyone is poor and no one will worship you bc they think you'll have money, if a girl isn't living with her parents she's paying anywhere from $1200-$3000 for rent or going to uni.

[–]TooMuchJibberish 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

lots of night life, but get out of waikiki, those are all tourists. dating apps are also pretty meh, lots of tourists are here to get brown girls during their visit too.

Where do you recommend going then? I was planning on getting a hotel in the Waikiki area for the beach, is there a better place with a beachfront type hotel? I wanted to visit the Arizona as well.
Dating apps are bad for me regardless since I'm not above a 7/10 in looks, and I'm short as well.

mexican,

dudes are a hit as well.

Nice, hopefully I'm not as screwed then lol

i'd say you'd have a better time if you have a cute accent

Unfortunately, I do have an accent. I don't know if it's one that's "attractive", probably not. I got it because I learned Spanish first at home and generally spoke the language more. There are some words in English I can't naturally say which is kind of irritating.

also keep in mind that not everyone is poor and no one will worship you bc they think you'll have money,

Not my intention at all, I'm not rich at all.

[–]_kyago 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

waikiki and ala moana beach park are a bad experience. now that tourism is back, the sunscreen oil slick on the water is back too, and it's always busy.

bellows is open to the public on sundays (might have changed since covid), pray for sex is always a hit, lanikai is in town but might be busy, hanauma bay is a must for tourists (toilet bowl is fun + turtles), waimea bay, yokohama bay, waimanalo beach, and the ko'olina resort area.

if you like to be more out in the country, ko'olina is very nice, lots of beautiful resorts out there, but it's a very long drive from town. ko'olina and waikiki are the only places you'll find legal short-term rentals and hotels. there's also a hotel pretty close to pearl harbor in ka makana ali'i and another in downtown (hotel street, i have no idea what the name of the hotel is), but i don't recommend staying in downtown honolulu, there is no night life since it's all offices, crackheads, etc.

there are a lot of parties going on everywhere, pretty much every local i know is at a hotel room party at least once a week, but you'd have to find out through word of mouth. if you can't find a party, there are clubs and bars everywhere, lots of college girls around the areas near the campuses.

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I love the cold which is probably why I'm also drawn to travel and even lived in those places. It's funny because my most recent trip to spain the weather was so horrible that I had to escape to dublin to stay dry.

Hawaii is great for us brown guys cause they're brown over there too. If you know a bit of hawaiian culture you'll get far and not be treated like a Haole. If you smoke weed and surf you're pretty much in. I've had nothing but amazing times there and the kick back food is amazing. It's all super fresh and delicious.

Big tip for your trip: Don't go into non-touristy spots unless you're with locals both for your safety (especially beaches the locals know the oceans and when to go in or out) and remember you're on their land that they're trying to take care of/enjoy while it's being taken from them and exploited. So take care of it, pick up after yourself, and you'll be set apart from a lot of the shitty tourists there.

[–]TooMuchJibberish 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

If you know a bit of hawaiian culture you'll get far and not be treated like a Haole. If you smoke weed and surf you're pretty much in.

I don't really know much about Hawaiian culture, and what's a Haole?

Not a pot smoker either, I could learn how to surf though.

Yeah I'm definitely not on the top tier list of guys just by your criteria you listed it seems lol

Big tip for your trip: Don't go into non-touristy spots unless you're with locals both for your safety (especially beaches the locals know the oceans and when to go in or out) and remember you're on their land that they're trying to take care of/enjoy while it's being taken from them and exploited

I got another person that told me to go outside of the "tourist area" waikiki for the "nightlife". But I assume you mean don't go into shark infested waters or something stupid like that right?

I definitely wouldn't do that, I can't imagine how dumb it would be for me to have an arm bitten off just because I was too moronic to go into unknown waters.

I'd definitely try to visit with as much respect as possible.

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Haole is basically a name for a not polynesian person. It's most often used on white people and depending on the context can be an insult. Gringo is the closest thing I can think of that resembles it.

it's funny you say that since I also don't surf. I didn't even expect to get weed but goddamn it's really nice weed there especially since it is homegrown on volcanic soil. You don't need to be a stoner to get hawaiian girls. It's just an easy way of getting some alone time or setting the mood. In the circles I found myself in there were plenty of baddies who loved getting high and that tends to be my type so it worked out ha.

and yes I really do mean the shark infested waters but also the waves are strong af out there. Locals know when and where to navigate. I thought I was a strong swimmer but those currents are something different. I was also referring to some neighborhoods that can be dangerous especially for white people. Biggest thing about living on an island is that everybody knows everybody, so you'll stand out if you're not from around there. Hence why I say if you go out of the normal path it's best to be with a local.

But overall you'll do great in Hawaii. I found my latino side having a lot of things in common with the culture.

[–]TooMuchJibberish 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Gringo is the closest thing I can think of that resembles it.

Well I'm not ethnically Caucasian American, the closest insult I'd receive would be "beaner" or "spic"

You don't need to be a stoner to get hawaiian girls

Right, but from your experience it seems like your biggest point of attraction was that you smoked weed? I mean I don't even know how to meet girls to begin with, I've never done anything with any girl before.

and yes I really do mean the shark infested waters but also the waves are strong af out there. Locals know when and where to navigate

Yeah I'll probably stay out of unknown waters where there isn't many people. Last thing I want is to go back home with a missing limb. Or die by snail poisoning or something stupid like that.

I was also referring to some neighborhoods that can be dangerous especially for white people. Biggest thing about living on an island is that everybody knows everybody, so you'll stand out if you're not from around there. Hence why I say if you go out of the normal path it's best to be with a local.

I see, again I'm not 100% white (unfortunately) but I see your point. Outsiders aren't seen in a positive light.

I'll try to avoid shady areas and going out too late at night

I found my latino side having a lot of things in common with the culture

Like what?

[–]are_those_real 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I'm not ethnically Caucasian American, the closest insult I'd receive would be "beaner" or "spic"

In Mexico you'd still be considered a gringo since it means you're american not necessarily that you're white.

Right, but from your experience it seems like your biggest point of attraction was that you smoked weed? I mean I don't even know how to meet girls to begin with, I've never done anything with any girl before.

Smoking weed is not a point of attraction. Smoking weed was a thing that we had in common that we were able to share together. That's the secret to finding a connection. It's about creating moments you can share together where you're both having a good time bonding. Sometimes it's dancing together, sometimes it's geeking out over a shared love of music or art, and sometimes it's just having a good laugh. Regardless of what you're sharing it's up to you to initiate the invitation. That's what "picking up" is about.

When you're initiating a conversation and showing interest you are inviting them to share a moment with you. Not everyone is going to take you up on that offer and that's okay. You should know that by inviting them to flirt, go out, etc... that you are adding to their life. This is something I've learned when travelling. Everybody is looking for a good time, some people are just pickier than others, and some get in the way of themselves. That being said, don't get butthurt but the results because if they say no then they're the ones missing out on a fun moment with you.

So if you have no experience, as I did as a late bloomer, here is some advice.

Make a move. Seriously just do it even if you're not sure how she feels about you. Now I'm not saying force yourself on her. But get up and introduce yourself, go flirt, ask her out, go for a kiss, tease her, etc... This is how you find out whether both of you are interested or not. Guys who get "friendzoned" are the ones who are too afraid to make a move. Confidence is about going for what you want and knowing you'll be okay with whatever happens as a result. If she pulls away or says she's not interested then respect that and now you know your answer and don't have to waste any more time wondering if she's interested in you in that way.

It's most likely going to feel weird or unnatural when you first start making moves but that's pretty normal. Nervouseness, fear, anxiety, are all good things. It means you're putting yourself out there. Those "negative" feelings are similar to feeling sore when you first workout. You might feel in pain because your body isn't used to it. But the more you workout, practice, learn techniques, etc... You'll start to enjoy the soreness. Soon enough workouts you had to put in so much effort to do at first take little to no mental effort. You'll figure out what works for you and what you enjoy doing.

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Trust me I know they were taken. One girls friends were getting super upset with her because she had a boyfriend and she told them was “if he doesn’t know it won’t hurt him”. Another was recently engaged on holiday with her friends, found out cause her wallpaper on her phone had her and her fiancé kissing. One was my cousin’s (who i was visiting) work colleagues wife. And there were a bunch of “open relationships” which I personally don’t like getting involved. Sure there were a couple that could’ve lied and said they had boyfriends but I’m not referring to them when I say that they trying to sleep with me and I had to remove myself from that situation.

As for my karma comment, I say karma because I believe there’s balance and knowingly doing something that will hurt someone else’s view on relationships and self-esteem will lead to receiving equal level of hurt in the future. I also believe in “do onto others as what you would like to be done to you” even if there isn’t a karma reward or punishment. So maybe I’m taking it out of context, but I believe my initial attempt to communicate my belief system works based on a common use of the word karma. I don’t want to be cheated on and I’ll do my best to not knowingly be the other man.

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Interesting theory. Is that advice also valid for an European game who is travelling to the states for the first time? I am visting the West coast for 3 weeks in August for the first time. I have not considered getting laid is a posbility and I am going to do normal tourist stuff must of the time. But I am also an novice pua student and I might have considerd practising some aproaches in English. It could be good exercise to approach in another language than my mother tongue German. I would not be mad some approach attempts lead to some "action."

I seriously doubt that is going to happen. According to lots of American man in the internet it is hard to get laid in the states unlike you are rich and famous.

Being a tourist might help but Austria is not really a super exoctic country that would raise lots of attention.

But who knows. Despite low expecations I am just asking out curiousity.

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It depends what type of women you're after. The even somewhat attractive white/asian girls are basically only going to entertain advances from super attractive guys...be at least 5'10'' (178 cm), fit body (not necessarily super muscular, but fit/low body fat), very social/outgoing, good facial structure (strong jawline/high cheek bones), preferably white, but in major cities you can be other races and not have it be a huge issue since they're very diverse. I will say most people are with people who look like them though.

As a tourist, I don't think being rich is going to factor into it as much as long as you can afford to party with them (unless you're like extremely wealthy). It's not like you're looking for a long-term relationship. Obviously being famous would help, but few have that.

American women do suck for getting laid TBH. Hire an escort probably your best bet unless you fit in that very narrow definition of traditionally attractive. Women here are spoiled rotten and just likely to toy with you for attention. You need to have strong boundaries and learn to look for consistent reciprocation. I'm honestly appalled seeing some very good looking guys here with like female 5's at best (overweight, not feminine attitude, etc.).

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Thanks for your detailed answer. Well as white guy living in a almost completely white country myself white girls would my main demographic. Asian girls would also be my type but was not able to interact with them because there are no much Asian girls in my rather small home country. If i could interact with some of them during my stay in the states I would not be mad.

My look might be good enough to fit the bill. 182cm (sorry for using the metric I am not familiar with the imperial metrics) not the worst shape either.

The rest of the stuff you say makes sense. Similar to Austria and other western European places .

But as I have said I do not have much expectations at all. I just want to see the states for the first time doing sightseeing, visiting museums and so fort. I will also check out the nightlife and some some partying and practice approaching just for the sake of talking.

For the unlikely case that the talking should lead to more I would go for it but I am not expecting it is going to happen.

Whatever happens happens I would say. I will just enjoy the nightlife and see what is going to happen.

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Title	Not getting laid? Go travelling !
Author	letsgetfit2019
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Date	July 4, 2022 9:30 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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