I read here a lot that is so difficult they basically scrap and get what they can get and that the fairy tale of just meeting someone and falling in love is not possible.

Are average men most commonly mistreated? Would you say they barely if ever get what they really want? Do they date women mostly out of convenience (who they get to talk to rather than going for who they want)?

Isn't that heavily misguided as I'd believe if in most places there are about 50% of women and 50% of men doesn't that mean everyone should be dating each other because no above average men for all women?

In my experience most desperate guys and the ones that incredible difficulty applies to are usually below average, not average.