The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.

Society really underestimates the stress and trauma that LVM and NVM cause their wives/partners and children. The realisation that most women are utterly miserable in their marriages really hit me this holiday season. Literally almost every single friend and family member of mine are married to negative value men. Some female friends are in such terrible, abusive marriages, that this holiday season, a couple of them have admitted that their children are the only reason they have not unalived themselves. I found this absolutely terrifying and disturbing. All of these same friends have rejected FDS but that's a story for another post.

If you took one look at a certain sub, you'd see a multitude of gut wrenching holiday horror stories from wives with children. The common denominator of all their holiday misery was their NV husbands.This holiday season, I've truly come to realise that most men hate their wives. They don't see them as actual human beings with feelings. These women are just their slaves to clean up after them, feed them, £*ck them and raise their children. I only saw one positive post where a husband was praised for doing the bare minimum. One woman said being around her husband gives her migraines. Whenever he's gone she's fine and has no migraines. She dreads spending time with him because it's like being around a large toddler/teenager who she would always has to manage. Another had a nasty indifferent old grump of a husband that made her cry herself to sleep for Christmas. Another woman went to multiple international stores just trying to get her husband a specific holiday gift that he was talking about since October. At midnight this twit of a husband goes to the dollar store and fills her stocking with cheap garbage that she doesn't even like in the first place. It seemed like he just picked the first assortment of junk he saw. There were also lots of stories of husbands ruining Christmas for the children.

Marriage is sold to women as the happiest thing in the world. It's the ultimate success to get married and breed as a woman. The white dress fantasy, beautiful wedding decor, happiness, diamond ring, spending the rest of your life with the love of your life, having 2 children and a white picket fence. This is society's way of telling women that getting picked is the best thing that could ever happen to us, it's supposedly something that will make us incredibly happy. What a lie. Simultaneously boys are sold porn fantasies of degrading and dehumanising women. In fact, men are taught to fear and be repulsed by commitment and weddings. They're told to sleep with as many women as they can. The result is idealistic, love struck women loving men who actually hate them and only see women as objects to degrade for status and enjoyment instead of human beings with feelings. And the most devastating result of this lie sold to us, is that women project their love, emapthy, and morality onto men. It's probably why it's so hard to leave. They think that men actually have the same level of humanity and regard for them. They think that if they beg, communicate and explain till they're blue in the face, he will uDeRsTaND and see my humanity and pain 🤡

If marriage is so glorious why are the majority of married women so utterly miserable, hurt and exhausted? Why are there so many studies that show married women are the unhappiest demographic and don't live as long as single women? The reverse is true for married men. I've only ever seen 2 happy marriages my entire life. I think most single women long for a relationship only because they are told that they can't be happy without marriage and kids. When in fact the opposite is true with how depraved the males of today are.

From childhood, women are brainwashed to waste time fantasizing about relationships, marriage, and the fantasy of being rescued by a handsome Prince. It's literally all we're taught to think about. Boys are taught to seek adventure and thrills like racecars, mortocyles, etc. They're taught to seek exciting hobbies, financial knowledge success, self empowerment, etc. Marriage is the last thing on their minds.

Most marriages are miserable for women because most men are negative value. The marriage lie perpetuated by society reminds me of George Orwell's book, 1984. Or back when cigarettes were marketed as having no adverse effects on your health. It's a lie. Men and society need to lie because no sane women would ever marry men and trap themselves in a life of misery if they really knew the truth. The truth hurts for some time but ultimately sets you free. Applying FDS principles will save you a life wasted in misery centred around men. Decentre men from your lives.

If you don't meet a HVM and want children, you have modern technology on your side. Get financially stable and plan for life as a single mother rather than settle. You and your child will be happier for it. VET forever and stay ready to leave at the drop of a hat.