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[–]Phoenix__Rising2018Ruthless Strategist655 points656 points657 points 5 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link
"Fuck gender roles! I do all the chores and I pay all of the bills while he does nothing!"
Really stuck it to the gender roles there, my girl!
[–]BusinessPrint1FDS Newbie237 points238 points239 points 5 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
For real. I follow a YT gaming channel that occasionally hosts livestreams and this pickme came in the chat HARD for one of the men, saying things like "I cook, clean, and suck dick! You'll never hear me complain! I don't get why girls constantly need attention from their man? Don't be a nag! Btw I love video games! Btw I barely ask for anything! Now ladies don't fall into simp territory! Oh btw why has every guy I've been with cheated on me?!" It took everything I had in me to not tell her off ugh.
[–]avakadavaFDS Newbie131 points132 points133 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"now ladies don't fall into simp territory". Uh, if there was such thing as a female simp, she's literally it
[–]enemy0frealityFDS Apprentice30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd say pickme is a synonym for female simp. 🤣
[–]Travelbabe95Throwaway Account54 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
It’s sad but I have a sister that is a tomboy/ independent woman. Loser Men use them for sex and someone to play video games with. She also lets men live with her rent free and let them use her car. no jobs. She wants to help them get back on their feet. I literally want to slap every woman like this. In high school I knew a pick me who was just like one of the guys. She was the side chick and the Feminine classy girl was the girlfriend. The side chick knew about the girlfriend.
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I was never a side chick but used to be "one of the guys" in my group of friends but it also permeated to my relationships/dating. In my pickmeisha/ trying to be the cool girl, I accepted disrespect and men saying and doing stuff they'd never do or say to women they really see as feminine women they want to be with long term. I thought "I was not like other girls" by being the chill girl who among other things would let the men talk about other women for example and not nag, pay for everything and be chill but in the end I was just another broken girl seeking for validation.
[–]Travelbabe95Throwaway Account15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I was a pick me. But the nice girl pick me. I just went with the flow never communicated what I actually wanted. Put in too much effort too soon. When they just did simple dates like going to the bar or meeting up with their friends. I was just too easy and didn’t have standards. I was so easy going that guys would complain to me about how girls would be bitches and wanted real dates and tell me I was so cool and easy to deal with. Those guys always disappeared. They wanted the girls that were harder to deal with and just complained because they were rejected. That’s when I realized that me being easy going and nice wasn’t a good thing. I needed standards. I didn’t want to go for a beer I wanted a real date unlike the women they complained about I just settled and didn’t say anything about it. I was like no I don’t care if you talk to your friends the whole night and ignore me on our first date. The guy was like sorry I’m gonna take you on a real date soon. It kept being dates around his friends. Then after 4 dates he was like I think we are more like friends😅 I was so pissed we never even had a real date.We even held hands. I never felt a friend vibe with him. I didn’t get that from him either. We never had alone time to get to know each other. That’s when I realized what I was doing wrong when I always thought things were going so well.
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This happened to me too. I was a mix of "one of the guys" and "nice girl". The guys would also complain to me about the high maintenance girls and compliment me on how I was so chill and easy to deal with. But guess what they'd always end up ghosting me, giving me the "I don't want a relationship/I see us as just friends/not ready for a relationship/indefinite I don't know what I feel for you and what I want" and end up leaving me for one of the "hard to deal/high maintenance" girls. I cringe when I think about how pickmeisha I was thinking that being "easy" and "different from the other girls" was the way to a man's heart and a long term relationship with them lol
[–]Travelbabe95Throwaway Account4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah same here. The same guy that told me he was afraid of commitment ended up being in a relationship after 2 months after 3 months she met his mom and his best friend. We dated for 5 months. I never met any of them. Plus he posts her all over social media and talks about how so in love with her he is. I use to be so dumb. It takes guys no time to realize if they want to be in a relationship with you. They know right away. She wasn’t prettier or more attractive than me. That doesn’t matter. She probably just had more class and didn’t let men walk all over her like I did. I was always trying to figure out what she had that I didn’t.
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! This is very true and important: men know after a short period of time if you're going to the "casual" or "situationship" box or serious relationship box. They known. Many times it's not even about you or you having done something wrong but more something that you feel or you don't for someone. However I do believe that being the "chill nice girl" decreases our chances of a loving and healthy relationship and also keeps us emotionally unavailable to find someone who could actually love us that way.
[–]jayohday13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, after you come out the other side, you realize he was never really on his feet. Like, ever.
[–]throwthisawayred346 points47 points48 points 5 years ago* (10 children) | Copy Link
right now, TrollX is downvoting someone for saying that students seeing their teacher on OnlyFans would be disruptive to their learning. like...i get teachers are underpaid, but OnlyFans is NOT similar to any other "second job" (their argument).
seriously. how did i ever buy into "sex positive" libfem arguments?? ugh.
[–]nocturnalisFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
That teacher is dumb as hell because most educator contracts have some kind of morality clause and if your nudes or compromising pictures leak, they will can and will fire you and you will be effectively blackballed from the profession.
[–]throwthisawayred319 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
the principle found her on it, so it's a double standard if he isn't also reprimanded. regardless.
[–]nocturnalisFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Double standards isn't the issue. The issue is that students can find it or the photos can be shared online. He can go on porn sights, as long as he does it outside of work. She isn't allowed to post those photos online.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So, he was on it? Is he going to get fired?
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just checking you mean “sex positive” libfem arguements? Radfems are against objectification of women.
Edit: and completely agree doing porn or selling your body is not the same as just any other second job. I cannot stand when people try to make that argument.
[–]throwthisawayred311 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
oh oops, yes, libfem
[–]immortallogicFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Radfems aren't sex positive, just support actual sex workers (who don't have other options) so they can be protected... radfems are against porn, bdsm, sexualizing oneself, etc. Think you meant libfem, the plague that is currently telling all these young girls to get onlyfans.
[–]Hazel-rah99FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
? I think you mean libfem
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TrollX is a garbage, gave up on them years ago
[–]Freya_NoireThrowaway Account21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pathetic
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A guy LARPing or a woman trying to not hate her shitty life?
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Jesus I love this place😂💘 finally I can express my disdain for shit like this
[–]purrlikabawsFDS Newbie199 points200 points201 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Just things pickmeishas say
[–]laserkatzeFDS Newbie61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
„I am a woman and I agree with the sexist stuff in this post to get male approval. Please upvote me.“
[–]throwthisawayred389 points90 points91 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
every post by a girl in askmen ever
[–]Hipster-AuroraFDS Newbie89 points90 points91 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And men pretending to be women
[–]VirtualSpacedCadetFDS Newbie212 points213 points214 points 5 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
Some guy made a post in my Facebook group saying women need to compliment men more cause they barely receive them and I told him to cry about it and the pick me girls came out in droves to call me a bitch and I also got called an incel which was wild to me
[–]shortywannarockFDS Newbie142 points143 points144 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol I once replied to a guy like this and said if it’s that big of a deal he and his buddies should just compliment each other, and he started crying about how he’d get called gay.. 🙃
[–]Hipster-AuroraFDS Newbie116 points117 points118 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Almost like their obsession with giving and receiving compliments has nothing to do with "just being nice" and everything to do with sex and ego! Hmm.
[–]flimm_FDS Newbie126 points127 points128 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I don’t understand why men are so obsessed now with being complimented and praised, when the average male thinks he’s smarter/hotter/funnier/cool than he really is. Really we should be complimenting them less
[–]throwaway_vibesFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 Exactly. Compliment less.
[–]enemy0frealityFDS Apprentice22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The average male really, really wants to be the girlfriend.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's brilliant.
[–]enemy0frealityFDS Apprentice9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes I really liked that meme, it was posted here some time ago.
[–]flimm_FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
vagina envy is a real thing!
[–]LueclesteFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Compliments should be earned. Maybe do something worth being complimented over?
Here’s an example: I have hair that brushes the top of my butt. It’s a lot of work. A lot of brushing, a lot of scrunchies, a lot of shampoo and conditioner and leave in treatments. I often sleep with my hair tied back, with extra scrunchies added in along its length to help stop tangling. It takes ten minutes to wash it properly. It’s long and thick and because I look after it, really shiny. I even got an ombré. From my shoulders down, it was a bright rose pink. That was in February. I haven’t been able to get it touched up, due to lockdown laws, so it’s more of a faded orange pink now, but I still get so many compliments on it.
Because I take the time and effort to look after it.
How hard is it for these men to understand that a little effort goes a long way?
And with that, it’s time to wash my hair again...
[–]GIfuckingJaneFDS STRATEGY COACH61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are not therapists responsible for managing your emotions, fixing your insecurities and massaging your inflated egos. Work on yourself! Not our problem!
[–]SweetlikecreamFDS Newbie104 points105 points106 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao. I remember one forum and I used to use, and a guy said that men don't approach much anymore because they don't receive many compliments on their looks, which is lowering their self confidence to speak to women. You just have to laugh...
[–]Eleonora0FDS Newbie48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let me just play the world’s tiniest violin for these sad little men ~🎻
[–]lisasimpsonfanFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then we compliment a guy and the first thing he does is assume we want to fuck him. No thank you. I don't need some dog sniffing around me just because I said that I liked his tattoo or shirt.
[–]Salt_SatisfactionFDS Disciple87 points88 points89 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I think it's relatively harmless but they should say this to other men too. I give polite compliments to men and women, but they make it sound as if giving extra compliments to men on their appearance is going to fix their depression.
Maybe women get more compliments because we tend to interact more with other women, who give us compliments. But men interact more with other men and they are not getting compliments. Oh I wonder what the solution could be...
[–]throwthisawayred365 points66 points67 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
free emotional labor 🙄
[–][deleted] 51 points52 points53 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Maybe we get more compliments because we try to look better?
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think that's it.
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[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good fucking luck getting a man to better himself 😂
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤯
[–][deleted] 203 points204 points205 points 5 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Pick mes always remind me of this monologue 😂
“Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, because Cool Girls are above all hot. Hot and understanding. Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want. Go ahead, shit on me, I don’t mind, I’m the Cool Girl.
Men actually think this girl exists. Maybe they’re fooled because so many women are willing to pretend to be this girl. For a long time Cool Girl offended me. I used to see men – friends, coworkers, strangers – giddy over these awful pretender women, and I’d want to sit these men down and calmly say: You are not dating a woman, you are dating a woman who has watched too many movies written by socially awkward men who’d like to believe that this kind of woman exists and might kiss them. I’d want to grab the poor guy by his lapels or messenger bag and say: The bitch doesn’t really love chili dogs that much – no one loves chili dogs that much! And the Cool Girls are even more pathetic: They’re not even pretending to be the woman they want to be, they’re pretending to be the woman a man wants them to be. Oh, and if you’re not a Cool Girl, I beg you not to believe that your man doesn’t want the Cool Girl. It may be a slightly different version – maybe he’s a vegetarian, so Cool Girl loves seitan and is great with dogs; or maybe he’s a hipster artist, so Cool Girl is a tattooed, bespectacled nerd who loves comics. There are variations to the window dressing, but believe me, he wants Cool Girl, who is basically the girl who likes every fucking thing he likes and doesn’t ever complain. (How do you know you’re not Cool Girl? Because he says things like: “I like strong women.” If he says that to you, he will at some point fuck someone else. Because “I like strong women” is code for “I hate strong women.”)”
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[–]notreallyhere123456FDS Newbie56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I think I’ve made half the guys I tried dating in the past year read that monologue. Their reaction to it tells me everything I need to know...
[–][deleted] 28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
This seems like a sure fire way to gauge the value of a male in a short duration. Thanks for putting out the idea!
Although, I’m certain quite a lot of them might’ve already watched ‘Gone Girl’ and all a woman’s gotta do is ask their take on it, in a very casual manner.
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I still haven’t watched or read this, but it sounds like maybe I should.
[–]notreallyhere123456FDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s brilliant amazing. And I think your reaction to it depends on what else is going on in your life when you see it. But regardless of what’s going on in your life, the man’s reaction to it is equally telling. I was in love with my bf in med school. I thought he was brilliant, kind, hot. I thought he was NoT LiKe OthER GuYs. And the he was EXACTLY like all other guys (or whatever), when he broke up with me 8 weeks into my first year of neurosurgical residency... Because he didn’t want a long distance relationship... and then I found out a year later he’d been cheating on me before I ever moved for residency. Anyway, one thing I did remember is him telling me how “he loved strong women”. Anyway, that passage is brilliant
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow I’m so sorry you went through that. That sounds awful. I can’t believe people who cheat like that with no conscience. What is wrong with them?!
A novel written by Gillian Flynn.
[–]throwthisawayred30 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how do you tell?
[–]OTD-esiFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the tip!!
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Legendary. I need to watch this movie again.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The book is even better!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I've read it!
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's good, isn't it?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes!! I gotta reread it. Its so much more intense than the movie.
[–]VrHastaLaMuerteBabyFDS Newbie54 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You should post this on r/starterpacks. I can only imagine the amount of seething from LVMs and pickmes in the comments. Or I'll post it if you don't mind?
[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice[S] 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I actually got it from there damn I should have credited it
[–]dazzle158FDS Newbie219 points220 points221 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Oh god, this is true in real life too, I hate when people call me stupid or dumb for liking reality tv and getting my nails done. But then guys will literally play fantasy football and fawn over sports stars and that’s “normal”.
[–]buscemiswetblueeyesFDS Newbie97 points98 points99 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yes! My cousin does nails and is in a punk band and it blows men’s little minds. Like bro, you’re at her show, why are you questioning her punkness. A girl can’t be pretty and enjoy pretty things or she’s not taken seriously.
[–]Hipster-AuroraFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's why it ticks me off when libfems act like tomboys are so oppressed. Maybe in parts of Asia and places like that where gender roles are incredibly strict but definitely not in the west. I know some men bully women for being interested in sports or engineering and stuff, but you're not being oppressed for your mom making you wear a dress for Easter when you were 8. They act like femininity is completely praised everywhere and feminine women (in looks and/or hobbies) are rolling in privilege. In reality femininity has never not been looked down on, even by men who think women should be traditionally girly (ie be interested in looks, be nurturing, love romance movies, etc). Those men hate those women too.
[–]LueclesteFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I get called stupid for liking video games. By family who are massive sports fans. Double standard much?
[–]OTD-esiFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with the reality shows thing but I actually don't like the Kardashians bcs they have a penchant for culture appropriation which is a real put off for me
ETA: I also think FDS should have it's own reality show like Big Brother where there are two teams of HVWs and pick mes.
[–]textbasedpanda97 points98 points99 points 5 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Are those rings actually rubber bands?
[–][deleted] 100 points101 points102 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well, that's ultimately all a man's vows are worth...
[–]Capable_OkraFDS Newbie120 points121 points122 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
This checks out. Snaps under too much stress, eventually gets crusty and dried up...
[–]slow_life_FDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol!
[–]yolonnyFDS Newbie89 points90 points91 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, every time anyone posts in aita about a woman not liking the engagement ring she was given, tons of pickmes come to chime in abouthow their husband gave them a cheap, fake or even toy ring and that they still loved it and its ~so romantic~ and if you REALLY love your bf you don't care about how expensive the ring is 🙄
[–]lisasimpsonfanFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't even care about the price too much but don't buy me shit. I won't wear cheap, ugly, fake, or toys. How is your finger turning green romantic. I would not be with a man who wouldn't buy me jewelry as long as we can afford it.
[–]AnniaTFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same. I really don't need an over expensive diamond ring or anything but take the time to plan and buy a proper beautiful ring that you think I'd love and represents our love and commitment.
[–]honeyhealingFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah and it’s about what is important to your partner. If your partner wants an expensive, classy ring... then you get that ring because it’s obviously important to them!
[–]PooPooMeeks19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Times were tough...tried to pawn my diamond engagement ring after divorce...turns out it was CUBIC ZIRCONIA...after 15 years together...”fake” engagement ring = Not Cute/romantic + I HATE IT! 😡
[–]textbasedpanda29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't care about an expensive ring either (can't even wear jewelry at all) but a toy ring?? Seriously???? It's not the low price that bugs me, it's the low-effort.
Honestly i don't understand the whole engagement ring tradition but i'll support another woman if that's her requirement. I mean unless she wants a blood diamond then shame shame lol
[–]OTD-esiFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
WE💏 SEALED IT ✅WITH A NIKE RUBBER RING☑ It's not about the ring 💍‼️it is about the LOVE😍🥰💞 if you only care about the ring❓then you're not ❌ in love💞 you only care about the money 🤑 and the superficial stuff😳😲💯learn to see the depth⬇️in someone's actions😍
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I remember I didn't even get an engagement ring. :/ I got an ugly Tungsten wedding band that we didn't even use.
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So, I have kind of a weird story - cautionary tale, really - about engagement rings. Even if he gets you an expensive ring, you’ve got to look at all of his behavior.
My ex wanted to move very quickly. This is a massive red flag, as I now know, but at the time I overlooked it because we had dated many years prior, lost touch, and when we got back into contact we glossed over the usual getting-to-know-you stage because we already knew each other. If you’re in a similar situation, which I don’t really recommend anyway, don’t overlook red flags just because it’s a special circumstance. If you feel you must explore a relationship with someone you’ve dated before, treat it like any other relationship and don’t make excuses for them. Best to just avoid dating someone it didn’t work out with the first time, though.
Initially, there were definite signs of lovebombing. Super attentive, wanting to spend all his time with me, etc. Again, I overlooked this because he was “my long lost first love (!!!)” Don’t make the same mistake. No matter who it is, or what they mean to you, at the first red flag take a huge step back and reassess.
A little over two months in, he says that he wants to marry me. Not someday; he said that he wanted to marry me right away. HUGE RED FLAG. This is not romantic, don’t get caught up in the whirlwind. I of course did get caught up in the whirlwind, which is why I am where I am now.
It was not a formal proposal. He did not have a ring at that time. Naturally, I expected a real proposal would be forthcoming soon. I discussed it with him, and he insisted that he meant it, he really did want to get married, and he was intending to propose for real.
I wanted to wear my grandmother’s ring. She had recently passed, and before she did she had given me, her only unmarried granddaughter at the time, her engagement ring. It’s beautiful. My grandmother was very important to me. She was also in very good physical shape all her life, even did some modeling when she was a young woman, and the fact that her ring actually fit me was a point of pride. The ring had sentimental value on multiple levels.
He didn’t give a shit about any of that. Like, barely paid attention when I explained it to him. Beyond that, he kept moving the goalposts for when he actually wanted to propose (and get married). More red flags...
Note: I had put zero pressure on him to get engaged or married. This was all his idea, I just agreed with what he suggested. All I asked was that he keep his word. He did not.
What did he do? Spent months looking for the “perfect” ring. Checked out what jewelry I already wore to figure out what style I would like. Spent more than twice the average on an absolutely gorgeous ring that fit my style. Sounds great, right? (Oh, and the diamond was bigger and nicer than the one in my grandmother’s ring.) In his mind, he did everything right. From my perspective, he dicked me around for several months, made me doubt whether I could trust him at all, moved goalposts, ignored my values, spent a ridiculous amount of money on something that I didn’t ask for, and made a point to one-up my recently deceased grandmother whom I loved and missed dearly??
It was all about the appearance. He had some idea in his mind about how it should go. It didn’t matter what I wanted. It didn’t matter how I felt about any of it. He was completely unwilling to compromise, to even take my perspective into account. He just wanted to show me off, wearing this impressive ring he bought me, to all his friends and family and coworkers. I was like a prop to him.
And every step of the way, every red flag, I forgave him. I let it slide. Because there was always a “reason”. Always a rationalization. He just cared sooooooo much about making it all “perfect”. I chalked it all up to him being so excited to have me back in his life and “caring” so much. I tried so hard to be understanding. In some ways I was flattered, but underneath it all it ate away at me. There was a gnawing feeling in my gut that something was wrong, and I pushed it aside.
He did care a lot - but not about me as a person. He only cared about himself, his image, and some storybook narrative he had in his mind. Completely unable to adjust to reality. It wasn’t romantic. It’s actually a sign of extreme immaturity. And btw, with the amount of money I spent directly related to that relationship (not including my own living expenses and entertainment budget, nor what it’s cost to reestablish myself after leaving him) I could’ve bought that damn ring for myself at least four times over. Not worth it. At all.
[–]throwthisawayred31 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
did you leave pre wedding?
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope. I was in full on pickme mode for another two years after that. I didn’t even find FDS until after I’d left him. I wish I’d found these ideas sooner. Marrying that man was the most costly decision of my life.
[–]mybellyhurts_FDS Apprentice50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
“I’m not like other girls”
[–]Struggleis4realFDS Newbie32 points33 points34 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Didn’t realize how much pickmeisha and n0t LiKE oThEr gIRls can go hand in hand.
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[–]nocturnalisFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. You think that egalitarianism is the goal, but they mostly want to take what little social capital you have and be absolved from what little familial duties they have.
[–]RavenWudgieRose22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember this girl from instagram who publicly advocated for men's depression and scrotes made her cry cause all they commented about is how they want to f*ck her. It was depressing to witness the depravity and I hope that girl wakes up.
[–]VickyPLFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea i was too. Honestly dont know why i ever subscribed to that bs. So glad i found you guys tho. Yall have really changed my perspective forever😂
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I hope you’re right
[–]sunset74420FDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
There is a female psychologist out there that brands herself as being a shrink for men. She has her own website with that name. I am extremely embarrassed to say that I've told a couple of guys about it. I snapped out of that nonsense the instant I realized these guys were completely full of shit. Not that they ever saw the website because they were too lazy to look, so there's at least that.
[–]pao664FDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh yeah I know who you are talking about. Red headed doctor with glasses. Her name starts with a “T”. Her opinions are totally disgusting. She is advocating for 50/50 and for men to take no financial liability for the women and children in their lives. Absolutely despicable. She is tight with one of the most misogynistic Men’s rights advocates also.
which mra?
[–]throwthisawayred314 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
is her name T.P.??
[–]sunset74420FDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup
[–]Hipster-AuroraFDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Or be a "real feminist" who is not so secretly an MRA like Christina Hoff Summers who does absolutely nothing to help women's issues.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
👏👏👏👏👏
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[–]prettylittleliongirlFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks babe 💕 meanwhile I’ll get downvoted for implying small dicks aren’t preferable lmfao
[–]Salt_SatisfactionFDS Disciple86 points87 points88 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't forget the kinkmeishas who love porn and argue with you even more than men about how bdsm/rough/CNC porn is totally fine and there is never any abuse or rape involved.
[–]throwthisawayred354 points55 points56 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
SeX-POsiTiVity
[–]Hipster-AuroraFDS Newbie101 points102 points103 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't forget the desperate "Am I the only girl who hates/doesn't do [girl coded thing] but likes [guy coded thing]?" fishing posts to show how unique and special they are.
[–]buscemiswetblueeyesFDS Newbie58 points59 points60 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! It’s like being a multidimensional woman is impossible. You can like video games and also love fashion. They are not mutually exclusive interests.
[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice[S] 118 points119 points120 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
which one of you queens made this? 😂
[–]prettylittleliongirlFDS Newbie66 points67 points68 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I made this and I’m completely new to this sub. It’s nice to see women on reddit not bending over backwards for men, I love this energy
[–]FitncurlyFDS Disciple62 points63 points64 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Real queens 👸🏻 get real gold 💍 while pickmes get Reddit gold 😆
[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dayummmm snap
[–]enemy0frealityFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This comment deserves alllllll the upvotes
[–]mrCNeverSleepingFDS Newbie53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This one’s gonna send em screaming 😇 Just plain ol truth
[–]MagnfiqueMaleficentFDS Disciple47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
...and doN’t forget the pick mes who follow your comment into your messages to let you know how much they hate you for disagreeing with them. 🙄
[–]BeanBongFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is... is this common??
[–]RavenWudgieRose9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Badly so, and I wish I could roll my eyes to the back of my eye sockets to cope with the fact.
[–]biscuitbutt11FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Also known as the ‘Cool Girl Trope’. She eats pizza, she drinks beer, plays video games, she lets you raw dog it, fuck other women. She doesn’t expect s h i t from you. She’s the cool girl!
[–]__kamikaze__FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Crying at the ideal boyfriend 😂😂😂
[–]buffysummerrsFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahahaha Omg! Yes! Anytime I see women who talk like this, I literally roll my eyes.
These are women who need acceptance and reassurance in their life. Something happened to them that they need a “wow you’re such a cool girl!”. Brown nosers I guess for a lack of a better word. It’s pathetic.
Also, I love when you see ugly engagement rings and girls say “I dunno. I wouldn’t mind it if I got it, just saying 🤷🏻♀️ “
Oh and they gotta do that little 🤷🏻♀️emoji I posted and say “just saying”. The passive aggressive sheep mindset emoji. My favorite. Like stop pretending to be this “cool” chick. Guys DON’T care. They say “awesome.” But in real life they would walk all over you and emotionally abuse you. They still think you’re stupid and easy. You’re just proving to them that dumb women exist and they’re laughing inside. Online they just like that a woman is agreeing with their crappy LVM behavior.
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Rubber band ring 😂
[–]Caz1542FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It is hilarious. And no woman anywhere has EVER called herself “a female” (at least I hope not!)
[–]throwthisawayred30 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
its called fds...
[–]Caz1542FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, female is an adjective not a noun, sorry if that wasn’t clear in my comment
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh, a man LARPing.
[–]Proud-PurposeFDS Apprentice[🍰] 50 points51 points52 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only thing this pic is missing is "donate to my patreon and subscribe to my onlyfans tee hee".
(Jk, most dumb plebbit women actually do this for free.)
[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not the pinky 😂
[–]redviolettaFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Small dick I guess
[–]whatevertotonFDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bwahahaha! Yep!
[–]oh_beach_pleaseFDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL DON'T FORGET MY ONLY FANS BOYS
[–]PessimisticAnaFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I comment on a tumblr inaction post recently and a girl defended the mens reaction...so I called her out and cue the downvotes
[–]ilovewriting_13FDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Why the big boobs ? 🤣
[–]flimm_FDS Newbie68 points69 points70 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I think they’re referring to all the lewd/nude subreddits where women share sexy pics of themselves?
[–][deleted] 132 points133 points134 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, isn't that a smart move? Now your pictures are circulating among thousands of smooth brained, semen-stained-fingered cretins who think you're a subhuman collection of fuckholes. Could end up being seen by family, friends and employers, or being sold on porn sites, but hey, you got attention from knuckle dragging troglodytes for 2.7 minutes. Cool tradeoff, sis
[–]oh_beach_pleaseFDS Newbie40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck sake, this tickled me 🤣
[–]LevelTurbulentFDS Newbie55 points56 points57 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I have never understood this shit. When did this become common? In the 90s it was damn near unthinkable to let a man have naked pictures of you. Now it's expected before the first date?!
My sister is half naked all over instagram. I used to ask her, what the hell do you get out of this? And she'd just get mad at me but I do not get it.
[–]flimm_FDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It makes sense when the woman is a sex worker advertising, but there are many who do it just for fun 🥴
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In this economy?!
[–]ninetiesbaby16FDS Apprentice38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah is it a pickmeisha thing to wear ill fitting bras? Lol
[–]Hipster-AuroraFDS Newbie29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol bra shopping is what other girls do. She's One of the Guys, she hates shopping and doesn't ~get fashion! She'll wear walmart shopping bags for bras, who cares!
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nailed it.
[–]Milobear27FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Himpathy. I was just listening to a podcast about the excessive empathy society has for men.
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/scene-on-radio/id1036276968?i=1000420995544
[–]ElonsSideBitchFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s crazy what Reddit can do. Recently had a buddy of mine that makes over $30k a MONTH try to get my opinion on a wedding ring for his GF. He had the audacity to say that he wants to get a fake diamond because “it’s pointless”. Yet he’s okay with blowing money on club tables and gambling. 🤡 He thought I was going to agree with him lmao ! I set him straight about how ridiculous and selfish that would be. I said that he better get her a HUGE rock because the ring is about her...not his stupid Reddit reasoning. She’s so sweet and she’ll have to be the one wearing it forever.
[–]MulkvisteeFDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me: drinking a psl and laughing along with how right this is. Gets to the hates Kardashians part and feels called out, but the end of that blurb mentions hating all things mainstream when I remember I'm drinking a psl. It was an emotional rollercoaster lemme tell ya 😂
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I really really dislike pick me ass women. Y’all are annoying!!
[–]zbplotFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The diamond-hate on Reddit is so intense!
[–]AyemHerselfFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What do you mean?
[–]zbplotFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
https://ibb.co/wdgjzmc
[–]AyemHerselfFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah. Yeah, I've seen that a lot.
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I love the added bonus of giving gold to well thought out comments on topics I care about - usually self help subs and, more recently, here - because it goes against the hivemind. Most reddit gold goes to such inane crap, I like to do my part to counteract that where I can.
[–]AdawritesrulesFDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is funny, in a cringe way. But still funny. And so true.
[–]gimmeyourbadinageFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Honest question - how does this sub feel about the Kardashians?
I’ve always been a fan, and after finding this sub I’ve tried looking at a lot of things thru the fds “lens” so to speak... and I still like ‘em. They may be vain, vapid, and materialistic but damn if that’s not a powerhouse group of women running an empire with almost no man in sight. I never really see them discussed here and they’re in this meme so it made me think.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, I think they're a bunch of assholes.
[–]dazzles67FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agree with you, I feel like the Kardashians got to where they are in spite of the men in their lives.
[–]WWisMyCo-pilotFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I fucking hate them. They have co-opted black peoples looks and style and get paid millions. Meanwhile actual black people wearing certain clothes, or born with a certain body type, or rocking certain hairstyles aren't hired, or get reprimanded at school and the military, or get called ratchet and ghetto. And don't get me started on their "dad". Woman of the Year my ass.
[–]HaveNoIdeaWhatToPickFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I honestly don't know in what kind of dark place you have to be mentally to turn into such a pick me.
[–]chatrebelleFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
OMG I-
[–]FleetingDaisy2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahaha love this 😄❤️
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the ideal boyfriend pic. im screamingggg
[–]AFineDogMomFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Omg so sickening because it's so true. Ugh. As a recovering pickme this turns my stomach. It is so true.
[–]AFineDogMomFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girl. 10 years of LVM abuse is exactaly why I'm here. The universe and all the great feminine powers brought me here at this exact moment. It was fate.
[–]BabyGotBantzPickmeisha™️1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A lot of this is true, but Nothing wrong with hating the kardashians and shorter guys are usually overlooked but make better boyfriends/husbands. Not midgets but guys who are a little shorter than average is okay.
[–]HennyyenniFDS Apprentice[S] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My boyfriend is a little shorter than me, I don’t care because he doesn’t have a little man complex and he’s HV otherwise. I think it’s more those girls who be like Im a slim hot young girl but I love older balding man types like Danny Devito teehee praise me!!
[–]321tina321FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
god i love this subreddit <33 pleaseee grow your website community!!
[–]dazzles67FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just a thought: is the "I'm not like other girls" thing the equivalent of guys being like "not all men"?
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